There is a lot written about horror faced by families who get entangled in 498A cases, but nothing is said about the consequences faced by women who file these cases, if the plan backfires. 498A is ultimately a gamble. These women file cases at the advice of their lawyers, close relatives with vested interests or just to persecute the hubby and in-laws or to defraud the hubby and his family as they know that this law is actually designed to be more effective as a tool for extortionists and blackmailers than for protecting women facing dowry harassment or domestic violence.
The best source to know more about the consequences of filing a false case is the document by Madhu Purnima Kishwar (http://tinyurl.com/2rbmxs). She is a respected fighter for women’s rights, unlike the tabloid feminists of today who misrepresent facts and who hog the headlines with shrill statements (remember the Pooja Chauhan episode?).
Read this article in the LATimes to get an idea about what divorced womens finances look like.
I think you need to read what she has to say. I’ve put together a few points of my own:
- Divorce after a 498A is guaranteed. 498A is a nuclear weapon. It should never be used for any other purpose than what it was intended for, which was to protect women from dowry harassment. It was not designed to allow it be used to settle scores or as an extortion tool. If the accused fight back, the filers of a false 498A will face the consequences.
- She won’t get married again. The reason being our very conservative society. Feminism may be a fashionable thing to bandy about, but no family, including the family of the filer of a false 498A, would like to admit one of their own into their homes. This is all about power politics in relationships and once it is known that a woman had filed a false 498A, she will be treated like radioactive material.
- Her sister(s) may eventually run off with the milkman or something along similar lines may happen as they risk remaining spinsters.
- Any sisters-in-law she may have will turn against her as time goes by. Her brothers may not get married again. Think about this. Would you be willing to send your sister/daughter into a home where there is woman who has quarreled with a decent husband and used the law to terrorize him and his family? How happy would your sister/daughter be in a home like that? How secure would a family feel, if the sister of the woman who filed a false 498A enters the house as a bride? It also says a lot about that family that they did not discourage her from doing so.
- The filer of a false 498A may face arrest under Section 182. The sentence may range up to 6 months.
- If kids are involved, their well-being may be threatened as fathers play a crucial role in the up bringing of a child. A 498A almost always results in a divorce.
- If the 498A is being filed at the instigation of close relatives and for no valid justification, be assured of this, once the relatives get what they want, they will abandon the woman.
- The woman may get fined by the court for filing false charges. Click here for the news article.
Go through the The 498A Survival Kit if you anticipate a false 498A.
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well said
Well said. Girls do not think of the consequneces at the time of filing wrong 498a. Unscruplous people also try to take the benefit out of this and at the end it is the girl who is left alone as she cannot take up any job as she will be a mockery at all places she visits.
Beware Girls! From ur parents, relatives, lawyers and feminists. They might instigate u to file false case under section 498A and ruin the husband family. they are doing for their benifits only. Once the husband is ruined, he will bay for ur blood. The instigators will leave u once they get what they want. Then u will be totally insecure in this bad society which can take everything away from u. If u succeed in obtaining alimony, ur brothers and other relatives will eye for ur money only. U have left a nice guy and now beware. Na ghar ki, na ghat ki. Anyhow, the institution of marriage is totally an ugly institution. It must be banned and there must be nationwide compaign against it. Even the children born out of wedlock must be accepted by society and kept in the commune maintained by goverment agencies. Any lovers who want to give birth to the child must obtain the necessary medical certificate from the medical council of india, otherwise child birth must be deemed illegal and there must be imprisonment to both the parties. Only those much number of children that are needed for the country must be born and not the number greater than that. In this way we may be able to bring down the population of this country to manageble leval. Men should attend meditation classes so that their sex energy get tranformed into superconciousness. Then there will be no need for condoms.
Told it exactly. my wife filed 498 against me, now her only brother is 33 not able to get a woman to marry. already ,fighted with wife in her ownhome ,and not talking each other.after her old aged parents death she have no body now,already isolated from society as all knows about the false 498a.i have no sympathy to her,just trying to get out.
There should be a strong media coverage about these false cases.. if a dorwy is claimed, there is such a huge cry about it .. but the public should also be aware of the false cases lodge. snip bits about resolved cases but be highlighted to bring to light the truth behind fruad families that ensare boys and their families for money.
Jason
Disgusting how these laws are so in favour of woman only. WORSE than TADA i say!!!
Respected sir,
I bhaskar working as a Professor married recently dated on 21/02/2007. At first night my wife refused me not to touch me,2nd night she put injurious by herself On 3rd day night the treatment was given by Doctor As I am innocent man,she put a false case ipc498a against me through this medical report please help me&give justice me .
On 4th day night, I thought she was dull and angry.On 5th day (Sunday) she did not come to Church on this night she came to reception on 6th day morning reception function was over at RJY she left the place at RJY and went to HYD (Christian marriage).After one month she put a false case ipc498a against me.I came out through bail.I request U to please clear a false case ipc498a done by a wife & Cancellation of marriage. Please give me reply as early as possible. We family are very much worried about this case. I have 1 brother&1sister. We family are very decent. And respected family.
Yours faithfully,
Bhaskar
You can file cases Afganist her for divorce due to. Causing mental cruelty,perjury,difamación etc.You can contact the volunteers of SIFF for expert guidance.you can go throgh the website of Save indian family foundation.
Respected Sir,
I got married in Feb 1998 to a girl with a gangsterial and political background just because i use to love her a lot. She has always stayed away from me and wanted me to leave my parents house and stay with her at her parents place. I am a man of principal and ethics and would not like to leave parents as my father is physicaly handicapped and had 3 unmarried younger sisters. My wife has tried all tricks of political and gangsterial presures and also made us abscond my sending gundas to our house. later she landed up filing 498 (A) at Vasai court – thane district in May 2000 when we were not there and the police inspector has admitted the case in ouer avbsence…Its now more then 7 years we are attending the case, till date the cae is not on board and is just lingering, I have lost many abroad oppurtunities and my carrier is gone for a toss. I had filed a divorce petition at family court bandra – Mumbai for which i got the decree in my favour on desrtion and cruelty grounds. She is just harrassing me by filing false complaints as she has ample time in the world and we have to earn our daily bread by travelling in mumbai locals. She had filed ample of false cases which has all gone in my favour…1)Chapter case at agri pada police stn, 2) Defamation case at mazgaon court – mumbai, because i had written my story to the press and mumbai police seeking help. My advocate at vasai who is handling 498a is not giving priority to my case I dont feel good about it and sometimes get some negative wibes too. PLEASE GUIDE ME AND HELP ME….MY FATEHER IS 70 YEARS AND IS A HEART PATIENT ALL OF US ARE SUFFERING VERY BADLY BECAUSE OF THIS REVENGE FUL GIRL.
THANKYOU…
SHAILESH FULSUNGE
Use some polítical and police influence for early compromise.
Dear Sir,
498A has been filed 2 years after divorceed/talaq.how come????
498A SHOULD NOT be applicable to INDIAN MUSLIMS.
There is no logical reasoning that 498A is applicable to muslims men in INDIA.
Muslim marriages in India is performed as per Shari at law , the marriages are not registered and/or solemnized in civil court (before magistrate) , hence POLICE SHOULD NOT register muslims 498A cases, moreover 498A applies to only those who are still married under civil marriage, once talaq/divorceed is done (as per shariat) there should be no 498A filing, but nowdays its happening the otherway , after TALAQ girls parents are filing 498A cases for money extortion and harassment to boys family.
The divorceed/talaq taken under shari’at law should be the final and suprememe decision..
I think its high time INDIAN MUSLIMS should set up their own family shariat courts where shariat is applicable as ALL INDIA MUSLIMS PROBATE COURT under the banner of ALL INDIA MUSLIMS PERSONAL LAW BOARD where divorceed and child custody cases decision should hold supreme authority and should be considered the final shariat civil law suit. There should be no appeal after this in any court of law.
I know a case where ex-fatherinlaw MAHMOOD ALAM filed 498A case 2 years after TALAQ/divorceed and got the boy registered in INTERPOL (as the boy lives overseas and 498A is criminal offense,) How come the POLICE register the case?? The marriage was not a civil marriage, it was not registered in civil court or solemnized before magistrate and divorceed/talaq had already happen 2 years back.
MAHMOD ALAM did the same filed false/baseless 498A when his younger daughter got talaq/divorceed? ALAM uses 498A to extort money and harass boys parents.
So gentlemen BEWARE of this family who resides at:
4-1-356/A, second floor, besides jaya international hotel, abids, hyd AP
FATHER NAME: MAHMOOD ALAM
MOTHER NAME: MAHJABEEN SULTANA
DAUGHTERS: ASMAN MAHMOOD/MASARATH MAHMOOD
SONS: FAZAL ALAM/MUSTAFA KAMAL ALAM
More to come later……………
yes u r right , u read section 2 b of D.P.Act 1961 ,it is mentioned ,it is not applicable to muslims.
Very true I’m also in the similar boat. Females have become greedy and parents plan & conspire to extort money thereby ruining their daughters home & her life which they will surely regret in the long run.
Respected Sir,
My brother marreied 28th jan 2008, He is a lecturer,she does not wishes to stay with him at his work place so he had to cover 155 km distance to attend his college every day.They were staying at her mother’s land 6th may he refused to contunie the journy for whole life me and my family had no connection with them since 6 months. now she is threatning us with 498a charges what to do.
Dear Friends
I would like you all to know what happened with my brother.
My brother was married to girl who was already a divorcee. After leaving for one month happily she started quarreling with my brother every day and demanding to leave separately from our family. Seeing the daily quarreling my mother allowed them to stay separately in a rented house nearby our colony. inspite of leaving separately she still use to quarrel and again demanding that she wants to leave nearby their parents house. Even that demand was fulfilled and my brother was leaving nearby her parents house in a rented house. still unhappy saying that my brothers earnings are very less and cant meet the demands. She had a filthy mouth and her parents and brothers have filthy mouth and supporting her sister/daughter. After concieving twin babies (girls) she started creating more problems.
My brother was fed up and divorced her. After divorce she lodged the complaint with women police and registed the 498A case. Police also arrested my three brothers and one of my sister name was included who was not living with us. we released three brothers including the accused on bail and sister was taken anticipatory bail. after twin babies she was conceived once again and she demanded abortion from my brother saying that he cannot afford for the baby. She said in police that my brother forced for abortion. now the case is in the court. We dont have any proofs to defend our case. I dont know what to do and how to get rid of it. My brother is an accountant working in a private organization for the mere salary of Rupees 7000/-. He is not in a position to afford advocates fees and alimony. Please give me some guidelines to get rid of the case.
My sons’ wife is misbehaving with my son and missing since 23 Jan’09. We have lodged FIR with police. Her parents are not good and taken ample of money from my son by threatening. This is love marriage. That girls mother has done mal ghalane programem which was attended by his mother only. On 23rd Jan’09 after missing we have done registered marriage. I have talked with father of this girl to come to dicuss this with me in Pune but in turn he told me to came at Karad and he will present the girl for discussio.
What can be done in this case to protect my family
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Dear All,
i’m Married my wife in ARYA Samaj MAndir & Then come to arrange marriage now she was filling a false 498 fir against me please help on the same.
i stay at palghar.it is 2.30 hr distance from bombay.i stay at palghar since birth.i got married in 2004. at that time i used to work at bangkok and have shifted to india 2 years back.since than my in-laws have mind washed my wife mind and have kept her at their house.they are continously harrasing me and demanding flat and office at mumbai from me. i am not financially sound and i am not in a position to buy.but they do not understand at all. even mediators r tired.we have even send notices but no results.they are demanding huge sums of money and are giving treats to put false case on us.we still want my wife and my child to join me.please help.
*** FAZAL ALAM***
BEWARE OF FAZAL ALAM and his father MAHMOOD ALAM as they look for NRIs software professionals to get their daughters/sisters married and then abuse IPC 498A (dowry harassement act) to blackmail for $$$ extortion, if the groom refuses to pay huge $$$ amounts they get INTERPOL Red Corner Notice issued agianst him.
BEWARE of this family who resides at:
4-1-356/A, second floor, besides jaya international hotel, abids, hyd AP
FATHER NAME: MAHMOOD ALAM
MOTHER NAME: MAHJABEEN SULTANA
DAUGHTERS: ASMAN MAHMOOD/MASARATH MAHMOOD (suffering with mental disorders)
SONS: FAZAL ALAM/MUSTAFA KAMAL ALAM
Dear Sir,
I am anonymous 38 yrs old living in bangalore from birth
Father passed away 14 yrs ago My mother house wife lives with me and i have one elder sister married and settled with a kid
One of the marriage broker met my mother in 2005 and we met a family in mandya In the beginning they told that there are from a good family and so on got engaged in 2005 and she was working as a clerk in High court rannebednur, They told that she will get transferred before marriage
I got married on Aug 28 2006 in bangalore and my wife on the next day went to work saying that she has come for training and could not get leave during that training period
Stayed for 20 days and then left to rannebennur stating that she will get leave and come back with 3-4 days then i used to call her daily but she told that leave is not granted
I asked her to leave the job and come over to bangalore with the below options
1> She was gettigng 7.5K package – i will give 10K be at home
2> Else if interested i will get you a better job in bangalore
3> Else if interested i will get a job in my comopany itself
Then she asked me to come to rannebennur to get her staff party as she has not invited nor informed about her marriage
I did not go as i work in a pvt firm and i had been granted 15days for marriage and then i did not go.
After exactly 45 days after marriage she sends me a message saying that she has some problem in stomach because of me.
I called her and asked what was the problem she said that she is asked by doctor to come after 3 days for confirmation weather pregnant or not
I called her continuously for the next 2 days and asked to come over to bangalore in an ambulance and i will take the expenditure but she refused And on the third day she did not lift the mobile
Next day she told that she had abortion and was lying in coma for 2 days with blood pool – reason she said is the child has turned and it would have blasted her uterus and stomach
Next after 20 days she said that she is going to mandya and not comming to home Why i asked she said that when she was in danger no one tool care and so she will stay with parents
I didnt mind then she messaged me that she is comming to home to tell the truth
When she came home she shows a nurse book in which she said that she would have got a blast inside
Then she stayed for 3 days – I insisted not to cry at home as i dont like crying and asked the reason for which she told that it reduces her mental stress and gave some medical term reasons
Then on the fourth day she was crying till night 11 talking on her mobile
I asked her to call her father and mother home ( this happened on 25 Jan 2007)
On jan 26 early morning the marriage broker with his wife comes to my home and starts using vulger words against me and my family in road
Her father relatives friends all around 40-50 persons came from mandya and started discussing – Then her father says that my mother has asked dowry
She told that i am giving mentally torchering her insisting her to leave the job
For the next 40 days she stayed in my home no talking with anyone
She left home on 19 March 2007 and never returned
Next continuously her father her brother used to get some one or the other and
forced me to leave house and to live saperately with my wife and her parents which i refuced
her brother told that he will send persons to kill our family if i donot obey his words for which also i refuced
Now after 28 months she has filed a case of dowry and harassment againt me my mother my sister and brother in law
What shall i do i dont know Please help me out in getting these thing resolved
Waiting for u r early reply
please help me and tips for false dowry 498a
The misuse of 498a law by a woman.
Shyamashree Debnath D/O of A. Debnath living in Tripura Agartala filed a false 498A case against her husband and in laws in the year 2008 when her husband denied to accept her demand. Shyamashree debnath after marriage started fighting with her husband to separate him from his parents and she wanted that her husband can not give any money to his aged parents.She also demanded that her husband can not keep any relation with his parents. Shyamashree wanted all the money of her husband shall be transferred to her name only. When she failed to separate her husband from his parents She filed a false 498a case against her husband and parents in laws with the police saying that they are physically torturing her for one lakh rupees which is completely false.
But the truth is that The Husband was working with a big multinational company outside of Tripura that time and getting a monthly salary of Rs 75,000 per month and yearly package of Rs 9,00,000 P.A. because of this false case the husband had to be in jail for 6 days as 498A case is not bail able. After 6 days when the court came to know that the husband is employee of big multinational company whose monthly salary is about one lakh they released him on bail.
The mother of Shyamashree debnath used to guide her daughter to create mental pressure and ask her husband to separate himself from his family over the phone when she was with husband ou of tripura
Shyamashree filed this 498A false case against her husband with help of her maternal uncle who is advocate in Tripura also her mother’s sister who is holding a responsible post in Tripura government.
Her mother and father and her two married sisters and their husbands also involved in this conspiracy. Her relatives threatend the husband and her family members that if the husband does not leave his family and stay with his wife only they have power and links with Tripura police and administration. they can do anything.
Now the most important thing is that after the Husband came out of jail he filed a divorce case against his wife Shyamashree with all the details of her cruelty and her relatives conspiracy and power. Husband has provided all the details to the court along with sufficient evidence and witness of her cruelty. This case continued for one and half year She was asked by the court to bring evidence and she was not able to bring a single evidence in the family court. She started drama saying that she wants to stay with her husband and she loves her husband. The husband denied to stay with her and he made it clear that he will never stay with this wife during the court hearings.
Now the husband brought all the evidence and witness to the court prove that he is innocence.
Then the wife shyamashree started crying that she wants money and want to go and will withdraw all the charges against her husband.
Finally the husband got the divorce in June 2009. It is very clear and obvious that filing 498 case against husband now has become business to get one time money.
The pain and mental stress the Husband and his parents had to go through is un explainable and loss of reputation in the eye of the society.
Today’s husbands ..they cannot accept working wives n wht they want is tht their wives should always tend to them ..when this doesnt happen as per their expectations they took it to their ego n then started mentally harrasing their wives…nt guys..you ppl r jus insecure..wht u deserve is jus go n marry illiterate village girls..might b thye will b able to keep u happy..jus do it n then u will get to know whom did u loose..girls jus want husband’s love after marriage..they obviously will feel alone when they dont get support of their husband..todays educated girls want to juggle between their profession as well as personal family life..jus understand them n dont expect from starting they will tend to you as they also hv career ..if you ppl want a non working woman marry them ..y do u want to pressurise them to leave work after marriage…if inlaws r supportive n loving they willl never ask to leave them
wonderful
atleast someone from the opposition partyy is there who understand the real problem who r really fighting for the justice….
look before marriage we put our needs in front of the girl or her parents who we r going to marry, we boys make ourself clear, so that in future we need no hassles.
at thet time they agree to all our needs, i.e before marriage.
but after marriage if there is no understanding then they start to argue & file false 498a cases.
girls should try to be more matured in mind to accept the real facts & to adjust as per the husbands wishes,
if girls like you have such a mind set then why marry in first place ? just be single get a baby adopted and live life without worry
.. and be working and concentrate on so called “career” 
instead why file a false DV and 498a and extort money and beg like a dog from husbands… 498 is like a hunger for husbands shit (money) and to feed that shit (money) to wifes parents !!1
ARE YOU SAYING ARRESTING WITHOUT ANY PROOF IS JUST BY ANY MEANS????????? ARE YOU NUTS??????
Women’s are misusing it… Imagine your brother wife lodge a false complaint and your entire family is in jail… What would you do enjoy a picnic in jail with your family????
Several Americans get married in india in last 5 years though the ratio is less most of them are victim of Sec 498a
IN USA govt prepared a report and warned citizen about how the citizen of USA are been fooled or become victim of sec 498 they warned their citizen not marry indian girls they also presented the report to out govt..
OUR FUCKING GOVT DISAPPROVED IT SAYING IT IS FOR SAFETY OF WOMEN…
DO WE WANT GENDER BASED COUNTRY OR COUNTRY WITH Equality
Also sec 498 violates Human rights that a person cannot be arrested unless you have some proof and he can be prisioned only when the crime is proven which is not in case of Sec 498
Simon,
What you say is bullshit. I did marry an educated girl and she was working before marriage. I also asked her before marriage if she was willing to leave her job and be a good housewife and I’ll take care of earning thru my profession. She said “yes” to everything and then we decided to marry. I also made it very clear that we’ll be staying together with my parents, not separate. There was nothing that I did not disuss with her and in fact I asked her to express herself & tell me her requirements before I started with mine. She had none and said she promises to be a very good “sanskari” wife & “bahu”.
On the third day after marriage she asked me if we can apply for Australian visa as her sister stays there and we both could go there easily !!! Depression drama started and threats to commit suicide and all attempts to force me to get separated from my family. Excuse me !!!! Women have brains in their skull or elsewhere?
Now why don’t females be honest with honest men and be clear before marriage??? Just say what u want before marriage… don’t torture the man & his family later… This 498A is a good nuclear weapon given to women to screw the happiness of yr own hushands and their families !!! One thing is good that if the victim/s of false 498A are strong and fight, the husband gets divorce for sure and the wife’s life becomes miserable post false 498A. Just this part is a blessing.
I know nothing much can be done about misuse of 498A by women at present but remember every bitch has a day just like every dog has one.
Well said bro… i am in complete aggrement with what you have
written about these TERRORIST 498A wives
Yes ,I fully agree with you.Before marriage the girl simple nods her headshave for everything .And querréis for everything after marriage just to coger up her drawbacks,to have her own nuclear family and expecting the husband to meet all her financian needs and total surrender.According to a sanskrit proverb a woman has eight times moré desirves than a man.I think the high profile women prove This amply.
Very true Sunil…. Presently i am going through the same consequenses…..
I can’t wait until I see sever punishment for woman and her family filing such false cases. I am fighting such case myself and I am very determined to get all conspirators severely punished and action taken against agencies (police, Social welfare and court). I have made it a mission for my life now.
Government MUST take steps to punish Police and court officials (Judges) helping such fraud woman against all odds and killing lives of other side, whole family.
Government must come out with a system that such cases do not remain in court for more than a week. And no one should be kept in jail unless there are visible evidence of any wrong doing. Can’t reply simply on the statements from woman and her family.
hi…..
i know lot about this 498A cases and domestic violence case to but i want to know that if anyone filing a 498A cases then if domestic violence case was filed before that and if you got the order to stay at inlaws house but the order was stayed daccording to high court proceding know my question is know after $(*A are you still allowed to stay at your inlaws house….husband family are forcing to go for settlement and get divorce please suggest what has to be done need help thanx
Don’t worry Bitch come and stay at my place I will screw you regulary.
I sincerely believe that false 498 Cases will be punished. I want all victims of 498 cases to unite and send message to the the Govt. that no arrests can be made just at the mere complaint of wife. Without proper investigation no arrests be allowed.
Shame on Indian Law to give chances to unsrupulous women to take advantage of this law.
Lets unite to fight against this menace.
There aré enough laws and instructions not to arrest innocent husband also.Even Now if you bribe the local police ,They dont registre any false police case.If you dont know how to bribe All of you Will be arrested on Friday morning.This is the whole secret.That is why Even Now the well to do people escape the criminal cases without any problem.If you keep Rs one to to lakhs with you ,you can easily track le the situation.Money does everything in India.
Sure anytime.. i am ready to unite and march with you guys to fight against these 498a Vamps creating unrest in the society.
if ur a victim of any false 498a then u have to teach those F*****G BASTARDS a good lesson.
if ur sure that u can prove ur innocence then punish them for their mistakes.
take the law in ur own hands & SCREW them.
now a days the PUBLIC SERVANTS think they can rule over us.
they think that no one can stop them. FIND OUT WAYS & MEANS to pay them for their dirty work.
rest u know what to do.
at least in other cases they will think ten times before arresting thi innocent.
)Pl put full name and addresses of all females who have lodged false FIRs u /s 498a,306,and34 on the website. 498a foundation should put this information on their website for information of the public and for cross checking in case of remarriage
Very very true,i am a victim of 498A,406 of CRPC,being falsely implicated in the same,would request you to let me know where i can put the name of my wife and her rotten family so that no other innocent boy/family falls into their TRAP ever again.This so called 498A is LEGAL TERRIOSM,rightly DECLARED by THE SUPREME COURT OF INDIA.
strange are the ways of KARMA.
truth always wins,
in my case the PI of town police station got screwed up in his own station.
HE WAS SLAPPED BY SLIPPER FOR HARRASSMENT IN HIS OWN DEPARTMENMT, BY A LADY CONSTABLE.
IMMEDIATELY THEY TRANSFERRED HIM TO DISTRICT POLICE STATION.
LOOK WHAT A MESS HE HAS TURNED HIMSELF INTO. THE WHOLE WORLD NOW KNOWS HIM. IT EVEN CAME IN LOCAL PAPERS & LOCAL TV NEWS.
HE HAS ARRESTED ME & HARRESED ME FOR FALSE 498A CASE.
for making false 498a case he has taken BRIBE in case & also in KIND.
HOW WILL HE FACE HIS WIFE & DAUGHTER FOR BEING SLAPPED IN SLIPPER FROM A LADY IN HIS OWN DEPARTMENT FOR WHICH HE WAS THE BOSS.
SUCH A SHAME.
HE HAS NO SHAME IN HIM.
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NAME: DEEPA TARANATH SWAMY NAVALLI HIREMATH. (BA, MA)
PLACE : GANGAVATHI.
FATHER OCCUPATION : RETIRED HIGH SCHOOL HEADMASTER.
MOTHER : HOUSE WIFE.
YOUNGER BROTHER : SHIVAPRAKASH NAVALLI HIREMATH,
B.E. E&C.
WORKING IN BANGALORE AS A SOFTWARE ENGINEER. – TRAINEE.
UNCLE – ADVOCATE IN GANGAVATHI. – SCROUNDREL & VILLIAN.
CASE REGISTERED : TOWN POLICE STATION, GANGAVATHI., KOPPAL
DISTRICT, KARNATAKA.
ON JANUARY 29 2010, RAN AWAY FROM HER HUSBANDS HOUSE WITH
HER UNCLE & RUDRAMANI ADVOCATE.
COMMUNICATION : NILL, NONE TILL DATE.
CASE REGISTERED : 498A, 509 READ WITH 149,
3,4,6 DP ACT, 67 IT ACT.
**** HER UNCLE THINKS HER AS HIS PROPERTY.
SHE IS VERY CLOSE TO HIM & THEY DISCUSS ALL THINGS, EVEN
BEDROOM SECRETS BETWEEN HUSBAND & WIFE.****
****SUCH A SHAMELESS FAMILY.****
**** BY LOOKING AT MY WIFE WE CAN SEE THAT SHE HAS ONLY DEVELOPED IN SHAPE & SIZE BUT HER BRAIN HAS STILL NOT YET DEVELOPED AS A WIFE & MOTHER.****
Men pay 90% of the taxes in this country. They are the ones who take up jobs with highest levels of risk, yet, they are the lot which are looked upon mostly as humans with no heart and tears. There should be a BAN day for men. All men in this country must ban working for one day in an year to protest the indifferent attitude of the system towards them. Let the government compute the losses. It will be much more than the per day revenue.
We must all come together to fight this legal terrorism. I just have one question for all the policy makers of this country.
Do men get some kind of satisfaction when they torture women?
Do men’s parents always teach them to harass wives?
Are men so unempathetic in life?
whatever the laws are they to protect women, if misused it is mainly the females who will SUFFER a lot in the future.
laws are made today, their results will be visualized only after 10 years.
only in the future people realise what blunder they have committed.
now a days women do not try to adjust to the husbands family.
in fact they in their MAATERNAL house have seen their FATHERS HARRASSING & ABUSING THEIR MOTHERS, SO IN THEIR HUSBANDS HOUSE THEY TAKE REVENGE ON MALES i.e on their husbands.
so the wives proper knowledge on how to survive in this world, the mother does not teach her daughters.
the result of large scale DIVORCES in INDIA, their results will be known only after 10 years.
men may live anyhow in this world after getting DIVORCE, but what about FEMALES.
how will they survive.
parents may live 5 to max 10 years, but the DIVORCED daughter will have to lead a single life throughout her rermaining 60 years of life.
or else the society will feast on her & make her a WHO*E or BIT*H.
So parents before going legally think a hundred times. do not file false compliants. there will be no way to compromise.
The wives who file false complaints, the police will try to help you by harassing the husbands & they will even resort to 3 rd degree abusement or harming the husbands family.
The POLICE wants every compassion to show how much powerful he is in this world, just like a swyamvara where every male will try to suppress each other & show their strength.
But dear wives if you do this kind of things there will be no future for you for RECONCILIATION.
So don’t ever go to a policeman, he will clear cut dissolve your MARRIAGE. He will think your husband as a criminal & will also treat him & his family as such.
The HUSBAND may try to take revenge upon you. & he will do it.
It will be known in the future & time only will tell.
So if you want your future to be bright & good with your HUSBAND please don’t file false cases & don’t go LEGALLY. Don’t involve a 3rd person in your relation.
All men are born good, it is in your hands to keep it that way. If you fail to keep it you will be the worst sufferer, not your parents or instigators.
Remember my words,
ALL LAWS ARE MEANT TO PROTECT THE GOOD,
( NOT MEANT TO PROTECT A FALSE WOMEN.)
So if men are good then laws will protect them, & false bad women will go to hell.
This is the doctrine of KARMA.
EVIL BEGETS EVIL
TOWN POLICE STATION, GANGAVATHI, KOPPAL DISTRICT, KARNATAKA, INDIA.
CLEAR CUT EXAMPLE OF MISUSE OF IPC 498A. THE CIVIL SERVANT BEFORE ARRESTING KNOWS THAT IT IS NOT A CASE TO ARREST AT ALL, BUT SINCE THE GIRLS UNCLE IS A ADVOCATE, HE HAS TAKEN CASH OF Rs. 30,000 TO ARREST ME & MY FAMILY.
THIS IS FOR YOUR INFORMATION. FIR WAS LODGED ON 23/06/2010 & STILL NO CHARGE SHEET IS FILED.????
THE HUSBAND & WIFE ARE LIVING SEPERATELY FROM 29/01/2010.
THE WIFE HAS RAN AWAY FROM HER HUSBANDS HOUSE BECAUSE SHE IS TOO CLOSE WITH HER UNCLE.
IT’S THE INTRUSION OF HER PARENTS & HER CLOSE UNCLE ON DAY TO DAY ACTIVITIES THAT HAS GIVEN RISE TO SUCH A BITTER FAMILY, & HAS BROKEN MY FAMILY.
GIRLS FATHER IS A RETIRED HEADMASTER WHO HAS SUPPORTED HIS DAUGHTER IN FILING A FALSE CASE.
HE HIMSELF HAS DEPRIVED OF FROM HIS PROFESSION & IS SPREADING FALSE & TELLING LIES TO THE SOCIETY. WHAT WILL THE STUDENTS THINK OF SUCH HEADMASTERS WHO SUPPORT FALSE CASES.
SHAME ON THE CIVIL SERVANTS WITHOUT PROPER INVESTIGATION ARRESTED ME & MY FAMILY.
AND LO FINALLY THE RETIRED HEADMASTER HAS MADE BUSINESS WITH HIS DAUGHTER & ACTED AS A PIMP.
HE HAS NOW PRESENTLY MADE HIS DAUGHTER AS A WHORE OF GANGAUATHI.
Beware of the bitch Manjusha Mandapati
the whole family of her run around police and with false allegations on others. they are f..ucking blackmailers. they act as innocent and good people but in reality they are f..ucking bast..ards. achha telugulo chepalante manjusha peda boku lanj… adi seni daridram la patukuni pedincuku tintadi. dananta rakasi mund.. evaru undaru. baverse lanj… adi chavakunda champuku tintadi.manju ki dani ayyaki una guddalo kovvu anta inta kadu. f..ucking bast..ards. nidadavole lanj..a
Yes. all the Women’s are spoiling their lives with their own innocent and low thinking brain …… Definitely after all these false cases our Indian government will give some options in 498a so no one will suffer by false case..
But now women in India are not deserve to be respect from Men.. so just support violence on women and do tit for tat no god will do good after men loose the life and family got suffered by false case.
Just use Men’s great weapon Strength and kid girls ass.
I’m also a victim of false 498a currently working in Dubai, UAE. I would suggest infinite patience to the guys and just don’t bother. Don’t spend any money on police / lawyers let them do what they have to. Don’t be afraid and never compromise. First priority should be bail after that they will not be able to do anything. Long harassment and mental torture u & ur family will have to go through but it pays in the end.
Hi Please let me know your details ..I am also victim of section 498A.Please give me your contact number to my mail id – pradeep001.007@gmail.com
What if wife files a false case when husband is abroad on PR?????????
VERY TRUE SAID, MY WIFE FILED 498A 10 YEARS BACK, DIDN’T COMPROMISE ON NORMAL MONEY, WANTED LOTS AND LOTS OF MONEY, SHE BECAME A PROSTITUTE TYPE, EVEN COUSINS AND RELATIVES STARTED USING HER, SHE DRANK EVERYONE’S SEMEN, NOW ALL HAVE LEFT HER, NOW AT 40 SHE IS ALONE, FATHER HAS EXPIRED, MOTHER FIGHTS WITH HER EVERYDAY, SHE TEACHES PRIMARY CLASSES GET 5,000 RS.,SHE IS A WALKING TALKING JOKE IN SOCIETY AS PEOPLE KNOW WHOSOEVER IS TALKING TO HER IS FUCKING HER, SHE RUINED MY LIFE AND HER LIFE INSTEAD IF SHE WOULD HAVE TAKEN A MUTUAL DIVORCE, SHE WOULD HAVE GOT MARRIED AGAIN, ALL RELATIVES JUST FOOLED HER, SHE COULDN’T THINK WHAT SHE IS DOING THEN, NOW SHE CAN REPENT AT LEISURE, MEANWHILE AS DIVORCE CASE DRAGGED ON, I COULDN’T REMARRY BUT GOT A EVEN MINDED WOMAN WHO LIVES WITH ME, HAVE 2 CHILDREN, THE DAY I GET DIVORCE I WILL MARRY HER, SHE IS AN ANGEL TO ME.HOW I WISH MY FOOLISH EX WIFE HAD SOME SENSE, JUST A LITTLE COMMON SENSE.WHAT A FOOL SHE WAS.
498a women is a prostitute
it is clear from D.P.Act 1961 till now ,according to its section 2b this act do not apply to muslim ,dower or the person to whom muslim personal law applies.then why this section is not in use by advocates or police or judges ,why are they neglecting it. It can save life of many innocents. it will also reduce the misuse of D.P.Act by muslim women because they have enough rights in muslim law. in muslim dowry is given by groom to bride.as much as she want which is known as maher (dowry).
Dear All,
PLease help me as i got married 11 months ago and my wife fighted with me after 3.5 months when we came from vacations and went to mom house.She was 3 months pregnant at that time.She told her mom about fight and her mom aborted my child without my permission with some local source.
My wife called me after 15 days and came back to me and when i get to know this i was very upset but was worried abt her health and took her to gyny doctor so that she shd be alright.
After 1 month her dad called me and i take him as a good person ,he insisted me to come to his city and let her daughter to do a job there.
i done everything acc. to them and left my city and work and went to that govt. house for our happiness.
after 2 months when i came to my meet my parents ,her mom called and abused me and her and i decided not to go back .We lived here very well and i have good salary in both cities.
now 1 days when i was in office my wife went again to her mom place on taxi and given the reason that your mom don’t allow me to make food and i need to leave in this city.I again went to that home.I invested 5 lakh on everything .
Now after 1 month she again went to her mom and saying you fight with me and say this and that her parents always give me that we want that you should do sepration but we have to wait for your (boy side uncle who has to come from abroad)
Few days ago my wife was talking to me on chat and suddenly her dad has seen this and he called all my relatives that if he mails her or call us we go to court and women cell and now he has started practicing a law in high court.
he was a pcs officer earlier and got retired 2 months back.Please tell what should i do.
I know my wife is doing kiddish things my going to her parents and her mom is monster who is ruining my life and her but now they are pressuring her for filling dowry case and this is what her dad told my relative if he called then we do this.
I am very worried about this.I have roof that she was pregnant and they aborted the child as when she came back to me after abortion she wrote ona paper that they have doen this to em and this is done with help of mom and nurse and she will never visit their house.
besides this his dad has arranged a job for her by his means as he was officer in that department.His dad always give me this that his brother and all relatives are in civil services so don’t try to call us.
I know he is a corrupted officer as he given many contacts to his friends and job of her daughter but we are normal people and we don’t want any problems so please advise what shd i do here.
right now they are taking no step but don’t know if her mom do anything as she is crazy and cruel.
I am sanjeev Gupta son of Sh.Subhash chand resident of Ward No.3 House No. 70 Guru Nanak Colony Pehowa, Tehsil Pehowa, dISTT. Kurukshetra (Haryana) 136128. That I am 33 years old. I am married with Anju D/o Suresh Pal resident of Baddi, Distt. Solan (HP) on 28-05-2006. The marriage was very simple and I and my parents never demanded any dowry from the parents of my wife. That the behaiour of my wife Anju was never good with me and my wife, she always quarrel with me and my parents on every points. The parents of my wife always interfere in our family. My wife always threatened me and my parents that she will file a criminal complaint u/s 498a against them. A female baby was born out of this wed lock on 25-04-2007. That in December 2007 she filed an application regarding demand of dowry against me and my parents in Police Station Baddi and on the basis of the same an FIR was lodged under section 498A IPC against me and my parents and the same was trialed in the court of JMIC Nalagarh (HP). My wife left my child with me in the age of appx. 6 months. I and my parents lookafter my baby. So many Panchayats was convened, but no any solutions was found regarding the dispute. I was lived seprate three times with my wife in a rented premises, but due to the interference of my in laws family our married life was spoiled. During the pendency of this case I was also filed a case of Divorce in the session court Kurukshetra. During the pendency of Divorce court the hon’ble judge tried to save our married life and advised us to live together as a married couple on trial basis for a period of two months, then I agreed with the Hon’ble court and decided to live together and during this period I was lived with my wife in a rented premises. During this period my wife become pregnent, but the behaviour of my wife was not changed and during this period the interference of her parents was also as it is. Many times she tried to suicide herself. So after the completion of two months trial period I stated the Hon’ble court that we can’t live together, so you decided our divorce case on merits. But my wife filed an complaint against me under section 376, 498A, 323, 506, 34 IPC against me and my parents, in the office of S.P. Kurukshetra and on the basis of the same the case under section 376, 498A, 323, 506, 34 IPC. On the other hand her previous case of section 498A IPC was also pending, therefore two cases of same offence i.e. 498A IPC was regd. against me and my parents, which is not justice with me and my parents. The Hon’ble Judge of JMIC Nalagarh acquitted us in the case of 498A IPC and decided the decision against my wife and in our favour. In the case of 376, 498A, 323, 506, 34 IPC my parents were released on Anti cipatory bail by the order of Hon’ble Punjab & Haryana High Court Chandigarh, while I spent 15 days in imprisonment and then I was released on bail by the order of Hon’ble Session Judge Kurukshetra. When the trial of the same case was start in Session Judge Kurukshetra, then the concerned session judge discharge the charge of section 376 IPC against me and refer my case of section 498A, 323, 506, 34 IPC to the lower court at SDJM Pehowa. The case is pending since 2009, but till now no charge of the same section is framed against me and my parents. How it is possible that same section i.e. 498A filed against the same persons in two times. It is very injustice with me and my family. On the other hand my wife also filed the appeal of her case in High Court Shimla, which was decided by the court of JMIC Nalagarh. I am also paying her expenses of 125 Cr. PC from time to time. I and my parents are in deep problem. Now suggest me what I do. My female child is living with me and male child is living with my wife. I and my family never see our male child till now. SO now suggest me and contact me sure.
I want to say that please close/cancel the section 498a IPC, then no false case will be registered ever/
I just want to say that the justice should be equal to all. if 498a case is found false then the women should be punished severely as the men do.
Hi,
What about the real case. if wife is a real victim. You people are giving ideas to those who do the crime ask dowry and beat the girl and take these kind of suggestions from this kind of forum to protect themselves.
Those who ask dowry should be punished but a investigation should be done before arresting. Keep in mind you are risking some one career and putting him to lot of mental pressure. If you are victim of dowry gather some proof and if you are victim of domestic violence secretly gather proof we DO NOT WANT GIRL TO SUFFER DOWRY INJUSTICE. BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU CAN TORTURE HUSBANDS.
My question to you is it fair to arrest some one without evidence….. DO YOU THINK A GIRL CAN NEVER LIE AND IS THE SYMBOL OF TRUTH??? Many girls are wasting guys life and there is strict punishment to those girls. At one thing you ask equality is that equality message you are giving or you want to make whole country a feminist…
Also note that 498 is been used for extortion by girls specially against NRI… According to National Crime Records Bureau this 498 a has became racket for extortion by galz looting 0.75 Billion rupees from NRI’s
DO YOU STILL THINK GALZ ARE USING sec 498 FOR JUST MEANS OR FOR EXTORTION
I mean there are no Strict punishment to the girl who file a false case on IPC 498
Just have a look to the acting of a 498A woman in video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip9Jx87JDxI
I am a victim of false 498A
The url of video is changed to http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQq9g97tNk4
98% of 498a cases false and 98% accused are victims of gender biased laws
I am victim of false 498A & 506 love marriage and she asked her parents to leave with me and filed a false case we never stayed under one roof for single day and girl got got completely mind washed by her parents
first get anticipatory bail on the basis of FIR
and read 498a susvival guide and get knowledge about 498a and collect evidences accordingly
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I am also suffering the same, my wife filed IPC 498A & 406 against me amd my parents, my parents are diabatic and patients of BP. My father is retired from Hr Govt, Grade 2 officer and my mother is housewife. I blessed with a daughter in oct 12 but i dont know how she looks. I managed and provide each and everything to my wifeshe did not done any household work in last 15 months, she has no Father her mother is very ill and suffered from athrities, and have 1 brother who is gud for nothing, indulge in bad society and doing no work.
She filed false complaint against me and harrasing my parents and other family members by false and fake allegations.
I am badly missing my daughter and waiting for anticipitory bail. i am working in telecom sector and leading the state with very good package and affording luxury also.
Everybody in the entire family is well settled and doing thier best.my wife is professionaly a teacher in prmary school . she misbehaved abd argued with all the family members very badly.( Maachod, bhenchod are very common words). I made the downpayment for her new car and become the guaranter for her even i have my own car. she ruined my life and spoiled our relations in front of family members, neighbourhood, relatives and friends. she also attacked on my professional career.
i have a vast experience of more than 11 years and well settled .
during FI from the bank, we come to know that there is a default of rs 6lac from her father who died. due to sources and relations , the case for the loan of car was done by some other bank.
I wud like to know, that if teachers are the future of the nation, then what will be the nation in coming few years?
why all the times everybody believe that woman are true?
why men can not file a case of harrasment, domestic voilance and dowry?
why the entire family members suffered due to false complaint of a lady?
Please answr
Can u tell me some ans of women question :1>why girl need to change their title after marriage ?2)why girl need to leave her beloved parental house?3) why there are so many difference between when son-in-law comes in their in-laws house and daughter-in-law comes to their in-laws house?
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