Consequences Of Filing False 498A Cases

There is a lot written about horror faced by families who get entangled in 498A cases, but nothing is said about the consequences faced by women who file these cases, if the plan backfires. 498A is ultimately a gamble. These women file cases at the advice of their lawyers, close relatives with vested interests or just to persecute the hubby and in-laws or to defraud the hubby and his family as they know that this law is actually designed to be more effective as a tool for extortionists and blackmailers than for protecting women facing dowry harassment or domestic violence.

The best source to know more about the consequences of filing a false case is the document by Madhu Purnima Kishwar (http://tinyurl.com/2rbmxs). She is a respected fighter for women’s rights, unlike the tabloid feminists of today who misrepresent facts and who hog the headlines with shrill statements (remember the Pooja Chauhan episode?).

Read this article in the LATimes to get an idea about what divorced womens finances look like.

I think you need to read what she has to say. I’ve put together a few points of my own:

  • Divorce after a 498A is guaranteed. 498A is a nuclear weapon. It should never be used for any other purpose than what it was intended for, which was to protect women from dowry harassment. It was not designed to allow it be used to settle scores or as an extortion tool. If the accused fight back, the filers of a false 498A will face the consequences.
  • She won’t get married again. The reason being our very conservative society. Feminism may be a fashionable thing to bandy about, but no family, including the family of the filer of a false 498A, would like to admit one of their own into their homes. This is all about power politics in relationships and once it is known that a woman had filed a false 498A, she will be treated like radioactive material.
  • Her sister(s) may eventually run off with the milkman or something along similar lines may happen as they risk remaining spinsters.
  • Any sisters-in-law she may have will turn against her as time goes by. Her brothers may not get married again. Think about this. Would you be willing to send your sister/daughter into a home where there is woman who has quarreled with a decent husband and used the law to terrorize him and his family? How happy would your sister/daughter be in a home like that? How secure would a family feel, if the sister of the woman who filed a false 498A enters the house as a bride? It also says a lot about that family that they did not discourage her from doing so.
  • The filer of a false 498A may face arrest under Section 182. The sentence may range up to 6 months.
  • If kids are involved, their well-being may be threatened as fathers play a crucial role in the up bringing of a child. A 498A almost always results in a divorce.
  • If the 498A is being filed at the instigation of close relatives and for no valid justification, be assured of this, once the relatives get what they want, they will abandon the woman.
  • The woman may get fined by the court for filing false charges. Click here for the news article.

Go through the The 498A Survival Kit if you anticipate a false 498A.

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125 Responses to “Consequences Of Filing False 498A Cases”


  1. 1 SANJOY APUL July 16, 2007 at 2:02 pm

    well said

  2. 2 G.RAMAKRISHNAN August 3, 2007 at 5:47 am

    Well said. Girls do not think of the consequneces at the time of filing wrong 498a. Unscruplous people also try to take the benefit out of this and at the end it is the girl who is left alone as she cannot take up any job as she will be a mockery at all places she visits.

  3. 3 parvesh August 3, 2007 at 10:21 am

    Beware Girls! From ur parents, relatives, lawyers and feminists. They might instigate u to file false case under section 498A and ruin the husband family. they are doing for their benifits only. Once the husband is ruined, he will bay for ur blood. The instigators will leave u once they get what they want. Then u will be totally insecure in this bad society which can take everything away from u. If u succeed in obtaining alimony, ur brothers and other relatives will eye for ur money only. U have left a nice guy and now beware. Na ghar ki, na ghat ki. Anyhow, the institution of marriage is totally an ugly institution. It must be banned and there must be nationwide compaign against it. Even the children born out of wedlock must be accepted by society and kept in the commune maintained by goverment agencies. Any lovers who want to give birth to the child must obtain the necessary medical certificate from the medical council of india, otherwise child birth must be deemed illegal and there must be imprisonment to both the parties. Only those much number of children that are needed for the country must be born and not the number greater than that. In this way we may be able to bring down the population of this country to manageble leval. Men should attend meditation classes so that their sex energy get tranformed into superconciousness. Then there will be no need for condoms.

  4. 4 jayadevan September 29, 2007 at 3:52 pm

    Told it exactly. my wife filed 498 against me, now her only brother is 33 not able to get a woman to marry. already ,fighted with wife in her ownhome ,and not talking each other.after her old aged parents death she have no body now,already isolated from society as all knows about the false 498a.i have no sympathy to her,just trying to get out.

  5. 5 yourdostjai October 28, 2007 at 9:23 am

    There should be a strong media coverage about these false cases.. if a dorwy is claimed, there is such a huge cry about it .. but the public should also be aware of the false cases lodge. snip bits about resolved cases but be highlighted to bring to light the truth behind fruad families that ensare boys and their families for money.

    Jason

  6. 6 jaideep November 29, 2007 at 8:21 am

    Disgusting how these laws are so in favour of woman only. WORSE than TADA i say!!!

  7. 7 bhaskar December 2, 2007 at 8:24 am

    Respected sir,
    I bhaskar working as a Professor married recently dated on 21/02/2007. At first night my wife refused me not to touch me,2nd night she put injurious by herself On 3rd day night the treatment was given by Doctor As I am innocent man,she put a false case ipc498a against me through this medical report please help me&give justice me .
    On 4th day night, I thought she was dull and angry.On 5th day (Sunday) she did not come to Church on this night she came to reception on 6th day morning reception function was over at RJY she left the place at RJY and went to HYD (Christian marriage).After one month she put a false case ipc498a against me.I came out through bail.I request U to please clear a false case ipc498a done by a wife & Cancellation of marriage. Please give me reply as early as possible. We family are very much worried about this case. I have 1 brother&1sister. We family are very decent. And respected family.
    Yours faithfully,
    Bhaskar

    • 8 Pbs November 11, 2012 at 12:46 pm

      You can file cases Afganist her for divorce due to. Causing mental cruelty,perjury,difamación etc.You can contact the volunteers of SIFF for expert guidance.you can go throgh the website of Save indian family foundation.

  8. 9 Shailesh Fulsunge December 6, 2007 at 2:06 pm

    Respected Sir,
    I got married in Feb 1998 to a girl with a gangsterial and political background just because i use to love her a lot. She has always stayed away from me and wanted me to leave my parents house and stay with her at her parents place. I am a man of principal and ethics and would not like to leave parents as my father is physicaly handicapped and had 3 unmarried younger sisters. My wife has tried all tricks of political and gangsterial presures and also made us abscond my sending gundas to our house. later she landed up filing 498 (A) at Vasai court – thane district in May 2000 when we were not there and the police inspector has admitted the case in ouer avbsence…Its now more then 7 years we are attending the case, till date the cae is not on board and is just lingering, I have lost many abroad oppurtunities and my carrier is gone for a toss. I had filed a divorce petition at family court bandra – Mumbai for which i got the decree in my favour on desrtion and cruelty grounds. She is just harrassing me by filing false complaints as she has ample time in the world and we have to earn our daily bread by travelling in mumbai locals. She had filed ample of false cases which has all gone in my favour…1)Chapter case at agri pada police stn, 2) Defamation case at mazgaon court – mumbai, because i had written my story to the press and mumbai police seeking help. My advocate at vasai who is handling 498a is not giving priority to my case I dont feel good about it and sometimes get some negative wibes too. PLEASE GUIDE ME AND HELP ME….MY FATEHER IS 70 YEARS AND IS A HEART PATIENT ALL OF US ARE SUFFERING VERY BADLY BECAUSE OF THIS REVENGE FUL GIRL.

    THANKYOU…

    SHAILESH FULSUNGE

  9. 11 mera baharat mahan April 23, 2008 at 3:55 pm

    Dear Sir,
    498A has been filed 2 years after divorceed/talaq.how come????
    498A SHOULD NOT be applicable to INDIAN MUSLIMS.
    There is no logical reasoning that 498A is applicable to muslims men in INDIA.
    Muslim marriages in India is performed as per Shari at law , the marriages are not registered and/or solemnized in civil court (before magistrate) , hence POLICE SHOULD NOT register muslims 498A cases, moreover 498A applies to only those who are still married under civil marriage, once talaq/divorceed is done (as per shariat) there should be no 498A filing, but nowdays its happening the otherway , after TALAQ girls parents are filing 498A cases for money extortion and harassment to boys family.
    The divorceed/talaq taken under shari’at law should be the final and suprememe decision..

    I think its high time INDIAN MUSLIMS should set up their own family shariat courts where shariat is applicable as ALL INDIA MUSLIMS PROBATE COURT under the banner of ALL INDIA MUSLIMS PERSONAL LAW BOARD where divorceed and child custody cases decision should hold supreme authority and should be considered the final shariat civil law suit. There should be no appeal after this in any court of law.
    I know a case where ex-fatherinlaw MAHMOOD ALAM filed 498A case 2 years after TALAQ/divorceed and got the boy registered in INTERPOL (as the boy lives overseas and 498A is criminal offense,) How come the POLICE register the case?? The marriage was not a civil marriage, it was not registered in civil court or solemnized before magistrate and divorceed/talaq had already happen 2 years back.
    MAHMOD ALAM did the same filed false/baseless 498A when his younger daughter got talaq/divorceed? ALAM uses 498A to extort money and harass boys parents.
    So gentlemen BEWARE of this family who resides at:
    4-1-356/A, second floor, besides jaya international hotel, abids, hyd AP
    FATHER NAME: MAHMOOD ALAM
    MOTHER NAME: MAHJABEEN SULTANA
    DAUGHTERS: ASMAN MAHMOOD/MASARATH MAHMOOD
    SONS: FAZAL ALAM/MUSTAFA KAMAL ALAM

    More to come later……………

    • 12 khan mohd nomaan May 22, 2012 at 12:54 pm

      yes u r right , u read section 2 b of D.P.Act 1961 ,it is mentioned ,it is not applicable to muslims.

    • 13 Shariq January 1, 2013 at 2:36 am

      Very true I’m also in the similar boat. Females have become greedy and parents plan & conspire to extort money thereby ruining their daughters home & her life which they will surely regret in the long run.

  10. 14 siddhartha nandi May 14, 2008 at 7:58 am

    Respected Sir,

    My brother marreied 28th jan 2008, He is a lecturer,she does not wishes to stay with him at his work place so he had to cover 155 km distance to attend his college every day.They were staying at her mother’s land 6th may he refused to contunie the journy for whole life me and my family had no connection with them since 6 months. now she is threatning us with 498a charges what to do.

  11. 15 Shakeel October 18, 2008 at 4:00 pm

    Dear Friends

    I would like you all to know what happened with my brother.
    My brother was married to girl who was already a divorcee. After leaving for one month happily she started quarreling with my brother every day and demanding to leave separately from our family. Seeing the daily quarreling my mother allowed them to stay separately in a rented house nearby our colony. inspite of leaving separately she still use to quarrel and again demanding that she wants to leave nearby their parents house. Even that demand was fulfilled and my brother was leaving nearby her parents house in a rented house. still unhappy saying that my brothers earnings are very less and cant meet the demands. She had a filthy mouth and her parents and brothers have filthy mouth and supporting her sister/daughter. After concieving twin babies (girls) she started creating more problems.
    My brother was fed up and divorced her. After divorce she lodged the complaint with women police and registed the 498A case. Police also arrested my three brothers and one of my sister name was included who was not living with us. we released three brothers including the accused on bail and sister was taken anticipatory bail. after twin babies she was conceived once again and she demanded abortion from my brother saying that he cannot afford for the baby. She said in police that my brother forced for abortion. now the case is in the court. We dont have any proofs to defend our case. I dont know what to do and how to get rid of it. My brother is an accountant working in a private organization for the mere salary of Rupees 7000/-. He is not in a position to afford advocates fees and alimony. Please give me some guidelines to get rid of the case.

  12. 16 R B CHIKHALE February 6, 2009 at 8:43 am

    My sons’ wife is misbehaving with my son and missing since 23 Jan’09. We have lodged FIR with police. Her parents are not good and taken ample of money from my son by threatening. This is love marriage. That girls mother has done mal ghalane programem which was attended by his mother only. On 23rd Jan’09 after missing we have done registered marriage. I have talked with father of this girl to come to dicuss this with me in Pune but in turn he told me to came at Karad and he will present the girl for discussio.

    What can be done in this case to protect my family
    ?

  13. 17 amit taretiya February 18, 2009 at 5:20 pm

    Dear All,

    i’m Married my wife in ARYA Samaj MAndir & Then come to arrange marriage now she was filling a false 498 fir against me please help on the same.

  14. 18 Amit Shah April 19, 2009 at 6:29 pm

    i stay at palghar.it is 2.30 hr distance from bombay.i stay at palghar since birth.i got married in 2004. at that time i used to work at bangkok and have shifted to india 2 years back.since than my in-laws have mind washed my wife mind and have kept her at their house.they are continously harrasing me and demanding flat and office at mumbai from me. i am not financially sound and i am not in a position to buy.but they do not understand at all. even mediators r tired.we have even send notices but no results.they are demanding huge sums of money and are giving treats to put false case on us.we still want my wife and my child to join me.please help.

  15. 19 Fighter May 7, 2009 at 7:00 pm

    *** FAZAL ALAM***

    BEWARE OF FAZAL ALAM and his father MAHMOOD ALAM as they look for NRIs software professionals to get their daughters/sisters married and then abuse IPC 498A (dowry harassement act) to blackmail for $$$ extortion, if the groom refuses to pay huge $$$ amounts they get INTERPOL Red Corner Notice issued agianst him.

    BEWARE of this family who resides at:
    4-1-356/A, second floor, besides jaya international hotel, abids, hyd AP
    FATHER NAME: MAHMOOD ALAM
    MOTHER NAME: MAHJABEEN SULTANA
    DAUGHTERS: ASMAN MAHMOOD/MASARATH MAHMOOD (suffering with mental disorders)
    SONS: FAZAL ALAM/MUSTAFA KAMAL ALAM

  16. 20 anonymous July 14, 2009 at 11:07 am

    Dear Sir,

    I am anonymous 38 yrs old living in bangalore from birth

    Father passed away 14 yrs ago My mother house wife lives with me and i have one elder sister married and settled with a kid

    One of the marriage broker met my mother in 2005 and we met a family in mandya In the beginning they told that there are from a good family and so on got engaged in 2005 and she was working as a clerk in High court rannebednur, They told that she will get transferred before marriage

    I got married on Aug 28 2006 in bangalore and my wife on the next day went to work saying that she has come for training and could not get leave during that training period

    Stayed for 20 days and then left to rannebennur stating that she will get leave and come back with 3-4 days then i used to call her daily but she told that leave is not granted
    I asked her to leave the job and come over to bangalore with the below options
    1> She was gettigng 7.5K package – i will give 10K be at home
    2> Else if interested i will get you a better job in bangalore
    3> Else if interested i will get a job in my comopany itself

    Then she asked me to come to rannebennur to get her staff party as she has not invited nor informed about her marriage

    I did not go as i work in a pvt firm and i had been granted 15days for marriage and then i did not go.

    After exactly 45 days after marriage she sends me a message saying that she has some problem in stomach because of me.

    I called her and asked what was the problem she said that she is asked by doctor to come after 3 days for confirmation weather pregnant or not

    I called her continuously for the next 2 days and asked to come over to bangalore in an ambulance and i will take the expenditure but she refused And on the third day she did not lift the mobile
    Next day she told that she had abortion and was lying in coma for 2 days with blood pool – reason she said is the child has turned and it would have blasted her uterus and stomach

    Next after 20 days she said that she is going to mandya and not comming to home Why i asked she said that when she was in danger no one tool care and so she will stay with parents

    I didnt mind then she messaged me that she is comming to home to tell the truth
    When she came home she shows a nurse book in which she said that she would have got a blast inside

    Then she stayed for 3 days – I insisted not to cry at home as i dont like crying and asked the reason for which she told that it reduces her mental stress and gave some medical term reasons

    Then on the fourth day she was crying till night 11 talking on her mobile
    I asked her to call her father and mother home ( this happened on 25 Jan 2007)

    On jan 26 early morning the marriage broker with his wife comes to my home and starts using vulger words against me and my family in road
    Her father relatives friends all around 40-50 persons came from mandya and started discussing – Then her father says that my mother has asked dowry

    She told that i am giving mentally torchering her insisting her to leave the job

    For the next 40 days she stayed in my home no talking with anyone

    She left home on 19 March 2007 and never returned

    Next continuously her father her brother used to get some one or the other and
    forced me to leave house and to live saperately with my wife and her parents which i refuced

    her brother told that he will send persons to kill our family if i donot obey his words for which also i refuced

    Now after 28 months she has filed a case of dowry and harassment againt me my mother my sister and brother in law

    What shall i do i dont know Please help me out in getting these thing resolved
    Waiting for u r early reply

  17. 21 nareshjain November 14, 2009 at 5:34 am

    please help me and tips for false dowry 498a

  18. 22 DGS January 24, 2010 at 11:54 am

    The misuse of 498a law by a woman.
    Shyamashree Debnath D/O of A. Debnath living in Tripura Agartala filed a false 498A case against her husband and in laws in the year 2008 when her husband denied to accept her demand. Shyamashree debnath after marriage started fighting with her husband to separate him from his parents and she wanted that her husband can not give any money to his aged parents.She also demanded that her husband can not keep any relation with his parents. Shyamashree wanted all the money of her husband shall be transferred to her name only. When she failed to separate her husband from his parents She filed a false 498a case against her husband and parents in laws with the police saying that they are physically torturing her for one lakh rupees which is completely false.

    But the truth is that The Husband was working with a big multinational company outside of Tripura that time and getting a monthly salary of Rs 75,000 per month and yearly package of Rs 9,00,000 P.A. because of this false case the husband had to be in jail for 6 days as 498A case is not bail able. After 6 days when the court came to know that the husband is employee of big multinational company whose monthly salary is about one lakh they released him on bail.

    The mother of Shyamashree debnath used to guide her daughter to create mental pressure and ask her husband to separate himself from his family over the phone when she was with husband ou of tripura

    Shyamashree filed this 498A false case against her husband with help of her maternal uncle who is advocate in Tripura also her mother’s sister who is holding a responsible post in Tripura government.

    Her mother and father and her two married sisters and their husbands also involved in this conspiracy. Her relatives threatend the husband and her family members that if the husband does not leave his family and stay with his wife only they have power and links with Tripura police and administration. they can do anything.

    Now the most important thing is that after the Husband came out of jail he filed a divorce case against his wife Shyamashree with all the details of her cruelty and her relatives conspiracy and power. Husband has provided all the details to the court along with sufficient evidence and witness of her cruelty. This case continued for one and half year She was asked by the court to bring evidence and she was not able to bring a single evidence in the family court. She started drama saying that she wants to stay with her husband and she loves her husband. The husband denied to stay with her and he made it clear that he will never stay with this wife during the court hearings.
    Now the husband brought all the evidence and witness to the court prove that he is innocence.
    Then the wife shyamashree started crying that she wants money and want to go and will withdraw all the charges against her husband.
    Finally the husband got the divorce in June 2009. It is very clear and obvious that filing 498 case against husband now has become business to get one time money.
    The pain and mental stress the Husband and his parents had to go through is un explainable and loss of reputation in the eye of the society.

  19. 23 simon January 29, 2010 at 10:44 pm

    Today’s husbands ..they cannot accept working wives n wht they want is tht their wives should always tend to them ..when this doesnt happen as per their expectations they took it to their ego n then started mentally harrasing their wives…nt guys..you ppl r jus insecure..wht u deserve is jus go n marry illiterate village girls..might b thye will b able to keep u happy..jus do it n then u will get to know whom did u loose..girls jus want husband’s love after marriage..they obviously will feel alone when they dont get support of their husband..todays educated girls want to juggle between their profession as well as personal family life..jus understand them n dont expect from starting they will tend to you as they also hv career ..if you ppl want a non working woman marry them ..y do u want to pressurise them to leave work after marriage…if inlaws r supportive n loving they willl never ask to leave them

    • 24 kavita June 15, 2010 at 1:57 pm

      wonderful
      atleast someone from the opposition partyy is there who understand the real problem who r really fighting for the justice….

    • 25 vinayaka October 28, 2010 at 8:23 pm

      look before marriage we put our needs in front of the girl or her parents who we r going to marry, we boys make ourself clear, so that in future we need no hassles.

      at thet time they agree to all our needs, i.e before marriage.

      but after marriage if there is no understanding then they start to argue & file false 498a cases.

      girls should try to be more matured in mind to accept the real facts & to adjust as per the husbands wishes,

    • 26 S December 10, 2012 at 8:52 am

      if girls like you have such a mind set then why marry in first place ? just be single get a baby adopted and live life without worry :).. and be working and concentrate on so called “career” :) instead why file a false DV and 498a and extort money and beg like a dog from husbands… 498 is like a hunger for husbands shit (money) and to feed that shit (money) to wifes parents !!1

    • 27 M February 7, 2013 at 9:20 pm

      ARE YOU SAYING ARRESTING WITHOUT ANY PROOF IS JUST BY ANY MEANS????????? ARE YOU NUTS??????
      Women’s are misusing it… Imagine your brother wife lodge a false complaint and your entire family is in jail… What would you do enjoy a picnic in jail with your family????
      Several Americans get married in india in last 5 years though the ratio is less most of them are victim of Sec 498a
      IN USA govt prepared a report and warned citizen about how the citizen of USA are been fooled or become victim of sec 498 they warned their citizen not marry indian girls they also presented the report to out govt..

      OUR FUCKING GOVT DISAPPROVED IT SAYING IT IS FOR SAFETY OF WOMEN…

      DO WE WANT GENDER BASED COUNTRY OR COUNTRY WITH Equality

      Also sec 498 violates Human rights that a person cannot be arrested unless you have some proof and he can be prisioned only when the crime is proven which is not in case of Sec 498

    • 28 dheeraj June 2, 2013 at 4:16 am

      I do not know what is relation of working or non working wife to issue of false dowry cases ? Simon ?? If you work then also it is fine, do not work then also it is fine. But what it has to do with false case ? Mental harassment is with Husband. My wife does not work. I have spent 12 years of my life when I am told that I am begger, poor man. Do u know what I earn – 24 L per anum. But still she needs more and every day there is fight. She will say other guy has bought third house, they have Honda accord, you only have Esteem. Mine is nuclear family No in-law excuse is there. I eat food by servants. She spent time on 12 hours on TV and computers and iPAD games. Still not happy. Not sure what wives want. Is poverty a crime ? Even though I am not poor. But she hates poverty. I always say that having less or more money is not a crime. Why do u always tell me that I only earn this much. I do not have Mansion , I do not have 2 cars / etc etc ?/ But her mindset is so dirty, that I am ashamed some times. I always pray to GOD about forgiveness on how much she hates poverty. If i say earn, then also she will be unhappy, if i say do not work then also she will be unhappy.

    • 29 Amit June 24, 2013 at 6:22 pm

      What you mean is village poor girl must suffer .
      What I would insist is marry she male .

    • 30 Nikhil June 22, 2014 at 4:37 pm

      do you mean all the above on whom false 498a has been filed are egoistic, according to statistics 98% cases of 498a are false, are those husbands egoistic, because of dowry cases women dying are not more than 10,000 & because of false dowry cases men committing suicide are more than 55,000 to 60,000, don’t they need any law for them?
      & that doesn’t include parents of husbands who die because of shock,
      even in period of 498a wife can commit adultery & can marry other guy but men cant & such cases run for the long period of time,
      no women are talking about this openly, but they want men to take their side
      is this the justice?
      for your knowledge In India if woman commit adultery she is not publishable by law but men are,
      because according to Women’s Organisation all women are innocent & the men who are always the seducers & hence they are punishable by law,
      Is this the equality? who fight for men’s justice? only women in this country need justice?
      Now women are supporting new law “IRBM” do you know what that will do the Husbands & their family along with the false 498a,
      just think of it.

  20. 31 Sunil February 6, 2010 at 2:34 pm

    Simon,
    What you say is bullshit. I did marry an educated girl and she was working before marriage. I also asked her before marriage if she was willing to leave her job and be a good housewife and I’ll take care of earning thru my profession. She said “yes” to everything and then we decided to marry. I also made it very clear that we’ll be staying together with my parents, not separate. There was nothing that I did not disuss with her and in fact I asked her to express herself & tell me her requirements before I started with mine. She had none and said she promises to be a very good “sanskari” wife & “bahu”.
    On the third day after marriage she asked me if we can apply for Australian visa as her sister stays there and we both could go there easily !!! Depression drama started and threats to commit suicide and all attempts to force me to get separated from my family. Excuse me !!!! Women have brains in their skull or elsewhere?
    Now why don’t females be honest with honest men and be clear before marriage??? Just say what u want before marriage… don’t torture the man & his family later… This 498A is a good nuclear weapon given to women to screw the happiness of yr own hushands and their families !!! One thing is good that if the victim/s of false 498A are strong and fight, the husband gets divorce for sure and the wife’s life becomes miserable post false 498A. Just this part is a blessing.
    I know nothing much can be done about misuse of 498A by women at present but remember every bitch has a day just like every dog has one.

    • 32 RAHUL October 26, 2010 at 12:03 pm

      Well said bro… i am in complete aggrement with what you have
      written about these TERRORIST 498A wives

      • 33 Pbs November 11, 2012 at 1:13 pm

        Yes ,I fully agree with you.Before marriage the girl simple nods her headshave for everything .And querréis for everything after marriage just to coger up her drawbacks,to have her own nuclear family and expecting the husband to meet all her financian needs and total surrender.According to a sanskrit proverb a woman has eight times moré desirves than a man.I think the high profile women prove This amply.

    • 34 Raja May 27, 2014 at 9:14 pm

      Yes sir, u r right. There is a proverb in hindi by Kavi Kalidas “Dhol, shoodhra, Pashu (animal), or Nari (female) ye sab Taadan ke adhikari.” In sab ko jitna keech ke rakhoge, utana hi accha kaam dege.

  21. 35 Adi April 27, 2010 at 8:20 am

    Very true Sunil…. Presently i am going through the same consequenses…..

  22. 36 Nayan Shah May 25, 2010 at 1:27 am

    I can’t wait until I see sever punishment for woman and her family filing such false cases. I am fighting such case myself and I am very determined to get all conspirators severely punished and action taken against agencies (police, Social welfare and court). I have made it a mission for my life now.

    Government MUST take steps to punish Police and court officials (Judges) helping such fraud woman against all odds and killing lives of other side, whole family.

    Government must come out with a system that such cases do not remain in court for more than a week. And no one should be kept in jail unless there are visible evidence of any wrong doing. Can’t reply simply on the statements from woman and her family.

    • 37 sandu June 24, 2013 at 6:30 pm

      god give you strength . Let all put effort on this to end 498a misuse, by not voting in next elections .
      Our country does not care us . Better we are born Muslim in next birth .
      Our country will end with lot of single male and female divorced .

      Because example : Adultery can be settled and there may be chances of forgiveness but not a little hope after 498a , because husbands revenge are always after his silence .

    • 38 Sonu July 7, 2013 at 8:27 pm

      Hi Nayan,

      My wife filed a false 498A case against me, my parents, my sister and brother in law. I was in Jail for 3 days. After having several rounds of discussions in these 3 days my wife withdrawn the case and given a written statement by saying “I was angry when I filed 498A, and the points mentioned in FIR are not correct”.

      Some how I managed to get the xerox copy of my wife’s written statement. By using this can I file a case against her? Please advice me brother.

    • 39 Tom December 23, 2013 at 8:14 pm

      Can I have your contact details to narrate some similar incidents known to me.

  23. 40 kavita June 16, 2010 at 6:42 pm

    hi…..
    i know lot about this 498A cases and domestic violence case to but i want to know that if anyone filing a 498A cases then if domestic violence case was filed before that and if you got the order to stay at inlaws house but the order was stayed daccording to high court proceding know my question is know after $(*A are you still allowed to stay at your inlaws house….husband family are forcing to go for settlement and get divorce please suggest what has to be done need help thanx

    • 41 SGUPTA December 8, 2012 at 1:41 pm

      Don’t worry Bitch come and stay at my place I will screw you regulary.

    • 42 dheeraj June 2, 2013 at 4:25 am

      It depends on WHat u want from life. If you want divorce, you can get it. If you want fair money, you can do that. I am not aware of your Intention to file DV and 498 A so i can not tell you. Trust me, your re-marriage will be very difficult and probably will not happen. You will have to settle with some Dodhwal chaiwala, driver etc illegally. Also i can tell you that, since i have seen it many times, that after money, all your maternal side relatives including parents and brother will kick you out. So it is you who need to decide what you want to do. ALso be sure that there is similar women like you is there in your home also who is wife of your brothers, They will not let you be in to their house and apply the same DV and 498A for you also.
      You have chosen a path for what ever intentions, that u have had or in anger moments or by your brothers and parents, please be clear, your life is at risk, not any of your parents and brothers. They have lives a great life happily.

  24. 43 K. Datta October 21, 2010 at 6:08 pm

    I sincerely believe that false 498 Cases will be punished. I want all victims of 498 cases to unite and send message to the the Govt. that no arrests can be made just at the mere complaint of wife. Without proper investigation no arrests be allowed.

    Shame on Indian Law to give chances to unsrupulous women to take advantage of this law.

    Lets unite to fight against this menace.

    • 44 Pbs November 11, 2012 at 1:43 pm

      There aré enough laws and instructions not to arrest innocent husband also.Even Now if you bribe the local police ,They dont registre any false police case.If you dont know how to bribe All of you Will be arrested on Friday morning.This is the whole secret.That is why Even Now the well to do people escape the criminal cases without any problem.If you keep Rs one to to lakhs with you ,you can easily track le the situation.Money does everything in India.

  25. 45 RAHUL October 26, 2010 at 12:08 pm

    Sure anytime.. i am ready to unite and march with you guys to fight against these 498a Vamps creating unrest in the society.

  26. 46 vinayaka October 28, 2010 at 11:12 pm

    if ur a victim of any false 498a then u have to teach those F*****G BASTARDS a good lesson.

    if ur sure that u can prove ur innocence then punish them for their mistakes.

    take the law in ur own hands & SCREW them.

    now a days the PUBLIC SERVANTS think they can rule over us.

    they think that no one can stop them. FIND OUT WAYS & MEANS to pay them for their dirty work.

    rest u know what to do.

    at least in other cases they will think ten times before arresting thi innocent.

  27. 47 krishankmittal October 29, 2010 at 3:09 pm

    )Pl put full name and addresses of all females who have lodged false FIRs u /s 498a,306,and34 on the website. 498a foundation should put this information on their website for information of the public and for cross checking in case of remarriage

    • 48 Sanjay February 10, 2013 at 12:27 pm

      Very very true,i am a victim of 498A,406 of CRPC,being falsely implicated in the same,would request you to let me know where i can put the name of my wife and her rotten family so that no other innocent boy/family falls into their TRAP ever again.This so called 498A is LEGAL TERRIOSM,rightly DECLARED by THE SUPREME COURT OF INDIA.

      • 49 dheeraj June 2, 2013 at 4:27 am

        I think we should put a website for the 498a wives and families. So that boys can search for the same and take decision on if they want to marry those families or not.

  28. 50 vvvv November 23, 2010 at 3:13 pm

    strange are the ways of KARMA.

    truth always wins,

    in my case the PI of town police station got screwed up in his own station.

    HE WAS SLAPPED BY SLIPPER FOR HARRASSMENT IN HIS OWN DEPARTMENMT, BY A LADY CONSTABLE.

    IMMEDIATELY THEY TRANSFERRED HIM TO DISTRICT POLICE STATION.

    LOOK WHAT A MESS HE HAS TURNED HIMSELF INTO. THE WHOLE WORLD NOW KNOWS HIM. IT EVEN CAME IN LOCAL PAPERS & LOCAL TV NEWS.

    HE HAS ARRESTED ME & HARRESED ME FOR FALSE 498A CASE.

    for making false 498a case he has taken BRIBE in case & also in KIND.

    HOW WILL HE FACE HIS WIFE & DAUGHTER FOR BEING SLAPPED IN SLIPPER FROM A LADY IN HIS OWN DEPARTMENT FOR WHICH HE WAS THE BOSS.

    SUCH A SHAME.

    HE HAS NO SHAME IN HIM.

  29. 53 Notanymore November 25, 2010 at 6:41 am

    Men pay 90% of the taxes in this country. They are the ones who take up jobs with highest levels of risk, yet, they are the lot which are looked upon mostly as humans with no heart and tears. There should be a BAN day for men. All men in this country must ban working for one day in an year to protest the indifferent attitude of the system towards them. Let the government compute the losses. It will be much more than the per day revenue.
    We must all come together to fight this legal terrorism. I just have one question for all the policy makers of this country.

    Do men get some kind of satisfaction when they torture women?
    Do men’s parents always teach them to harass wives?
    Are men so unempathetic in life?

    • 54 Nikhil June 22, 2014 at 5:41 pm

      exactly bro, This situation will not change until men in India unite,
      to be honest I am scared of word “Marriage” now!!!!
      most of my friends & me are thinking that we have only following options
      01 Stay single
      02 Convert to Islam or Christianity
      03 Leave this damned country,
      because of such biased laws lakhs of Hindus have converted to other religion,
      married men are staying away from parents & relative to save them from this harassment, this law is already destroying the joint family system
      & surprisingly women are supporting it,

      women are becoming legally prostitute in this country because law regarding to Adultery & if IRBM law is passed it will be A legal certificate of prostitution for married women & get the 50% share of husband’s property & his ancestral property,

  30. 55 VINAYAKA December 16, 2010 at 1:54 pm

    whatever the laws are they to protect women, if misused it is mainly the females who will SUFFER a lot in the future.
    laws are made today, their results will be visualized only after 10 years.
    only in the future people realise what blunder they have committed.
    now a days women do not try to adjust to the husbands family.
    in fact they in their MAATERNAL house have seen their FATHERS HARRASSING & ABUSING THEIR MOTHERS, SO IN THEIR HUSBANDS HOUSE THEY TAKE REVENGE ON MALES i.e on their husbands.
    so the wives proper knowledge on how to survive in this world, the mother does not teach her daughters.
    the result of large scale DIVORCES in INDIA, their results will be known only after 10 years.
    men may live anyhow in this world after getting DIVORCE, but what about FEMALES.
    how will they survive.
    parents may live 5 to max 10 years, but the DIVORCED daughter will have to lead a single life throughout her rermaining 60 years of life.
    or else the society will feast on her & make her a WHO*E or BIT*H.
    So parents before going legally think a hundred times. do not file false compliants. there will be no way to compromise.
    The wives who file false complaints, the police will try to help you by harassing the husbands & they will even resort to 3 rd degree abusement or harming the husbands family.
    The POLICE wants every compassion to show how much powerful he is in this world, just like a swyamvara where every male will try to suppress each other & show their strength.
    But dear wives if you do this kind of things there will be no future for you for RECONCILIATION.
    So don’t ever go to a policeman, he will clear cut dissolve your MARRIAGE. He will think your husband as a criminal & will also treat him & his family as such.
    The HUSBAND may try to take revenge upon you. & he will do it.
    It will be known in the future & time only will tell.
    So if you want your future to be bright & good with your HUSBAND please don’t file false cases & don’t go LEGALLY. Don’t involve a 3rd person in your relation.

    All men are born good, it is in your hands to keep it that way. If you fail to keep it you will be the worst sufferer, not your parents or instigators.

    Remember my words,
    ALL LAWS ARE MEANT TO PROTECT THE GOOD,
    ( NOT MEANT TO PROTECT A FALSE WOMEN.)
    So if men are good then laws will protect them, & false bad women will go to hell.

    This is the doctrine of KARMA.
    EVIL BEGETS EVIL

  31. 56 VINAYAKA February 26, 2011 at 7:11 pm

    TOWN POLICE STATION, GANGAVATHI, KOPPAL DISTRICT, KARNATAKA, INDIA.

    CLEAR CUT EXAMPLE OF MISUSE OF IPC 498A. THE CIVIL SERVANT BEFORE ARRESTING KNOWS THAT IT IS NOT A CASE TO ARREST AT ALL, BUT SINCE THE GIRLS UNCLE IS A ADVOCATE, HE HAS TAKEN CASH OF Rs. 30,000 TO ARREST ME & MY FAMILY.

    THIS IS FOR YOUR INFORMATION. FIR WAS LODGED ON 23/06/2010 & STILL NO CHARGE SHEET IS FILED.????

    THE HUSBAND & WIFE ARE LIVING SEPERATELY FROM 29/01/2010.

    THE WIFE HAS RAN AWAY FROM HER HUSBANDS HOUSE BECAUSE SHE IS TOO CLOSE WITH HER UNCLE.

    IT’S THE INTRUSION OF HER PARENTS & HER CLOSE UNCLE ON DAY TO DAY ACTIVITIES THAT HAS GIVEN RISE TO SUCH A BITTER FAMILY, & HAS BROKEN MY FAMILY.
    GIRLS FATHER IS A RETIRED HEADMASTER WHO HAS SUPPORTED HIS DAUGHTER IN FILING A FALSE CASE.

    HE HIMSELF HAS DEPRIVED OF FROM HIS PROFESSION & IS SPREADING FALSE & TELLING LIES TO THE SOCIETY. WHAT WILL THE STUDENTS THINK OF SUCH HEADMASTERS WHO SUPPORT FALSE CASES.

    SHAME ON THE CIVIL SERVANTS WITHOUT PROPER INVESTIGATION ARRESTED ME & MY FAMILY.

    • 57 yahoo.com January 21, 2013 at 4:56 am

      AND LO FINALLY THE RETIRED HEADMASTER HAS MADE BUSINESS WITH HIS DAUGHTER & ACTED AS A PIMP.
      HE HAS NOW PRESENTLY MADE HIS DAUGHTER AS A WHORE OF GANGAUATHI.

    • 58 esrtwse June 1, 2013 at 10:43 am

      the false 498a bitch was also having physical relation with many of her past boyfriends even after marriage, & even with her uncle, that’s why she ran away.

  32. 59 Pradeep July 29, 2011 at 9:48 pm

    Yes. all the Women’s are spoiling their lives with their own innocent and low thinking brain …… Definitely after all these false cases our Indian government will give some options in 498a so no one will suffer by false case..

    But now women in India are not deserve to be respect from Men.. so just support violence on women and do tit for tat no god will do good after men loose the life and family got suffered by false case.

    Just use Men’s great weapon Strength and kid girls ass.

  33. 60 Dubai498a December 13, 2011 at 8:02 am

    I’m also a victim of false 498a currently working in Dubai, UAE. I would suggest infinite patience to the guys and just don’t bother. Don’t spend any money on police / lawyers let them do what they have to. Don’t be afraid and never compromise. First priority should be bail after that they will not be able to do anything. Long harassment and mental torture u & ur family will have to go through but it pays in the end.

  34. 62 sameer December 18, 2011 at 12:44 am

    What if wife files a false case when husband is abroad on PR?????????

  35. 63 ganesh January 10, 2012 at 10:53 am

    VERY TRUE SAID, MY WIFE FILED 498A 10 YEARS BACK, DIDN’T COMPROMISE ON NORMAL MONEY, WANTED LOTS AND LOTS OF MONEY, SHE BECAME A PROSTITUTE TYPE, EVEN COUSINS AND RELATIVES STARTED USING HER, SHE DRANK EVERYONE’S SEMEN, NOW ALL HAVE LEFT HER, NOW AT 40 SHE IS ALONE, FATHER HAS EXPIRED, MOTHER FIGHTS WITH HER EVERYDAY, SHE TEACHES PRIMARY CLASSES GET 5,000 RS.,SHE IS A WALKING TALKING JOKE IN SOCIETY AS PEOPLE KNOW WHOSOEVER IS TALKING TO HER IS FUCKING HER, SHE RUINED MY LIFE AND HER LIFE INSTEAD IF SHE WOULD HAVE TAKEN A MUTUAL DIVORCE, SHE WOULD HAVE GOT MARRIED AGAIN, ALL RELATIVES JUST FOOLED HER, SHE COULDN’T THINK WHAT SHE IS DOING THEN, NOW SHE CAN REPENT AT LEISURE, MEANWHILE AS DIVORCE CASE DRAGGED ON, I COULDN’T REMARRY BUT GOT A EVEN MINDED WOMAN WHO LIVES WITH ME, HAVE 2 CHILDREN, THE DAY I GET DIVORCE I WILL MARRY HER, SHE IS AN ANGEL TO ME.HOW I WISH MY FOOLISH EX WIFE HAD SOME SENSE, JUST A LITTLE COMMON SENSE.WHAT A FOOL SHE WAS.

    • 64 Priya May 30, 2013 at 9:27 am

      you are such a fool to consider ur keep as angel.. she is not ur wife and will never be. Whatever u r saying about wife , u r actually doing that. U have 2 kids with a woman who isnt ur wife. so who is wrong here. what an idiot…

      • 65 Yash June 7, 2013 at 12:11 pm

        if wife leaves husband what else could he do ?? his wife ran away looking for some other attraction … ganesh hass done best thing … True Indian Girl Never Leaves Husband… if she leaves she is a bitch nothing more… and the one who ganesh says keep is not a keep she is real angel to him because she understands the real value of a relationship.. she atleast didnt backstabbed him … and miss Priya .. i think you are one of such lady who have files false cases and getting royally fu**ed form your moms’ younger brother / your ex boyfriend!! and you are venting your anger in this site .. BACK OFF

    • 66 Saurabh Kumar Singh October 12, 2014 at 8:14 pm

      Really good to hear that everything turned out well for you at the end. Your story will give courage to other victims of 498a misuse

  36. 67 JHUMAIR January 16, 2012 at 8:32 pm

    498a women is a prostitute

  37. 68 khan mohd nomaan May 22, 2012 at 12:45 pm

    it is clear from D.P.Act 1961 till now ,according to its section 2b this act do not apply to muslim ,dower or the person to whom muslim personal law applies.then why this section is not in use by advocates or police or judges ,why are they neglecting it. It can save life of many innocents. it will also reduce the misuse of D.P.Act by muslim women because they have enough rights in muslim law. in muslim dowry is given by groom to bride.as much as she want which is known as maher (dowry).

  38. 69 sameer sharma June 5, 2012 at 8:20 pm

    Dear All,

    PLease help me as i got married 11 months ago and my wife fighted with me after 3.5 months when we came from vacations and went to mom house.She was 3 months pregnant at that time.She told her mom about fight and her mom aborted my child without my permission with some local source.
    My wife called me after 15 days and came back to me and when i get to know this i was very upset but was worried abt her health and took her to gyny doctor so that she shd be alright.

    After 1 month her dad called me and i take him as a good person ,he insisted me to come to his city and let her daughter to do a job there.
    i done everything acc. to them and left my city and work and went to that govt. house for our happiness.

    after 2 months when i came to my meet my parents ,her mom called and abused me and her and i decided not to go back .We lived here very well and i have good salary in both cities.

    now 1 days when i was in office my wife went again to her mom place on taxi and given the reason that your mom don’t allow me to make food and i need to leave in this city.I again went to that home.I invested 5 lakh on everything .

    Now after 1 month she again went to her mom and saying you fight with me and say this and that her parents always give me that we want that you should do sepration but we have to wait for your (boy side uncle who has to come from abroad)

    Few days ago my wife was talking to me on chat and suddenly her dad has seen this and he called all my relatives that if he mails her or call us we go to court and women cell and now he has started practicing a law in high court.

    he was a pcs officer earlier and got retired 2 months back.Please tell what should i do.

    I know my wife is doing kiddish things my going to her parents and her mom is monster who is ruining my life and her but now they are pressuring her for filling dowry case and this is what her dad told my relative if he called then we do this.

    I am very worried about this.I have roof that she was pregnant and they aborted the child as when she came back to me after abortion she wrote ona paper that they have doen this to em and this is done with help of mom and nurse and she will never visit their house.

    besides this his dad has arranged a job for her by his means as he was officer in that department.His dad always give me this that his brother and all relatives are in civil services so don’t try to call us.

    I know he is a corrupted officer as he given many contacts to his friends and job of her daughter but we are normal people and we don’t want any problems so please advise what shd i do here.

    right now they are taking no step but don’t know if her mom do anything as she is crazy and cruel.

  39. 70 sanjeev bansal June 17, 2012 at 11:38 am

    I am sanjeev Gupta son of Sh.Subhash chand resident of Ward No.3 House No. 70 Guru Nanak Colony Pehowa, Tehsil Pehowa, dISTT. Kurukshetra (Haryana) 136128. That I am 33 years old. I am married with Anju D/o Suresh Pal resident of Baddi, Distt. Solan (HP) on 28-05-2006. The marriage was very simple and I and my parents never demanded any dowry from the parents of my wife. That the behaiour of my wife Anju was never good with me and my wife, she always quarrel with me and my parents on every points. The parents of my wife always interfere in our family. My wife always threatened me and my parents that she will file a criminal complaint u/s 498a against them. A female baby was born out of this wed lock on 25-04-2007. That in December 2007 she filed an application regarding demand of dowry against me and my parents in Police Station Baddi and on the basis of the same an FIR was lodged under section 498A IPC against me and my parents and the same was trialed in the court of JMIC Nalagarh (HP). My wife left my child with me in the age of appx. 6 months. I and my parents lookafter my baby. So many Panchayats was convened, but no any solutions was found regarding the dispute. I was lived seprate three times with my wife in a rented premises, but due to the interference of my in laws family our married life was spoiled. During the pendency of this case I was also filed a case of Divorce in the session court Kurukshetra. During the pendency of Divorce court the hon’ble judge tried to save our married life and advised us to live together as a married couple on trial basis for a period of two months, then I agreed with the Hon’ble court and decided to live together and during this period I was lived with my wife in a rented premises. During this period my wife become pregnent, but the behaviour of my wife was not changed and during this period the interference of her parents was also as it is. Many times she tried to suicide herself. So after the completion of two months trial period I stated the Hon’ble court that we can’t live together, so you decided our divorce case on merits. But my wife filed an complaint against me under section 376, 498A, 323, 506, 34 IPC against me and my parents, in the office of S.P. Kurukshetra and on the basis of the same the case under section 376, 498A, 323, 506, 34 IPC. On the other hand her previous case of section 498A IPC was also pending, therefore two cases of same offence i.e. 498A IPC was regd. against me and my parents, which is not justice with me and my parents. The Hon’ble Judge of JMIC Nalagarh acquitted us in the case of 498A IPC and decided the decision against my wife and in our favour. In the case of 376, 498A, 323, 506, 34 IPC my parents were released on Anti cipatory bail by the order of Hon’ble Punjab & Haryana High Court Chandigarh, while I spent 15 days in imprisonment and then I was released on bail by the order of Hon’ble Session Judge Kurukshetra. When the trial of the same case was start in Session Judge Kurukshetra, then the concerned session judge discharge the charge of section 376 IPC against me and refer my case of section 498A, 323, 506, 34 IPC to the lower court at SDJM Pehowa. The case is pending since 2009, but till now no charge of the same section is framed against me and my parents. How it is possible that same section i.e. 498A filed against the same persons in two times. It is very injustice with me and my family. On the other hand my wife also filed the appeal of her case in High Court Shimla, which was decided by the court of JMIC Nalagarh. I am also paying her expenses of 125 Cr. PC from time to time. I and my parents are in deep problem. Now suggest me what I do. My female child is living with me and male child is living with my wife. I and my family never see our male child till now. SO now suggest me and contact me sure.

  40. 71 sanjeev bansal June 17, 2012 at 11:40 am

    I want to say that please close/cancel the section 498a IPC, then no false case will be registered ever/

  41. 72 nilesh October 27, 2012 at 8:55 am

    I just want to say that the justice should be equal to all. if 498a case is found false then the women should be punished severely as the men do.

  42. 73 Priyanka December 4, 2012 at 6:22 pm

    Hi,
    What about the real case. if wife is a real victim. You people are giving ideas to those who do the crime ask dowry and beat the girl and take these kind of suggestions from this kind of forum to protect themselves.

    • 74 M February 7, 2013 at 9:12 pm

      Those who ask dowry should be punished but a investigation should be done before arresting. Keep in mind you are risking some one career and putting him to lot of mental pressure. If you are victim of dowry gather some proof and if you are victim of domestic violence secretly gather proof we DO NOT WANT GIRL TO SUFFER DOWRY INJUSTICE. BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU CAN TORTURE HUSBANDS.

      My question to you is it fair to arrest some one without evidence….. DO YOU THINK A GIRL CAN NEVER LIE AND IS THE SYMBOL OF TRUTH??? Many girls are wasting guys life and there is strict punishment to those girls. At one thing you ask equality is that equality message you are giving or you want to make whole country a feminist…

      Also note that 498 is been used for extortion by girls specially against NRI… According to National Crime Records Bureau this 498 a has became racket for extortion by galz looting 0.75 Billion rupees from NRI’s

      DO YOU STILL THINK GALZ ARE USING sec 498 FOR JUST MEANS OR FOR EXTORTION

  43. 76 Sushant Agrawal December 5, 2012 at 12:39 pm

    Just have a look to the acting of a 498A woman in video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip9Jx87JDxI
    I am a victim of false 498A

  44. 79 Anil ragav M January 5, 2013 at 7:45 am

    I am victim of false 498A & 506 love marriage and she asked her parents to leave with me and filed a false case we never stayed under one roof for single day and girl got got completely mind washed by her parents

    • 80 shivinder pal sangrur February 3, 2013 at 3:39 pm

      first get anticipatory bail on the basis of FIR
      and read 498a susvival guide and get knowledge about 498a and collect evidences accordingly

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  46. 82 saurabh February 23, 2013 at 1:35 pm

    hi,
    I am also suffering the same, my wife filed IPC 498A & 406 against me amd my parents, my parents are diabatic and patients of BP. My father is retired from Hr Govt, Grade 2 officer and my mother is housewife. I blessed with a daughter in oct 12 but i dont know how she looks. I managed and provide each and everything to my wifeshe did not done any household work in last 15 months, she has no Father her mother is very ill and suffered from athrities, and have 1 brother who is gud for nothing, indulge in bad society and doing no work.
    She filed false complaint against me and harrasing my parents and other family members by false and fake allegations.
    I am badly missing my daughter and waiting for anticipitory bail. i am working in telecom sector and leading the state with very good package and affording luxury also.
    Everybody in the entire family is well settled and doing thier best.my wife is professionaly a teacher in prmary school . she misbehaved abd argued with all the family members very badly.( Maachod, bhenchod are very common words). I made the downpayment for her new car and become the guaranter for her even i have my own car. she ruined my life and spoiled our relations in front of family members, neighbourhood, relatives and friends. she also attacked on my professional career.
    i have a vast experience of more than 11 years and well settled .
    during FI from the bank, we come to know that there is a default of rs 6lac from her father who died. due to sources and relations , the case for the loan of car was done by some other bank.

    I wud like to know, that if teachers are the future of the nation, then what will be the nation in coming few years?
    why all the times everybody believe that woman are true?
    why men can not file a case of harrasment, domestic voilance and dowry?
    why the entire family members suffered due to false complaint of a lady?

    Please answr

  47. 83 suffering women March 28, 2013 at 11:32 am

    Can u tell me some ans of women question :1>why girl need to change their title after marriage ?2)why girl need to leave her beloved parental house?3) why there are so many difference between when son-in-law comes in their in-laws house and daughter-in-law comes to their in-laws house?

    • 84 Sanjay July 2, 2013 at 7:26 am

      he he i would say … why women like u should marry in first place !!! .. so no more worry of changing name after marriage !! … u can stay for ever at your parents palce !! no difference with inlaws!! … ppl like you are feminists… and control freaks … failing to control hubby will end up in false 498a!!! AM I RIGHT

    • 86 Nick October 16, 2013 at 1:24 pm

      Answer these question- 1. Why a man has to pay maintenance to a wife and not the other way? 2. Why a female can file dowry case and not man? 3. When a female wants sex it is called as LOVE and man wants sex it is called RAPE. Why?
      Stupid greedy women first read Hindu marriage Act and what is Hinduism. A female is a possession of a man and a man has to pay for her maintenance as she comes in his custody from her parents (kanyadan- sold by parents). First tell your Women commission to change this and then shout about equality. In public you do slut walks, wear micro mini skirt, show u r cleavage as a sign of equality. When it comes to law you suddenly become abla naris. Simply double standards…. If you want equality why claim maintenance? go out and work? Filing false case on boss and getting promotion, filing false case on husband and getting alimony is a quick way these sluts prefer.

    • 87 Raja November 12, 2013 at 7:13 pm

      ask your mother why did she came and changed her name..shouldn’t have changed

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  51. 91 Priya May 30, 2013 at 9:33 am

    Someone rightly said “Men are dogs”. Not only they ill treat women, they have the guts to write such things on public forums. You should all be hanged till death. You can have keeps, have children with them, but still you feel you are always right. Cheap Indian men. You dont deserve any women in your lives. You are all better off living with your mothers for your entire lives. Shameless creatures. Look at the odacity to write all bullsh**. A bunch of idiots.

    • 92 Jid June 1, 2013 at 5:25 am

      Look at all the hate inside of you. You are one of the disgusting women who should never have a man in their entire life. You deserve a life of neglect and penury living with your father, mother and brother’s wife. Serving the entire family. Cleaning their utensils and maintaining their children.

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      • 93 Priya June 3, 2013 at 8:13 am

        I have a happy and fabulous family. But I can totally see ur disgusting life in ur comments. Good luck .. lol

    • 94 Ganesh June 2, 2013 at 8:26 am

      if u think u r right then have face 2 face conversation with me. I want you to answer some of my question. If u have guts come fwd.

      • 95 Priya June 3, 2013 at 8:12 am

        Go get a life !! you will never get an appointment to meet me. You dont know who I am and what you need to be to see me face to face. So good luck LOSER !!!!

    • 96 sandu June 24, 2013 at 6:47 pm

      That means may be your husband is d0…. . . . . .g …………..

      You accept you are a biased feminist or may be some thing special .

      It is not a thing it is their personal problem .

      Respect mother hood and other mothers .

      god may give you a chance of a 498a mom , then open this page and start writing comments , in these men favor .

    • 97 Nick October 16, 2013 at 1:30 pm

      If you are happy, what are you doing here? Are U are planning to file a false 498a against u r husband? Greedy women u will be lonely all your life and even if u have kids may u r daughter in law file a case against you or your sister in law file a case against you. Its all karma…it will come back to you…slut

  52. 98 esrtwse June 1, 2013 at 10:44 am

    the false 498a bitch was also having physical relation with many of her past boyfriends even after marriage, & even with her uncle, that’s why she ran away.

  53. 99 Avni June 3, 2013 at 9:08 pm

    I am a 27 year old woman. I have a 498a and 406 case running in the court of law and with all you people saying that girls are misusing the dowry law, I wish my mother had killed me while I was in her womb.

    I was a student of MBA while I got married, working as a HR in a reputed IT Gaint. After marriage I left my MBA degree incomplete and gave up on my career as I was told that my in-laws and husband didn’t want a working wife. I scarified my education and career for the wellbeing of a family life. Eventually, my in-laws and my US return husband started torturing me so that I should ask my father (who is a retired army personal, retired in 2000) to repay the 16 lacs of loan taken by my husband for his education in the US. When I didn’t agree to this my in-laws and husband put my jewelry on mortgage without my permission and never gave those back to me. All the paper work are present in the Banks to prove that they had taken the jewelry loan. The gold jewelry costs 7 lacs. For a retired army personal belonging to the middle class its quite a huge amount. When I asked for the jewlry my hand was broken. I was not allowed to talk to my parents. I didn’t have a phone. My plaster was removed early than prescribed by doctor so that I could do the house hold stuff. My hand has thus ben deformed permanently.

    When you say that by putting a case of 498a, brides try to harass in-laws and husbands, let me tell you what happened to me. The officials who was supposed to do an investigation, SUPPORTED MY IN-LAWS completely. During the seizer day, my maternal uncle-in-law pulled me out of the house, pulled me by the broken hand, INFRONT OF THE POLICE, and no one came to help. Despite making a mention of all the jewlry in the FIR, the only things I was given in the name of stridhan were a couple of sarees and petticoats and blouse. Of course, the expensive sarees were not given (may be my mother-in-law is saving it for her next daughter-in-law. )

    My husband’s bail has been rejected and he should ideally be behind bars, but he is enjoying his wrok in a Noida based IT company. The police being aware of his whereabouts are not arresting him. His parents visit him often and are sightseeing around Delhi. And the IO calls my father and me at regular interval to know about the where about of my husband. Despite he having all the knowledge, he really didn’t do anything. Me and my family is being humiliated, harassed, and of course, my father’s honestly earned money has gone for a toss, including my education and career. All the proofs are there but there is no one willing to listen or assist. NOW TELL ME…whom should I cry out for help?

    • 100 sandu June 24, 2013 at 7:41 pm

      So sorry , let got give you strength and give a good married life . All husbands are not like that , see there are some victims like the above . I wish I could help you , I am inspired by my one of my uncle , he never took single thing from in laws , but his wife with double degree and double post graduate and some diplomas , harasses him , she just keeps on crying , then I have to make some joke or fun of me , and then make her qeen , and rest of the family like slaves , then she feels satisfied , I know she is good to our family , but some thing 10 min of enjoyment out side led uncle to not trust her , even though we excepted her . I think women just needs the rI ight family , arrange or love marriage is not enough . There are good men in north and south india , be strong think how to become financially strong .

      Think of these men also , and pray for their families who are also in your fathers position ,

      I am also 27 years , working in IT , just lost job , and in house I am not more then a servant , even my mother was and I am . Currently my father get pension . The big problem is me getting a job, I dont have a single habit .But see my fate we dont have a proper place to sleep . I bashed my fate with some other uncle and ants advice on some communal thing , I came to know one day that they have brain washed me against certain communities , till then I was 26 and was forced to job in small companies any poor places , it is all like busted busted iks . At least you have a MBA. and marry again or keep same hubby , see you do so many hopes .

      I always feel like helping people , but god has not given me any power I still believe in god because it is god who opened my eyes , i was like violent , angry , orthodox , some wired , hated love marriages , friend shp between man and woman etc, never could concentrate on carrier sports etc, never respected my friends ,classmates , and many more , i hate my past mentality . How could some of my own people turn me against some thing that destroyed my beautiful college days .

      Sorry I wrote so much . I just want to tell you I will pray to god to give you all victory .

      I was prepared for every thing one day . I now want to stand for innocent people either man or women . Because innocent will be innocent .

      My one uncle showed wrong way and another even his personal life is dancing helps me . My parents are utter innocent they listen either religions or any human innocent thing , thus my own people misused me .
      God protected me from doing any thing wrong , opened my eyes thus i started opening and reading social things etc , I also now think about me like i should be part of society. I see no hope but I am forced to change job and place , compared to this you being women you have more hope ,
      let god bless you sister .

      We hindus must try to leave in peace and non-violence and not hate other religions .

      I will pray specially to you to get a good husband , sister .

      Jai Hind .

    • 101 sandu June 25, 2013 at 9:14 am

      There are some horrifying torture stories of misuse of 498a , please go through it .

  54. 102 Pc July 1, 2013 at 7:10 am

    Men don’t value relationship ,their ego is much more important ..my husband is one of them ..jus 15 days of marriage ,wants my jewellery ..when I refuse does not allow me to enter his home ..lodges a false complaint twice that I hav abused him … I hav stayed there only fo 2 days just after marriage ..not being allowed to enter then ..this person is so adamant does nt realise what he is doing..worst his family is supporting him ..

    • 103 Sanjay July 2, 2013 at 7:41 am

      he would have not asked your jewelry … no a days men are not greedy but women want their husbands to earn money and feed her own parents… that’s reality … i agree that men have ego its a natural phenomenon… even if you marry another 10 husbands all will be having ego … if you really want husband go to him personally make him believe that you are there for him on his bad times too … why would ur husband file false complaint ( i think you have abused him ) … he was so fed up with you for just 2 days of marriage !!!! god plsss stay away from him ….

      you ppl never try to understand inlaws… stay at husbands place and give your suport to them… you will eventually gain respect and love…

      if ppl like you run away after 2 days of marriage then no girl will have decent married life…

      • 104 Pc July 2, 2013 at 2:26 pm

        I am financially independent n by gods grace certainly dont need a husband to fullfill any responsibilities towards my parents ..but husband seems to hav marrried me with a sole purpose of extracting money..My mother in law physically abused me ,drove me out when I went ..she is very insecure about he being marrried ..they very well know what they hav done ..so hav filed a false case ..husband doesn’t hav his opinion ..does not even listen to the councillors ..tried to talk with him but says ‘let family decide ..I really don’t understand what I am suppose to do at this stage

  55. 105 Afsha Anam July 9, 2013 at 11:30 am

    498 Wives:::Very Good(SOME)
    All the victims(498 husbands ) writes about wives that they are..bla bla…as if all the 498 cases are false.Why dont you understand that still there are some men who harass their wives even after marriage just by hearing age old parents ideas and dramatic crocodile tears.There are still some men who really are very dominating on wife but still acts as a goody husband to the outside world.There are still men who are protective about their sisters but not wives.There are still men who respects their own parents but insults wives parents.There are still men who needs money to satisfy their parents unnecessary demands.There are still men whose parents takes away their son’s salary and demands from daughter-in-laws house.There are still men who marries only for progeny not for love and affection.There are many unscuplous $%$%$#% men who does not care what a girl will do if divorce happens and harasses her to an extent that she forcefully goes for 498 even if she does not wish too.But with a mere hope that her husband cares for her,loves her.If this 498 satisfies such a girl who has went through this hell of such goody men.Then 498 is a boon to the harassed girls.Ofcourse a pain for innocent men(if u dont belong to classes mentioned above)

    • 106 Ganesh July 13, 2013 at 2:29 pm

      if a man harasses a girl whole world is with her asking togive him a death penalty, but what if a girl harasses a man or a girl herself gets knowingly involved with a married man. wat punishment would you like to give her.

    • 107 sandu July 15, 2013 at 1:36 pm

      Sir ,

      Question is simple what to do to prevent misuse of section 498a.

  56. 108 Afsha Anam July 25, 2013 at 10:22 am

    498 Wives:::Very Good(SOME)
    All the victims(498 husbands ) writes about wives that they are..bla bla…as if all the 498 cases are false.Why dont you understand that still there are some men who harass their wives even after marriage just by hearing age old parents ideas and dramatic crocodile tears.There are still some men who really are very dominating on wife but still acts as a goody husband to the outside world.There are still men who are protective about their sisters but not wives.There are still men who respects their own parents but insults wives parents.There are still men who needs money to satisfy their parents unnecessary demands.There are still men whose parents takes away their son’s salary and demands from daughter-in-laws house.There are still men who marries only for progeny not for love and affection.There are many unscuplous $%$%$#% men who does not care what a girl will do if divorce happens and harasses her to an extent that she forcefully goes for 498 even if she does not wish too.But with a mere hope that her husband cares for her,loves her.If this 498 satisfies such a girl who has went through this hell of such goody men.Then 498 is a boon to the harassed girls.Ofcourse a pain for innocent men(if u dont belong to classes mentioned above)

    • 109 Sam - Warrior August 13, 2013 at 10:27 am

      Hello Afsha Anal

      “Why dont you understand that still there are some men who harass their wives even after marriage just by hearing age old parents ideas and dramatic crocodile tears.”

      For men who harass wives after marriage must be punished under 498a. but there are women who has ill intention of making a separate house and such women dont like husband to support old aged parents.. such women resort to filing of such cases to “Control” men and to throw out his parents from their home… we are talking about such psycho women’s who have Borderline Personality Disorder

      “There are still some men who really are very dominating on wife but still acts as a goody husband to the outside world.”

      Now a days women are empowered and have zero tolerance towards men.They are feminist in nature as well as arrogant and dont want to compromise even a bit for the sake of family and children.. take yucky monkey (Yukta Mookhey) for example.. tuli is filthy rich and he has been slammed with false dowry case!!! we are talking about such gold digger women…

      “There are still men who are protective about their sisters but not wives.”

      as i said above we are talking about women who have zero tolerance
      towards husband. if any monetary/emotional favor he does to his parents/sisters/brother then wife will start getting irritated.. we are talking about such wife’s who needs treatment with qualified psychiatrist

      “There are still men who respects their own parents but insults wives parents”

      Do you think for such attitude 498a is the answer? if husband insults wife’s parents then walkout stay away from him and say “until you respect my parents i wont return” that’s a good way of pretesting.. instead wife decides to jail him and book him under false cases!!! we are talking about such psycho women

      “There are still men who needs money to satisfy their parents unnecessary demands.”

      IF Men demands money from wife and beats her to bring more money then only I WHOLLY SUPPORT THE WOMEN TO FILE 498A . because it IS RELATED TO DOWRY and cruelty. we are talking about women who merely file complaint even without any demand for dowry.. because No Investigation is done at wife’s side. and Huge Money will be rewarded for filing such false case in the name of alimony.. we are talking about such bi*c*es

      “There are still men whose parents takes away their son’s salary”

      Come On Parents struggle hard all their life to make son educated and earn able and is it not fair enough to be dependent on son ?? and one fine day wife says “throw away your parents I have come” we are talking about such selfish wife who want whole share of husbands salary .. if he didn’t give then such wife files false case.. and get the same share of salary as Maintenance under Domestic Violence Act (50% Salary of Husband)

      “There are still men who marries only for progeny not for love and affection.”

      Love and Affection will be there only if there is no selfishness between couples. When Wife starts thinking of “how to make seperate house”, “how can i controll my husband”, “How to avoid my husband helping his parents” , etc etc.. then there will be no room for love and affection … finally it will result in 498a.. we are talking about such psycho women

      “There are many unscuplous $%$%$#% men who does not care what a girl will do if divorce happens and harasses her to an extent that she forcefully goes for 498 even if she does not wish too.”

      In Most of the cases girl/women is the initiator for divorce (you can google it out this fact) and she very well knows that after divorce maintenance can be claimed and live life happily enjoying husbands salary and some one elses “Physical Affection” . How come people who have low income group are not getting in 498a bullsihit ?? because they know that they cant milk money from poor husband.. 498a is a well pre planned strategy… we are talking about such women

      I TOTALLY AGREE THAT 498 is a boon to the harassed girls.

      but not for girls who file 498a just to makeout money … I have seen women file cases even in 2 months of marriage !!!how can anyone understand each other in such a short period of time!!! but still 498a is still not an option there are many laws like attempt to murder.. 420 cheating case … but why 498a ??? because “IT NEEDS NO PROOF FROM WOMENS SIDE!!!!” just a statement from wife is enough for everyone in husbands family to be behind bars… think twice before supporting 498a wifes!!!!

      Yes I agree there were dowry deaths loong loong ago but now a days its all hypedup… they use this law to “Teach a lesson” or “Bend Husband according to Wife Tunes” etc etc

  57. 110 gunjan August 29, 2013 at 9:16 am

    hi , im sufferng from dowry harassment from my husband and my inlaws.its 4 and half years till now.Neither he loves me nor understands my love.to be frank i too dont love him anymore for the torture he as given to me.Going through some helpful sites my husband has recorded my voice very smartly when we were engaged in fights. Ofcourse he use to use vulgar words for which i use to yell at him.Then he use to record my voice.He says 498 is waste of time as i cant do anything to him as he owns records of my voice yelling at him.you guys all r commenting for innocent 498 men.Please consider and help me how to really mend my husband and his parents.i dont want him to send jail for 14 days or weeks.Strictly for atleast 2 years.When i suffered for 4 years with a hope he will change.He spoiled my life but he backstabbed me.Hope to see a positive and helpful reply for real culprit to put him behind bars.

    • 111 R May 27, 2014 at 10:00 pm

      First of all try to understand each other. Bring your husband to a good marriage counselor and sort out the problem. It is very easy to say that he does not love you or u do not love him, reality is totally different. Take a break, go and stay away from each other for the time being, then u will find, do u really love him or does he really love u?

      I m a victim of 498a. Nothing is going to happen. It is just waste of time. I have also recorded my wife’s phone calls or voice, but not for legal purpose, just for my safety. My inlaws were just trying to beat me up. I caught their planning. She filed a 498a case against me and my family, although we did not stay with my family for years. It is just mental, physical, and financial harassment for me and my family, nothing is going happen. I also love her right now, but she has some misunderstanding regarding me. I know she also loves me but her ego is stoping her to do somthing good. She is a govt. teacher and earning very handsome salary, so she has good financial support also.

      If you want to harass your inlaws, then go and file case. But remember, u will also harass with this procedure.

      My suggestion is that understand each other first and sort out matter with the help of family and friends. God gave us only 1 life to live, live and let live. Drop the idea of revenge instead of dropping your husband.

      I can give u idea for what u want, but I do not believe in breaking marriage.

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  59. 113 abhinav April 10, 2014 at 7:40 pm

    How to.fight this case of False Dworry and conspiracy of wife against husband as she marry under force from her parents against her wish

  60. 114 Hanmant April 14, 2014 at 7:43 am

    I am a victim of a 498a

  61. 115 Raj June 27, 2014 at 7:38 am

    Name: Raj Kumar Upadhayay
    Comments: Name: Raj kumar Upadhayay
    Comments:
    Sir,
    I, Raj kumar, an HP Employee (contract basis) working in Andheri and residing at Nerul would like to bring to your kind information for my life safety, I have written here the brief details for your kind reference.
    Basically I am from Uttar Pradesh and got the Job in Mumbai thirty months back. I come from north Indian Brahmin family and my family members were looking for an alliance for my marriage.
    We got an alliance trough Neighbor who has mentioned that she is from middle class family and . . As I was looking for a simple girl and my family so to have a give good life for to this girl Named Gyani Upadhayay D/o Mr.Surendra Upadhayay .Who was earlier working for Hindustan Motors & Mrs. Madhuri who is her Mother staying at Home belongs from north Indian Brahmin caste and , also their daughter and residing at Kolkatta
    I have one younger brother who is not working. Also I am having one younger sister who is also staying with us. My father is a Driver and we all stay together residing at Nerul Navi, Mumbai We were living in a Joined Family before my marriage. My mother who is expired last year on 19th august 2008
    . The above mentioned details are my family details which is no way to disturb anybody.
    As per we are also from middle class so we were not having money for marriage somehow we have borrowed and adjusted for doing marriage We were not Aware of that the girl she is mentally ill .Her Family had spoken with us on month of Feb 2008 and tried convince for marriage by April 2008 as per we were in a bad condition so we neglect to do it by July .so her family only match our kundli & fixed the date .We not even went to see the girl .Everything was Being arranged From their side They also convince to do marriage at kolkata we agree for that also .As per my marriage was done in hurry so I was not aware of the girl illness .Due to this first we have being forced to do court marriage after visiting at their place on 7july 2008 and after that Arrange Marriage happened on 9th July 2008 .We went there with 12 members from my side including my Father,brother,sister .The one side Train Fare of coming from kolkatta to Mumbai was Provided by them and other side from Mumbai to Kolkatta was being Provided from my side After my marriage immediately my in-laws and my wife forced me to live in separate family which has been agreed by my family members also.and also They have a many cases registered with there neighbors
    Instead of leading a good mutual understanding life, my in-laws interference in my life is too much and my wife will not accept any simple work at my home without considering her father & mother which is not at all acceptable by me.
    Whatever they brought for their daughter i.e., – gold near about 2 grms earrings and silver items (few) are kept with them, and .My wife want my salary to be deposited to her
    I do take care of my family expenses for the past 7 years.
    Gyani has many health problems too for which my sister want her to take immediate treatment, but she is not going with her to doctor consultation due to I am a field engg so I was not a having a perfect time to go home she use to say I will manage by myself .As per after my marriage within 20 days my younger brother had face to an accident with 21 stitches above his eyebrows as soon his stitches was to be removed on 18aug 2008 .We face another Accident of mother who has being expired on august 2008 .As per All the expenditure I have to suffer and already I am having a loan of 1.5 lacs from bank .so we were in a tense so due to no one was happy in my family she also started blaming my mother for expired
    1. As per my life was going good .After my mother death She tried divide me from my Family .she use to do nothing at home . one night she also told if u not do so I will do suicide at your home .which next day I have informed to her Mother also .her mother called her up ask .that day evening only she fought with me Because I have told to her Mother .at the time of 13th day of my mother expired her father had also came I informed him also about her behavior we had a conversation also she apologies in front of her Father .after that also she doesn’t have a change in her behaviour .
    2. She had also informed to her house if the we phone to her home then no one should pickup we tried to call 2 to3 times to inform about her behavior but no one was picking up The same way neither they bother about her problem.
    3 She also use to say that ican see future in kolkatta .Also see use to say that she had played with 10 to 12 cut heads .she also use to say that above her stomach a big loaded truck has gone but nothing has happened to her .due to which everyone was feared in my home
    4 Every night when I go to sleep to her she use to say about all the horrible stories of ghost which has being faced by her .Apart from these she had also informed me About her boy friend whose name is gautam who stay in kolkatta near by his house only and use to come to meet her in her house only
    Apart from this after 2 months her father had called one day and forced my father saying to send her to one of his relatives who stays at ghatkoper in Mumbai, we had agree for that also .after 3 weeks she came to my house just before one day left for Diwali .she had brought tantra-mantra returned by her relatives .one night when I was at sleep she cut my few hair and she was doing her work by that time she had caught-ed red-handed by one of my family member .when we ask her why she had had she said to control me and she was asking for forgiveness .after I left sleeping beside her .then started blaming to me also .that u are coward which she had inform to her family and relatives also
    .
    5 about my account and expenses. Where I stand here to answer her, I do not understand their rights to interfere in my Personal -life.
    6. Mother -in-law every other day use to call our home and indirectly saying that I can do anything and I should be adhering for his daughter tantrum activities.
    7 we were all depend to my sister for cooking and other house-hold works as gyani cannot do anything independently. I do take care of her but am not getting proper response neither from her nor from her parents.
    8 Now am tired for arguing and make her understand about the happy family.
    9 My in-laws and wife always make threats by saying that I can make complaint against you and your family members and you will be in jail, though we are not having a single jewellery and things are with us and put the case against in dowry problem. They can go up to any level to make my life ruined and my brother family & Father & sister.
    8. I do not understand why they expect me as puppet which a normal man cannot act in his real life.
    Besides the above note I never asked for Gyani and her family single penny I got from her after my marriage and I bear all expenses of my family and other expenses of gyani. Their parents do not like that she should take part of my family expenses nor they given authority to me to take care of her I least bothered. In which way is this right to behave they were also having one relatives in borivili who also harassed me and said that I will show u and family who we are .after all this my mother in laws she said to send her daughter with all her clothes and item which she had will do our daughter second marriage and wet want to keep any relationship with you and your family .so after all this we don’t had tried to arrange her to send her with her relatives in ghatkhopar they came and took her away from their relatives her brother came take him away before going her brother called on my brother cell no and told that we will show u all
    After fifteen days her brother called me on my cell and we had fought on phone he also said I will kill u and started saying bad words about my out my sister and we had a conversation up to 15min .after 1 months Gyani had called me said that to provide her some money for staying on her parents home I ignore for paying .she said that I will take up to court now almost every 15 to 20 days her mother keeps on calling.They are also Trying to blame my dad that he is keeping bad eyes on her
    I have also inform to my family members not to talk to anyone
    Sir, I humbly request you to help in this case and would like to make a file my case and not to action right now as they are only threatened me.
    My father and family members are worrying about my safe life as they can do anything in their worst level.
    With the great hope of getting help from your end am submitting this letter to your department as the prior information in details in case of any problem in my forecast life.

    Thank you,
    With kind regards
    RAJ KUMAR UAPDHAYAY

  62. 116 michelle caudillo July 11, 2014 at 2:59 pm

    How can i find out if a petition was filed against me in courts i believe alote was done and investigated but noone will tell me anything my nieghbors im sure they have a daughter that was got introuble w
    itthey.law and there son , where trying to figure out who i was even though ive been living at my home for about 7yrs during i believe an investigation i have a clean record but i still dont know how to look into tis and have been worried ever since even though im sure they gt found out there daughter and boyfriend have been hiding in there backhouse i dont now what or if anything can still happen thank you

  63. 117 deepak sobti July 12, 2014 at 9:16 am

    hi to all my fellow brothers who have been a SURVIVOR/ FIGHTER of this bloody law 498A.

    Guyz I read all the messages posted. These days even women lawyers are accepting that Indian married women are miss using the 498 A law.

    I pity those women.

    My case is a good one to amend this stupid law. Plz read the whole thing :

    I had an affair with a lady for 4 years & then we got married in. We were blessed with a beautiful daughter in . I was ecstatic but my in laws weren’t as my father & mother in law had 3 daughters (3 were born as there were multiple attempts to have a boy, unlucky ba….z) Even the Almighty dint fulfill their HORRIBLE requests for a baby boy, so gave all the 3 sisterz (my wife & her 2 sisterz) & all had one daughter each so 3 + 3. I have always wanted a baby girl. I am always happy for myself or anyone who are blessed with a child, irrespective of the sex of the child, I just prayed to Almighty to take care of my child’s health, just requested that the newborn shud be healthy, whether boy or girl, hardly matters, a child is a child.

    I was a professional for a decade & worked in may MNCs across levels.

    In 2010 I suffered a cardiac arrest & underwent angioplasty. even suffered a CLOT in my brain after I was deserted & tortured but dint had an iota of effect on my devil wife, her parents, her sisters etc. we don’t even treat our pets in such a PATHETIC way.

    I served my in lawz to the best of my capacity, like taking care of their medication, family functions etc. even paid monies to them many times. spent more than 2 lacs in each of my sister in law’s wedding. I can go on but not required.

    the only loves of my life were my wife & my daughter. never ever even looked at another female. even my wife will vouch for the same.

    my wife has a BPD, a narcissist attitude etc since the very beginning. she can NEVER LOOSE. she is a teacher & goes to her parents house every day after coming back from her job, then she comes back to her matrimonial home around 4 pm, then sleeps for 2 hourz & then again visit her parents place at 6 pm & then returns to her matrimonial home at 9 pm. this has been happening for a decade.

    last September she along with her parents, sisters etc, filed 498 A & many other false cases against me.

    u tell me guys, a 32 years old lady who is earning 40k per month, drives her own Honda (for which I paid – around 80% of the total cost), who has studied in delhi, who has more than 5 families living nearby along her parents also staying at a walking distance, whereas I am the only member in my family (lost my parents when I was 10 yrz & have no siblingz), can she be beaten by a guy whose all alone for a decade. was she offering her face to me for 10yrz & I kept thgrashing her for a decade, BIZZARE. can anyone believe this ?

    she has taken away my daughter & since 10 months not even allowed me to speak with her over the phone, forget meeting her in person.

    she along with her accomplices, cleaned my bank locker, my bank account etc as her chahcha is employed with that branch. they robbed my house, to the extent that apart from expensive thingz, jewelry & cash, they stole towelz, bed sheetz, even took away mosquito repellents. how low.

    they got me arrested multiple times by bribing the legal authorities.

    my idea of writing all this is :

    in last 7 yrs, 2 lac married men have committed suicide as compared to 60 thousand ladies. I am not say that 1.40 women shud commit suicide rather my idea is to save those 1.40 lac harassed & tortured married men.

    My huble request to Married India women that they shud also support the cause of ending the miss use of dowry laws, else I can assure you all the ladies will suffer directly or indirectly.

    they put false charges against me of asking for dowry, but the :

    SUPER INTELLIGENT PEOPLEZ OF THE DELHIZ OF THE INDIAZ FORGOT, the complete detailz of Prohibition of Dowry Act. which I will teach them.

    my wife deserted me but falsely claims that i forced her out of her matrimonial house. After I was abandoned & tortured, not letting me meet my daughter, etc, I was a FRACTION away from SUICIDE but then realized that my wife does not deserve me & my love, hence I have decided to take them head on.

    Brotherz itz a promise from a loving husband & a loving father, I WILL SCREW THEM BADLY but in a legal way. I loved my wife for 14 yrz & this shit happened without any fault of mine, so I thought I will love her for another 14 yrz in the Courtz, wat say :)

    guyz I wud request you to plz post the namez of all such lying bi…z on a public plarform, so they don’t spoil more livez.

    my name is Deepak Sobti, 35 yrz old, location south delhi, available at 9958959697. my wifez name is MEETA.

    I will await your kind response so that the names of such wifez be made public, maybe on FB, LNKDIN, etc.

    God Bless married Indian Men.

    cheerz.

    Deepak Sobti,
    9958959697.

  64. 118 JAGAN July 21, 2014 at 8:11 am

    I got decieved by girls parents that she was pregant before marriage I knew that 40 days of pregnancy after 25 days of my marriage…I sent the girl to her home what actions can I take against them and how to get divorsed and punish them

  65. 119 arrron August 4, 2014 at 10:42 am

    Can’t we create one site or link where we can atleast put hopeless wife’s full name who harassed husbands on false 498a or DV act ??? Its not a sin, its only advisory for others so that they will have good life not marrying these idiotic sadistic ladies … what say … pls start some page, across india pple will give full names of wives who have misused law to dissolve marriage

    • 120 Deepak August 4, 2014 at 3:29 pm

      Bro I am game for it, rather I firmly believe that we shud put the names of all 498 bitchez & display on public forums like FJ, WATZAPP, LUNKDINN ETC.

      I am more than willing. God Bless Married Indian Men. Amen.

    • 121 Deepak August 4, 2014 at 3:42 pm

      Arron bro, view my post earlier to the recent one posted today.

      If we don’t take initiative now, then trust me our next generation will get f….d biiiiiig time. We are already screwed but we shud save the next generation married guyz. Cheerz.

  66. 122 SWAT Team - Anti Terrorism Group August 19, 2014 at 4:47 pm

    Gender Biased Laws .. A Precaution to Indian Men.

    For Work Place :
    1.its highly advised not to “Talk anything beyond the context of work”.
    2.Even if its work related “Never Call female employees on their Personal Mobile”.
    3.Don’t call them at odd hours even in case of work emergency.
    4.In case of Emergency like Fire when you exit the building in hurry make sure don’t touch any female in the process of trying to save your life. (Feminazis aka Legal Terrorists think Indian Men are perverted 24/7 * 365 * (natural life time of a women in India – 7))
    5.Don’t Enter into Lift alone with a female Employee.
    6.Don’t be alone with a female employee in cabins,conference rooms , cockpits are any other such confined places.
    7.Don’t Invite a Female Employee for a casual coffee or lunch.
    8.Don’t offer female employees Lift to home or any other places.
    9.If you use computers or tablets make sure you have a blank screensaver and blank wall paper.
    10.My Best Advice is Being Unemployed is the safest Thing”.

    Precautions for falling into Love :

    1.When Committing to a relationship kindly write a letter stating “You are not promising a marriage out of this relationship.any such claims made anytime during and after the relationship be the other party will be invalid” – get it signed be her and if possible from her parents. Make use of bond papers.

    2.Don’t Exchange Gifts of any nature including greeting or any such documents.

    3.Don’t Pose for intimate photos.

    4.Avoid Sexual Activity (Wondering?? )

    5.If She initiates kindly draft a letter saying “The sexual activity is initiated by the other party and will be happening in a future date , time and place” get it signed by her in presence of witness. make use of bond papers.

    6.If you are having the urge for it Make use of hands (Tips: try being ambidextrous for variety or any creative ideas ).

    7.Make sure she is not married.Ask her to provide a “Not Married” certificate” at the very beginning of the relationship.

    8.If you ignored point no.7 and fell in love with a married women, both she and her husband can screw you.

    9.If she is Divorced – get a certificate from her stating the Grounds of Divorce , Whether its a Mutual or Contested Divorce , Who Initiated the divorce if its a contested divorce , Whether any counter criminal cases lodged by her – “Not a 498A Girl Certificate”

    10.My Best Advice is not to fall in love.

    P.S : After reading this if you think better be homosexual , no you are wrong “sex with same sex is a criminal offense under 377″ – in my view this is also a gender biased law, when India recognizes transgenders as a new gender , why is LGBT community sex is a criminal offense.

    Precautions for Marriage :

    1.This is most important and tricky point , Study the girls family carefully , make use of internet resources, take some time to analyze and take a decision.

    2.Make sure the girl is not related to a Lawyer or Police Official in anyway (Father,Brother,Sister,Uncles,Aunts,Ex-Boyfriends)

    3.If the girl is a divorcee – get a “Not a 498A girl Certificate” – which should contain the Grounds of Divorce , Whether its a Mutual or Contested Divorce , Who Initiated the divorce if its a contested divorce , Whether any counter false criminal cases lodged by her.

    4.Get Married to a girl from Different state.

    5.Don’t buy properties of any nature in her Name.

    6.Don’t Lend Money to any of her relatives.

    7.Make Sure you don’t have any ancestral properties. in case if you have get legal advise and transfer them to someone else.

    8.Don’t Share Bank Lockers , Don’t Share Joint Accounts.

    9.Don’t Invest Any Funds or FD in your Wife Name.

    10.Don’t Share passwords of emails , bank accounts etc.,

    11.In Short don’t go for a Marriage.

  67. 123 Tani August 23, 2014 at 7:37 pm

    What are the consequences for a real 498a Case ? How can or how much the husband and his cruel relatives ( who could manage getting bail enforcing political power as well as money ) be punished when the case is proved to be real ? Please keep this in your mind while writing any article, readers always are curious about both sides of the coin.

  68. 124 Ratna Kumar.J August 29, 2014 at 7:55 pm

    I am Ratna Kumar.J,[Ph:7871276276] I have been Affected by the STROKE & FITS DUE TO THE CONTINUOUS MURDER ATTEMPT Of My wife when I found her relationship with her elder sister husband in my eyes ,They Try to kill me through Road Accident, Then By Assault with her Elder sister husband , then I was away for 9 months time the wife’s family published my family was dead, which made me to come back ,then they DEMAND Rs.1 CRORE FOR THE POLICE WHICH I REFUSED launched FALSE 498 A Case Case no CC 361/2013 at present now in Additional Mahila Court in Tirunelveli,Tamilnadu Judge & also the same trial is done as Domestic Violence case in Another District With Bogus Ration Card in Munsif Cum District Magistrate,Boothapany,KanyaKumari District in Tamilnadu CMP 6541/2013 with My wife ADULTERY BIGAMY MARRIAGE INVITATION AS EVIDENCE OF MARRIAGE & while arrest they Shoplifted my company cum Residence looted Rs.8lakh & the Survilance camera Laptop by the then All women Police Inspector & her constables 4 members along with SI M/s. Lakshmi Praba made A SEXUAL ASSAULT ON ME BY TYING MY PENIS WITH RUBBER BAND & PIERCING MY URETHRA WITH HAIRPIN STATION TOOK NUDE PICTURES OF ME IN THEIR MOBILE PHONE ” ALL WOMEN POLICE HAS POWERS TO TEST A MALE PERSON FOR MANLINESS IN THE SEXUAL ASSAULT MANNER “on me and My parents ,I was sent to Central Prison, Where my Wife again arranged some prisoners to kill me there which lead to permanent DISABILITY of me and now I and my family ate Beaten Heavily By the Advocates In front Of the Additional Mahila Court in Tirunelveli,Tamilnadu Judge, NO CASE IS FILED ON THE Attackers inside the court & Infront of the Judge , The Advocates from my side are being purchased by my wife’s family , Is Justice Sold in India & only for Wealthier One. It has been 2years “I dont even have the complaint copy or chargesheet or FIR Copy. From District Collector to Police Commissioner if there is corruption then Who will give Justice.Save A Citizen Of India from Legal Harassment. One peculiar thing noted is The Police has Helped my wife to Live in adultery ways.Is the Additional Mahila Court in Tirunelveli,Tamilnadu &Munsif Cum District Magistrate,Boothapany,KanyaKumari District Judges are
    Supporting this.


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In 1930, the British govt arrested 17,000 women for their involvement in the Dandi Yatra (Salt March). During 1937 to 1947 (10 Years), they arrested 5,000 women involved in the freedom struggle. From 2004 to 2006, the govt of India arrested 90,000 women of all ages under 498A. On the average, 27,000 women per year are being arrested under this flawed law. These are stats from the NCRB.

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