Divorce On Grounds Of Cruelty And Desertion

Divorce On Grounds Of Cruelty And Desertion
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  1. 1 shivpuje December 8, 2007 at 1:29 pm

    Dear all friends at save indian family group,

    i was also
    the victim of the same 498A section. i myself, mother, sister and her husband where arrested in
    june 2003. we all got bury from the 498A section after long period of court proceedings and
    judegement on 20th november 2007.

    i had also filled the divorce petition in 2003. but unfortunatly, my petition of divorce under
    cruelty and dissertation has been dismissed by family court, mumbai. the judgement has been given
    on 7th december 2007. but i will the written copy only after 1 month.

    my query now is :
    1) as i will get the written copy after one month, i doubt that my wife will come and stay at my
    house, which is in my mother’s name.
    2) how can i prevent her from coming to my house.
    3) can she again put 498A section on me and my family.
    4) i will be appealing in the high court, till i appeal in the high court how can i prevent myself
    and my family from her.
    5) can she legally come and stay at my house ?

    please help me
    Shivpuje

    • 2 sam November 25, 2010 at 11:14 am

      dear mr. shivpuje
      since you won the case, and it is proved that it was a false allegation made on you, you can again file a petition for divorce under cruelty(false allegations made on you) i think you filed for the petition 4 divorce, when the 498a was going on, so obviously the court will deny your allegation. but now because it is proved that you are innocent, you can try again.

    • 3 siranjeet sandhu January 12, 2013 at 5:16 pm

      IN DIVORCE U/S 13HMA thre is special provision for women for grounds for divorce is one year after maintenance order u/s 125 crpc if no cohabitation between spouses occur which is ground given only to women and not men . hence so manyf alse and frivlous cases of maintenance are filed against men and this ground is rarely used by women for divirce
      if this ground of one year after maintenance order is also given to men and made gender neutral and like other grounds as one year after RCR decree or legal seperation.
      then the chances of false case under 125 crpc will decrease because of fear of divorce and legal extortion of man will decrease

      • 4 siranjeet sandhu January 12, 2013 at 5:18 pm

        (2) A wife may also present a petition for the dissolution of her marriage by a decree of divorce on the ground,—

        (i) in the case of any marriage solemnised before the commencement of this Act, that the husband had married again before such commencement or that any other wife of the husband married before such commencement was alive at the time of the solemnisation of the marriage of the petitioner:

        Provided that in either case the other wife is alive at the time of the presentation of the petition; or

        (ii) that the husband has, since the solemnisation of the marriage, been guilty of rape, sodomy or 8[bestiality; or]

        9[(iii) that in a suit under section 18 of the Hindu Adoptions and Maintenance Act, 1956 (78 of 1956), or in a proceeding under section 125 of the Code of Criminal Procedure, 1973 (2 of 1974) [or under the corresponding section 488 of the Code of Criminal Procedure, 1898 (5 of 1898)], a decree or order, as the case may be, has been passed against the husband awarding maintenance to the wife notwithstanding that she was living apart and that since the passing of such decree or order, cohabitation between the parties has not been resumed for one year or upwards; or

  2. 5 Major Subhajeet Naha January 11, 2008 at 5:31 pm

    file a petition for legal separation..

  3. 7 Major Subhajeet Naha January 11, 2008 at 5:32 pm

    you will buy some time with that

  4. 8 karan December 2, 2009 at 4:47 pm

    My dear friend,

    Since she has already filed a criminal case against u and u have won it. This itself says that she is wrong.
    Second since it is very much clear that she is totally wrong, so I don’t think she will come and stay with u.
    Third in case if she comes and stays then don’t give any kind of respect at all to her or to her family ( in fact I presume that she or her family don’t have any respect in society).
    Fourth if she comes then don’t consider now her as your wife, keep with u but in another manner……………hope u r getting………….enjoy the life…………Because respect is given to those who deserve it or have it already but for those who dont have any respect , u also don’t need to give.

    Enjoy my friend………….don’t look at behind………..there is nothing only dark……..see in front………someone is waiting for u.

    Bye.
    Have a nice time.

    • 9 tejpal August 10, 2013 at 4:50 am

      hi karan i read ur reply on sff my name is Tejpal.
      i m teacher in delhi
      .i like ur reply which u given on behalf of shivpuje in 2009.

  5. 10 Harish HS December 17, 2009 at 11:15 am

    Dear freind

    SC itself has given judgement that false 498a itself is a good ground to seek divorce on basis of mental cruelity. Don’t get her inside your house and if she wants to come you kick them along with their parents. I know the pain of sufferings. get another marry and enjoy the life. why you are wasting your life for this bludy ladies.

    All the best

    Thanks and regards,
    Harish HS

  6. 11 SANJAY THAPA March 24, 2010 at 3:03 pm

    my wife has led an independent life despite my continous support to her from being a housegirl to lecturer with a five figure salary. But now after 16 yrs maarriage she feels free and has fled from home with my child, filed a DV case, NOT LET THE PROTECTION NOTICE TO REACH ME, lived seperately, written love messages to me (copies available)& agreed that it is not possible to live alone & then filed a DIVORCE & CHILD CUSTODY CASE against me ( AFTER 4 MOMTHS). WHAT DOES SHE WANT ??!!!

    My contentention is that she is being blackmailed/misled by her brothers.She needs a psychological/marriage counselling.

    IS NOT THE DIVORCE & CHILD CUSTODY CASE NULL AND VOID as it shows a malefide intentions of the petitioner or her unsound mind ? WILL IT ALSO REFLECT ON THE DV CASE ??

  7. 12 ananthakrishnan May 30, 2010 at 10:20 am

    My son was working as regional sales manager at pharmacetutical company and he was tight schduled in his work and was roaming all the thirty days in month with twenty four hours in view of tight work. there were some misunderstanding between them for some time it was noticed to my notice one fine morning his wife has taken all his belongings to her native place kumbakonam Her father is not advised instead filed an application for separation under 10 of the Hindu marriages act on the grounds of gruelty. Her father intention to get her remarry and intend to send her abroad. The marriage took place in the year 2005 and a child aged 4 is with the mother
    The law have gave good protection to the ladies simply state cruety by son father mother. Having enjoyed four years we could analyse her mind her father and mother
    can we file an application in the court of Madurai
    how to contend that no cruety was give to her as was alone with her husband for years and has not permitted our family to enter theur house but now blaming son”s father and mother
    Please advice

  8. 13 Pradeep October 22, 2010 at 3:25 pm

    I got married in may 2004.As is usual there used to be quarrel between us but not that serious.I used to love her a lot.I had never told her short comings to my in laws because i don’t want her to be scolded by her parents.But ultimatily it back fired.In march 2006 she filed 498a case against me & my family.And in the month of august 2006 she filed cr.P.C.125 against me.Both the cases are sending.Now in the year 2008 i was denied a central govt job because of this case only.Now the maintenance case is due for judgement this month.Now i am not earning anything and in the final year of law study.498a case has just started where cross exam of my wife is partly completed.In the mean time i have selected a good girl for my marriage.It also her second marriage.I sincerely feel that once any wife lodged a complaint against you under any Act do not ever allow her to come back again.This will discourage other women & make them think twice before making a complaint against you.Thanks

  9. 14 PRADEEP October 31, 2010 at 4:05 pm

    It is given u/s 300 of cr.P.C. That a person once convicted or acquited can not be tried again for the same offence. person shall be prosecuted and convicted for the same offence more than once, it is provided Under article 20(2) of the constitution.The same provision is given u/s 40 of the indian evidence act.Despite all this provisions in the statute the indian courts are blindly taking cognizance of the cases under domestic violence act of 2005 after the Accused are acquited under section 498a.Why the hell are these honourable magistrates not rejecting such applications in the submission level itself?Because the applicant wife files the application under D.V act in the same court which had already acquited all the accused.More over the facts ,issues ,accused etc.Are the same as in 498a and the learned magistrate is is very well acquainted with the case and knows that it is nothing but to harass these innocent people.The court should act tough and imposed fines on the applicant for filing such abusive petitions.Thank you.

  10. 15 PRADEEP November 1, 2010 at 3:38 pm

    As i had posted earlier that a case u/s 498a against me lodged in the yr 2006 is still pending.In the mean while maintenance u/s 125 of cr.P.C. Is awarded rs 800/ p.m.

  11. 16 meena November 18, 2010 at 6:56 pm

    you can file afresh suit for divorce on the ground of cruelity because you have won the 498 A case . the courts have treated a false 498A case as cruality on wife,s part.

  12. 17 gitangshu kundu March 4, 2011 at 12:28 pm

    Dear All

    I have done love marriage on 2005, on 2006 nov my wiffe gave me my lovely son, but I and my wife stayed in my father in law house because she (suchorita) denied to stay in our parental house.In this moment on 2009 my son has admitted in School near of her parental house.

    After my father retire from job(Govt)on 2010 Jan, she and her parents told me to stay at our parental house.I again admit my son in school near of our house.

    From 1st day she start to convince my father and me she wants our 2nd floor, but my father has been refused, and my father mooved to delhi to stay with my sister and my mother stay with me.

    March 2010 one of my friend found that she has a relation with other person, after that I found that she supress lot of things and stayed separately in same house, on 2010 nov I have found she has given lot of phone calls to same guy, i have charged her, her parents told me you are bad so she has made friends, I determine to change the hose and take rented house on salt lake at kolkata, and admit son at Haryan Bidya Mondir at salatlake. In this moment she still carry the relation with this guy, my mother was furious and told me to get out from the house and stay separately, then she denied and want 2nd floor, but I went with her with my son at her parental house on 5-02-11, and then I shifted entire our family material on 15-02-11 at my rented house, but late night i found my wife put a 498d case at Barasat police station, on my father,me and my mothe still we are absconding, today police call me through my wife no and then told me to kill me if i not surrender.

    please help me what to do, My bail application will be produce on court on 16-03-11.

    • 18 Adv R C Misra July 22, 2011 at 12:41 pm

      u with other family members must be underground till bail is granted

      • 19 subhash ranjan May 6, 2014 at 11:54 pm

        hello sir/ma’am

        i have found your mail id from ipc498awordpress.com. My name is Subhash Ranjan, i am from patna, bihar. i have completed B.tech in mechanical engineering in 2010. now i am coming to the my story.

        meri saadi arrange marriage hui hai. saadi se pehle meri wife mere mummy, sister, mere chhote bhai se roj baat karti aur main bhi usse roj baat kata lekin main, meri maa, sister ya bhai jyada time nai de pate the matlab jayada baat nai kar pate the bcz of daily work. ha jab bhi hamse baat karti, maa se bolti ” maa main jab patna aaungi to aapko kuch bhi nai karne denge, aap bas aaram kijiyega, meri sister aur mere bhai se bolti hum log ek good friend ban ke rahenge. mujhse bolti aap jaisa boliyega waisa hi hoga………is tarah ke bahut saari chikni chupri baatein jo ki kisi ka bhi dil jeet le…………. ghar walo ne kaha ladi ke bichar bahut hi achachhe hai…….. mujhe bhi laga aisa bol rahi hai to karegi bhi……..jab maine aapne ghar walo se kaha ki mujhe appni hone wali wife se milne hai to mere ghar walo ne kaha hamare culture me saadi se pehle ladki ko nai dekhte to maine thoda jor diya tab mere ghar walo ne mere in- laws ke ghar phone kar ke pucha to unhone saaf mana kar diya bole ki nai saadi se pehle ladki hum nai dikhayenge. phir mere ghar walo ne mujhe ye saari baatein kahi to main socked reh gaya.. aur meri maa ne kaha ignore karo in saab baaton ko thik hai wo nai dikhana chahte hai tumhe to kya hua humlogo ne to dekha hai aur tum baat bhi to kar rahe ho, baat karne se uska nature nai maloom chal raha hai kya…… tab maine in sab baaton ko ignor kar diya aur phir hamari sadi ka din najdik aa gaya. main us time main pune me ek company me kaam kiya karta tha aug 2011 ko maine wo company join ki thi, jab meri saadi ki baat chal rahi thi tab main job me nai tha, us time main job search kar raha tha, main job me nai hu ye baatein mere in- laws ko maloom tha , mere saadi ki baat march 2011 me chalni suroo hui thi, jab saadi ki baat ho rahi thi tab maine clear kar diya tha ki jab tak meri job nai hoti tab tak main saadi nai karoonga, insabhi baato se mere in-laws ready ho gaye jab maine aug 2011 me job join kiya to mere ghar wale aur mere in-laws ne 25 nov 2011 ka date fix kiya aur hamari saadi ho gayi.
        28 nov 2011 ko hamare reception tha us din hamare father in law, brother in law, uncle in law, ye sabi aaye the, usi din mere father in law in mujhe side me bulaya aur mere se bole meri beti ko apne sath pune kab le jayenge, ye sun ke main socked ho gaya ab to ye mera aur meri wife ka decision hoga na ki hum log kab pune sift karenge. Phir maine unse kaha ki abhi main jaha rehta hu waha 6 ladke ek sath rehte hai so abhi to possible nai hai lekin ha bahut jaldi le ke chala jaunga, phir wo chale gaye. Din bitata gaya meri chhuti bhi kattam ho gayi main wapas pune chala aaya, main jab pune aaya aur office join ki to work load bauht jayada ho gaya tha isliye main jayada time phone pe apni wife ko nai de pata usme bhi jab mujhe time milta to ek hi baar phone karta aur ghar me sab se baat karne ke baad bolta meri wife ko phone do wo phone pe nai aati bolti mere phone pe phone kijiye, main bolta thik hai tojab main phone lagata to phone switch off kar deti, ghar ke no. pe phone karta to wo aati nai aur meri maa se bolti pehle mujhe phone kare baad me jise karna hai kare ya na kare, mujhe ye sun ke ajeeb laga, mujhe is baat ka bura laga ki saadi se pehle boli ki aap jo boliyega wahi hoga, aur ye sab, mera thoda stress rehne laga, isbeech mere mere father in law aur mera brother in law mujhe roj phone karte ye puchten ki aap kab use lejayenge, aur hamesha bolte pune bahut costly hai us se achachha silvassa hai, wahi chale jayiye waha achachha job mil jayega, boliye to hum log aap dono ko waha settle kar wa deten hai, jab maine unse kaha ki agar waha se mujhe interview ke liye call aata hai to mai jaunga aur jab mujhe job mil jayga tab hi mai waha khud se settle hounga. Abhi- abhi saadi ki chhutti se wapas aaya tha aur mere in –laws ne kuch jugar karke har week mera interview arrange karwa deten the aur mujhe bolte jayiye interview attend kariye, mere mana karne ke baad bhi wo log jabrdasti mere life me interfair karte aur mujhe jana parta isse hua yu ki jis company me main work karta tha waha se mujhe nikal diya gaya. Ab main jobless, phir bhi ye log kahte jayiyena silvassa hum log apka help karenge, aur ye sab mujhe manjoor nai tha. Phir ye sab baaten ek din maine apni maa ko bataya tab meri maa ne meri wife se baat karne ki kosis ki to wo mere maa ko hi ulta sunne lagti hai bolti hai aap se hum kuch bolne gaye the aap hi nai chati ho ki hum unke hath pune jayen, roj ghar pe jhagdra hota tha koi koi baat leke mere mummy papa pe baras karti lekin ye sab baate mere maa baap ne mujhe nai bataya jab bahut ho raha tha tab mere chote bhai ne mujhe phone karke ye saari baatein batayi aur is beech me mere aur meri wife ke beech jab bhi communication hota bas ro ke hi baat karti. Aur main kuch nai kar pata phir mujhe pune se patna bulaya gaya sab kuch chod ke aane ko bola gaya aur main wapas patna sab kuch chod ke aa gaya phir mere ghar walon ne mujhe patna isliye bulwa ki hamre ghar ki isthiti thik nai thi, jab main ghar aaya to dekh ghar ka bura haal hai. Main kya karta mujhe bola gaya ki ab mujhe job nai karna hai tum yahi raho aur apne pariwarik jivan ka maza lo, din katte chale gaye meri wife ka demand badhta chala gaya month me do bar bolti mujhe apne ghar jana hai, jab main mana karta to hungama karne lagti. 1 aug. 2012 ko raat ka time tha mere school time ke kuch pics the usme mere sath kuch mere school time ki ladkiya bhi mere sath pic me the wo usne faad diye the mujhe bahut gussa aaya maine use pucha ki pics kyon pade to usne bola mera mann tha is liye main ne faad diye. Mujhe bahut gussa aaya aur main uspe chillane laga aur hum dono ke beech bahut ladai hui maine use ghar se chale jane ke liye kaha aur wo ghar se jane lagi tabhi mere maa papa ne usko roka. Wo apne aapko room me band kar li aur ye sari batein apne papa ko batai agli subah 2aug. 2012 ko 9am ko uske papa aur suke uncle hamre ghar aaye aur bina kiuch baat kiye usko leke chale gaye sath sath humlogo se bole ko saadi jo paisa kharch hua aur jo dahej me maine jo paisa diya wo sab hame chahiye mere papa ne kaha thik hai jo hum logoko kuch time chaiye hum wo dedenge aftr that wo log saath me meri wife ko leke chale gaye.
        Uske baad na hum log unko phone karte na hi wo log. Phir 19 aug 2012 ko mere father in law, brother in law, aur uske aas pass ke 6-7 log hamre ghar pea aye aur mere maa aur behan ke sath maar pit ki aur hamre ghar se cash paisa aur jewelries jo ko kareeb 2-2.5 lakh ka hoga sath me saadi ke time unhone mujhe sony company ki lcd tv diya tha wo bhi naikal ke leke chalein gaye, aur jate jate ye bhi bol ke gaye ki ab dekho kya karte hai court me, aur sath hi sath khub halla hungama bhi kiya. Aur phir jake apne native place (Bahera, Darbhanga) ke police station me mere aur mere bhai , behan, maa, papa sab ke naam pe 498A, ¾ d.a, 304, aur bhi kai hai jo mujhe abhi yaad nai, idhar hamare ghar pe jo hua to agal bagal walo ne kaha ki police ke pass complain kijiye, humlog police station gaye waha police wale boltein hai ghar ka mamla hai ghar me hi solve kijiye, tab hum main eek advocate se consult kiya aur patna ke civil court me case file karwaya, din bitata chala gaya aur achank ek din ek police wala hamere ghar aaya aur ham logo ko bolta hai ki aaplogo ke naam notice aaya hai tabhi humlogo ko pata chala ki unlogo ne hum logo pe jhuta case kiya hai, phir hum logone us police wale ko saari baat batayi aur usne agal bagal walo se bhi enquiry bhi kiya lekin jo bhi proof humlogo ne use diya uska jikra F.I.R. me mention nai tha aur jab hum logo ne use proof diya to usne us notioce me jo charges lage the usme se kuch charges ko kaat diya aur bola ki hum in sab charges ko F.I.R. seet se hata denge. lekin jab humne F.I.R seet dekha to wo sab nai tha lekin baad me court ne phir usme se ek charge ko add kar diya gaya.
        Pehle Darbhanga Dist. Court se mere maa, papa bhai aur behan ka bail hua, jab mere bail ki baari aayi tab court ne mujhe aur meri wife dono ko bulaya aur hum dono court pahuche waha jaj sahab ne mujh se pucha tum apni wife ke sath rehna chahte ho maine ha kaha aur phir meri wife se bhi puche usne bhi ha kaha tab court ne order diya ki hum dono ko ek sath one month tak rahna hai auke baad hi bail milega, main uske ghar gaya aur usko apne sath patna leke aaya, ek mahina bit gaya aur phir hum court me pahuche waha mujhse kuch nai pucha gaya aur meri wife se puche ki kaisa chal raha hai tab usne kaha sab thik hai aur meri bail grant hui, aur hum dono patna me sath rehane lage issi beech mere mujhe ek course karne ke liye Mumbai jana tha aur main waha chala gaya, main waha course karne gaya tha na ki job mere fater in law hardin mujhe phone karte aur mujhse yahi kaihte ki usko bhi Mumbai le jayiye, mere manna karne ke babjud bhi mujhe court ki dhamkee dete maine bhi than liya ki ab main jaisa chunga waisa hi hoga meri wife ko mera sath dena hoga uske father job hi kahein main nai sununga, aur waisa hi karta raha is se ye to hua ki jo main chah raha tha wo ho raha tha lekin idhar mere father in law ne meri biwi ko kya sikhate main nai janta lekin roz hmae ghar me mere maa, papa ko kuch na kuch suna ti rahti, is beech me court me dae padta to main Mumbai se patna aata aur phir patna de dabhanga court me jata aur jab bhi jata mujhse waha ka advocate bolta ki apni wife ko leke aayiye,
        Yaha mujhse ek mistake hui thi maine socha jab hum logo ke beech compermise ho chukka hai to phir kya tension hai aur mere father in law ne bola ki hamare advocate hai na aap tension na le, main socha jab compermis ho chukka hai to phir kya problem hai, uske baad mere father in law ne us advocate ke sahare mujhe khub nachaya phir ek din maine kud ek dusra advocate hire kiya aur unko sari baat batai aur abhi bhi hamra case statement pe chal raha hai, idhar ghar ke baton pe aaon to ghar me roj jhagdra ho raha tha mere maa papa ne mujhse bola ki tum isko leke kahi chale jao aur wahi settle ho jao ye sun kar meri wife bahut kush hui aur main usko leke Jamshedpur chala aaya yaha aane ke baad 10 din tak sab thik raha uske baad meri wife har roz ek hi baat bolti mujhe apne ghar jana hai ab aap batao mere pass koi job nai hai pichale 2 saal se main is nark me fasa hu mere papa mera yaha ka kharch chala rahe hai aur usme bhi meri wife ko har 10 din pe palour jana hai har roz apne ghar jane ke liye mujhse jhagdra karna hai, yaha tak ki 10 -10 din takwo khana nai banati hai aur mujhe khana banana padta hai hai, bina mujhse kuch bole kahin bhi chali jati hai, apne mann ka karti hai aur main jab bhi manna karta hu to mujhse ladai karti hai, maine usko apne naam se ek sim diya taki agar kabhi main bahar rahu to mujhe phone kar sake lekin aisa 1-2 baar hi hua hoga aur din bhar apne maa baap bhai behan se phone pe lagi rahti jab mujhe pata chala ki aisa chal raha hai to main socha kyon na pehle isko apne mummy papa se dur kiya jaye aur us se sim maine wapas leliya iska natijaa ye hua ki ye phone booth pe jake apne maa baap se bat karne lagi jab maine iske liye bhi roka to wo mujhse jhada karne lagti hai, mare maa baap ka uske najar me koi value nai hai aur na hi mera jo hai wo sirf uske apne maa baap ka, mera manana hai ki jab tak saadi k baad ek ladki apne maa baap ka hath nai chodti tab tak uska ghar nai bas sakta agar main galat hu to aap mujhe batao, en sab ke duran usne mera laptop, tablet, mobile, table fan yani jobhi uske samne aata wo sab tod deti aur ek baat main ye bhi batana haunga ki maine bhi gusse me us pe hath utha diya tha, aur gali bhi usko de deta tha uske liye maine us se mafi bhi mangi, uska natija ye hai ki wo mere sir pe chad gayi gai hai apni marzi ka sab karna mera koi value nai karna. Aaj aisa hai ki meri wife ka bhi mujhe phone pe dhamkee deta hai mujhe jan sse marne ke liye, mujhe uksata hai apni wife ko marne ke liye.in sab ke piche mere father in law ka hath hai wo apne bête ko apne passs baitha kar bolta hai ki apne jija ko kub gali do usko bhadkao taki main kuch galt kar baithu.
        Bas ab main is se tag aa chukka hu mere samne ab do hi option hai ya to main alag ho jaun ya apne aap ko khattm kar lun, ab aap batao ki main kya karoon? Mere sath jo bhi hua aur jo bhi ho raha hai maine sab isme likh diya hai. ek baat main ye bhi bolna chaunga ki har maa baap apne bache ke kiye possessive hota hai lekin jaroori nai hai ki har waqt maa baap apne bache ka sath de, mere maa baap ne mera hamesa sath diya lekin muskilo me yahi kaihte the ki khudh fight karo aur mere sath job hi aaj ho raha hai, maine apne maa baap ko sirf achachha hi bataya hai bura jo bhi hota hai us se main khud fight kar raha hu.
        Lekin ab bas aur main is tarah ki jindgi nai ji sakta ab bahut ho chukka, meri to life kharab ho hi rahi hai aur sath sath meri wife ki is se better ye hoga ki wo apni life jiye aur main apni.

        Ab main bas itna kaiha chata hu ki ya to mujhe jine do ya mujhe marne do, aaj tak maine kanoon ko apne hath me nai liya aur na hi lena chata hu agar liya bhi ho ga to anjane me jan bujh kar nai. Bas bahut ho chuka main apse request karta hu ya to mujhe apni wife se alag karwa de nai to mujhe apne aapko khattm karne ki ijajat de.

        Thank you
        Is desh ka ek nagreek
        Subhash Ranjan
        Mob 07870740020

  13. 20 nilesh meshram August 25, 2011 at 7:10 am

    i filed restitution for conjugal rights on 12 may 2010. My wife filed for intrim maintainance that was ordered by hounarable judge in jan 2011 of Rs.5000/ per month. uptil now i have paid Rs.40,000/-. Now my wife have lodged complaints at four places for dowry 498a in women cell (NGO), Women cell (Police Station), Police station, Bhandara & Police Station, Nagpur..
    the police officials are now harrassing us for the same due to which me & my family are under mental stress..
    I dont ned her back and i want to ammend the ongoing Restitution u/s 9 to Divorce…
    how could i implement this and plz give me some parallel cases as example to file the same.
    thanx in anticipation..
    plz help me out…

    • 21 Abhisek October 4, 2011 at 2:51 pm

      Hi Nilesh,

      I am also victim like you. I don’t have much more understanding but i can say if FIR has filled the go for Anticipatory bail. Because if police will arrest the there is more problem. If FIR is filled then you can go for Quash in High court, At least current proceeding will stay for few month. How judge order for 5K ? because if girl is getting 5K then they have collect good money and fight against you. Go to high court against interm maintenance.

      In my case all family member have AB and we filled 482 in HC and case has been stayed.

      For CRPC125 this case is still pending in family court from last 15 month because we appeared after one year.

      Thanks
      Abhisek(victimof498a@ymail.com)

  14. 22 Baburam February 7, 2012 at 3:21 pm

    my friends wife suited a case under 498a with the charge of harassing of his family members. Simultaneously applied for divorce. The divorce case judgement came and my friend was charged Rs300000. He is now afraid if the 498a case will still continue or not. Should he pay the demanded amount ? please help

  15. 23 kumar March 24, 2012 at 6:32 am

    Please give your valuable advices along with below mentioned issues in Indian law,Christian Marriage act in state of Andhra

    Pradesh,Country India

    -How and what are the points to be needed to quash 498a,dvc & Maintenance ?

    -how can be maintenance avoided as she is well qualified and used to work before and earn more than 70k/month,now wantedly

    she is NOT working for maintenance?

    -what are he possible criminal and civil cases can be filed on wife and wife’s side as they are harrassing with false

    498A,DVC & Maintenenace cases and whole family have to travel 1000km/month?

    I filed in my home town RCR and counter for maintenance as i m without job last 1 year after coming from abroad just to fight

    the case?

    -In false DVC,498A & Maintenance what are the possible relifes husband can get ?

    -what are the possibilities of saving me and my family with Indian Christian Marriage act from FALSE 498A,DVC,323,406,509 r/w

    34 IPC & Maintenance ?

    if possible please quote me previous judgements for my support,
    thank you,
    regards,
    kumar
    mail: 498a.kumar@gmail.com

  16. 24 Satish s. June 12, 2012 at 1:22 pm

    Ple.sent me judgment

  17. 25 jagdeep March 7, 2013 at 7:16 am

    my wife is tortured me a lot finally i filed for divorce after 4 months…she filed a false 498 a case…..is there any advantage of filing divorce case first….and is this case going to help in my divorce case. plz give me some advice.

  18. 26 Amartya anupam June 6, 2013 at 8:19 am

    i filed for divorce case n before presenting in court my wife filed false 498 case on me. however interim custody of my 4 year old daughter is been given to me and maintanance of 35000 /m is granted to my wife.
    my question is in false 498 my family members are not challaned as they found innocent n i have been charged and i filed a revision case for the same. can I get deree of divorce on the ground of cruelty and mental harrassement by filing false 498a.

    Amartya

  19. 27 krishna Murthy November 17, 2013 at 2:33 pm

    dear sir/mam my son got a decree of divorse from family court ‘without any condition, under sec.13 (1) (ia). Hence he got re married another girle after 23 days of judgment and before the HC stay order , Now the diversed wife filed an appeal in the HC for cancellation of the family court order. The H.C. also pased stay on fc order. Hear the question is-my son got re married before she filed an application in the H.C and the injuction passed thereof. hence what will be the result , and legal complication in this case?

  20. 28 pink March 14, 2014 at 2:13 pm

    my friend had separeted from her husband from 2007 coz of 498 A after 7 years he has convicted u/s 323 of Ipc. she had aply for divorce before 2 years and had get exparty divorce. she is government servent now she want to get second marraige while her ex husband has aply for restoration. can she marry in this situation?

  21. 29 rubal April 29, 2014 at 2:15 pm

    I filed 498A against my husband in 2013 who was greedy and had illicit relations…I have a son. I want one sided divorce from him since im separated from him since last 4 yrs…..He wants to black mail me for divorce as he dsnt need it…..how can I get one sided divorce???? Plz help

  22. 30 rubal April 29, 2014 at 2:20 pm

    I filed 498A against my husband in 2013 who was greedy and had illicit relations…I have a son. I want one sided divorce from him since im separated from him since last 4 yrs…..He wants to black mail me for divorce as he dsnt need it…..how can I get one sided divorce???? Plz help

  23. 31 subhash ranjan May 7, 2014 at 12:03 am

    hello sir/ma’am

    i have found your mail id from ipc498awordpress.com. My name is Subhash Ranjan, i am from patna, bihar. i have completed B.tech in mechanical engineering in 2010. now i am coming to the my story.

    meri saadi arrange marriage hui hai. saadi se pehle meri wife mere mummy, sister, mere chhote bhai se roj baat karti aur main bhi usse roj baat kata lekin main, meri maa, sister ya bhai jyada time nai de pate the matlab jayada baat nai kar pate the bcz of daily work. ha jab bhi hamse baat karti, maa se bolti ” maa main jab patna aaungi to aapko kuch bhi nai karne denge, aap bas aaram kijiyega, meri sister aur mere bhai se bolti hum log ek good friend ban ke rahenge. mujhse bolti aap jaisa boliyega waisa hi hoga………is tarah ke bahut saari chikni chupri baatein jo ki kisi ka bhi dil jeet le…………. ghar walo ne kaha ladi ke bichar bahut hi achachhe hai…….. mujhe bhi laga aisa bol rahi hai to karegi bhi……..jab maine aapne ghar walo se kaha ki mujhe appni hone wali wife se milne hai to mere ghar walo ne kaha hamare culture me saadi se pehle ladki ko nai dekhte to maine thoda jor diya tab mere ghar walo ne mere in- laws ke ghar phone kar ke pucha to unhone saaf mana kar diya bole ki nai saadi se pehle ladki hum nai dikhayenge. phir mere ghar walo ne mujhe ye saari baatein kahi to main socked reh gaya.. aur meri maa ne kaha ignore karo in saab baaton ko thik hai wo nai dikhana chahte hai tumhe to kya hua humlogo ne to dekha hai aur tum baat bhi to kar rahe ho, baat karne se uska nature nai maloom chal raha hai kya…… tab maine in sab baaton ko ignor kar diya aur phir hamari sadi ka din najdik aa gaya. main us time main pune me ek company me kaam kiya karta tha aug 2011 ko maine wo company join ki thi, jab meri saadi ki baat chal rahi thi tab main job me nai tha, us time main job search kar raha tha, main job me nai hu ye baatein mere in- laws ko maloom tha , mere saadi ki baat march 2011 me chalni suroo hui thi, jab saadi ki baat ho rahi thi tab maine clear kar diya tha ki jab tak meri job nai hoti tab tak main saadi nai karoonga, insabhi baato se mere in-laws ready ho gaye jab maine aug 2011 me job join kiya to mere ghar wale aur mere in-laws ne 25 nov 2011 ka date fix kiya aur hamari saadi ho gayi.
    28 nov 2011 ko hamare reception tha us din hamare father in law, brother in law, uncle in law, ye sabi aaye the, usi din mere father in law in mujhe side me bulaya aur mere se bole meri beti ko apne sath pune kab le jayenge, ye sun ke main socked ho gaya ab to ye mera aur meri wife ka decision hoga na ki hum log kab pune sift karenge. Phir maine unse kaha ki abhi main jaha rehta hu waha 6 ladke ek sath rehte hai so abhi to possible nai hai lekin ha bahut jaldi le ke chala jaunga, phir wo chale gaye. Din bitata gaya meri chhuti bhi kattam ho gayi main wapas pune chala aaya, main jab pune aaya aur office join ki to work load bauht jayada ho gaya tha isliye main jayada time phone pe apni wife ko nai de pata usme bhi jab mujhe time milta to ek hi baar phone karta aur ghar me sab se baat karne ke baad bolta meri wife ko phone do wo phone pe nai aati bolti mere phone pe phone kijiye, main bolta thik hai tojab main phone lagata to phone switch off kar deti, ghar ke no. pe phone karta to wo aati nai aur meri maa se bolti pehle mujhe phone kare baad me jise karna hai kare ya na kare, mujhe ye sun ke ajeeb laga, mujhe is baat ka bura laga ki saadi se pehle boli ki aap jo boliyega wahi hoga, aur ye sab, mera thoda stress rehne laga, isbeech mere mere father in law aur mera brother in law mujhe roj phone karte ye puchten ki aap kab use lejayenge, aur hamesha bolte pune bahut costly hai us se achachha silvassa hai, wahi chale jayiye waha achachha job mil jayega, boliye to hum log aap dono ko waha settle kar wa deten hai, jab maine unse kaha ki agar waha se mujhe interview ke liye call aata hai to mai jaunga aur jab mujhe job mil jayga tab hi mai waha khud se settle hounga. Abhi- abhi saadi ki chhutti se wapas aaya tha aur mere in –laws ne kuch jugar karke har week mera interview arrange karwa deten the aur mujhe bolte jayiye interview attend kariye, mere mana karne ke baad bhi wo log jabrdasti mere life me interfair karte aur mujhe jana parta isse hua yu ki jis company me main work karta tha waha se mujhe nikal diya gaya. Ab main jobless, phir bhi ye log kahte jayiyena silvassa hum log apka help karenge, aur ye sab mujhe manjoor nai tha. Phir ye sab baaten ek din maine apni maa ko bataya tab meri maa ne meri wife se baat karne ki kosis ki to wo mere maa ko hi ulta sunne lagti hai bolti hai aap se hum kuch bolne gaye the aap hi nai chati ho ki hum unke hath pune jayen, roj ghar pe jhagdra hota tha koi koi baat leke mere mummy papa pe baras karti lekin ye sab baate mere maa baap ne mujhe nai bataya jab bahut ho raha tha tab mere chote bhai ne mujhe phone karke ye saari baatein batayi aur is beech me mere aur meri wife ke beech jab bhi communication hota bas ro ke hi baat karti. Aur main kuch nai kar pata phir mujhe pune se patna bulaya gaya sab kuch chod ke aane ko bola gaya aur main wapas patna sab kuch chod ke aa gaya phir mere ghar walon ne mujhe patna isliye bulwa ki hamre ghar ki isthiti thik nai thi, jab main ghar aaya to dekh ghar ka bura haal hai. Main kya karta mujhe bola gaya ki ab mujhe job nai karna hai tum yahi raho aur apne pariwarik jivan ka maza lo, din katte chale gaye meri wife ka demand badhta chala gaya month me do bar bolti mujhe apne ghar jana hai, jab main mana karta to hungama karne lagti. 1 aug. 2012 ko raat ka time tha mere school time ke kuch pics the usme mere sath kuch mere school time ki ladkiya bhi mere sath pic me the wo usne faad diye the mujhe bahut gussa aaya maine use pucha ki pics kyon pade to usne bola mera mann tha is liye main ne faad diye. Mujhe bahut gussa aaya aur main uspe chillane laga aur hum dono ke beech bahut ladai hui maine use ghar se chale jane ke liye kaha aur wo ghar se jane lagi tabhi mere maa papa ne usko roka. Wo apne aapko room me band kar li aur ye sari batein apne papa ko batai agli subah 2aug. 2012 ko 9am ko uske papa aur suke uncle hamre ghar aaye aur bina kiuch baat kiye usko leke chale gaye sath sath humlogo se bole ko saadi jo paisa kharch hua aur jo dahej me maine jo paisa diya wo sab hame chahiye mere papa ne kaha thik hai jo hum logoko kuch time chaiye hum wo dedenge aftr that wo log saath me meri wife ko leke chale gaye.
    Uske baad na hum log unko phone karte na hi wo log. Phir 19 aug 2012 ko mere father in law, brother in law, aur uske aas pass ke 6-7 log hamre ghar pea aye aur mere maa aur behan ke sath maar pit ki aur hamre ghar se cash paisa aur jewelries jo ko kareeb 2-2.5 lakh ka hoga sath me saadi ke time unhone mujhe sony company ki lcd tv diya tha wo bhi naikal ke leke chalein gaye, aur jate jate ye bhi bol ke gaye ki ab dekho kya karte hai court me, aur sath hi sath khub halla hungama bhi kiya. Aur phir jake apne native place (Bahera, Darbhanga) ke police station me mere aur mere bhai , behan, maa, papa sab ke naam pe 498A, ¾ d.a, 304, aur bhi kai hai jo mujhe abhi yaad nai, idhar hamare ghar pe jo hua to agal bagal walo ne kaha ki police ke pass complain kijiye, humlog police station gaye waha police wale boltein hai ghar ka mamla hai ghar me hi solve kijiye, tab hum main eek advocate se consult kiya aur patna ke civil court me case file karwaya, din bitata chala gaya aur achank ek din ek police wala hamere ghar aaya aur ham logo ko bolta hai ki aaplogo ke naam notice aaya hai tabhi humlogo ko pata chala ki unlogo ne hum logo pe jhuta case kiya hai, phir hum logone us police wale ko saari baat batayi aur usne agal bagal walo se bhi enquiry bhi kiya lekin jo bhi proof humlogo ne use diya uska jikra F.I.R. me mention nai tha aur jab hum logo ne use proof diya to usne us notioce me jo charges lage the usme se kuch charges ko kaat diya aur bola ki hum in sab charges ko F.I.R. seet se hata denge. lekin jab humne F.I.R seet dekha to wo sab nai tha lekin baad me court ne phir usme se ek charge ko add kar diya gaya.
    Pehle Darbhanga Dist. Court se mere maa, papa bhai aur behan ka bail hua, jab mere bail ki baari aayi tab court ne mujhe aur meri wife dono ko bulaya aur hum dono court pahuche waha jaj sahab ne mujh se pucha tum apni wife ke sath rehna chahte ho maine ha kaha aur phir meri wife se bhi puche usne bhi ha kaha tab court ne order diya ki hum dono ko ek sath one month tak rahna hai auke baad hi bail milega, main uske ghar gaya aur usko apne sath patna leke aaya, ek mahina bit gaya aur phir hum court me pahuche waha mujhse kuch nai pucha gaya aur meri wife se puche ki kaisa chal raha hai tab usne kaha sab thik hai aur meri bail grant hui, aur hum dono patna me sath rehane lage issi beech mere mujhe ek course karne ke liye Mumbai jana tha aur main waha chala gaya, main waha course karne gaya tha na ki job mere fater in law hardin mujhe phone karte aur mujhse yahi kaihte ki usko bhi Mumbai le jayiye, mere manna karne ke babjud bhi mujhe court ki dhamkee dete maine bhi than liya ki ab main jaisa chunga waisa hi hoga meri wife ko mera sath dena hoga uske father job hi kahein main nai sununga, aur waisa hi karta raha is se ye to hua ki jo main chah raha tha wo ho raha tha lekin idhar mere father in law ne meri biwi ko kya sikhate main nai janta lekin roz hmae ghar me mere maa, papa ko kuch na kuch suna ti rahti, is beech me court me dae padta to main Mumbai se patna aata aur phir patna de dabhanga court me jata aur jab bhi jata mujhse waha ka advocate bolta ki apni wife ko leke aayiye,
    Yaha mujhse ek mistake hui thi maine socha jab hum logo ke beech compermise ho chukka hai to phir kya tension hai aur mere father in law ne bola ki hamare advocate hai na aap tension na le, main socha jab compermis ho chukka hai to phir kya problem hai, uske baad mere father in law ne us advocate ke sahare mujhe khub nachaya phir ek din maine kud ek dusra advocate hire kiya aur unko sari baat batai aur abhi bhi hamra case statement pe chal raha hai, idhar ghar ke baton pe aaon to ghar me roj jhagdra ho raha tha mere maa papa ne mujhse bola ki tum isko leke kahi chale jao aur wahi settle ho jao ye sun kar meri wife bahut kush hui aur main usko leke Jamshedpur chala aaya yaha aane ke baad 10 din tak sab thik raha uske baad meri wife har roz ek hi baat bolti mujhe apne ghar jana hai ab aap batao mere pass koi job nai hai pichale 2 saal se main is nark me fasa hu mere papa mera yaha ka kharch chala rahe hai aur usme bhi meri wife ko har 10 din pe palour jana hai har roz apne ghar jane ke liye mujhse jhagdra karna hai, yaha tak ki 10 -10 din takwo khana nai banati hai aur mujhe khana banana padta hai hai, bina mujhse kuch bole kahin bhi chali jati hai, apne mann ka karti hai aur main jab bhi manna karta hu to mujhse ladai karti hai, maine usko apne naam se ek sim diya taki agar kabhi main bahar rahu to mujhe phone kar sake lekin aisa 1-2 baar hi hua hoga aur din bhar apne maa baap bhai behan se phone pe lagi rahti jab mujhe pata chala ki aisa chal raha hai to main socha kyon na pehle isko apne mummy papa se dur kiya jaye aur us se sim maine wapas leliya iska natijaa ye hua ki ye phone booth pe jake apne maa baap se bat karne lagi jab maine iske liye bhi roka to wo mujhse jhada karne lagti hai, mare maa baap ka uske najar me koi value nai hai aur na hi mera jo hai wo sirf uske apne maa baap ka, mera manana hai ki jab tak saadi k baad ek ladki apne maa baap ka hath nai chodti tab tak uska ghar nai bas sakta agar main galat hu to aap mujhe batao, en sab ke duran usne mera laptop, tablet, mobile, table fan yani jobhi uske samne aata wo sab tod deti aur ek baat main ye bhi batana haunga ki maine bhi gusse me us pe hath utha diya tha, aur gali bhi usko de deta tha uske liye maine us se mafi bhi mangi, uska natija ye hai ki wo mere sir pe chad gayi gai hai apni marzi ka sab karna mera koi value nai karna. Aaj aisa hai ki meri wife ka bhi mujhe phone pe dhamkee deta hai mujhe jan sse marne ke liye, mujhe uksata hai apni wife ko marne ke liye.in sab ke piche mere father in law ka hath hai wo apne bête ko apne passs baitha kar bolta hai ki apne jija ko kub gali do usko bhadkao taki main kuch galt kar baithu.
    Bas ab main is se tag aa chukka hu mere samne ab do hi option hai ya to main alag ho jaun ya apne aap ko khattm kar lun, ab aap batao ki main kya karoon? Mere sath jo bhi hua aur jo bhi ho raha hai maine sab isme likh diya hai. ek baat main ye bhi bolna chaunga ki har maa baap apne bache ke kiye possessive hota hai lekin jaroori nai hai ki har waqt maa baap apne bache ka sath de, mere maa baap ne mera hamesa sath diya lekin muskilo me yahi kaihte the ki khudh fight karo aur mere sath job hi aaj ho raha hai, maine apne maa baap ko sirf achachha hi bataya hai bura jo bhi hota hai us se main khud fight kar raha hu.
    Lekin ab bas aur main is tarah ki jindgi nai ji sakta ab bahut ho chukka, meri to life kharab ho hi rahi hai aur sath sath meri wife ki is se better ye hoga ki wo apni life jiye aur main apni.

    Ab main bas itna kaiha chata hu ki ya to mujhe jine do ya mujhe marne do, aaj tak maine kanoon ko apne hath me nai liya aur na hi lena chata hu agar liya bhi ho ga to anjane me jan bujh kar nai. Bas bahut ho chuka main apse request karta hu ya to mujhe apni wife se alag karwa de nai to mujhe apne aapko khattm karne ki ijajat de.

    Thank you
    Is desh ka ek nagreek
    Subhash Ranjan
    Mob 07870740020

  24. 32 subhash ranjan May 7, 2014 at 12:33 am

    dear friends

    aaj apne counrty me men aur women ek barabar mane jate hai to ek question mere ko khaiye ja raha hai ki men hi maintenance kyon de jo aadmi jobless hai wo kaha se dega aur dono pati pani educated hai to dono jab alag ho rahe hai to apna maintenance khud kare aisa provision hona chahiye

  25. 33 Mrinal August 5, 2014 at 8:07 pm

    Dear Friends,

    I had filled for a divorce about 6 years back from now, however, the case was dissmissed at that time by the court. we are not living together since then, can i re file for the divorce & can someone help with the procedure on how to file for the case now.

    Also i believe the basis for divorce would be dissertion, please suggest if that is correct.


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