Here is the website they brought up. Some one in there is thinking and may be acting with an ounce of integrity.
Here is the link: http://www.hyderabadpolice.gov.in/WomenCorner/498A.htm
Here is the Text:
- Always remember! No counselling is better than the couple and their kids thrash it out among themselves.
- To err is human! Mistakes can take place from both the sides. One should not misuse any law to cover one’s own mistake.
- Try counselling on both of you before you decide to knock the doors of police station.
- Never exaggerate what had happened to you. In other words, be clear, frank and specific about the issue.
- Never include the persons who are NOT connected with the harassment. Be honest.
- Always remember! 498A is not a law to take revenge but punish those responsible for harassment severely so that others learn a lesson.
- There are many vested interests around to take undue advantage of your helplessness. They might misguide you by exaggerating the facts, adding those who are unconnected with the harassment to the list of accused, exaggerating the amount of dowry etc.
- Should you need help in expressing your woes, please take the help of reputed voluntary organisations or help lines only. Avoid the unscrupulous persons who always promise you to get your dowry amount back and extort money from the accused side and dilute your case.
- Ensure your presence while someone drafts the complaint for you and ask him to read it out before you lodge it in the P.S
- Some victims are misguided to exaggerate the contents of the complaint in order to make it a STRONG case. The truth is entire strength of the case hinges on quality of evidence that is provided by the victim. If the contents of the complaint are not supported by the facts on the ground, cases become very weak and genuine victims suffer
- If any policeman or the officer concerned demands money for investigating the case and arrest the accused, do not give in. Bring it to the notice of his or her superiors.
- Never forget that both the daughter and daughter in law deserve similar affection and care.
- Remember! 498A is not a tool to force the other party for divorce. There are so many of other legal procedures to find solutions to the incompatibilities in the marriage.
- 498A is also not a tool to get the custody of children. There are other alternate legal methods for this.
- Never force the police to arrest the accused on same day of lodging complaint as gathering credible evidence takes some time. However, you can help the police expedite the investigation by providing most of the evidence at the time of lodging complaint itself.
- If you have the information that the accused are planning to leave the country, you can always bring it to the notice of the concerned investigating officer without delay. Police can alert all the international airports or sea ports for their detention, if needed.
- If you are a parent, lodge a complaint only after you ascertain the facts in detail from your daughter. Her statement is vital for the investigation.
- Conviction rate in 498A cases is very poor in the country as a whole. There are many reasons for this. You can help us improve this by NOT retracting during trial from what you have said during investigation.
Here is the pdf if they bring down this website:
Prevent Abuse of 498 A
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Many cases of 498A with domestic violence since 2005 have piled up. It is used 99.9% to extort money from husband’s family. Many NRI’s are direct victims. Children are the worst sufferers. They deserve both parents. Recently authentic news is that some married Film Actresses with the help of some pimps have designed movie style domestic violence in their real married life. They provoke their innocent husbands and make them to get into a fight and then they take pictures using them as tools to extort huge sums of money in the name of settlements. There is one case where TV9 staff helped an actress to extort money from her husband. This actress after 10 years of marriage with 3 children filed 498-FIR and got away with 3 children and Flats. Currently Husband’s whereabouts are not known? Police must arrest such criminals who move like celebrities in the society and get away looting husbands families. Courts must give sensational judgements fining anyone who tries to misuse 498A separating parent from children. Indian Judicial System must act in the favour of innocent victims save Indian Children and Marriage.