Here is a link to an old article on Hindu marriage act: An Old Article On Hindu Marriage Act
GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE
A petition for divorce may be presented by either the husband or wife for dissolving the marriage on the following grounds:
That the other party
1. has after the marriage had voluntary sexual intercourse with any other person; or
2. has after the marriage treated the petitioner with cruelty
3. has deserted the petitioner for a continuous period of not less than two years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition,
4. has ceased to be a Hindu by conversion to another religion,
5. has been incurably of unsound mind or has been continuously or intermittently from a mental disorder that the petitioner cannot reasonably be expected to live with such a person,
6. has been suffering from a virulent and incurable form of leprosy,
7. has been suffering from venereal disease in a communicable form
8. has renounced the world by entering any religious order.
9. Has not been heard of as being alive for a period of seven years or more by persons who would have naturally heard of it, had that party been alive.
- A word of advice on dealing with divorce lawyers. This is the female perspective: http://indiandivorce.blogspot.com/2007/11/on-your-guard-when-dealing-with-divorce.html
- Collection of judgments: SC /HC Judgments On Divorce/498A/Bail/DV
- The 498A Survival Guide: This is a must as a divorce leads to an automatic 498A in quite a few cases.
Excellent service, Since I am one among the affected man by my wife, please kindly forward all the Divorce and maintenance lagal assistnace to my mail.
Thanking you,
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my marrige date 16-04-2003 but my husband dont accept me in front of sammaj. aur mai sammajik tur se apni grahasti apne husband ke sath basana chahti hu kya karna chahiye
please send me answer on my mail
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hi
nidhi
maine apna problem padhliya to usme apko ye nakki karna hai ki samajik dor se apko apnaneke liye apka husband ready hai ke nahi wo pahela nakki karo badme nirnay lena he jo hasund yes bolega to samjauta sarat rakh ke karsakte hai or na bolengeto apna raste ke bareme soch ke age badhna hai divorce lenese aap naya ghar samajke basana hoga kyoki age vapas same problem nahi hona chahiye kuch aur ouchana hai to email karna
thanking you
dashrath patel
mumbai
92323051235
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sis u r on mistake cz agar koi bhi aadmi tumhe chupakr biwi ka haq denaa chahta hai to uska bharosaa kaise kr sakti ho ,jbki yahaan sb ke samane saadi krne wala bhi chod deta hai mazdhar mien mere khyal se aapko clear baatein kr leni chahiye
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why don u take the legal help ?
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dear!aap khud ke shkti ko pahichano,aap khud ko aise khubiyo se labarej kariyi ki aapka husband khud aapske sath rahane ke liye aapko propose kare.
aap ek bat ka hamesha dhyan rakhiye ki mahila hi wo shaksa hai jo sabkuchh sambhav bna sakti hai.
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Dhare dhare samjhyo samajh jaya ga payar se sab thik ho gayaga uska bhi problam kuch to hoga
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Hiii tommor u send me mail dude ill send u answer in my wats num 9972735473
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Hi P.Babu,
Your problem has been resolved? If yes please suggest me as well as I am also affected by my wife badly. Please help!!
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can u plz help me i want some valuable clues, becoz my problem is entirely very new for all one fellow have cheated me through the marraige
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Hey…
My Brother got married 4 years back . But for last 3 years, my sister in law is behaving erratically.she abuses my brother,my mother , my father and telephone all my relatives…and harass with.Recently she came to kill my father with knife..We find her mentally Ill.Now they have 8 months ols baby also.We want to get rid of this lady.she has made my family hell..We are terrified also b’coz of her behaviour..
PLz provide ur suggesestion…I will be grateful to u..Plz mail me..
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your poblem can be solved very easily dude.even i went through same problem and now out of it and evn my child is safe withh me.
regards
ravi
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Dear aapki problem ka solution to hai ….. This is a ground for divorcee if she is mentally upset from more than 6 months and doctors says nothing about her recovery you can file a petition for divorce in district court and on the behalf of the doctor’s report you can easily get divorce…….
from her
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Being terrified is no reason why you should try to desert a woman. Maybe, she is suffering from some sort of psychological disorders. But you are absolutely wrong if you believe that you can easily make it a ground for divorce. REMEMBER THAT ONLY A VERY FEW “INCURABLE” PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS CONSTITUTE A GROUND FOR DIVORCE UNDER HINDU MARRIAGE ACT, 1955. Do not be misled by wrong Legal Counsel.
DURJOY GHOSH, Calcutta.
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hi babu
i am srinivas babu i have seme problm . i cont live with her , i have 2 kids what to do. E1 i cont die. plz help me bethar..
thank u
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2 bache hai unkeliye chalane de bahar kami koi nahi hai samaj dhar ho ya nahi 2 child ka jeevan kkar chalanede yaar jo hai think teri bit jayi unki soch 9810022855 rajeev
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sir please help me giding
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HI i am naveen got married on jan 2011 and my wife was with me for 15 days she left me taking all my gold and money and i am asking her to come back she is not ready and i came to know that she gave birth to chind till date no one have informed me or my family and even they have named the child .so pleas help me and i am going throu mental tension
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Can any one of you please help me with your valuable suggestions please. I got married 5 years back, before marriage i got only 3 weeks time to talk to her and found she is not perfect match for me with her attitude and the way she speaks. I informed to my parents but as there was not time, marriage happened after all relatives promised that after marriage everything will be solved. But everyday since marriage i am crying about my life. No sexual life between us and she is staying for last 2 year at her home. After marriage she always fight with for unknown reasons and go to her home and come back with some relatives for panchayat again they will say same thing give her a chance and repeats same thing. Now for last 1 year her uncles came to our house to cancel this wedding with some mutual understanding asking for some money suddenly dont know what happened after discussing all the things now they said she is not interested to give divorce and said they are not ready after that to come for settlement and no news from them after that. Also they said do whatever you want she will also live like this without giving divorce to you and you also have to live like this. Dont know how to come out of this mental torture. Can anyone please help with your ideas. Please mail me @ k25m2003@yahoo.com. Thanks inadvance for your valuable suggestions and guidance.
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Hey bro, i have also a similar problem the thing is that niether i have baby nor she give harrasement to me or to my parents.but the ploblem is i m not happy with my marriage and i desired to dissolve my marriage since from when it begins but i cant hurt my parents as becoz i m the only ray of hope …..Day by day im decaying,she stick with my mom and dad in such a way that whenever i raise my voice they avoid me and even they are in the way to live without me..I dont know bro what is happing but still im not loosing my hope to evict her oneday from my house..i also didnt get time to observe her and the marriage occured all of sudden and now i m regretting..Actully i m doing LLB and this is my last year but im helpless,im not finding any grounds for divorce and the great fact is my entire family support her,so you tell me what should i have to do in this circumtances????? Never loose heart bro your ploblem and my problem is some how similiar and the pain you are observing is same with me….i have have got one one advice for you-they have already told you DO WHATEVER YOU WANT AND VICE VERSA,SO HERE MAKE THIS STATEMENT A WRITTEN ONE IN A COURT STAMP AND SIGNATURED ALL OF THEM WHOEVER WOULD BE PRESENT.OR ELSE YOU CAN APPEAL FOR THE RESTITUTION FOR CONJUGAL RIGHTS IN DISTRICT COURT..
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If u have sister then u won’t think like dis pls be patient n give some space u will get beautiful life. Sorry if I hurts u.
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Hi,
Excellent service, Since I am one among the affected man by my wife, please kindly forward all the Divorce and maintenance legal assistnace to my mail & also note when was married at that time my age was 20years & 8months.
Thanking you,
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My wife is a Patient of Paranoid Schizophrenia
left home in 2004
Daughter 9 years with me
498A against me
I filed divorce in 2005
I need divorce and child
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i sincerely believe more than your wife… you have lost your mind… i am surprised at the way you have described facts… marriage is done for keeps and not to desert the spouse at the first possible hint of trouble.. perhaps! it will help you, if you just pause for a while and ask yourself… what if you were the one suffering from this illness… my mother is suffering from the same aliement but we never gave up on her
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Garima- I disagree with you. I don’t feel any good reason to put one’s life on risk staying with a schizophrenic person. It depends on one’s comfort level for staying with that sick person.The rehablitation units have to take care of mentally sick person. If Sasti banerjee has a good opportunity to have a happy life, he must move on.
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good suggestion! subsequent to the marriage she got such a ailment ie., after begotten child of 9 years is not a ground to desert her. the same thing happen to him…………. can he expect his parents and wife and society deserts him…………….
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Sir/Madam,
we have married on jan 2005 everthing is going very good but recently, i am facing the problem against my wife and his wife side,she her mother and her big sister is interfearing in my family she also suggest that ask some money monthly to ur husband i.e from me when i denied she is giving problem to my mother and the result is that my mother is not living with us due to this proble.now till date she (my wife ) is not doing any of work in the home she just go outside and sleep.
plz suggest is there any process to get divorce from my wife because she make my life very disgustoing.
Thanks,
Deepak
Bhopal
9300813338
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Same problem with me
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Excellent service, Since I am one among the affected man by my wife, please kindly forward all the Divorce and maintenance lagal assistnace to my mail.
Thanking you,
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Lets solve my Problem:
I was got married on 30/11/2011 and at the time of marriage my brother in law comes to me and ask about my demand at time a state forward told him that I want a educated wife who help in my mother’s own school and who respect my parent rest nothing. she told me that his sister is B.A and doing C.A she will help your mother in her school and also respect ur parents . I was manglik they shows her date of birth wrong to match the kundli but later i found she is only 10+2 with passing marks only and having B.A with giving money and get certificate not by her knowledge certificate although she doesnt know about house hold works she is from sirsa and always taking a name mera baba ye mera baba wo…….and never respect my parents ever she abuse them i get fed from this …… and I get her out from house to her father’s house now I never wants to live with her ….. pl advise me now how could i get divorce from her……..
Becouse this is a marriage by cheat me…. not on facts and she is not have a culture of our family she has less knowledge and thinking power…….too…. pl advise
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boss if you get any update on your problem then please share with me also, i am also suffering with same problem. vikram22singh@rediffmail.com
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if your problem is resolved then fine else contact me at avm1980@gmail.com for further as if marriage has been done by fraud / force the same is voidable if processed in time.
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its urgent: wrong dob given at time of marriage,my case is going on, plz help 7387770340
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hi,
I am married to a working women, we both are working. we have a child 2 yrs old, my parents are taking care of my child in my native which is 120kms away, my wife does not have sympathy on my parents, i visit to my native weekly but my wife once in a month or 15 days once. she hug for only 10 to 15 min and dont take of the child. my parents are 70 yrs old. my wife speaks vulgar words on them. i am very much harrassed due to her attitude. even she abuses my sisters and the family. now nobody come to my house. i am very much single. please suugest any solution for this. any grounds to take divorce from her. if i asked she tell she wont agree.
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My wife has taken the child with her, and staying in a rented accomadation. The child is kept with a maid servant, the child is 4 yrs old and child custody and divorce proceedings are going in court after 498A. Kindly advice how to get back my son. She is a working lady and is out for more than 10 hour(Software Engg.) at Patni.
kindly help me as i don’t want my son to suffer, even he was shifted from his school to new school
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your poblem can be solved very easily dude.even i went through same problem and now out of it and evn my child is safe withh me.its a very easy process will draft you the petition to be filed in court.
regards
ravi
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my daughter is deserted by her husband as she has given birth to a mentally retarded child and she tried to save her marriage for 7 long years looking after the child single handedly without any physical help from her husband . now her husband applied for a divorce stating a false reason that my daughter is not adjusting with her inlaws . actually her husband stays in hyderabad as he is employed there and he has not disclosed his hyderabad address to his wife . he was sending some meagre amount for her and the child for the last 7 years and he never disclosed anything about his employment ,earnings and savings and my daughter also didn’t question him . now that he has applied for a divorce we dont know how to save the marriage first . he is adamant to get a divorce . if divorce is inevitable what is the maintenance eligibility of my daughter . her husband is earning around 40 lakhs per annum as he is the president of a multinational software company in hyderabad . for the year ending 2006 he has been allotted 40000 shares from the company under the stock option plan and it is worth about 50 lakhs rupees . this we picked up from the company annual report published in the website . that man is having retired father and mother and both are pensioners . what is the amount we can claim as maintenance for my daughter if divorce is inevitable and how much normally the court will decide . what is the criteria for fixing the maintenance amount . my daughter is a house wife . pls give a reply .
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by filing petition u/s 9 of HM Act for restitution of conjugal rights, and also you can file petition for maintenance. entitlement of maintenance upto 1/3 of his earnings and you can get shares out of his property.
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dear sir/madam
would like to help me by suggesting me that what should i do. my sister got married 6 yrs ago.her inlaws didn’t tell that he have accute depression over past 20 yrs. she was thinking that if she tell this to her parents may be they die with the shock, she didnt tell us anything about this to us.due to this he used to kept beating my sister with cod an bottles, abuses her with dirty words, he throw her away from his home when she was three month pregnant, then we came to know that he is not mentally fit. over last 16 months she is staying with us. now she have a baby of one yr old. with these sixteen months her husband torcher us, by phone calls threatened us that he is going to kill one of our family members, still using slang lungages with my dad sister and mother. he is not doing any job.so i requeset you to please advice me that what should i do to save my sister’s life and her baby.
regards
susheel
98100-57392
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You should ask some advice from someone who is experienced in cases of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
http://www.sahllaw.com/domestic-violence/
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dear susheel
you just need to collect some medical evidence without the knowledge and with the help of that you can file a petition and can get divorce easily on that grounds.
regards
ravi
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i m a 24 yrs mail .i m doing job in indian navy . i m fall in love with a girl . i want make mariage with her but she is minor .her age is 16 yrs and 10 month . her parents are not ready at any cost . i m affraid that her perents can do her marriage forcefully . plz give me right suggestion.
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hi
just wait for her till she grow upto age of 18 years
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May nomber 8660871622 many problem I m boy. nokrie ke liye redi.
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U have to wait till she is 18 and if her parents try to force her for marriage at this stage tell her to file a complaint against her parents for getting her married at a minor stage.
Thats the only thing u can do.
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thats so nice if the girl also agrees on marrying you you can go for a MOU and submit it in the local police station and get legal sanctity.so she will be safe and after sheh attains the age of majority you can marry her.
regards
ravi
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Dear Sir,
sorry to say this that i do not have father from last 2 year, I am eldest son in my home .I have three younger brother and three elder sister but fortunately all my sister got married when my father was alive.
Now means just one and half month back I got married with a girl but now she is not ready to live with our family and also she is no more in our family. simply I am getting irritation by seeing her and even i can not come out from my house by leaving of my three unmarried brothers and my mother.because I have to take care about them.
can i go for divorce against my wife
thanking you for your reply
your faithfully
venkatsh.
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same problem as above
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Hi,
My Friend got register marriage with his Sister daughter in Tamil nadu
He only done the registration with girl under section 7 as per the Hindu marriage act 1967. But, he has undergone any ceremony and any sexual relation ship with the girl. The register marriage is done only for the confirmation to get married with girl later on with Hindu ceremony. Since, the girl was studying during that time and the girl’s elder sister was not married at the time. My friend wants to go abroad and he got the job in abroad already. So, all the family members were compelled my friend to get married legally and later on, once the girl’s elder sister marriage is over and the girl study over, he can come to India and get married as per the Hindu marraige ceremony.
Due to all the above fact, my friend agreed to marry the girl and only garlanding in the temple with the girl.
As per the marriage certificate it stated as, the marriage was held as per the Hindu marriage ceremony as per the sec 7 and it actually never happen. Also, it further stated as, the marriage was not held as per sec 7(A) but marriage was actully held as per the sec 7(A).
Now the problem, the girl is already having an affair with one more boy and she does not want to marry my friend and my friend also not want to marry her as per the Hindu marriage ceremony because of her attitude and other things.
In what way, we can cancel this register marriage certificate as null and void.
Could you pls kindly e-mail me in detail. Thank you,
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Hello, Ganesh
there is a remady as per the Hindu marraige Act if u hv not cimplete as per sec.7 of H.M.Act u can file a application to declare a void marraige.
have a nice time
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Hi Jignesh,
I hope you really are a lawyer and can help me out.
I was married about 20 days back and since day one I have realized it was a mistake and it is just not going to work.
My wife and I both work and have equal incomes but it is just the chemistry between us that is non existent, i started coming home late and no talk between us and btw we use separate rooms since day one. How can i get out of this…
I dont want to spoil her or my life by any of this andalso the marriage was registered under the Hindu Marriage Act.
What can I / We do?
-PP
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since you married recently if there is no physical intimacy between wife and husband for more than a period of 6 months from date of marriage you can go for divorce.
regards
ravi
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hi sir,
My wife is suffering from paranoid schizophrenia since 1998.We got married in 2004,after marraige I could know about her disease through her. She had one attempt of suicide during her first episode from 4th floor and fractured her both lower limbs and back. Till marraige fractures were healed and she was managing everything normally.Before marraige her behaviour were slightly complex,but I couldn’t judged it as schizophrenia.Around marraige she was off the medicine, so one episode occured after 1 month of marraige. Then I planned for divorce on the ground of hidden facts of schizophrenia and sidewise gone for treatment. But doctor advised me for no divorce, as it can be managed with few drugs after few days of hospitalisation now.Since then I m managing with her with much difficulties and compromise because of her very high ambition, misinterpretation of facts, confusions and arguments. Many a times I got confused between her normal and diseaed behaviour.Since last one year she was on least possible dose of drug, because we were planning for pregnancy. But she could not conceive either due to effect of contraceptive used prior to planning or we r spending less time together as she is doing Phd in Sociology at Ranchi and myself doing specialisation in pediatrics at Rourkela. Recently she got another episode few days back and treatment with high dose antipsychotic has been started by the same psychiatrist.
With this information I want your suggestions whether I should continue or divorce as I m in deep stress since last 4 years?
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i sincerely believe more than your wife… you have lost your mind… Dr. i am surprised at the way you have described facts… marriage is done for keeps and not to desert the spouse at the first possible hint of trouble.. perhaps! it will help you, if you just pause for a while and ask yourself… what if you were the one suffering from this illness… my mother is suffering from the same aliement and i am proud to say the entire family takes care of her
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Hi Rajesh..i fully understand what you are going thru..as i myself undergoing thru the same stress.For my husband i hv seen it has grown in last 5 yrs and the medication doesn’t suits him at all. Initially for a month of taking medication he becomes fine..but soon after that he gets cought by depression. He starts telling of commiting suiside and my life has become a nightmare.We hv a daughter also, but i heard it’s a heriditery disease. Taking care of shchophrenic mother is different and spending entire life and thinking of a happy family life with shychophrenic life partner is entirely different.
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Hi Dr. Rajesh,Could you please let me know if you got any kind of solution or decided on divorce finally asi too going through the same truma..?
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My boyfrnd was forced emotionally into marriage 15 days back by his parents . as they disliked me and dint want him to marry me .the girl (wife) parents also emotionally brain washed him by saying that they will ahve heart attack, or commit suicide if he dint get married. the boy in question now does not want to be in this marriage . he has not yet had sexual intercourse with the girl.can you suggest some way so that the marriage can be annulled as soon as possible?
please reply me as soon as possible.
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as they didnt have any sexual intercourse there is a law by which their marriage can be declared null and void
regards
ravi
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Respected sir,
I got married on 7th june 2007. the moment i got married and moved to my husbands home . my husband treated me very cruelly and used vulgar words, and did not had any sex with me. he & parents informed to my parents that they will start beating me and my parents should not ask anything regarding that. so my parents have taken me to my home back now iam living with my parents. but now he has filed a case against me by asking me to come and live with him.
but iam not interested to live with him . please guide me how to get divorce from him.
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hi
if you both live seperately for 2 years you can apply for divorce on that stand and get divorce easily as per law.
regards
ravi
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Fortunately, human relationship is not glass and it offers enough room for reconciliation always.
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This is Suriyakanth from chennai, i m also single from my lover died , i want interested for single women life entering with love and arrange marriage, if u interest call me 9894107519
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sir,
my girlfriend is doing her mbbs in bangalore and still has 2years to finish her education.she recently turned 20 in january.her brother took her to US on the grounds saying that she has to write some exam.when they reached there on 17th they told her she was getting married and her parents came 10hours later.everything was perfectly planned.they dint even allow her to see the guy she was marrying and only at time of marrige she saw.when she objected,her people said that they have her passport and she can’t do anything.she was literally forced into marrige.she had no options.she got married on feb18th.after marrige she told her husband that she was forced and she loves me and that she wants divorce.he said he dint know about all this and he would talk to his parents.he said that she should go to india and think again.but she told me that she would ask for divorce again after she comes to india next weekend asap.shes a hindu,doing mbbs,jus turned 20years and resides in bangalore presently doing her mbbs there.what are the legal actions that can bee taken and irrespective of the husbands decision,can a divorce be taken?please tell me full details.thank you
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Of course!. There are wonderful laws in our country against forced marriages. A marriage organised by force or fraud is a void marriage from its very inception. But, still, it all depends on the woman. She can, if she really loves you, apply for “Nullity of Marriage”.
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the following should be added to the list of reasons for legal divorce of hindu marriages published above.
1. marriage by fraud
2. marriage by force
3. harssment, torture anad agony caused and rendered by girl’s parental and relative interference and involvement aka india afternoon soap operas
4. lies, deception and extortion by woman and her folks
5. marrige with person who is or is hailing from a family of criminal history and questionable traits
6. marrige to a person who claims to be “hindu”, “traditional”, “conservative” and “respectful” as quoted often on matrimonial websites but in reality is a first-rate slut and whore.
7. marriage to a woman who ahs not attained comlete womanhood, who is on or needs mediation or who cannot bear children.
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Is without giving a Notice for divorece by the Family Court effective for a Divorce ?
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meri shadi ko 1 saal ho chuka hai.aur hum log alag nivas kar rahe hai.aur wife mere gharwalo ko dekhna nahi chahati hai.aur na hi kisi aur se milti hai.me divorce dena chahata hu.me aise nahi rah sakta.
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i am 24 years old,i passed 7 months of marriage and now expecting a child,we had love marriage,bt my in laws asked everything during marriage as dowry,my father fulfilled all the desires,now my husbands doesnot love me,he doesnt care me,even he is too rude and use wrong words,how to get rid from him
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Hi !
Very pathetic. A ranchi resident Mr Sanjay Sinha an employee of Adidas India P Ltd. did compel his married sister to settle at Noida on professional grounds.
The filthy pic did emerge when he insisted his married sister within 2 weeks to go to Ranchi for her daughters’ schooling. Main motive was to look after the parents who were all set to move to their newly married son’s house.
Actual and final motive arose after sometime when the daughter was not allowed to meet and talk to her father, later to be followed by a divore without any Notice.
What can the greivance do when there was no notice was served by the court as per the hindu marriage act ?
These are the shames of our society.
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Dear Sir/ Mam,
I seek your urgent help and guidance to face my daughter’s divorce case.
She was married 6 yrs back. Her in-laws had demanded dowry in cash during marriage and I accepted their demand looking at my daughter’s future. After three years of marriage she conceived for two times but unfortunately got miscarriaged (Reasons not clear to me). After undergoing some medical treatment and surgery, the couple got to know that there is a least chance to conceive in future. She had undergone severe depression thinking about losing the respect in society. Her husband along with in-laws started teasing her. Also her husband threw the blame at her about the issue and started torturing. Due to severe depression and lack of support from husband she undergone mental illness. On the basis of this, her husband has filed a divorce case. Please provide your suggestion and support on how to handle this case.
Thanks in advance..
Best Regards
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you can file a criminal case on your son in law regarding this aspect and get things sorted out.
regards
ravi
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i am age of 22 .i have got married in 2007 june. before marriage i had an afair with one boy. he is so good and i liked him very much. due to some reasons i got marriage with other one .he is too nice guy.now the problem is even he is good i am not able to stay with him because i am geting remmemberence of my boy friend in each case.mostly i am not able give him satisfaction in sexual life also.i dont want to do all these thing s to him.
now i want to separate from him.i am from hindhu family.with out any reasons we cant get separated .plz suggest me some ways to get seperated .because one way i am suffering in other way he(my husband)ALSO SUFFERING.plzz madam or sir .for my thing i have to suffer not others.or else i will die without giving any pain to any one. i think this is the right thing .plzz give me the reply soon
my marraige is registered and its was done with all my agree.
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Talk to ur husband about it.This is the only solution.If both of u are not happy get mutual divorce in the court.
Live a happy life.
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thats not a big problem ,there are so many couples who face same prooblem .it is upto you how sereiously you take ,seek help of a councellor before it is too late.bye
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hey if u really want any help then plzzzz stay in taouch with me through my email id.
aish0_8@yahoo.com.
may be we can help each other
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its nice of you to think both of them but in this case its your will power to convince your husband for divorce with mutual consent.rest all things will be fine and before doing so be assured that the guy you loved is still alone and waiting for you.
regards
ravi
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Syamala, if your husband agrees you can go for Mutual consented divorce which need not have a ground , other than both fo you saying that you have ‘Irreconcilale differences’ and that you do not wish to stay married.
Even if your husband do not agree for this you can approach the court saying that you have ‘Irreconcilable differences’ with your husband and explain your situation in which you keep thinking about your first affair, there are judgements which allow divorce without a valid ground as per hindu marriage act(cruelty, impotence, madness,e tc.). Please use those judjements, which your lawyer can locate.
Anyway you should have shown this courage beofre marrying an innocent guy, but its never too late to do the right thing. But don’t suicide and put your husband in trouble, since if a wife dies within 7 years of marriage, the husband automatically becomes the prime suspect for ‘Dowry Death’!. Don’t mess this time, get out peacefully and live a life of courage.
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I wish to get divorce as per Hindu marriage act, but my husband is not agreed for a mutual consent.
i got married in 1999 and we don’t have any kids and this problem effected in our married life badly. we did all treatment in last years but no use.
Now we staying separate from last 3 months, am 27 years old,our marriage was not registered but marriage was done as per hindu conversion.
We was settled in aboard last 8 years, in my passport i mentioned my husband name attach with my name.
Now I am looking for another marriage. If I married somebody there will be any legal problem? If any legal issues how can I face that?
And there will be any option that I can marry somebody during this period
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you can get divorce easily from your husband by way of exparte petition as you are staying away from your husband for a period of more than 2 years.
regards
ravi
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hi Ravi,
My husband shows a very high degree of mood fluctuation, whereby he will also beat me to death, insult me in public, misbehave and talk really filthy about me infront of his family. he also abuses verbally my family members including my parents. His interests are also very wiered; he satifies himself my goint to porn sites. its in his laptops n also mobile phone. He drinks a lot .
I want to take divorce for which he has also agreed. But he has made my life miserable, and spoiled my 3 years in marriage. I want to divorce but there is also a very strong emotion of giving him back.
Pls suggest !
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CALL ME 9810022855 AS DETAIL THEN ANS
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Respected sir,
I got married in 2006. due to some circumstance though i love him, i married forcibly with out my parents permission ,the moment i got married and started living with him . my husband treated me very cruelly , use to beat me and used vulgar words, and use to harass me sexualy. since three months iam living separately and wanted to separate from him legally as i cant live with him , iam earning women,but he dont want to give divorce and is harassing me mentally, please suggest me how proceed and what are the requirements to apply and get divorce from him.
But iam not interested to live with him . please guide me how to get divorce from him.pls request you to send the details to my email id, waiting for your reply sir.
Regards
Kirti
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you can mail me your query to my mail id will revert with documentation required.
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you can call me on my cell no.9819893625
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I married on June 2007. Unfortunately our life is not going well. There is problems in all matters and according to me she is not a girl to our family. She is Ok but she can’t adjust to my family atmosphere. I think it will be waste of time if I live like this. Everyday tensions and everything. So please advice me to solve this. Can I file a divorce petition?
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sir,
we have been married since five years.i lost my first issuse due to conflicts between us.conflicts between us did not have big grounds. the most painfull thing for me was that he did not have time for me .if i complaint about anything, it turned into conflict and at times he used to leave the room which was really harssing for me in front of whole family.we both fightand used abusive language.at times i planned to finish my life but could not.simply i do not want to hurtand put him into trouble ,but want to simply walk out of his life so that we live in peace. my parents are really worried about us.god has grassed me with a daughter two years back.i am expecting again. he has totally stopped caring about me .i am really disturbed and want to get rid of it.please show me right direction. if there is no way out for it please show me the easy way to get divoreced wihtout effecting hisjob.i feel that we are entirely different human beings and cannot get along with each other. please reply soon.will be waiting eagraly.
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if that is thhe matter you can go for divorce with mutual consent and claim maintenance for your children.
regards
ravi
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Dear…….
I got married in june2005 and since that day I am facing problems.
I am very well educated, working and had a love marriage. My husband treated me with so much cruelty and often beated me. I came back to my parents a lot of times but again he used to come and explain his reasons said sorry and took me back home but again after some time repeated the same thing.
Now again I am at my parents house and this time I want a divorce for sure. Help me if u can coz i really need your help
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hi i read what u have written ..and would really like to know more so as to help u.my cousin sis had same problem and we helped her get divorce and she is now… mail me at vikasmumsinha@gmail.com
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if you really need divorce dont go back to him and file a 498 a case on grounds of cruelty and based on that you can take divorce for furthur assistance can mail me.
regards
ravi
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sir,
i got married 18 months back. since the beginning i had dispute with my wife. i love her like anything till this time. but since the beginning we had disputes, and till the level of collapse of our relation. she is very admant and proudy. i never got that feeling of love from her for me, since the beginning. rather, i doubt whether she loves me. she reverts back very badly during every discussion, and now i think a lot before addressing any issue to her, though it is petty one. she is a working woman. god blessed us a baby girl, who is 7 months old. we are completely mismatched couple by all means. if i proceed for divorce, will i be able get it ? and secondly, who will have the custody of child. i love my daughter like anything and do not want her to suffer due to all these chaos. if i can get divorce, then what is precautions i need to take.
thanks for ur help.
shanmugam iyyer
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as your daughter is a baby girl and moreover a minor her custody will be with mother.but according to gaurdian ward act section you can claim the custody of your baby girl.for furthur queries can mail me.
regards
ravi
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Can you please share ur email id….
I do have the same issue as Shanmugam Iyyer have….
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Hi,
I got married in 2007, my husband has now filed to declare our marriage as null and void.
The problem is i had a depression in the year of 2002 and from hospitailsion of one week i am back into normal condition.After marriage i had a mania , my husband and my parents took me for treatment ,immediately after 4 days i was came back to normal condition.then he took me to a private hospital for continuing the treatment .Doctor gave medicine for 2 weeks and reduced the tablets from 3 to 1.
Now my husband and his parents has applied in court to nulified our marriage stating that i am mentally unfit for marriage.He also has medical certificates with him.
Now my question is will our marriage be void or voidable?
2.can i claim for maintanance since i am from poor family.
3.If it is so how much i claim , bcoz he is from a rich family and earning around 65000 pm.
4.Can i ask to judge to keep a medical checkup in court itself.
5.How along it would take to finish the case.
PLEASE SUGGEST .
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your problem can be rectified easily.for furthur assistance get in touch through my mail id.
regards
ravi
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Hi,
I’m one of the affected husband by my wife. We got married last year june. And we were together till last november. I own a indivdual flat to my name and am earning above 25000 p.m. in top respected MNC and i have finished my bachelor degree with P.G.D.C.A course. And i have an younger brother who is also well settled. Both my parents or my brother is not dependent on my money.
My wife lost her parents before 3 yrs and was living under care of one of her sister’s family guidance. she has totally 4 yelder sisters, where all were married. currently she is with her 3rd sister. she is very much attached to her sister’s huband, where she told me he is like my brother.
she knows very well about my background and family, inspite she started her nice game plan. as she said, she is not interested in family life and she wants me to earn more than 50000pm, if i need to keep intercourse with her. and she wants my parents and my relatives to be seperated from me.
she used to talk atleast 3 to 4 hrs every day in her mobile with her sisters husband, particularly between 10 to 11:30pm everyday and she used to avoid sex with me.
I gave her more time, since i thought i can convince her. so i accepted some stupid orders from her. Even then when she got a night shift job referred by her sisters husband, without my knowledge in a resp. company for a salary of 10000.
she left my home taking all her belongings even without informing me. she used to ask me for divorce many times, when we were together, if i does not repond to her stupid rules. But everything is now gone out of my hands and am now made my mind to get free from the torcher, so i moved legally to get divorce on mutual consent. I applied the case with her consent on last july’08.
But she is not willing to cooperate for the divorce and her people used to threaten me verbally as usual and troubling me till date.
I would like to put an end to it. since i’d like to live my life peacefully. I’m now moving as per the advise of my family court advocate.
I have just mentioned a part of my trouble.
Please advise what to be done in this case, as i need concentrate on my future prospectus peacefully.
Thanks and Regards,
Raju.
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I am sarthak got married in 2007 Jan, for the first one month things were fine…then i came to know that she is suffering with a disease & gets fitts at regular intervals…once in 15 days…even after knowing this, I supported her & started her treatment…but she never talk to me…from last 1 year & 3 months he have no physical relations…she speaks lies…once she told me that my mother is creating problems to her..when i made them both sit togther she confessed she was lying…in oct 2007 i asked her parents to her take to their place…she spent next 6 months at her parents place…one days she called me & abused me…even after that i went to take her back to home..then she cut her vain…that happened at her place only..next day her parents & her relatives came to my plcae..& requested me to gv her last chance…they told me to gv 2 months after whichb i can take divorce….its been four months nothing is changed & now i dont waan spend a single moment of my life with her…but now they are forcing me to live with her…i m going through depression…plzzz suggest me…..
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Hi,
My Friend got register marriage with his Sister daughter in Tamil nadu
He only done the registration with girl under section 7 as per the Hindu marriage act 1967. But, he has undergone any ceremony and any sexual relation ship with the girl. The register marriage is done only for the confirmation to get married with girl later on with Hindu ceremony. Since, the girl was studying during that time and the girl’s elder sister was not married at the time. My friend wants to go abroad and he got the job in abroad already. So, all the family members were compelled my friend to get married legally and later on, once the girl’s elder sister marriage is over and the girl study over, he can come to India and get married as per the Hindu marraige ceremony.
Due to all the above fact, my friend agreed to marry the girl and only garlanding in the temple with the girl.
As per the marriage certificate it stated as, the marriage was held as per the Hindu marriage ceremony as per the sec 7 and it actually never happen. Also, it further stated as, the marriage was not held as per sec 7(A) but marriage was actully held as per the sec 7(A).
Now the problem, the girl is already having an affair with one more boy and she does not want to marry my friend and my friend also not want to marry her as per the Hindu marriage ceremony because of her attitude and other things.
In what way, we can cancel this register marriage certificate as null and void.
Could you pls kindly e-mail me in detail. Thank you,
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Hi,
I got married forcefully 10 months back but I wanted to marry my girl friend and I still love her kindly suggest how to take divorce, I told everything to everyone even my wife. Please suggest.
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if your wife legally agrees on divorce with mutual consent you can go for it from the one year after your marriage for furthur queries can mail me on rvajapeyajula3@gmail.com.
regards
ravi
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Dear all,
I was married on july 2004 with a girl with full consent of mine and my family.She was suffering from Obsessive compulsive Neurosis(OCN) a kind of Schizophrenia.We came to know after marrige. When we tried to ask about this her parrents started thretening to me and my family.
We tried to manage with all but her parrents taken my wife with him from my home forciably.Her father is having strong political links.
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Dear all,
I was married on July 2004 with a girl with full consent of mine and my family.She was suffering from Obsessive compulsive Neurosis(OCN) a kind of Schizophrenia.We came to know after marriage. When we tried to ask about this her parents started threatening to me and my family.
We tried to manage with all but her parents taken my wife with him from my home forcibly.Her father is having strong political links.
That time I was doing my Masters and my younger brother was studying.My parents are farmers only no big property.We filled the Divorce on 2006
to save us from 498A.After that I got arrested in different cases filled by my in laws.They are also taking Rs.4500/- as maintenance and the since December 2004 my wife is living in her parents home.
Now my father is expired and I got a job in an MNC in Bangalore. They have filled several cases against me and my brother and continuously threatening and torching my family.Now I can’t live with her and want divorce. But they are not agree and running case in my money only.Please tell me and help me how I can get it soon.
Please send some more information in my email and your every suggestion is great help for me.
regards,–varun 9243007849
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hello varun
even i have gone through the same problem.you can take a exparte divorce without her notice based on her medical records. just collect some medical evidence and then you can get divorce easily.for furthur assistance u can mail me on rvajapeyajula3@gmail.com
regards
ravi
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Sir ,
my first wife died , and then i got second marriage as i was having two daughters with first wife .
My second wife is also divorcee , i have not taken any money from her parents while marriage , but i spent for every thing Honey moon and all this thing .
But now i found she is of very loose character on different occasion and she told me that her first marriage was also went to divorce due to that reason only , when i tryed to tell her that she should not do these things she went to her parents home and now not coming . she is a fond of making boy friend and a type of sexonomy person . she doesnot like me after marriage is 2 months old only .
Pl tell me is there any procedure by which she will come to my house or there will be divorce on the card , her parents support her very much .
Hardeep
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its very easy you can take exparte divorce based on the fact that you both are living seperately.
regards
ravi
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hi sir
. I am lving with my wife . in starting we all me and my parents were living together. But due to some worse circumstances there was a dispute in my home due to interference my wife’s parents.now the position is this that i m living with my wife under full pressure. m not well . she dont let me meet my parents . i m disturbed and in depression . my parents are not well .they are aged and heart patient.my inlaws are threating me and my parents that they will send us behind bars .they will ruin us. i want divorce from my wife . please suggest me . thanks
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is the condition same, if yes, fuck the system. u r a human being. fight man. there are people whio will help u out. be brave
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Hi,
Excellent service, Since I am one among the affected man by my wife, please kindly forward all the Divorce and maintenance legal assistnace to my mail & also note i am charged with IPC498A.
My wife is of shaken head type and always on a path of fight.Her parents and relatives supported her caused 498A.
Can 498A be challenged in High Court as i have sufficient evidences in her handwriting ?
Abhay
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Hi,
Me and my husband are separated and due to some problem i have taken a decision not to live with him
and as our marrage is not legally registered but according to hindu law we are married so can i still apply for a divorce
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yes you can do so by showing some strong reason for furthur nqueries mail me.
regards
ravi
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Shipra,
You can still apply for divorce. When there is no marriage registration, the court typically wants to see a couple of marriage photographs and wedding card. Its a simple procedure which the lawyer can easily guide you with.
myidbnt@yahoo.com
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Hello,
My wife aborted without of my knowledge and consent.she was 3 to 4 months pregnant. I want to take divorce. but lawyers say we won’t be able to prove in court that she did it intensionly as doctor will favor her and can say that it was done to save her life.And in return they might put case of harassment on us.I feel so helpless for the mental crulity I am going through. Can somebody help me.
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Sir/Madam
I am married on June 2008 and my spouse wants to seperate. At present she lives with her father. She agrees to mutual consent divorce. What is the procedure for divorce. How long it will take. Do I have to give any money for maintenance. If yes how much. Thank You
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Dear Sir/Madam,
I married a girl who belongs to very poor family, presuming that i am helping for a poor girl. I am working in abroad. I want to take her along with me. But when i try to get a passport for her, after 15 days of my marriage i found her guilty, bcas she had stoled around 4 lakh rupees from her previously worked finance company, and they have filed a criminal case against her and now that case is in court hearing. She has given the confession statement in a 50 rupees stamp paper. My self being a man of integrity, i am not in a position to accept a girl who has this kind of habit. I am willing to get rid of her. Is there any grounds. Please mail. me.
Thanks and regards
Rajiv
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hey may be i can help her. so contact me aish0_8@yahoo.com
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Hi friends
I am srinivas babu (age 31) From Bangalore
My wife name is Neelamma (age 28) 2nd PUC, she is from small village in Mandya.
I don’t know English so mach. I think u all kn understand.
I studded up to 3rd std. we got marriage at 2002. I have a small bissnass .monthly I am doing 20k+. my wife is not happy with that.. I cont do more. she will shot on me, she will beet me, if I tell her anything she will go for suicide. 100% I am not happy with my wife from last 7 years. Her bad brothers are sapporting her . I bayed new sift car on 14.2.2012. she said it its like 3rd class car, by that time I got so ___________. She will not live to me go to my sisters and brother house. She as not sent me on new year 2012 party also .
I canot live with my wife,
I canot live without my wife allso,
I canot go for divorce, bcz her background is not so good E1 they kn do anything to me.
I canot go for suicide, bcz I have 2 lovely kids ( age 7 & 1 ).
What to do ? plz let me know.
Plz help me. Email: partyweb1@gmail.com
Thank you .
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Dear sir,
Plese help me to be informed about the laws regarding the dissolution of my marriage. My wife has tried to commited suicide twice. I have filed a case against her asking divorce from her in the court of law. I dont know whether i will gret divorce or not? Please share with me some valuable ideas, on how to get divorced from my wife. Me and my mother are Central Govt. employees. Luckly we have saved her life the last time she has tried to commit suicide. Now the ddecision is firm from my side that iam not willing to live with her any more. But she is trying to convince the judge the she wanted to live with me.
Is ther any law favouring for me to get divorced from her with this suicidal grounds ????
Please any one who is knowing laws properly may give me some valuable suggestion.
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I am a hindu girl presently working in Delhi since last 6 month.
I was forcefully married from my familyside without informing me in Nov 2006 in BIhar but our permanent residense is in Arunachal Pradesh. since the day of marrige I was with my family for completeing my education.
He is not of my choise & I have not stayed with my so called husband for a month also.
I left my family too in the month of june 2008 & now I am residing alone in Delhi for work purpose.
Please help me out regarding dissolution of my marriage with my husband.
Thanks
Indu
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im also im same bot
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I’m 26 years old. I got married about 10 months ago. I’m living with my Mother who has brought me up after my father’s death about 18 years ago. Mine is a arranged marriage. My wife is very career minded & she can go to any level for achieving anything in her career. She wanted to get my mother out of the way. She would do that by spoiling her mind about me & she would do the same about my mom with me. Ultimately my Mom once spoke about it to me. AFter that we got united & made her realise her mistake. After this incident her parents started intefering in our day to day matters. After 8 months of marraige my wife went to her parents house as an excuse for illment & never returned back.
We came to know from our sources that she had an affair before marriage & it didn’t work out. But few people saw her with her her ex-boy friend lately. It’s been 2 months of seperation between us now.
I would like to know how many days/months of seperation is needed for filing divorce petition.
I spoke to her once after she left my house & she is ready for consent divorce. Under the above circumstances can she demand maintenance ??
Thanks.
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SK,if you prove her extra marital affairs in court, she cant demand maintenance.
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Dear Sir/Madam
I am 47 year old man leaving with my wife & love more on her. But phasing problem that she is unfit to conceive child, we have taken lot of medical treatement, got 1 response from treatment she was pregnant & after 2 month she got miscarry is notage.but now onward it possible for her front, so I have decided fro second marriage with the consent of my first wife. Means we will keep good relation with both.
I am not very interested to adopt the child.
So pl. Advice.
Regards
Vijay
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but thats not fair with the firl. if she cant get pregenant . there is no mistake of her. u can hire a sarogate mother. or if u have ur younger brother having chinl so u can adopt from them.
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sir/madam,
last jan 2008 ,iam 26 yrs i married a girl.after 3 months my wife is say that she need a divorce.because she does not like me.but before marriage we meet with each other .now she want to do a job . before marriage i said if u want go for sturdy go.but no for job.she agreed but after married she start avoid me to make relation with me.when i ask she directly say that i need divorce.
as per kundli she does not match with me ,while before marriage they give fake kundli.
i want to know that i have to give a divorce application, or my wife have to give me a .she is not ready with me .
if i give than want rule i have to follow as per indian penal court.because i does want to pay any alimony to her .because she is leving .not form my any problem .plz sugguest because i am in trouble what to do.
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hey try to find out the reasion y she dont like u.
try to fulfil that. or need nay help contact me aish0_8@yahoo.com
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Hi
I married to a guy in Jan 2007 ( i was widow ) secretely in Arya Samaj . We both are 32 yeras old but till date he has not disclosed our marriage to his parents ..so i .. now he do not have any intention to take me as his parents are against our relationship…but this guy is taking me granted . Total we had 5 years of relationship ( 3 yrs affair + 2 yeras of marriage ) and we very frequently meet.
Can i file for divorce on mutual consent and what are the procedure and time usually takes.
Or can i take action against him under domestic voilence . Pls advice any NGOs.
Thanks
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you can file a cheating case 420and 406 breach of trust on him and as wwell as 498 case.furthur assistance mail me.
regards
ravi
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Dear Sir/Madam
i got married on 18th jan 2008.my problem is that my husband and his family lied abut his qualification and job .actually he is jobless (hardly high school passed) and i did my post graduation . they used to beat me .there is always tension in my house. He drinks alot .
I have heard about adhara in indian law that if husband is lying about his qualification or any other things then that marriage can be CANCELED…..
i just wanted to know about the law because i have very less time to file case.
Please help me as soon as possibe.
i am living with my parents.
Thanking you
kumud
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hey y dont u find some other way to stay with him. only a wife can solve this kind of problems. if u want tou that i can help u to giving a job to ur husband. so he also earn. contact aish0_8@Yahoo.com
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you cn file a cheating case and on that basis can ask for divorce for furthur assistance can mail me.
regards
ravi
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i have been physically away from my wife for the last more than 4 yres ( oct-04) and i have filed for divorcee in oct 04, and i am getting dates only.
under these circumstances can i remarry.
what is meant by word seperation in legal term.
pl advise,
regards,
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Hi Sir
my name in Ajay Thakur.I got married in July 2004. from starting from my marriage my wife is not willing to live with my parents.thats why i came to another place & both of us statrs working in differenr differenr office in same city.After 6 month i pick some love letter from her purse which written to her one of her coleage.But i forgive her becoz her brother is died in these days.afer i year she goes to her parents & starts working there as contract basis becoz she says that she dont want to live with my mother.my mother is 70 yrs old & my father is no more mow.she comes to me after 3 month or vacations.she dont comes whn my mother lives with me.we hace no child.Now i have Doubt that now she is also in touch with one of her coleage. but i have no proof.i m gong to under dipression. now i want to Divore from her but i knew she will not agree to give me divorce.Pls sugguest me how can i file for divorce.can i file the divorce case on Mently disturbance.
Thanks
Ajay Thakur
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hi this is shashidhar,
my wife in usa am in india due to some reasions i unable to went to usa, she is in usa since 3 years, now am unable go to usa and my wife is saying that am comming to india at any cost, as a ture indian i cant do another marriage then how get back her to india plz give my any suggestion
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tou where is the proble . if she want to come to india then she come na. or may i know the reason y u r not able to go usa.
contact aish0_8@yahoo.com
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Hello
I m affected by my wife , due to some un solved dispute between us i need to give here divorce & want my son(4yrs )
with me , now she kept my son with herself in her mother’s home due to exam of my son I request several time to give my son atleast up to his exam after his exam she can take him again utill the divorce ..
so. plzzzz send me the legally steps that i could take .. & save my son’s future and give the divorce
Thanks & regards
Gautam
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you can claim your son by filing guardian ward act petition.for furthur queries mail me.
regards
ravi
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Hello,
My brother’s enguagement was scheduled after a month,but he chose to run away with a girl who is older than her.They got married in Arya samaj mandir.How can he get divorce.
Thanks
Rohit
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but y u want to get him dievorce. he he run from hisself.
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Sir,
I am 62and half years old women and I want divorce from my husband who is 65years.We had a love marriage in 1975 and my husband treated me well for almost one year and after that he started harassing me in all respects.I was a working women and I am spending my own money. He used to call me by names which also I tolerated. But at the age of 62 years he started having affair with his student. My children are grown up and independently living.I am struggling for last two years with my husband on the issue of divorce on two basis(i) calling names and (ii) infidelity issue.He does not want give divorce and says if you put a charge of infidelity then I will contest in the court.He had a physical intimacy with his student but he says that I have not done any intercourse since no body has seen me in a compromising situation I will never accept this charge. But he is lying.He mentioned to me that he had sex only once with her.I tolerated all his ill treatment but cannot tolerate infidelity. Can I have divorce?Please response.
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but mam at the age of 62. wht u gonna do after taking divorce from him. if ur husband attracted by a student of his. then u just talk to his student. or contact me aish0_8@yahoo.com
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Hello, i got married on 2 dec 2007, it was a love marriage with complete permissions of family ,,, rather family only did all the arrangments for marriage ,,,,, now after 1.3 years of marriage we both think and feel that we cannot live together because we have different thinking and we are not able to match our thinkings on some of the major issues , me and my wife we both are 25 years old ,,,,,bot of us are working ,,,,, and we both wish to get separated by our own will can you suggest what will be legal process and how long is it going to take for the complete process to work out.
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hi,
i got married in 2003, i have 4 yrs. child, i want divorce from my husband,from date of marriage i m suffering mental and physical harrasment. I was court employee but now i left that job. I want to live separate. Can u advice for child custody.
thanx.
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as you are a lady you can claim your child by guardian ward act and retrieve your child custody easily.furthur queries mail me on rvajapeyajula3@gmail.com
regards
ravi
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Sir,
I married in June 1996. I have daughter born in dec1998. Now I have found that my spouse had an affair from college days. It is established from e-mails/chats/phones (all trails are cleverly deleted by her) that my spouse is having affair with this muslim married guy having three children.
On event of being caught on phone, She has in her own handwriting given confessions in plain paper of having emotionally and sexually involved with this guy. She has also expressly written about the encounters and places she had sex with this guy. She has also taken away my 10 yr old daughter. Now She is threatening me that I have taken the confessions forcefully. Besides she has started accusing me of having sex with her sister and relatives too.
Kindly suggest best remedy whether to file for divorce and under what grounds. Is the handwritten confession enough of the proof?
An e- mail wherein she has expressed herself to be part of is family??
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Hi,
I am a girl aged 25. I got married in 7-07-2007. Since than me & my partner (husband) were living seperately at our Parent’s home only. We never lived together not for a single day even. My Partner was harrassing me continously just for the sake of money and lots more things, he is greedy. i don’t want to continue this relation ever. So kindly confirm me the way to get divorce. If there is any simple method on the basis that i never lived with him. Plz suggest me what to do.
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as you both are living seperately for more than two years and you never lived together on that ground can get divorce easily.any queries mail me on rvajapeyajula3@gmail.com
regards
ravi
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hello sir, ihave been married since 6 years ,ihave two childrens. my problem i9s that my wife may have relation with her jiju &she said that we live in same house but without any relation (we dont have any relation since 6months)idont have any proof butidont know what to do
to be frankly said iwant divorse from her & some time she said i file report to police for dowry etc. idont know what to do. i seprate my parents from me in sept last year, please help me
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Hello,
I want divorce with my entranged ,unfaithful wife ,as
running life with unfaithful becomming increasingly difficult. Kindly Advice.
Shailendra Srivastava
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Dear Sir,
I married a girl on 06/12/2007.During the time of proposal they told a lot of lies like she is a gov.I didn’t wanted to create issues and was loving her blindly.We had been together 4 2 weeks and I came back to dubai.Later I went to kerala for her delivery where I was not allowed even to touch my baby she and her relatives were treatening me and physically attaked me.The reason is that I told her oneday about the out of the way history of her mother which is a truth.Now I am in dubai again and I am not able to get any news about my baby which made me mental disorder and it is affecting the future of my job.She also doesn’t wants to live with me but doesn’t want mutual seperation which means she wants me to die and get my insurance claims.Will you please help me in such a situation as I am not in Kerala and if I leave dubai now I may loose my job.During these period I gave her 100000rs and 180grams of gold.
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Dear Sir,
I am a person who has not been granted divorce with the reason for lack of evidence for proving cruelty against my wife. I had filed the suit :
I am giving below some of the points put forth by the honourable judge in her judgement :
1. She has mentioned that my wife has submitted that she has no love or affection for me and had admitted me to her Company Hospital only on Humanitarian Grounds. (Does this amount to cruelty towards the husband under the Hindu Marraige Act)
2. The Counselor has reported very clearly that there can be no amicable settlement possible between me and my wife.
3. Further the honorable judge has put forth that my accepting the fact that I had asked my wife to go and sleep with anyone who was ready to give her Rs. 1000/- for touching her, amounts to cruelty but has not dwelled on the facts as to why such a situation has occurred in the fist place. Please note that it was my wife who had asked me to give her Rs. 1000/- everytime I touched her during one of our numerous arguments. I only vent my feelings to her at a later date during one of our other arguments.
Further the judgement just dismisses the case mentioning some costs on both of us. It does not give any instruction as to the further continuance of our marraige and the conduct we have to adopt.
What should be my response?
Is it compulsory that I write a letter to my wife and invite her back to continue life with me?
I do not want to do this because this gives my wife a chance to come back and again start creating problems for me as previously.
I do not want to go in for an appeal.
Can I defend myself on the above 3 points mentioned in the judgement.
Kindly advice.
Warm regards.
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our arrange marriage held on 20.04.2009 and also court marriage held on after 2-3 month her parent was witness from her side and me and my friend alongwith his friend were the witness. there was no dowry between us. Now some problem arose which can be solved on dialogs. she is good but her mother continuously interfering between us that she dont want to stay with our family. that she will not obey our family rules etc. her mother teaching continuously to separately, look for job, donot stay at home, take divorce and claim damage etc.sir, i am a simple salaried person and my monthly income only 8000/- to maintain my parents alongwith my wife. my father is retired. i and my parenets are totally helpless and i seek advice from your goodself. i resides in behala, kol-34. my mobile no.9339750256 or email at tapudey@gmail.com. sir kindly help with your valuable advice.
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Respected Sir / Madam,
i and my family members are victims of the grave cruelty, physical and mental torture by my wife and her parents. she constantly used abusive language against me and my parents (who are old and need medical treatment), always nagged me and demanded luxurious and costly materialistic possessions (which i did get her as per her wishes), her parents used to threaten me of dire consequences if i didnt do as she demanded. then she and her father came to our place, beat me and my family members brutally and lodges false 498A case against me. her father also sent the FIR copy to my office so that i lose my job. now, i have filed for divorce. why isnt there any provision in law which can teach such cruel people lesson ?
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sammer i cant use bad words in this but someone has to stand against all this & why cant we. what we r waiting for. I m on the verge of loosing my job & my health has gone down from 120/80 to 180/110. If the system does not change we will have suicides on railway track or death due to alcohol or drugs. I cant sleep nowdays
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can divorcee wife can claim his husband property as per indian hindy laws?
if so hw much in percentage????
pse suggest by mail
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I wish to get divorce as per Hindu marriage act, but my wife is not agreed for a mutual consent.
i got married in 1998 and we have a son.
Now we staying separate from last 3 months, am 37 years old,our marriage was not registered but marriage was done as per hindu conversion.
Now I want to go to aborad and in my passport i mentioned my wife name attach with my name.
Now I am looking for another marriage. If I married somebody, is there any legal problem? If any legal issues how can I face that?
And there will be any option that I can marry somebody during this period
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Legally, you cannot marry again till you get divorce from ur previous marriage.
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but y she dont want to live with u? tel me the reason
aish0_8@yahoo.com
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Hi,
Dear sir, My case for divorce(filed by me) is pending in family court since last three years hardly there has been one date when we could apper in the court to put our point because of court holidays, transfers of judges and condolences, strikes, boycotts etc. Meanwhile d other court has passed an order for interim maintenance(filed by her) nd the district court enhanced the amount of interim maintenance, d amount is being deposited in d court. On 3rd case(filed by me) for custody of children court has passed orders 2 meet them on last Saturday of every month but since Jan 2008 she has brought d children only 04 times that too when court insisted her, i have requested d h’ble court 2 give me d children’s coustody when she is not honouring d h’ble court’s orders but nothing has been done so far. Case for maintenance and custody of children is in d same court for d same judge is guardian judge.Case under DVAct is also pending (filed by her) since Apr 2007.
Pl advise i m badly tired of this whole system which drags people like me nd makes us sick of d so called system which is badly collapsed long back.
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Dear manmeet
just wanted to know more about ur case. How many childeren u have & how much u r paying every month
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Hi,
I am 32 years old working as software engineer.I am having one kid of 1.5 years old.I have been finished 2.5 years of my marriage.I am facing very big issue with my marriage life that my wife is not adjusting with my family.After marriage is started to oppose the relations ship with my family member(mother,sister,other relatives too).
My sister is also software engineer ,she is working with big company,so my mother is taking care of her child in days time only.My wife opposed so firmly,fighted with my mother,sister too.
I tried lot to convinece her ,take seprate flate .But still she is fighting a lot for any reason.Her family also supporting her indirectly.Me and my family both told her and her family all about those matter to stop but nothing is changing. She is still fighting.Going back memories and fighting for nothing.I am very much furstredted.I have huge stress at my work and she fights for anything when I return back to home.She always uses very vulgar words to my parents.I am looking for divorce.Can you please suggest me how should I go ahead to resolve the dispute or file the divorce on which ground?Mutual divorce will be a good solution for it?
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i would like to have more information for filling a divorce. as i married from 1998 but my husband has not given me any financial support and as well as i also provide him the financial support. i m working lady with a child of 10 years living with my parents. his parents also not supporting me but harrasing me for finance. they also not ready to take any responsibility of me and my child. although they know that there son is worthless n financial. i have only brought up the child from last 10 years and now from last 2 years he stop calling me and when i asked him for the divorce he is not ready to give me. is there any ground on which i can file a case against him.
thanks
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After my marriage i have come to know that my wife had done sex with many men. She accepted this fact that she slept with few men. But she told me not do these kind of things after marriage. But she was still in a contact with some of her sleeping partners.
But now my conscious is not allowing me to stay with her. I belong to a spirtual family. My health is declining day by day by remembering her this act. I think i am suffering from depression now. I just dont want to saty with her more. Can a divorce in this case is possible . Please reply as soon as possible.
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dear jeev
i m having a same problem at my home. My in laws had taken us to a police station once but somehow matter was resolved. I didnt realize that she is coming back to create more dangerous scenario & demand big money. Now i m stuck. i dont know what to do. I dont see any way where the truth will come out. They are dangerous in the sense that they can go down to any level whenever the condition demands
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Dear Himanshu,
Firstly take care of ur health.
I was wondering what if your wife didnt tell u about her past ? Would you have still thought of divorcing her ?
I am not being feminist, but even if you marry another women or have a girlfriend there is no way you can know, if she is virgin or not. This is true for both men and women.
Look around you for your un-married friends/colleagues both male and female; most of them in a relationship have physical relationship before marriage. And most of the times, they end up marrying some other person.
The point is if before knowing this fact, you had a good relationship, love & respect for each other; and if your wife doesnt have such physical relationships now, then if i were you, i would not think of divorce and wud try and not think of her past, if the present is GOOD.
Again, if after marriage your wife has no physical relationship and you feel depressed thinking about what she did in past, I woud suggest, Please vist a Marriage councillor.
As you said you are from a spiritual family, please try and relax your self, do some good book read on marriage.
Take Care.
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Hi Sania
May be what u r saying is right that think about the present and noth the past. But i think one men is enough for making the relationship. But more than one men. What does it all shows. Even if she has become right now then what is the gurantee that she will remain gud in the future too. Losing virginity is not the problem but when u are getting marraied to a person to whom u love and then lying to that person about such a thing dont u feel its a mistake on her behalf.
When i was gud to her she never realised now when she has become ok then i will also get changed do u think is this ok.
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And Saina Adulter means sexual relationship after marraige. But i dont think she had any sexual relation after marriage. Is there is any other ground for divorce.
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Dear Himanshu,
With my personal experience, I would suggest that involve some elders from family. I am saying this because, the two persons (you & ur wife) who are sufferers of the problem, are not able to see the others point of view. Your wife will not be able to understand your view and you will not be able to understand her view. At this point its very important to involve other people (family member, friend, well wishers).
Doing this you will be sure that you are taking the step in right direction. Whether its contibuing with the marriage or going for a divorce.
Also remember to be calm, in control. Otherwise, it will be become a blaming session. This will not help you & ur wife solve the problem.
Which year you got married?
Whats your age?
whats ur wife’s age?
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Dear Himanshu,
As per your case, follwoing can be a ground for divorce:-
Adultery – The act of indulging in any king of sexual relationship including intercourse outside marriage is termed as adultery. Adultery is counted as a criminal offence and substantial proofs are required to establish it. An amendment to the law in 1976 states that one single act of adultery is enough for the petitioner to get a divorce.
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May i have a word of guidance from you madam.. a legal information if u can spare a little time to talk abt
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Dear Neeraj,
Yes, what is the problem.
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hi, i got married in the month of march 2009 and shi lived in my home and her father bring her his home saying that her final anaul exams to be continued and i went their home on 10 june surpriseingly i heared that my wife is having love affair with some other and got pregency through him and she left with him, her father filed the police complaint before the police as she left with some other
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I got marrade on 5.12.1992 i have 2 kids i am saparated from 12.8.2006 last year in november i have filled a case of restitution of marrage in the court of District judge howrah my father in law does not my wife should stay with me she is doing a
job i gurgaon and she is under the influence of her father does not want to come back what should i do please suggest
Regards
(RAJNISH KHANNA)
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i have married on 10/12/2003 at arya samaj mandir. we did not disclose this before the society & even my parents. we are living separated till now. we filed our maintenance case in before the court on september 2008. the court stamped our relationships positively. now i want to be separated from my husband due to mental harassment, excessive interference in my individual profesional life. i m doing a govtjob and mentioned myself as a single not married on this basis he is blackmailing and pressurising to live together. but i do not want to go to him. how mentioned single in my joining letter can affect my job? how i can get divorce from him as soon as possible? how i can get divorce on the basis of conversion in religion mentioned below–
As per the Hindu Marriage Act, divorce can be obtained on the grounds of Adultery, Cruelty, Desertion for two years, Conversion in Religion, Unsound Mind of Partner, Venereal Disease and/or Leprosy inflicted Partner and Rape, Sodomy or Bestiality by Husband. In case the couple has filed for divorce on any other reason and has not resumed co-habitation for one year after the decree of judicial separation or has not resumed conjugal rights for one year after decree for restitution of conjugal rights, divorce will be granted by the court. please reply soon.
thanking you
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I am a Hindu, married separated, age 60 yrs, citizen of India, fallen in love with sri Lankan Christian Lady. i wish to convert to Christian and get marry to her and settle their itself. Is legally possible for both countries in India & Sri Lanka.
Pl advice
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dear sir,
I have been married for last four years. everything went well for a year as this was the honeymoon time & We were crusing all over the world. Then my wife started pressurizing me for transferring my parents property to my name as she was feeling insecure about my future. I agreed but somehow my parents realized her crooked ways & refused. I m the only son & i got carried away like hell. But slowly i realized that i was being trapped on all occasions of my married life. First she started collecting all the money.We had a son whom she always takes to her parents home & backmail me to fall down on my in laws feet for no reason. She is mentally sick & does it on no. of occasions .she misses her father even during the intercourse. If i rasie any objection, she threatens for sec 498. Off late she is demanding a separate house & regular money otherwise i have to stand the consequences. They have insulted me on no. of occasion but i kept quite all the time. Now i want to end this relation. I know what i m heading for but can i get some legal advice on this issue.
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If her family members can counsel her to behave, then thats the best way. Also try to find out why she is behaving this way. Why is she so insecure or is she plain greedy ? Afterall if both of you are happy together, money should not be a problem. whether its on ur name or o her name or even ur parents name. Your parents assests are yours. And you have a kid too.
Think think think before taking any action….
But if you feel divorce is the only option then,
try and collect some evidence of what she says to you. That will be very helpful if she doesnt agree for a mutual divorce.
idea is is something can be fixed lets fix it by involving family members from both sides who can counsel. or may your freinds or even a counseleor.
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dear sir / mam,
i have done love marriage one and half year ago . but from starting his behaviour is very rude , and always saying girl is on the foot of husband , and i have not my self respect in my home . he doesnot care of mine , i am very fadup with my life , please give me suggestion how i got divorce .
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Are your parents aware of the sitaution you are in ? Talk to your parents & family, let them know your condition and what you think is the solution to this problem. Talk to your husbands parents about your problem.
If finally you think divorce is the solution, try for a mutual divorce, involve husband’s parents and your family members.
Don’t loose hope its not the end of life. If you feel you both cannot stay with each other happily, its OK.
Life is a god gift, he will give you good mind and guide you further. Pursue your career/ studies or if you have any interest/ hobbies.
Idea is both of you shuold not waste your life fighting with each other.
Take Care & think think think….. before taking any action .. talk to some family member who can guide you well. Dont HIDE.
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i got registered marriage in 2008 and no physical contact with girl. either she is not ready to come to gulf neither she is not ready to live with me in India.
what to do now?
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Join Save Indian Family Foundation.Attended their local meetings in various cities or join their yahoo. group
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I got registered marriage with my wife in 2006 ,30th june,staying 5 months with me she left my house without any reason,after that she informed me to stay with her in her parent’s house.But it is impossible for me.In this way I tried to bring her back again and again,in 7th Dec’07 a female baby was born.But she refused to return back and also not to accept my parental rights.Recently they assulted me in the road,after that I suite Divorce Case against her, CR case agaist their family.Also My brother in law lodge a divorce case against my elder Sisiter in law on January 2009.Anyway my wife claimed maintanance of Rs.13000 per month(As My sallery is Rs.19000)and also said that she will never give me divorce..Please give me advice what to do now……..
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Join Save Indian Family Foundation and attended their local meetings in various cities
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i was married in 1973 and my wife has left the home after one & a half year on her own wiiling my house was 12×12 ft room and me,my brother & mother were living in that room so she demanded to leave my mother & brother but i am unable to leave them because my brother was at that time age of 14 my father was dead when i was six years.now after 35year she filed case against me crpc125 demamding maintainance. she is working as a teacher and monthly income earned by her is above 5000/= she gives tution and that way also she get money. give me guidance how can i get divorce and by which code i exempted to pay maintainace.
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my wife left me b4 six months on a very little reason. my mother (her mother in law) and her (my wife) misunderstands themselves wht will i do ? if i go for a divorce wht is the maintainance charage i suppose to give as we have no childrens and our marriage is before 2 years only.
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Hi….need urgent help!!!!!!!!!!?
hi
i am 26 and was married to my husband who is in the US on the 10th of may this year in india according to hindu marriage act. ever since my honeymoon i have been subjected to mental trauma and was shocked to find out that my husband lies like he breathes he doesnot have any remorse or conseince and he gets rage attacks. I secretely got his behaviour evaluated by a famous psychiatrist here based on a few recordings i had of our conversations and other prrofs and i have been told that my husband is an psychopath.
after i suffered a total mental break down followed by serious panick attack stretch due to his torments i asked to visit my brother for the first time after my marriage. (my brother stays in new york) my husband alleged that i am having an incestual relationship withmy brother and had a rage attack where he almost throttled me. that is when i knew i had a lost case in my hand and got tremendously scared about my safety.
I came to my brother’s place and i am here since jully 16th. since then he has resorted to threats… cumpulsive stalking and abusive mails and messeges not only to me but my brother and my family and my extended family too!!!
He has removed all my jeweleries and all my stuffs and refuses to return them.
I just want to end this relationship ASAP in a way that he gets hurt and does not do this to any other girl.
I want to know what are my options and how to go about it?
i had to get a restraining order against him and i have a D.I.R. at NYPD against him.
he is on L1 visa applying for a green card.
PLZZZZ HELP!!!!!
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PS we cant fight this case in the US court of law as we have not been a resident here for more than 6 months. i wanted legal advise as to go the civil or the criminal way…. i will be fighting the case in india
9 hours ago
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Hi….need urgent help!!!!!!!!!!?
hi
i am 26 and was married to my husband who is in the US on the 10th of may this year in india according to hindu marriage act. ever since my honeymoon i have been subjected to mental trauma and was shocked to find out that my husband lies like he breathes he doesnot have any remorse or conseince and he gets rage attacks. I secretely got his behaviour evaluated by a famous psychiatrist here based on a few recordings i had of our conversations and other prrofs and i have been told that my husband is an psychopath.
after i suffered a total mental break down followed by serious panick attack stretch due to his torments i asked to visit my brother for the first time after my marriage. (my brother stays in new york) my husband alleged that i am having an incestual relationship withmy brother and had a rage attack where he almost throttled me. that is when i knew i had a lost case in my hand and got tremendously scared about my safety.
I came to my brother’s place and i am here since jully 16th. since then he has resorted to threats… cumpulsive stalking and abusive mails and messeges not only to me but my brother and my family and my extended family too!!!
He has removed all my jeweleries and all my stuffs and refuses to return them.
I just want to end this relationship ASAP in a way that he gets hurt and does not do this to any other girl.
I want to know what are my options and how to go about it?
i had to get a restraining order against him and i have a D.I.R. at NYPD against him.
he is on L1 visa applying for a green card.
PLZZZZ HELP!!!!!
19 hours ago – 3 days left to answer.
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PS we cant fight this case in the US court of law as we have not been a resident here for more than 6 months. i wanted legal advise as to go the civil or the criminal way…. i will be fighting the case in india
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Hi,
Its a good step u took by moving to ur brothers place. bravo.
Ur prime concern should be ur & ur family’s security. and second getting a divorce from him.
In India all cases take couple of years to conclude.
Also fight the case on actuals. some lawyers advise to exaggerate the torture etc.. Not advisable. Ur problem is already big.
Please contact a good lawyer, and explain ur case. find out abt the history of lawyer before hiring. Many are only interested in money and shake hands with the opponent party as well, for sake of money. Its important to check the credibility of the lawyer.
In case u need any references, let me know. Also talk to ur family & friends and find out where it will be practical to fight the case in India or US.
It good that ur not with him now. Also in case u feel a threat to ur life from him. let the police know it.
U r a brave girl. Dont worry. u r very young, discuss ur problem with someone sensible. or u ca also go for social activist fighting for domestic voilence.
Take care and be happy now.
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Dear Saina
Thank you for your concerns! I am really really touched. I have apooinnted a lawyer but woud surely like to take a second opinion. can you give me some references in kolkata india?
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I was married in 1996. My wife attempted to commit suicide six months back it is found she is a Patient of psychosis I do not know the reason, I was not in the home town. In the opinion of the doctor she may attempt second time she has to be in the constant vigilance always If she made the attempt. I will be prosecuted so
what you suggest me to take any precautionary measures Please
suggest me.still I love her
She left home in 27/10/2009
Daughter 12 years with me
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i was married in 2008.it was a love marrige at the begining every thing was fine.but she left the house on 2nd of june and after calling so many time she has not come.ab usne police mein complaint ki hai ki that we were hitting her asking to bring 5 lakh rupees but this all is false now she is saying that after giving her things will take the case back and saying that will not give the ornaments which i had given her on our marrige.because of her i have lost my buisness i am not having any job my source of income is zero.my wife is working and is well setteled.because of all this my father and mother has also told me to find my own job and do what ever u want.
what u suggest pls suggest me
thanking u.
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My son is in central service, got married in june 2006,while the girl was studying. Since inception of the marriage, she has no love& affection for my son. She told my son that under the pressure of her parents, she got married. She stays at Hyderabad.since,3yrs6 monhs, she did not allow any physical relation. We councelled on her several times and in between my son presented her costly gifts but all invain. Whenever, he visited her, she avoided meeting him.Lastly, in oct,2008,she came along with her mother,under pressure from both sides, stayed for one week with my son at his govt. quarter, did not allow even a simple touch, left on 7th day ,giving note that she did not love him and she will seek divorce but on pressure from parents back out. Since, we come from a respectable traditional family, went for restitution under section :-(9) of HM act to give her one more chance. She appeared in the court once, was advised by judge to co-habit with my son and tell the court whether she wanted to continue this relation. She neither came as per court directive nor she replied to the court. in the meantime, she was found in company of male companion in swimming pool in intimate pose. My son is mentally tortured and want divorce at any cost as he can/t bear anymore.My son long for his own child which he can,t in the present scenario. Kindly help and advise urgently with regard to the following:-
1. can restitution case under section 9 be converted to divorce petition under section 13(a) & (b)?
2.Can he file divorce petition under adultry,cruelty and desertion charges?
Request, kindly reply urgently,regarding what would be the best course of action in the matter pl?
with warm regards,
Jha, P. Chanra.
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Sir,
we have married on 24th jan 2007 everthing is going very good but recently, i am facing the problem against my wife and her mother and her relative is interfearing in my family she also suggest that don’t work in my house & she also not like my mother ,father & my sister.she always treted as a servent to my mom.
plz suggest is there any process to get divorce from my wife because she make my life very disgustoing.
Thanks,
Chandan
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DEAR ,
HI I GOT MARRIED IN JUNE 2007 . IT WAS A ARRANGED MARRIAGE.BUT DUE TO INTERFERENCE OF HER FAMILY , DIFFERENCES IN OUR OPINIONS , WE NEVER HAD A GOOD MARRIED LIFE.NOW , SHE HAS GONE BACK TO HER HOUSE ON 22ND APRIL 2009.SHE IS NOT READY TO DIVORCE.
AND ON THE OTHER HAND , I WOULD DIE BUT NOT STAY WITH HER.
I NEED DIVORCE ?
HOW CAN I GET IT ?
HOW MUCH TIME WILL IT TAKE AFTER I FILE THE CASE?
I HATE HER MORE THAN I LOVE LIFE.CAN THERE BE FASTEST N EASIEST WAY FOR RESCUE OF MY LIFE ?
PLEAS SUGGEST.
THANKS
NO NAME
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DEAR ,
HI I GOT MARRIED IN JUNE 2007 . IT WAS A ARRANGED MARRIAGE.BUT DUE TO INTERFERENCE OF HER FAMILY , DIFFERENCES IN OUR OPINIONS , WE NEVER HAD A GOOD MARRIED LIFE.NOW , SHE HAS GONE BACK TO HER HOUSE ON 22ND APRIL 2009.SHE IS NOT READY TO DIVORCE.
AND ON THE OTHER HAND , I WOULD DIE BUT NOT STAY WITH HER.
I NEED DIVORCE ?
HOW CAN I GET IT ?
HOW MUCH TIME WILL IT TAKE AFTER I FILE THE CASE?
I HATE HER MORE THAN I LOVE LIFE.CAN THERE BE FASTEST N EASIEST WAY FOR RESCUE OF MY LIFE ?
PLEAS SUGGEST.
WE DONT HAVE KIDS.
THANKS
NO NAME
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Excellent service, Since I am one among the affected man by my wife, please kindly forward all the Divorce and maintenance lagal assistnace to my mail.
Thanking you,
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sir
my wife is a working woman. i am also govt. employee having equal salary. her brother sister and members of her family interfere in my family matters. she does as they direct him .her attitude towards is very bad. she speaks treats them very cruelty. she mentally tortures my parents. her parents wants that she should give money to them. we did not took a penny out of her salary. she is leaving separately with her parents from 10 months. she always threatened me to file a case for dowry. she told me that court accept only females argument regarding dowry case. could you please tell me on which grounds i can take divorce from her. i have proof of above which are person of my neighborhood and friends
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my sister got married in the year 2009.after oneweek of her marriage her husband’s behaviour started changing.he started screaming at her.since after their engagement he was very polite to her,and with us(me my parents and brother).but after their marriage he is totally changed.he started torchuring his wife,in angry mood he throws all the items,and run away from the house.he use vulgure words for us and tries to make my sister out of the house.he tries to put fire in the house. my parents had taken strict action against him.we dont inform the police but we only warned him.he speaks against to my sister in front of his family but in front of my sister and us he says that he loves his wife very much and can’t live without her.he lives normally but since he is a big drunkard whenever he drinks he started fighting with his wife.when my parents asked him why he behaves ljke this he immediately denis from all his activities.he never wants that we go to meet our sister neither he let to come my sister to meet us.both are working at high post,so whenever my sister has to go out of station from her office he started fighting and he also don’t want to go out from his office side,and if he has to go out then he drinks after reaching there and says that he can’t live without her wife in drunkard voice. even his elder brothers and parents and other family members understand him that due to his drunkard behaviour he is loosing his personnel life.my sister never likes drunkard and lier man.my sister and my whole family is very jolly mood girl we never hoped that these will happen with us.my sister is behaving differentely these days, she is getting angry immediately.
please suggest some help.
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Tell me the solution For the wife who:-
1)Does not regard her husband, not at all obedient
2)Does not regard her in laws, in fact she always have acrimony with them, says harsh to old in laws.
3)Teaches her in laws in such a way that she is much elder than them.
4)Daily arguments with husband, in laws…
5)However myself and wife are staying in other city, separate from my parents, they come very few times, and in that time also she is not having good behaviour.
6)She does not like to go to my home town at his in laws residence even at Dewali, Holi, and any occasion.
7)Despite all that I gave each and every facilites to my wife, I am having 3 servents at my home, one maid, cook, Driver, she always starts quarrel…on any small work
8)Despite all that I always helped my brother in law, my in laws i.e wife’s parents..and brother…she wants that I should not provide any help to my parents and brothers, but to her parents..and brother.
9)My marriage has the worst arrangement ,any one could ever had.
10)She never think about that ,I work for 14 hours per day, after my work ,in the spare / relaxation time I always have quarrel, this has increased my stress level to blood flashing in my eyes.
11)She always insist that No decision should be taken without her permission, even if the parents are taking some decision.
12)Frequently she threatens me for complaining in the police.
IS THIS NOT ENOUGH TO PROVE A WIFE CRUEL.
ATTENTION
CAN SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT LEGAL ACTION CAN BE TAKEN AGAINST SUCH A CRUEL AND HARSH WIFE??
WE BOAST OF HAVING GOOD CULTURE IN INDIA, BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT MANY THINGS HAVE BECOME SO BASELESS NOW.
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wife,how many years be live along or with her family as per hindu act
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wife live along from four years,i want to create new one ,can i put in court ,or not
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DESERTION MEANS KEEPING PARTNER AWAY OF PHYSICAL RELATIONS FOR TWO YEARS OR MORE.
DESERTION OF HUSBAND FOR TWO YEARS OR MORE IS A STRONG POINT USED FOR FILING DIVORCE CASE.
AS U ARE AWAY FROM HER FOR 4 YEARS , FILL A CASE WITH TITLE DESERTION.
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Dear Sir/madam,
i mariiage on the period of my chinlhood period in my native place by parrent,after that i come in mumbai for higher study,after that i falling with love and marriage with her without knowing our family,she has to know each and everthing about the same and due to my familly preessor i leave my house and live with her till now,apart from that she’s verry well enterfare with my family and keep the good relation with him..
now due to the some her family problem she’s decided to leave me and want to divorce but still she’s keep a sexsual and physical relaton with me.before few days bach i come to know about her affair but i do’t want to go her past and i do’t want to leave her.
my marriage date is 01/01/2009
pls suggest me for the same as soon as possible on my mail id,,
thanks & rgds,,
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hey can u please tell me ur all situation so we can help u.
aish0_8@yahoo.com
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Dear Sir/Madam,
I had been married on 19th June 2009 and from that time my wife is in hostel. We are not ready for marriage but due to request from my wife i get convince for marriage. At that time i was not aware of indian Marriage Act. Now i want devorce from her so please suggest me what to do. I want it on urgent basis. If any other information required then please mail me on my mail ID.
Please urgent support required.
Regards,
Vikash
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Dear sir , Was the marriage cosumated or not. Pl file acase under section 9 of HMAct for restoration of cunjugal rights.Or if the marriage was not cosumated file a case for divorce
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sir,
one couple got married 5 years back now they have a baby & both are doing jobs, he got transferred to pune recently, she is not interested in leaving her job and she refused to go to pune, he went to pune & send a divorce notice to her, she inturn filled a case u/s 9 of Hindu Marriage Act. can u tell me what will be the consequenses of this case & is there any case law relating to this case?
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dear sir/mam
I have married a girl 5 yrs back(registry marriage).We are not living together(no one day).Is the marriage is void? please reply.
dj pandit
djorhat@gmail.com
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IT CANT BE VOID AS IT IS REGISTERED.
YOU HAVE TO FILE DIVORCE CASE AGAINST HER.
AGAIN , DESERTION FOR MORE THAN TWO YEARS WILL B TITILE.
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Hello Sir,
I married with girl in 2004 (6 years now) and from begining only my life was not good with her..
She went to her father’s house after 2 years from married and filed case againt me (for money of 15 K per month).. After involment of senior of our Samaj, she came back to my home..
Once again after 8 months she went to her father’s home and filed case against me (# 125 and 25 K per month amount)..
We are separate now for last 8 months and I want to get rid of this situation.. I have a Kid (3 years 0ld)..
Can you please let me know how to go futher..??
I have decided I will not accept her in my life again..
Please please give your advice..
Thanks..
Anil
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Dear all,
I married with girl in Nov 2004. We are from Hindu family. My wife’s parents not alive. She was living with her brother. After two months my wife force me to live separate from my parents. She told me that she feel there is any black magic in our house, so she do not feel comfortable there. I discussed this thing with my parents and they allow me to live separate. That time I thought this conman things in many girls do not want to live with there in laws. When we living separate she harass me by many way. Even she many time ask me that she will suicide. I told this thing to her brother but he also told me that its his old habit. She even tried to suicide by cutting her hand, by taking medicine, or even tried to jump while we are on traveling by motorcycle. I noticed that this is not normal behavior. I talk to her brother regarding this and ask to make him agree for treatment of psychiatrist. But both are not ready and said she is not mad. During this period she harass me many time I feel to take divorce. But I am alway thinking how could she live if we separated. Even her brother also not ready to take him at his home, and second thing I have three year daughter too. So I alway thing about my daughter. If we separated how my daughter could live with father or mother. Many time she become so much violent and attack on me. She is under going psychiatrist treatment since last 1.5 years. But I have not seen any improvement in her behavior. Doctor told me that she is suffering from schizophrenia. I tried to adjust with her till date even I have left jobs and good opportunity for her. I also have unemployed for 6-7 months for her. I left job of 2.80 PA package for her /my family and joined a low scale job of 0.95 PA package. But now I feel very depressed because I cant work properly and not able to progress in my life. Now my condition such bad I am thinking of suicide many times. But when I think about my daughter I stop myself and take some drinks pass the days. Now I am thinking about to separate from him with my daughter so I could make my daughter further. Please guide me or suggest me good way.
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hey if ur wife ill so there is no mistake of ur wife. n i heads of to u that u do lots of for ur wife. may be she is doing all thesething coz she live alone. or she dont have any one of her age grout. try to understand her’
contact me aish0_8@yahoo.com
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Dear Sir,
I am facing problems from my wife home. She don’t want to come to my home and she and her family fighting everytime we talk. Her and her family supporting them and harrasing me to stay with her leaving my parents.I dont want to continue this relation. Kindly advice with the procedure to my email nigam.ranjan@yahoo.com
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hi,
iam I married with boy in march 22 2008. We are from Hindu family. one month over he is fully money mind person , and he has one affair vth his old caste still twodate he continu, but he not agred vth dat affair so i want take divoce last 2008 april iam staying in my parents only, again he taken me 2009 feb, one month over still he continu his affaird so 2009 march again i came back two my parents home he puted me heavy taucher and he is so moneymind and he loves so much dat girl and she also married but her husbend also taken divorce so iam not interst two stay vth his now he came 2 settlements, he is give me dowry oly 5.5, shall i ask any further maintance plese gv me a gud suggest two me iam waiting for ur reply how i prosed wat i do know and one more thing my father expired mother vth sister both are un-educated so pls gv me good suggest plese plese its a humble request bye nalini
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Dear Sir/Ma’am,
I, Sandeep Kumar, works as a Sales Executive in a Healthcare Company in New Delhi. I faced a very big problem in my relations.
My wife Yogendri Rani lives with me in Delhi since 23-03-2010. We live on rent. Her elder sister Rajbala and her husband Jagdish lives neaby our place. My marriage held on 29-11-2009. I have own house in Village Achheja Hapur Ghaziabad. She stayed there before she came to Delhi. She insisted to come to Delhi. That’s why On 23rd March 2010 she came to Delhi with me. One week is passed very good.
After that Her Jija Jagdish started to meet her when I was on working. She never shared to me that he came or not behind me. When Her Jija started to come on alternative day, my neighbours informed me.
One day I came early from my work near about 1 pm then I found, the door was closed, some conversation was going on inside the room. I tried to listen but I could not listen. Then I knocked the door, He was sitting on my bed. My wife is feeling embrassed. I told her Jija why he was there. He told me He was just come for seeing her. I controlled myself but I said to him not to come my room when I go to my work.
He told me that He will see me. I ignored him and I scold my wife regarding this matter. On that day evening her elder sister came near abour 9:30 pm and threatened me that She and her husband will come and I can not do anything. i think the date was 22 or 23rd of April.
On 28th April with a big plan with support by my wife, My mothther in law Pista Devi, one another lady, my elder sala Vinod alias Bhup Singh
her Jija Jagdish came on my room when I was on work. They called me by phone and said to reach there on my room near about 2 pm.
As I reached there, they all abused me and beaten me and taken to my wife with them. I cried on the street and everbody in my neighboorhood saw me.
After that I mailed a FIR to delhi police.
Now, they are saying that I did fight with my wife and I beated her. But I never beated her. Yes! I scold her many times but never beated her. Now, they are giving me threat to go to in police and court and they will do dowry and domestic violence case against me. They are also saying that I had to give them in written in front of society people that I’ll never beat her.
I’m in a fix what should I do?
I,ve copied below what I,ve sent to delhi police.
On Fri, 30/4/10, Sandeep Kumar wrote:
From: Sandeep Kumar
Subject: Fw: F I R
To: ys.dadwal@nic.in
Cc: jtcp-sr-dl@nic.in, jtcp-ndr-dl@nic.in, dcp-newdelhi-dl@nic.in, dcp-south-dl@nic.in, dcp-southeast-dl@nic.in
Date: Friday, 30 April, 2010, 12:06 PM
Respected Sir,
This is continuation to my previous mail. Today, When I’m going to my offfice, near about 10 am when I was passing Meethapur Chowk. My Brother-in-Law, Jagdish; Resident of near Molarband School, Jagdish Dental and Optical Care Centre, stopped me on the way and threatened me of dare concious, ” You have to leave your wife Yogendri Rani otherwise I’ll see you and said I had old relations with her, Not to come between us. Otherwise you know I’ll set right to you by hook or crook.”
Please save my life from Mr. Jagdish as he threatened me today.
Regards
Sandeep Kumar
9873496596
— On Thu, 29/4/10, Sandeep Kumar wrote:
From: Sandeep Kumar
Subject: Fw: F I R
To: ys.dadwal@nic.in
Cc: jtcp-sr-dl@nic.in, jtcp-ndr-dl@nic.in, dcp-newdelhi-dl@nic.in, dcp-south-dl@nic.in, dcp-southeast-dl@nic.in
Date: Thursday, 29 April, 2010, 12:01 PM
— On Wed, 28/4/10, Sandeep Kumar wrote:
From: Sandeep Kumar
Subject: F I R
To: ys.dadwal@nic.in
Cc: jtcp-sr-dl@nic.in, jtcp-ndr-dl@nic.in, dcp-newdelhi-dl@nic.in, dcp-south-dl@nic.in, dcp-southeast-dl@nic.in
Date: Wednesday, 28 April, 2010, 9:22 PM
Respected Delhi Police,
I, Sandeep kumar, works in a Healthcare Company, Roche Diagnostics India Pvt Ltd as a Sales Executive and I live in House No. 397, Street No.3 Lakhpat Colony Part-2 Badarpur.
Today, I faced a big problem in my family relations. I live on rent and live with my wife in Delhi.
I have attached the detailed application which is in my hand writing, with this mail.
Kindly, provide me security if any mishappening takes place.
I’ll be highly oblige to you.
Regards
Sandeep Kumar
9873496596
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After 11year of married life with 2kids my wife was influence by person belonging to bramakumari, joined the cult and accepted as brother, walked out of my house and living with him since a year. they have compleatly brinwashed her and influencing her that i am not taking care of her and children, and blaming my parents and so on. i have not reacted to her taunts, kept ignoring her.
Recently she filed a complaint in the police station, that i have remove her from house, and she needs protection and wants to come back and regret the mistake.
i do not trust her any more, this might be a plan to get in and start troubling again. well wishers advice me to give her a chance. kindly advice, any registered aggrement will protect me, if yes, what will be the important points (claus) to be mentioned in the aggriment to protect me from further abuse and get into mutual divorce if claus are broken. kindly reply.
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My husband is not leaving for past 12+ years, i am afraid, as i was advice i will got only separation not the divorce.
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Hi
My NAME IS Gautam Currently in u.s i was married in 2005,I was forced to get married by my parents and never lived with my wife as i was going to college at that time later after lot of discrepancy i left to u.s in 2006 after one year of marriage.before me leaving to u.s the girls parents tried to stop me by all the ways they can at last try to threaten my parents by saying they will kill them if i go to u.s.a. after then my family never spoke to them and my wife. even i dont have any contact with my wife.Later we came to know that the girl is 2 years older than me and didnt even pass her bachleors, but the girls parents said she is doing her postgraduation, and said our jathaks were perfectly matched but later when my parents en quired our jathakas are not perfectly matched. we are not in contact for four years and now i want to get divorce form her as i was expecting highly qualified wife for me and who will understand me.we never participated in sex after marriage as i didnt want to get married at that age. and didnt like the girl.
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My NAME IS Radha Krishna I am Currently in Saudi Arabia.I was married in 2009 November,I Married a girl .but before marriage they did not tell anythig about her diabetic.She is Type-1 from her childhood.They hid this matter and she did not studied anything they showed us false post graduation certificate.After Marriage We came to now all these matters and they are telling they will remove my job. After marriage i think after 2 months we came to know the truth After that i never spoke to them and to my wife even i dont have any contact with my wife.She didnt even pass her bachleors, but the girls parents said she is doing her postgraduation, and said our jathaks were perfectly matched but later when my parents enquired our jathakas are not perfectly matched. we are not in contact till now and i want to get divorce form her as i was expecting highly qualified wife for me and who will understand me.we never participated in sex after marriage.I didnt like the girl.
What should i do. They are harresing my father and mother telling that they can do anything.
When we checked for her diabetic we could not find as she was taking more insulin everyday.But we came to know from relaible sources and i have seen in her house taking insulin.
I want to get divorce please tell me the procedure.
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i got married on 22/11/2010 with a girl whom i love a lot, she stayed with us for 65 days and went to her parents then after 5-6 days she returned to collect her books & my people at home & me requested her to not to go back and stay with us and she agreed after one week again she created a seen and i called her parents an no one turned up than i requested her brother, he called her and said pack-up your bags and come out as he’ll not come inside the house. after 2 and a half months she again came with her bro & a unknown chap and forcibly entered my house and started collecting things from our bed room without seeking anybodies permission in my absence, my mother was alone in the house they misbehaved with her when she tried to stop them. mean while i reached and found them humiliating my parents using harsh & abusive language i could not hold myself any more and told the to go out of my house and sent their parents to have talk with mine ………. they went all the way cursing me & my parents used very unpleasant/abusive word insulting & tried best to spoil my family’s reputation in the surrounding and went to the police to file a false complaint against us. the matter behind all this was she wanted me to get separated from my parents and stay with her alone because she did not wanted see my parents, and was suffocated by the responsibility of a married life . and my parents to me are more than God. i always wanted my wife to love & respect them more than me and take care of them in their old age. i was not willing to leave them. after we were called to the woman police station repeatedly & humiliated in 2-3 hearings i was force to bring her home and stay with her in my parents house for 2 months & if she feels uncomfortable there the police took it in writing that i’ll stay with her away from my parents. after 15-20 of her stay at my house i took a separate house on rent and shifted there with her for her to make her comfortable for few day things went ok but 3weeks back she told me that i;m going to my mother’s place as her mother is not well and ‘ll return after one week i din’t stop her and said ok. after 4-5 days she again called a false complaint against me to SHO women cell, they again called me for explanation. i’m waiting for her to come back but she did not returned till date. what i should do please suggest
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i am merriage before two year and my husband oppose to marriage certificate .
many my gvte. job leave because my husband jealouse from me because i am more educate than my husband . they and there family mamber always says bad comment and hit me . and i seprat from one half year . they never make marrage certificate i 4th job leave because i am married but i hava not mariage certificat what i do by ligal procedure. and my husban go out of state for higher education where they don’t show marriag because if they show married he also required marriage certificate.
they doing ms(PG)an centerel govet. institue.
pleas healp
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hi
main apni life se bhut paresan hu kyu ki maine kuch time phele ek ladki shaadi ki thi ab uske ghar wale mera usse talaq karwana chaate hain lekin main nahi chata ki main usse talaq du. main usse bhut pyar karta hu lekin wo apne ghar walo ke dawab main mujhse talaq chati hai kyu ki uske ghar wale ye khete hai agar tu chali gayi uske saath to hum apne aap ko khatam kar lenge kuch batoo ki main kya karu main usse kisi bhi kimat par nahi chhodna chata hoon.
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HI,I AM ABASHED BY WHAT I JUST READ AND THE ONLY THING OR PIECE OF ADVICE I WANT TO SHARE WITH YOU IS THIS: ALWAYS GO FOR THINGS THAT MONEY CAN NEVER BUY NOR THE DEATH OF SOMEONE, I AM TALKING HERE ABOUT LOVE AND HAPPINESS.
TRADITION,CULTURE,RITES AND RITUALS,BELIEFS,ELDERS AND GOD ARE NOT AGAINST TRUE LOVE AND WILL NEVER BE UNLESS YOU ALLOW THEM BE.
BEST OF LUCK.
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… AND NEVER FORGET THAT GREAT DECISIONS INVOLVES GREAT RISKS PARTICULARLY IN LOVE…
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My NAME IS xyz Currently in ahmedabad i was married in Dec2009,I was forced to get married by my parents and i m access pt that girl but she had a boyfriend,she she never try to sex with me .. and as i was going to office at that time later after lot of discrepancy in my life so i liked one of girl ..she also like me…and after 3 month i got a second marrieg with that girl.he also ready to spend her life with me she is chemical eng. n i dont have job the my further study ,,but my first wife before my second marriage wo hamesh 1 month main 15 to 17 days k liyw ghar chali jaati,,thi,.that time i told her ,,this is also u r home..u just stay here.. but every time her mother forcing her ( my first wife,) ki tu..ek kaam kar us ladke ko lekar alag rahne chali jaa,,and after 15 days i got a job in night shift ,,so main hamesha night main job karta tha ,,or hamesha,,saari salary papa ko deta tha,,becoz unk uper 8 lack..ka karz hain jo meri shadi..main lagaya tha usi ko utarne k liya i was going a job in night shif n day time i was doing my study ,,after marriage i already informed my first wife ,,before my marriage now i m not prepare to do this marriage so plz wait for 1 year but she,did not understand my problem..finely in family force n her family force i m married uske baad ..then i was going to my job in night shif ,,or main hamesha jitna hota use time deta tha ,,but usne,,kabhi bhi kisi chiz main mera saath nahi diya,,,or and one day she told said to her month ki wo he earn 8 thousand then her mother replied ki tu use lekar alag rahne chali jaa nahi maanta hain to ghar aaja tu.. or tere second marriage karwadungi.y baat hamrai shadi ko 2 month bhi complit nahi huye the,,aisa kaha,,,, wo hamesha mujhe force karti thi,..per now i m 23 year old..or mere papa per 8 lak ka karz bhi mujhe chukaana hain he is 65 year old n BP k mariz hain he dont have capability to earn money n give that person who helped my marriage time..so now it’s my responsibility to take care of my parents but ,,when i was done my second it’s not court marriage humne sirf ,,marriage burro main ki thi,, usk baad maine apni first wife ko bata bhi diya ki tum mujhekabhi bhi apne pati ka darza nahi diya is liye mujh se se misteack ho gai..but she every time to touch her boy friend hamesha,,,wo use kuch naa kuch batate rahte tha,,ek din uski maa aai or us mere ghar se le gai.. n they are filled a case against me n my family mermber 498a/494/118 so plz give m a right solution to resolve this meter beco..after this case i was loss my current job ,,in TIMES n i can’t concentrate on my study i m doing a journalism so what should i do to resolve this meter n in this 494 kya hoga ,,plz mujhe batao..if i’ll go to behind the baar so i’ll sucied i never face to my parents. so plz give me u r Email ID other wise u r CONT.. NO>> plz shweta mam or Saina plz help..me…
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MY WIFE IN NOT WITH ME SINCE 22APRIL 2009.
CAN SHE STILL FILE 498 CASE AGAINST ME ?
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MADHAR CHOD GHAR JORNAI KAI BAJAI TARNAI KI BAAT LIKHTA HAI, TARI KAYA HAJAROO KAI SATH CHODAI THI KI USKA NATIJA TU HAI
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MAA MAA RAI SALAI
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Hi,
Can I ask if the boy can file a divorce in the court when there is nothing from the girl’s point that proves as given above in 9 points. Will the court agree one sided divorce from Boy.
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i got married 12 years ago on 1999. now we have a 10 years child. 7 years ago she joined in brahmakumaris religion. for the past 6 years she refuses to make sexual relationship with me. so from the past 6 years we have not any sex as well as she refuses to touch me . now she always quarrel with my old parents so they live separately. she forced me to cut all the relations with all of my friends , relatives and other persons. she always scolds me without any reason.she forced me to obey all her words. there is not any peace in our home. but she is not willing to give diverse .i also love her , so bear her for this long period. but now her cruelness increases day by day. she gives me so much mentally torture.pl give me any solution. i dont want to diverse her if she make my home peaceful.
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Pl make recordind of her wrong doings.acts of misbehavears through aspy cemara. show these to her relatives and police after filing acomplaint against her. Ur child will also confirm this to the police.Also take up her behavear with the local head of Brhmkumari sect for redressal of ur grievances
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I fell in love and married my husband in feb 2008. Since the very first day I am being mistreated by my inlaws and husband. My husband has changed as if I never knew him. He abuses my parental family and me for everything. I took a long to accept this fact that I married a worng guy and came in a worng family. After trying everything I am now ready to end this relation as I can see what have I gone through and will go through if I remain in this. I am not sure if my husband has any affair or not but my heart says he dont and if he not why would he make this relation worst. I was so much in love with my husband that I left everything for him and he never cared for me at single instance of my life. I have felt embarassed, alone and helpless becasue of him, he made me cry every day and night. It all went to Financial, Physical and most imp Mental sufferrings.
Today I am working and expect a bright future. Again I feel embarassed that I have become a victim. Please let me know the procedure to file a divorce and the new law where divorce is made easy for people who suffer.
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Take actions against him . Don’t let it go like this…A man who has spoil your life should be punished.
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if anyone need any type of legal advice then surely they can email to me..
narainsaurabh23@gmail.com
or contact me -8957386658
Advocate Saurabh Narain
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If a guy does live together and gives marriage commitment to his GF and then if he leaves the gal after exploiting her for 6 moths mentally and sexually …Then what actions can we take against the guy?
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if have you keep any of evidence then approach the court. other ways offer him a coffee. because you each are took enjoy together equally.
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hi can i get maintenance along with divorce from my husband naina
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i had filed a divorce case in 2008 ,for past 2 years the case was going on. there has been no proper outcome of this now i have decided for compromise and even the other party is ready for it. when we presented an application of divorce by compromise in the family court the judge refused to grant decree and wants us to file a new case under mutual consent.my lawyer gave citations in which if a case is pending for more than a year then compromise at any stage is possible.but the judge doesnt agree to it . please help me . give me a solution to finish the case fast.
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U R ATLEAST LUCKY THAT U R GETTING OUT OF D MESS………THEN WHY NOT WAIT FOR ANOTHER SIX MONTHS……..
N U KNOW GO TO THE TOP OF D PAGE , U WILL FIND MANY CASES WHERE PEOPLE ARE JUST READY TO GIVE UP THEIR LIVES……..
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Irreconciable differences in divorce is acceptable in hindu law act in 2010 or not?
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Hi ,
This is Braj Bihari Pandey . I got married on 22nd Nov 2008 . Everything was fine till one year and after one year my wife has given the birth to one child . After 15days of delivery she got sufferred from a serios diseas called TB Menengities . Both families have done all the best possible efforts to cure him but we could not do so. She is in commo since one year and my life is almost finish because i love her very much . Our doctors are saying that it is impossible to predict her recovery . She may be in same conditions till a longer period . I have one kid who is also suffering as there is no one to take care. I am really confused how to take care of her , my child and me too .
Thanks
Braj Pandey
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I got married to a girl whom i loved in june 2010 in arya samaj mandir with her full consent and that got registered in the court.Moreover we have given a statement in the police station that we have done wedding with our full consent. We both didn’t disclosed the same in the families and never lived togather now, she has told the same to her parents and they are forcing for divorce. she wants me to wait for another 2 years like this and in the mean time im not even allowed to meet her or she will give me divorce as her parents are saying.
Can i do something leaglly to bring her to me as i dont want divorce and i am feeling to much depressed
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approach the /court for help in the matter.
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First of all, your marriage with your relative girl is not at all valid. Because you have already married and registered the same. Therefore your lover is your real life as per law. You should have had the courage to tell your parents about your lover and your marriage with her. Not doing so, shows your intention. How could you marry a girl, when you are already married and wanted to spoil her life. This is not at all fair on your part. Anyway, talk to your relative girl and tell her all the happenings. Perhaps, she may come for mutual separation. Otherwise, ask your lover wife to file petition under sec.9 of Hindu Marriage Act for restitution of conjugal rights. But if your relative girl objects, then really you will be put in trouble as you are liable to be punished for cheating her by concealing your marriage etc., Therefore try to go for mutual separation
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i’m a man of 29 yrs old, did register marriage to my friend. but forcefully my parents arranged for another marriage with a relative girl. 7 months had been passed on and i need to divorce her as soon as possible. what should i do to divorce her? as i want to live with my lover whom i married first.
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Meri wife mere In-Laws se mil kear jhuthe cases kear rhi hai.usne 498A ka case kear diya hai.ek maintaince ka bhi.uski mother ka relative ek hawaldar Mukesh,Sector-21,panchkula main posted hai.jo unhe jhuthi complains banwa kear deta hai different different thano se.apne dosto ki help se.unhone is ground pe meri bail reject kerwa di ki main unhe dhamki deta hu ki main apni jaan lekar unki family ko criminal cases main fassa dunga.mujhe kya kerna cahey.ismain ladke ko kese step by step chalna hai.kindly suggest me.i will wait for ur valuable suggestio.
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Hello sir,
I got married in april 2006.Becouse of cruly behaviour of my husband I came back to my parents house.But after one year with the concent of all my family members I went back to my husband’s house, but same behaviour was continue from his side. From that time no contact is there inbetween our family. From my side my parents made divorce papers of my Samaz and sent to him but he is not ready ti sign and not giving any positive response.
Now please suggest what I shoud do,shall I go by the court or tell me if any other procedure will be there.
And pleasec tell me minimum period of automatically divorced after sepration.
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meri wife mujse talak lena cahti hai.par bacche ko mere against karti rahti hai,mai use talak dena nahi cahata,so what can i do please suggest me.
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My husband beaten me & attempt to kill me & run away.Police declared them as P.O.We both do not want to stay with each other.Now my family want to marry me again.how can i marry again without legal divorce.I dont have any issue & dont want any alimony from them.Please guide me.please keep this private & confidential & do not show this question.Thankyou.Please give advice soon as soon possible.
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Hi,
As this is a right Platform to discuss divorce and maintenance, I would like to ask about my case.
I got married in June 2010 and My wife filled a divorce case in our Samaj court (this is approved by High court) where her parents and she has provided all false statements about my family and myself.
Their plan is to get huge maintenance from me and divorce but we said that we do not want divorce and we are still ready to accept her and we do not accept her parents interference in our family. But they want divorce and maintenance.
I am looking for some help from you guys about how to avoid paying maintenance to them and get divorced.
My wife is Msc (Chem) but not employed yet.
Please help me by providing some ideas.
Thanks for help.
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res sir,
my younger brother married before 8 yr.and has a son of 7 yr.
he has done bems course so he started travelling bussiness.
meanwhile some of his wife relative told him to sell some old car which was given by him on commision base, then he sold 6/7 car but after some days found that, that car was stollen by him at that time he was arrested and lived in jail about 7/8 month.and relised
now again some car found at my brother house and again arrested him now he is in jail at ipc 379and 420 now bell prcedure is going on
REAL THING IS THAT…….
His wife has left their child at me and gone to her mother,s home since 4 month for a second marriage and they are tarchering to me for their divorce and the gold that has given to her
Real thing is that from the childhood i was apart from him i.e.from my parent at another villege with my grandpha. and from his marriage he was living apart from my home in my village i have told them that please let him to come we will manage your divorce and the gold is at his locker.i promise you to divorce but they are not in mood to hear me and contineously tarchering to me .i have complained to police station also
Now they are going for court case againt me and my brother.my brother says that i will not give divorce to her.
Is it possible?????????
how long can we streatch the case??????????
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i am seriously being harassed by my wife for money and other things for her useless brothers and mother.
Life is practically tiring as i wake to tantrums/ drama and come back home to face some more.
is there any way out for me.
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Pl make all incidents of missbehavear of ur wife with spy cemara available in market for Rs1500/ Report to police of her miss behavear.
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Sir/ mam,
Mai hindu mahila hoon. Meri shadi may 2005 me hui thi. Mere pati kuchh job nahi karate. khane pahanne ki bhi bahut pareshani thi. kai baar mai seriously sick hue lekin treatment bhi thik se nahi karaya. mere prati unka koi emotional attachment bhi nahi tha. sasu maa bhi mentaly pareshan karati thi.
esliye oct’2007 se mai apane mata -pata ke ghar pe aa ke rah rahi hoon.
ab mai apane pati se divorce lena chahati hoon taki mai punah vivah ke liye dekh sakoo.
Please mujhe divorce ki prakriya aur time taken atha esame aane wali mushkilo ke bare me batayen
mera maika aur sasural alag alag district me hai. es case me mujhe kanha se divorce ke liye case karana hoga?
Please reply me on my email:
m_k_sri@hotmail.com
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seema @ what will u do if ur 2nd husband lost his job aft marriage for any reason..? marriage is not a video game that u can change if u do not like it…
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Sir i got married 18 months back and my so called wife is suffering from a disease called a bipolar disorder from last 7 years and this thing was conceled from us before marriage and we came to know only after 25 days of marriage and first i tried for her treatment but everyone told me it is uncurable disease and there after from last 16 months i am fighting a legal case for divorce under section 12 moreover i am in a job were i have to live abroad for 6-7 months at a strech and they are taking advantage of this only as they know that i cant get holiday for more then 2-3 months they just lingaaround the case and once my leave are finished they got the case cancelled so plz help me one more thing i have ailling parents alone and they cant handle the case proceding in my absence so plz help me and guide me if their are any similar case (disease wise) waiting for your reply eagerly
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hello sir / madam,
meri saadi ko 1 year huva hai date 06/06/2010 , 1 sal ke bad me muje malum pada ki meri wife ko sickle cell anemia naam ka varsagat ( heredity) problem hai. aur muje lagta hai ki meri wife ye pahlese janti thi. aur meresath janbujke saadi ki to hai. to aur hamare family ke bich me bada vivad chal raha hai, to me wife ko legaly divorse de sakta hoo?
mere advocet ne muje bataya hai ki badi bimari me legally divorce liya jjata hai. kya ye sach baat hai? please help me.
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I got married on February 2010 . But for last 8 months, my mother in law and my wife is behaving erratically.they abuses my mother , my father and telephone all my relatives…and harassing. what should i do..
plz give a suitable suggestion
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I am seeking divorce with my husband. can u help me with this regard
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my wife and me not stay together from last 4 yrs. she compliant agst me of 498A and my mom and me in jail for one night. but we got an bail from court. now she file case for davree in puna court and from last 3 yrs she not attaend 498A case in Kalyan court. can u give me suggetion what to do?
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Me and my husband stay away for 3 years now and we want to file Mutual divorce….He is in Us and am in bangalore…..but got married in tamilnadu….we have 5 yr old child……
CAn you plz advice me if
# i can aply divorce in blore other than the jurisdiction we got married
# if I can submit the petition along with his sign.
Thanks
Swathi
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Sir, This is mk….
I was seviorly affected by my wife. my marriage date is 11.2.2005.
She went away with in 1 year, so i am living alone since 2006.
i have one daughter too, How can i separate legally along with my daughter from my wife? pls give me a solution and save my life….
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is a pensioner required to pay lumpsum or montly maintenance for wife and children, in case there is there no other income other than pension.
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These days maximum number of Divorces are taking place due to the interference of mother in laws…Few mother in laws r no lesser than a witch. They irritate the bahu like anything…Firstly by interfering and then dominating and if these doesn’t work then simply by asking the son to divorce and to get rid ….
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I highly recommend Vivah of you are trying to plan or understand the traditions of an Indian wedding. As a first generation indian woman raised in the United States, I found this Vivah to be an excellent resource. It is worth the buy. You won’t be disappointed!
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My wife has left my home just beofre 10 days with misguidenace by my auntinlaw …. the reason she is giving is that she has given a call from some1 and informed her to left my home imediately , if she will not do that than S/he will send us to jail for some reason ,, but my wife is niether giving me that number nor name of the caller .. already she has dleted the number from the mobile phone…. and before 10 days she left my home at night along with my aunt in laws…Now i m trying to inform to my in law family to send back her with their responsibilty , they are denying .. and making reason that my mother is not supposed to make our marrige life successive..I said them to resolve the matter amongst few responsible pesron of both families , they doesn’t aggrred.. and now giving my warning to go till final stage of counterversy…. pls help to resolve this matter…pls email me your suggetions/. ….thanks frenz..
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Hello,
I need legal advice on my problem , I got married 1.5 years back and we didn’t put any demand before and after marriage , but when I become father of a daughter I saw few of chats and messages of my wife on fb and gmail and when I ask her she start quarrel with then hurt herself by hitting her head on wall , afterwards this behavior is common when ever there is any conflict between me and her now since last two months she is blackmailing me that if u r going to leave me then I will file dowry case. I am very much tense due to that I am worried for my parents and daughter , I also referred dr. psychiatrist for it and in MCM I test my wife found in depression , paranoid personality and swings of moods. but I don’t want to live with such a wife who blackmail me on dowry and don’t respect me.
Plz let me know, do I get some legal protection against dowry blackmailing from my wife
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make record of her behabear by spy camera and after five seven such incidents lodge a police complaint against her for harssing u and file adivorce suit in the court on the basis of creuality.donot disclose that she mantally sick.say that she is creual to u and ur family mambers.
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I got married on 25th jan 2000. My wife left me on 16th april 2000. & since then we living separately til date .she also filed false 498a case against me & against my acquittal she has gone to the highcourt & now it is pending .now I have filed divorce case in the family court. Advice solicit what to do & how to proceed with the cases .
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Sir,we are married in temple without registration in 1997.now after 14 years my husbend was denieing me.he get a marriage with women in 2005.so he has been cheeting for 6 years.now i put the 498a case on my husbend and 494 for bigony.now he is denieing me,,i have no marruage cirtficate but have a notary with pp lawyer in 1997.is this useful for my case,,finally what can i do now
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My wife ran away 20 months back she does’t want to stay with me and even she does’t want to give divorse to me. what can i do?
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you could ask some advice from a professional
http://www.sahllaw.com/domestic-violence/
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I tried a lot to call back to my wife back to home, she denied to come.
Here, I am looking lot of mens suffering due to wife’s harrassment, however there is no law which can help men to resolve the harrassment soon. Even a non-working wife get seperated just to get maintenance. The domestic violence law is misused by most of the women. Is there anyone, who can let me know any group so that i ll join with those people who are really suffering badly and help me to come from my wife harrassment.
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dear sir i married nov2006 but my wife faceing a medical problem that is unicarnet uterus the consulted docter saying your wife can not give a birth to child her uterous is v v small .(after two time leproscopy) now in a legal reason can i take divorce
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Hi Ganesh,
File a divorcee case on the medical ground , You will get the order of divorce.Thereafter you leave happily by marrying another person of your choice. .sdharani120@gmail.com, 09741425514,bangalore
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i m a newly married woman i love someone else and i don’t want to live with my husband my marriage done by my parents by force can i take divorce for this reason?
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hELLO sIR,
I have very complicated problem, my bf got married but after marriage alos he is not able to stay with his wife as he still loves me , he struggled to stay with his wife but they both are not comfortable to stay together , he works in abroad so after marriage his wife went to his place and stayed for few months but now they are staying separately from almost an year , now my bf wants to give divorce to her as he cant stay with her and her wife alos doesn’t wnat to stay with him but she is not ready to give him divorce. what my bf can do ? how can he apply for divorce ?and one more thing , few days before marriage itself my bf told her taht he is not intersted to get marry with her than she threatened him that she will commit suicide if he will not marry to her and she will give divorce after few months , now she is not ready to give divorce and when my bf tells her taht I dont want to be with you , she says I iwll forcefully stay with you , its my right . what he can do , please advice! before marraige he dint get courage to break up the marriage and now also he is getting tortured…..please advice how can he get divorce….
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sir,Am a Ctrl.Govt employee. I got married on 2009 and having a one month male baby. She was undergoing MBA while our marriage and mostly she stayed at her own house showing this reason as her house is 60 Kms away from my house.She told only lies and hiding facts from me from the beginning. We stayed only 03 months continuously each together after our marriage. She abuses my Sister(Married) & my widow mother and make calls to my friends & neighbors showing this. She also make calls to the neighbor at my job place and harassed me. She sending irrespective , reckless and abusive messages to me.(Everything I saved) She was in affair with some one at her home town before marriage. When her father threatened her about his suicide then she agreed to marry me. This fact was confessed by herself to me. Last 04 months we have no communication with each other. Now she and her father started threatening me. First She put sexual allegations on me as am in affair with one girl.But nobody believe this as they know me personally as what kind of person am. Now she changed her stand and telling she will live with me only after my mother’s death.She stayed in my home only some odd days.Am mentally upset and thinking about divorce because I loved her very very much But now I can’t love her. I am an innocent man having no bad habits including smoking, drinking, Tobacco or any other illegal connection with girls. She was my everything and i have many dreams. Every thing destroyed by her. They never allowed me to see my own baby. So please forward some legal ideas to save my life from that cruel lady as she playing with my life and completing her revenge with her parents by giving a compulsory marriage life with me. .
PLz provide ur suggesestion…I will be grateful to u..Plz mail me..
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i am a 36 yrs old hindu person.
my wife is not able to give a birth of chield can i take divorce?
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Hi Shivkumar,
File a divorcee case against him on the ground “impotency”, You will get the order of divorce.Thereafter you leave happily by marrying another person of your choice. .sdharani120@gmail.com, 09741425514,bangalore
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Hi … I got Married 2 year back And i have a one year child also but after 2 month of my marriage problem start taking place in my house and in my life as well and still the problem is going on. my wife usually visit her mother’s house every month for one week ( mere satth woh month ke 23 din he rehti hai) and if she can’t visit her mother’s house in a month then after 2-3 month she must be visit for one month. there are also so, many problem as well. My mother cry alone her room. She can’t say any word to her b’coz her mother threat for POLICE. now the situation is that we both(Me-My Wife) have chat only on the important matter only other wise we don’t talk each other and not even have any sexual relationship from last 6-7 month. SO, on that ground can i get divorce…. plzzzzz guide me it’s really important for me and my family
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I got married five & half years back. We could not have any baby up to four & half years. Suddenly, my wife got pregnent & delivered a baby 10 months back. Now, I came to know that the baby is not mine but she got pregnent by her boyfriend. She still want to be stay with me but don’t want to end her relation with her boyfriend.
Now, I want to divorce her. Can you plesae guide me what to do & how. I stay in Delhi.
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Do what U want to (really feel to) do… do not force your-self for anything!!!…
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Hi Raj
File a divorcee case against him on the ground “BIGAMMY”, Thereafter you leave happily by marrying another person of your choice. You will get the order of divorce.sdharani120@gmail.com, 09741425514,bangalore
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i m staying with my wife and daughters from 22 yrs but sexual relations between us has been totally stop since last few days/months due to mutual conflict. v can not take divorce due to single home, children future etc. pl guide me.
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I got married in Dec 2004, marriage was registered in Jan 2005…
from Jan 2010, I am not living with that person (its around 2 years now)… and not willing to stay with him anymore… I NEVER felt/feel that I am married and was very frustrated and unhappy in all those years… in time of 5 years that person NEVER satisfied me physically or we NEVER had SEX …
after 2-3 years I started asking for baby but that person could never perform sexually… it use to b me asking to have Intercourse to have baby but that person failed to do it… I asked him to go to the Doctor but he did not take it seriously…even I myself bought Ayurvedic strength
(physical strength ) medicines for him but he did not take… he NEVER used condom…I remember asking him “Why do not you use condom” … he did not give any answer…I had very dirty experience when he tried to do sex with me … he never could do anything but use to get tired by spreading dirt before actually trying anything…. I never saw him excited/keen for sex…. he could not even make me laugh by sharing a joke…he is very timid, slow, boring and narrow…many many times he said “give me last chance to improve” BUT he never improved… I NEVER felt that he is MAN n do NOT think so even today…it was arranged marriage against my will and I NEVER loved him or liked him but still tried to have intercourse to have baby…
I use to force myself to try to continue marriage…but finally I gave up… I feel peacfull as I have left that person…I feel bad n sad that just for society, tradition, culture I forced myself to live with him under frustration for years… can I apply to NULLIFY (VOID) marriage… Please guide
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Hi Sweety,
File a divorcee case against him on the ground “MENTAL CRUELTY”, ‘IMPOTENT” You will get the order of divorce.Becz, that habit of your husband will not stop, since he has become addict to it.Thereafter you leave happily by marrying another person of your choice.
sdharani120@gmail.com, 09741425514,bangalore
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Can anyone please upload or mail (rajsun_2006@rediffmail.com) the format of petition for ‘Dovorce by conscent’. I am in Delhi.
Thanks
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my name is neha tripathi
sir meri shaadi 11.02.2010 me hui thi iske baad mere hubby mujhe dowry ke liye pareshan karne lage vo mere sath kissi bhi tarah kaa koi relation nahi bana rahe the unke ghar waalo ko bhi ye sabhi baate pata thi but vo log bhi unhi kaa sath de rahe the but un logo ne 24 feb 2011 ko raat me hume maardene ki koshish ki jisse dar kar maine 498 a kaa case baroda me file karaaya hai , iske baad mainti nance kaa case 125 satna me processing me hai , 406 streedhan case bhi file ho chuka hai.
sir shaadi ke kuchh time baad inki kamiya saamne aane lagi aur jab maine inhe doctor ko dikhane ke liye force kiya tab patachala ki ye impotent hai inme erectile dysfunction ki prblm bhi hai.
agar mai inse 420 section ke tahat divorce lekar ke apne papaji kaa poora paisa jo unhone shaadi me lagabhag 20lacs kharch kiya kya vo sab vapas milega????
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Please guide me about how should I get rid of my frustrating problem!!!
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Sir,
I need ur help plz help me ,
Meri sis ne 2 month pahle same cast k ek ladke ( ne dhokhe se galat bol k ) se shadi ( court marriage ) kar li hai dono walig bhi hai, kuch din pahle hi hume is bat ka pata chala hai ladka abhi job ki tyari kar raha hai pata nahi uska job hoga bhi ya nahi aur thora sanki bhi hai, uske family wale abhi arrange marriage karne k pach me bhi nahi dikhte,,aur ladka humesha humare pariwar ko mansik roop se tang karta rahata hai aur meri ek choti bagan k bhi shadi na hone ki dhamki deta hai, ab sari hakikat jan k meri bahan uske sath rahne ko tayar nahi hai aur aur jid karne pe mar jane ki dhamki bhi deti hai wo aur hum dono log chahte hai ki us ladke se picha churaya jaye kya koi ayi sa prabdhan hai jisse is sadhi ko tora ja sake plz help me aap ka jabab hum 6 logo ko jiwan dan de sakta hai plz
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my wife and my son had gone for summer vacation on 5th may to delhi her mayaka prev. we were hvg some dispute as in every family her father was expire in his early childhood now she had went to his chahcha from last 6 month i m trying to contact my child for communication and to him he is not letting me to talk my child school was reopen on 7th july when i move there for application i came to know that some had came for TC
then i write appl. and received that without my notice and signature no TC shd b issued. i m not getting location of both of them as no communication
what i can do now ? is some law that after living 6 months alone she can get DIVORCE easily. i am worried of my son
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sir/madam,
i am a 23 yrs girl i love a boy he also love me but my parents are not ready so he want me to get court marriage but my parents want me to get married somewhere else other wise they will kill them selves and love my parents so much i cannot do this to them can i take divorce after getting married to the person to whom my parents want just for this reason that i don’t love him?
please reply as soon as possible it’s not too late now
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Hi Prachi,
Yes, that’s true and you can do this in case your parents are not ready, but you have to have anything in your hand to have a divorce. Let me know if you have this or anyother problem. Mail id – legalsoluation@gmail.com
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Hi my name is vaishali.
I don’t know if my case stands true for legal divorce..
My husband is addicted to watching porn day in and out and tries to behave in the same way..
Recently when we had gone to Phillipines.
He went tona strip bar and took 2 girls..
He made me drink 4-5 tequila shots..inwas high. He made the girls to do all the insane things to me..he also got physical withe girls..
Now though i was high I cldnt get this incident out of my mind.
After that he promised me tht he will not do such a thing again.
But every now and then I catch him watching porn on mobile or tv..he is very inclined to this kind of stuff. Which is affecting my married life. I don’t know what to do.. I think I can’t stay with a man of this character..
Pls advise.
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its his personal problem let it be do it alone infront of tv computer.
rakesh2585@yahoo.com
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Hi Vishali,
File a divorcee case against him on the ground “MENTAL CRUELTY”, You will get the order of divorce.Becz, that habit of your husband will not stop, since he has become addict to it.Thereafter you leave happily by marrying another person of your choice.
sdharani120@gmail.com, 09741425514,bangalore
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Hi Vaishali,
This is not correct and you can do a legal case.
mail id – legalsoluation@gmail.com
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498 A case mai bail hota hai ya nahi husband ko. high court ko power hai ya nahi 498 A case mai bail daini ka. pahalai he lower court nai jin logo nai larki per julm kiya tha un mai say kuch logo ko larka wala nai lower court name hata diya. us kai bad larka nai high court say conditional bail lai liya jab kai larki per bahut julm huwa tha. ab high court ka order hai kai larki ko lakar larka apnai ghar jai aur us ko acha say rakhai jab larki tayar nahi hai. koi bhee apna ghar nahi torna chata hai. ab larki kai pass ek hee solution hai suside. she is very tensioned. what is solution. larka larki ka ek bacha tha us ko bhee laikar ja chuka hai aur larki ko na milnai daita hai aur na hee laikar aata hai koi kai us kai pass high court ka bail hai. bacha ka age 3.1/2 hai. jab kai larka kanoonun nahi rakh sakta hai.
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HI
MY WIFE & ME LIVING SEPAREATLY FROM LAST TWO & HALF MONTHS. SHE WANT PRIVAY FROM FAMILY AND SHE WANT TO LIVE SEPERATELY WITH ME. HER PARENTS ARE WRONGLY SUPPORTED HER. I AGREE TO LIVE SEPARTELY EVEN MY PARENTS ALSO AGREE, ONLY MY CODITION IS SHE HAVE TO LIVE WITH MY PARENTS FOR 6 MONTH & THEN WE WILL SHIFT TO ANOTHER HOUSE. BUT SHE IS NOT AGREE FOR THIS. ON THIS GROUND CAN I PUT A FILE FOR DIVORCE. B’COZ SHE DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY, ONLY SHE MARRY B’COZ HER PARENTS WANT. SO SHE HAVE NOT TO WOORY ABOUT WASTING OF TIME, BUT WHY I SHOULD WASTE MY TIME B’COZ OF HER STUPIDNESS AND CAN I CLAIMED THAT SHE MARRY ME ONLY B’COZ OF ALIMONY?
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Hi Vab,
Did you get anything from it. This is a cruel face of a woman. I am facing the same situation and also got the 498A case.
Eventhough I got the stay and bail and now they are ready for everything.
I just wanted to know what you did in your case.
Vicky
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are to shadi hi q karte ho?
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thts great idea i m also gree with u …..:)
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shadi ek ladoo hai jo na le wah mara jo le wah
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yes it can be care, rakesh2585@yahoo.com
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ho gai galti bechare se……………. ab kya solution hai ye batao
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if i am living seperate from wife since 7 years is this a ground for divorce
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yes definetly, You can file a petition for divorce on the ground of judicial separation.
srishaila,Rakshak foundation,09741425514,bangalore,sdharani120@gmail.com
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Excellent service, Since I am one among the affected man by my wife, please kindly forward all the Divorce and maintenance lagal assistnace to my mail.
Thanking you,
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Hello,
I want divorce from my husband as he has tortured me physically and mentally.need divorce immediately…
kindly help me out with this.
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ser ke uperse water hne per bye bye kah do koi ho chahe husband chahe wife
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Where can mutual consent divorce be filed
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Iam naina sir I want divorce from my husband & I want that my child should stay with my husband.My husband is ready for divorce & also ready to live with child but my child is not agree so is there any process that my child live with my husband.whats the divorce procedure please help me…..
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naina ji frist toh jab divoce ki baat hai wah toh aap ji aap ke bech ki baat hai baaki child jiste pass rahana chahe yah deside child ager bara hai wah kare small hai toh jo dono me usey yada pyaar de sake wah rakhley 9810022855
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sir magr wo to mere hi pas rehna chahta hai aur uski age 7years hai to decision kiska mana jyega parents ya phir child ka
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aur main is condition main ni hu ki uski responsibility le saku.
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I love a girl but she is already married so we are planing to run away & do court marriage & her husband is in oppose for divorce.After that marriage her husband will give us trouble or not if yes then suggest us the solution.
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i am 25 years old. i got married 2 years back but i do not want to do this mariage mere parents ne forcefully ye shaadi krai mai ye marrige nai karna chahta tha my parents force me to live with that girl but from day one i dont like that girl n aur mai hamesha apne ghar se door hi raha hun jabse meri marriage hui kyunki mere ghar wale force karte hai muje us ladki k pass jane ko kyunki mera n to usse koi physical relation hai n n koi baat hoti hai maine use apne maarige se pehle hi bta diya tha mere ghar wale mujse jabardasti karte hai . plz suggest me how can i solve my problem bcoz i dont want to go that girl so i want to give divorce to her so i dont want to spoil her life bcoz i am not physically attached with her no feelings for her i tell her so many times that i want divorce but does not affect on him so plz tell me the procedure of divorce n how can i apply for divorce?
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plz give me suggesstion anyone
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ager aap ji ka acident ho jaye aap ji ke haath par kaam na kare aap ki wife divoce kar le kya mud hoga aap ji ka kaisa man hoga
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Hi frens,
I am kajal from Delhi, i got married in July 2011 and my husband is working I Govt. concern.Before marriage I got engaged twice with failure.With my first fiancée I got emotionally attached like any other girl and we get involved in physical relationship for 2 month and deserted me…. then while my father is looking for another boy…..my Jijaji took advantage of situation and and started sexually exploiting me earlier by force and then later with my choice. in the meantime i got engaged with a boy and we started talking and liking each other…then some how he came to know about my earlier physical relationship with that boy and Jijaji and he dissolve the engagement,in the meantime my father looked for other realtion and i started loving my jijaji and physical relation continue then i got engaged & married to some other state boy and after marriage somehow he came to know abt my relationship wid my jijaji..and that boy…..
NOW HE DOES NOT WANT ME TO STAY WITH HIM.AND HE IS WAITINH FOR ONE YEAR AND HE WILL BE FILLING THE DIVORCE…HE HAD MOBILE PHONE RECORDING IN WHICH I CONFESS TO HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MAN “BEFORE MARRIAGE”..WILL HE BE ABLE TO GET RID OF ME…..I DONT WANT TO DIVORCE HIM…PLEASE ADVISE ME
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pahale toh himmat kar jija ji se baat karni bad karo namaste be band karo apne husband ke aage piche gumna or uski har chig ka dhyan do usey filling ho ki tumhare siva wah rah nahi sakta usey kah do jo galti hui wah dubara nahi hogi baki sms me rajeev 9810022855
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Tum jojaji se saadi karlo
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Respected Sir/ Madam
I got married on oct 6, 2011. i have been cheated by my wife. she has been suffering form leukocytoclastic vasculits, rheumatoid arthritis and some dental problems such as gum bleeding,etc. she did not tell me about her disease before our marriage (arranged marriage). After two days of marriage , i came to know that she is ill. now plz tell what can i do legally ? is there any relief from court ? i want divorce but she refuses to . plz help me.
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Hi friends
I am srinivas babu (age 31) From Bangalore
My wife name is Neelamma (age 28) 2nd PUC, she is from small village in Mandya.
I don’t know English so mach. I think u all kn understand.
I studded up to 3rd std. we got marriage at 2002. I have a small bissnass .monthly I am doing 20k+. my wife is not happy with that.. I cont do more. she will shot on me, she will beet me, if I tell her anything she will go for suicide. 100% I am not happy with my wife from last 7 years. Her bad brothers are sapporting her . I bayed new sift car on 14.2.2012. she said it is a 3rd class car, by that time I got so ___________. She will not live to me go to my sisters and brother house. She as not sent me on new year 2012 party also .
I canot live with my wife,
I canot live without my wife allso,
I canot go for divorce, bcz her background is not so good E1 they kn do anything to me.
I canot go for suicide, bcz I have 2 lovely kids ( age 7 & 1 ).
What to do ? plz let me know.
Plz help me. Email: partyweb1@gmail.com
Thank you .
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Hi,
I am married to a working women, we both are working. we have a child 1 yrs old, my parents are taking care of my child in my native which is 120kms away, my wife does not have sympathy on my parents, we visit to my native weekly or once in 15 days. my wife speaks vulgar words on them. i am very much harrassed due to her attitude. She also don’t make my breakfast and lunch. She blames me that I have girlfriends outside and I go with them. i am very much single. please suugest any solution for this. any grounds to take divorce from her. if i asked she tell she wont agree.
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meri wife mere sath nhi rehna chahti hai… par uske ghar wale mujhe dhamki de rhe hian ki wo mujhe jhute case me phsa denge.. aur meri wife ko STD bhi hai.. phir bhi me use except kar rha hun par wo humare sath adjust nhi karna chahti he,,, is condition me main kaise divorce lu…
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Sir meri shadi aaj se 3years pahle hue thi jab meri umber 17 years old the tab lekr aaj tak me usko lekr bhi nahi aaya hu ab me usse divorce chahta hu please help me My mail add: rksunia1@gmail.com nd mobile no 8059521595
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meri bahan ki saadi 05.12.2005 ko hindu riti riwaj ke tahat mere gaun me samppan huaa 9.12.2005 ko uski bidayee huee sath me mai v gaya tha waha me 4 dim raha tha jab tak mai waha raha tab tak sab thik hi raha lekin jaise hi mai waha se aa gaya meri bahan ko apne husband k babyhaar thik nahi laga lekin wo hum log ko kuch nahi batee, mere bahan k husband delhi me rahte the wo kuch din k bad wapas delhi chale gaye aur waha jaane k bad wo kabhi phone v nahi karte mere bahan karti thi to wo thik se bat nahi karte the, ek din meri bahan phone kari to koi larki phone receive kari thi aur wo v apne aap ko uska wife bata rahi thi , tab mere bahan ko jhatka laga ko fir mere ko phone kari mai v mumbai me rahta tha, mai usko to pahle samjhaya ki kuch nahi hoga sab thik ho jayega lekin wo larka bahut bara frod nikla mai apne fufa ji aur saadi ka jo midiyeter tha uske saath delhi gaya uske pass to wo sidha sa jawaab diya ki mai yaha pahle sadi suda hu mere ko us larki se koi reletion nahi hai, humlog bahut tarah se usko samjhane ki koshish kiya lekin wo nahi mana tab nai wapas aa gaya aur apne bare fufa ko sab kahani bataya wo ek advocate hai wo v bahut tarah se samjhane ki koshish kiye mai to uske gaoun v gaya uski maa ko pucha to wo boli ki ja k case kar do yaha ek bat mai aapko bata du ki ye sab hote hote 1 saal bit gaya is bitch wo larka ka bahi mere se 15000 hajaar rupyaa v liya ki uske per kuch karj ho gaya hai isliye wo aisa kar raha hai, fir mai ek saal bad case kiya lekin case me v kuch nahi huaa wo log ko jamanat mil gaya aur fir wahi kahani her 1- 2 mahine pe case ka date hota hai lekin kuch result nahi milta mai aaplog se sirf itna puchna chahta hu ki kya meri bahan ka jindi fir se nahi thik ho sakta hai mai chahta hu ki mai apni bahan ka fir se kahi saadi kar du lekin jaha v jata hu sab yahi bolte hai ki pahle wo case khatam karo aur us larke se talak lo fir kuch ho sakta hia. mai bahut hi garib ghar se hu mere papa kisaan the ab hum do bhai ek private co me kam kar k ghar chala rahe hai lekin mere maa aur papa ko is ghatna se itma dhkka laga ki wo log bed pakr liye ………….please koi v mere ko is paresaani se niklne me meri madad kar sakte kya?????? my no 09852624697 my email id amitforbalaji@gmail.com
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PLZ HELP me out plz anyone can help plz plz what shold i do i m also suffered from marriage my wife parents dont accept me and we married on 2011 and her family was tatlly against before marraige she told me everything i understood her thats y we married together after that my family accpted her and my family was supportint me too much after maarige bcoz my fam did all the thing court work so nw what happened my wife went outside from city i left her overthere in pg so i left her overther and came back to home after some days we foght together on phone and i booked her ticket to come here but from that place she went to her home and that time her father told her they wil not accept her and her family releativesdoest knw about marriage that she got maariage but her family knws and when i married i told her i knw ur family wil never agree i knw and she told me also same like this but when she was living overthere her family members came to meet her but she told me in the eveing since morning she didnt receive my ph just bcoz of this we fought and she called her parents i want to come then her father told her if u want to come back first take divorce then come but still she went her home my family called her family but they didnt receive the phone and i also tried so many times and i said to her frds and her frds family also tried but they are not talking sudden my wife called me and said all these things i m coming but she didnt come and message me u r fraud person u have planned to do something wrong wid me she is wife hw can i do wrong wid her i told her but after that message she didnt contact me after 3days her father phoned me said my daughter wants divorce and she doest want continue relationhip wid u and ur family thats it i said sorry i cant do this if she wants u r father of her say her that she wil come on ph and she wil say divorce then i wil give her till then no possible after that her father abused me too much but i listened everything her father was saying my daughter is very rich and all and her father knows about my family hw much we are belongs but i listened bcoz her father has some badaas hai so surely it wil l come out last monent i listened but aukad ki baat ki then i explained her dad listen nw sir just ask her first who i abhi and from where he belonged ok and her father knws about us hw much we belonged rich more than him but still he said i said not to worry i wil live alone wid her her father told me u wil earn not more so hw she wil stay i said him whatever it will be we will be happpy bcoz nw my family is not supprting me thats y i hve exprienced for work grauadate and in top compny in world i have worked i left myy job just bcoz of her and before marriage i obeyed her my wife in 1.5relationship but she never demands me in money and all things but i gave my salary to her when she was studying as wife but she loves me lot still i knw from 3 months she didnt contact me and my family is not supporting me nw they are saying if u wil come wid her sure something wiil be wrong nw we will not be responsible and her family has planned to give divorce to me just waiting to go court first time i never thought it wil happen wid me in these duration from 3 months i smoked too much tenced to much wht shold i do but nw i m relax but i love her lot also my family cant accept her nw my family is saying going forward if her father takes some steps so dont call me ever here u will be responsible for ll things nw we wil not help u sure but yeap i abused my wife that time she alsi abused me too much my mom and all and all the time she doubted that time when she stayed wid me seriously i explained her too m uch nw we got married u r girl ok u r married women stay like maried person sometimes she slapt me so m uch but i calmly stood in front of her bcoz i wil do wrong sure just of u i left my parents and u r doing like this after our fight i awlys explained her seriously we shold not fight like this plz stop this this is very bad to use ur hand on ur husband love u lot and u love me lot but we are married before mrriage she never did wid me after marriage she did wid me nw before some days she contacted me by some way she explained not too much she said my father is forcing me and i dont want divorce ok she said me dont think wrong about me i never said my father and my father is doing forcly eveything wid me and giving dhamki agar tum yha se gayi toh i wil destroy ur mom and sister and i knw her father cant do like this and she told me do something and in court i was going to say in front of judge i have to stay wid my husband any condition she told me this way and i asked why u did contact me she told me my parents have been locked all mobiles and they dont allow to go outside me and my sister is also watching on me i knw kaiase kaise i m contacting wid u i want to come and i wil come wait for some days but i m tenced too much what shold i do my parents wil not accept us and her parents want her another marriage after divorce she told me also like this and she cant and she wants stay wid me but i m fearing hamai fight hui toh again like that what i wil do my family wil not support me already my family has told me and her parents want her second marriage again if she goes back to her home and agin her family talk about divorce then what i wil do nw mere saath toh koi nahi hai mai kya karoga i think mere pass marne ke alava kuch nahi hoga then bcoz mere parents toh leave kar dege ghar se na noone will be wid me nw plz kiths means frds what shold i do pplzzzz tell me i belive on sai and she said me dont worry god wil not do wrong wid us and my mother is so teneced bcz i married like this but still they supported me too much that time my mother cried till today she cries my son did like this i cant belive and i think lways maa life mai ek baar milti hai i cant loose her but ek baar yebhi sochta ho meri wife bhi kisi ki beti hai but still she wants to come wid me bt mujhe ander se lagta hai surely she wil never change mai kabhi fite nahi kiya apni wife se i thought agin she wil fite like this or leaveme like this where i wil go no one is wid me i expalined her wht is the meaning of maariege we dreamt together for our kids i epalineed her too much dar yehi hai ki agian she wil do like this what i wil do so i m tenced agin too m uch but i love her so much i said her i wil do everything for our family but plz understnd nw what is marreid women nw plz ur parents want ur second marriage if she wil go back again i knw her uska mind stable nahi rehta what shold i do kiths plz frds tell me and she wants to come nw i m worryng that something shold not be wrong bcoz her father wants her girl back if she wil come then her father wil do police complaint i m not fearing and nw my parents are not wid me even so i dont want these type of bad work plz suggest me what shold i doooo plzzzzzzzzzzzz
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PLZ HELP me out plz anyone can help plz plz what shold i do i m also suffered from marriage my wife parents dont accept me and we married on 2011 and her family was tatlly against before marraige she told me everything i understood her thats y we married together after that my family accpted her and my family was supportint me too much after maarige bcoz my fam did all the thing court work so nw what happened my wife went outside from city i left her overthere in pg so i left her overther and came back to home after some days we foght together on phone and i booked her ticket to come here but from that place she went to her home and that time her father told her they wil not accept her and her family releativesdoest knw about marriage that she got maariage but her family knws and when i married i told her i knw ur family wil never agree i knw and she told me also same like this but when she was living overthere her family members came to meet her but she told me in the eveing since morning she didnt receive my ph just bcoz of this we fought and she called her parents i want to come then her father told her if u want to come back first take divorce then come but still she went her home my family called her family but they didnt receive the phone and i also tried so many times and i said to her frds and her frds family also tried but they are not talking sudden my wife called me and said all these things i m coming but she didnt come and message me u r fraud person u have planned to do something wrong wid me she is wife hw can i do wrong wid her i told her but after that message she didnt contact me after 3days her father phoned me said my daughter wants divorce and she doest want continue relationhip wid u and ur family thats it i said sorry i cant do this if she wants u r father of her say her that she wil come on ph and she wil say divorce then i wil give her till then no possible after that her father abused me too much but i listened everything her father was saying my daughter is very rich and all and her father knows about my family hw much we are belongs but i listened bcoz her father has some badaas hai so surely it wil l come out last monent i listened but aukad ki baat ki then i explained her dad listen nw sir just ask her first who i abhi and from where he belonged ok and her father knws about us hw much we belonged rich more than him but still he said i said not to worry i wil live alone wid her her father told me u wil earn not more so hw she wil stay i said him whatever it will be we will be happpy bcoz nw my family is not supprting me thats y i hve exprienced for work grauadate and in top compny in world i have worked i left myy job just bcoz of her and before marriage i obeyed her my wife in 1.5relationship but she never demands me in money and all things but i gave my salary to her when she was studying as wife but she loves me lot still i knw from 3 months she didnt contact me and my family is not supporting me nw they are saying if u wil come wid her sure something wiil be wrong nw we will not be responsible and her family has planned to give divorce to me just waiting to go court first time i never thought it wil happen wid me in these duration from 3 months i smoked too much tenced to much wht shold i do but nw i m relax but i love her lot also my family cant accept her nw my family is saying going forward if her father takes some steps so dont call me ever here u will be responsible for ll things nw we wil not help u sure but yeap i abused my wife that time she alsi abused me too much my mom and all and all the time she doubted that time when she stayed wid me seriously i explained her too m uch nw we got married u r girl ok u r married women stay like maried person sometimes she slapt me so m uch but i calmly stood in front of her bcoz i wil do wrong sure just of u i left my parents and u r doing like this after our fight i awlys explained her seriously we shold not fight like this plz stop this this is very bad to use ur hand on ur husband love u lot and u love me lot but we are married before mrriage she never did wid me after marriage she did wid me nw before some days she contacted me by some way she explained not too much she said my father is forcing me and i dont want divorce ok she said me dont think wrong about me i never said my father and my father is doing forcly eveything wid me and giving dhamki agar tum yha se gayi toh i wil destroy ur mom and sister and i knw her father cant do like this and she told me do something and in court i was going to say in front of judge i have to stay wid my husband any condition she told me this way and i asked why u did contact me she told me my parents have been locked all mobiles and they dont allow to go outside me and my sister is also watching on me i knw kaiase kaise i m contacting wid u i want to come and i wil come wait for some days but i m tenced too much what shold i do my parents wil not accept us and her parents want her another marriage after divorce she told me also like this and she cant and she wants stay wid me but i m fearing hamai fight hui toh again like that what i wil do my family wil not support me already my family has told me and her parents want her second marriage again if she goes back to her home and agin her family talk about divorce then what i wil do nw mere saath toh koi nahi hai mai kya karoga i think mere pass marne ke alava kuch nahi hoga then bcoz mere parents toh leave kar dege ghar se na noone will be wid me nw plz kiths means frds what shold i do pplzzzz tell me i belive on sai and she said me dont worry god wil not do wrong wid us and my mother is so teneced bcz i married like this but still they supported me too much that time my mother cried till today she cries my son did like this i cant belive and i think lways maa life mai ek baar milti hai i cant loose her but ek baar yebhi sochta ho meri wife bhi kisi ki beti hai but still she wants to come wid me bt mujhe ander se lagta hai surely she wil never change mai kabhi fite nahi kiya apni wife se i thought agin she wil fite like this or leaveme like this where i wil go no one is wid me i expalined her wht is the meaning of maariege we dreamt together for our kids i epalineed her too much dar yehi hai ki agian she wil do like this what i wil do so i m tenced agin too m uch but i love her so much i said her i wil do everything for our family but plz understnd nw what is marreid women nw plz ur parents want ur second marriage if she wil go back again i knw her uska mind stable nahi rehta what shold i do kiths plz frds tell me and she wants to come nw i m worryng that something shold not be wrong bcoz her father wants her girl back if she wil come then her father wil do police complaint i m not fearing and nw my parents are not wid me even so i dont want these type of bad work plz suggest me what shold i doooo plz help me suggest me my email id is akkilovesmom89@gmail.com
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anytime my wife create fight each other please reply me..
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Hello Everyone,
Can any one of you please help me with your valuable suggestions please. I got married 5 years back, before marriage i got only 3 weeks time to talk to her and found she is not perfect match for me with her attitude and the way she speaks. I informed to my parents but as there was not time, marriage happened after all relatives promised that after marriage everything will be solved. But everyday since marriage i am crying about my life. No sexual life between us and she is staying for last 2 year at her home. After marriage she always fight with for unknown reasons and go to her home and come back with some relatives for panchayat again they will say same thing give her a chance and repeats same thing. Now for last 1 year her uncles came to our house to cancel this wedding with some mutual understanding asking for some money suddenly dont know what happened after discussing all the things now they said she is not interested to give divorce and said they are not ready after that to come for settlement and no news from them after that. Also they said do whatever you want she will also live like this without giving divorce to you and you also have to live like this. Dont know how to come out of this mental torture. Can anyone please help with your ideas. Please mail me @ k25m2003@yahoo.com. Thanks inadvance for your valuable suggestions and guidance.
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mera sadi 2feb ko ho GAYA larki ko mere like nahi hai mai ussee chutkara chahata hu uske family bolts hai case kar denge mai larki se oki samband nahi hai oh kis adhere pur case kar sakata hai
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Dear sir,
I am a Radiologist with reasonably good professional capability. But little forgetfulness is my weakness. I work in a hospital in the morning and go to a nursing home in the evening and later I run my own scan center. Some unknown group of people from my working places and around my scan center have been harassing me through phone, indirectly through patients and other workers in the working places. My scan center was suppressed by disturbing my PRO and other workers. I used to tell things to my wife when ever I felt low. Later I approached a private detective to sort out the problem. But he was confused by those people and he hurriedly took money from me and then ignored me. But since then there was a bit improvement in the scan business. My wife dedicatedly helped me when ever no worker was available. Then I employed an experienced PRO for part time who improved the business but his major employer objected. So I had to settle him. But he turned against me and he gained the confidence of workers and management people of my working places my family members my workers and my referral doctors and at last even my wife. If anyone sympathises for me and tries to help me he analyses their background and harasses them and bring them in his way. Once the person listens him he makes them comfortable by helping. At a later stage he started irritating me as I mentioned above and when I react he guides the people around me to tell superiors that I am behaving madly. He infused bad impression about myself into every ones mind even my family members. At a point of time there was a quarrel with my father due to his provocation and my father started hitting me when I was shouldering my baby son. So I threw my father away and it went messy. Every one including my servant maids conveyed this to my wife and she started hating me from inside. Then on wards she slowly stopped helping me in the scan center. More and more irritated and frustated I started really behaving like aggressive person. From that point of time every one around me started informing him about anything I do little strangely or angrily and he would indirectly harass me by some means. Later he made my family and others to believe me as a psychiatric person and my wife went to her house without informing me and she didn’t pick the phone also. I went to thier place and quarelled with my in laws to advice her and send her back. But every one compelled me to consult a psychiatrist. To get her back I agreed to consult and went to a psychiatrist in a remote town and he declared as bipolar disorder and depressive disorder prescribed medicines. At that time itself my wife told the doctor that I had illusions and delusions as she read in the internet and she told that I have more sexual desire. But the doctor declined. We came back and I was taking medicines which are sedative. Then within a weeks time she started behaving in a way to irritate me. Quarrel erupted and my in – laws took her and my children forcibly. They did not even bother my suicide threat. I attempted suicide by taking sedatives and antipsychotics and got admitted in ICU. But no call or nobody from my wifes or in-laws side came. Unluckily I recovered in a few days and came home. My mother was taking care of me. Suddenly my brother came and took me to a local psychiatrist convincing me that a second opinion is better. Since I was under an emotionally stressed situation unknowingly I agreed. Then when I met the second psychiatrist he prescribed the same medicines in different brands without proper examination. But the strange thing was that he issued a letter to my brother which was never shown to me by my brother or the doctor. Trusting them I kept quiet. Then I contacted my wife and built confidence and asked her to come back. She came back and things went well. I took a period of 6 months off from my morning work place. I rejoined there and the management was planning for installing a new 1.5 T MRI for which I was the in- charge. That cunning PRO suggested one brand to my management and talks were going on. Knowing this fellows involvement I kept myself away. But the management decided some other brand and issued purchase order. I kept myself uninvolved even though that cunning fellow sent representatives to me to swing the order to them using my influence. I did not want to betray my employer and kept mum. Once he realised that the order is lost he created troubles between me and my typist , new PRO (both were lovers) and I had to send them out as one day that new PRO abused me badly. Then I gave advertisements in news papers but who ever comes and agrees to join never turn up. I had to ask my wifes’ assistance frequently. But my professionl front was affected due to sedative medicines and my forgetfulness. As she got irritated she started showing it to the patients later. I asked her to be polite. But she started quarelling with me that I am not employing anybody and spoiling her and childrens life, though I asked her help rarely only. I hit her due to uncontrolled anger. She locked herself in a room with the children and did not open. She locked herself in a room with the children and did not open. Only my brother and my mother compromised me. She acted as if she is frightened in front of my brother. She asked me to stay away from her. I tried to convince but this time she was quiet until my childrens vacations and took permission from me and went to her parents place with the children. But when I spoke the next day she told me that she will never return to live with me. I tried to convince by calling twice but her replies were rough and humiliating. So I told her to never come back and told her father to send me a divorce notice stating my mental illness. She doesn’t want to lead a sexual life with me probably as per her mothers’ advice and tells me to go other ladies if I need. No reply since two days. My mother, servant maid left my house one day before she left. I feel all are together with that cunning fellow. For these two days I am being harassed by that fellow indirectly in my scan center with no help. He teases me through the patients asking about my mother, wife and workers. I am helpless fearing if I call anybody for help he will turn againt me and I will be added with one more trouble. Kindly guide me what can I do. All my cars, cell phones , my center and house are under surveillance. He tries to exploit me in everyway. I will really go mad if it continues. Help me pls.
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I m a 27 year old man . I got married in the year 2009 and after that there were lot of problemsin.my marriage life. My was not ready to live with me and she demanded all the.Sttridhan from me thru Mahila Mandal. And I gave also all the things. She is not staying with me since 7th May 2012. Need ur suugestion do I eligible to take the divorce from her ?
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i am in a relationship with a guy from the past 4 years. before 1 year i got to know that he is married to somebody else. when i confronted him he accepted it. He got married to that girl when he was just 16 years old in his native place uttar pradesh. she is staying from the past one year and 4 months with him. he has not had any kind of physical relationship wit her.. he wants to divorce her but is scared that his familys reputation will be in trouble and that the girl might file an fir against him. he is 22 years old now.
his family has warned me before 4 days to stop talking to him otherwise they would take action against him. he still loves me but cant take a decision as he is scared his family will be involved in legal trouble.
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hi,
I want some legal guidance. I am married for 5 yrs now, having a child of 3.5 yrs. After a year of marriage, my wife started showing her colour. Due to this I have shifted to Calcutta from my native place Jamshedpur, leaving my parents behind, thinking the situation will improve.
My wife’s main problem is that of having a attitude of “don’t care of anything”. Always shows attitude, don’t want to keep relation with anyone, even with her parents also. She stopped her parents to stay in our home, same for my parents also. Always shows anger and attitude. Once try to stopping her, she makes the scene… which is quite disgusting in front of society. Due to this all the adverse affect goes to my daughter, she has been beaten badly by her mother.. and most importantly theatning to commite sucide.. She is just taking advantage, as she knows this issue scraed me, as don’t want to face this situation at any cost.
But at times I really feal scared. SInce I am working in Merchant Navy, I left my wife and daughter alone for 6 months for my job. So anything can happen, if I told her at any point of time that I don’t care whatever you want to do can do…
Presently we are at SIngapore for 5/6 months. Today also we had a fight. very small situation caused a big fight. She was shouting on our daughter, I told her to kept quite. Then she started beating her badly. I tried to stopped, then she became violent and shouting and abusing, at the same time beating her badly. Then started laughing loudly.. and creating scene. Now she is telling will not eat and will not take care of our child.
Now I am worried what should I do? Tomorrow I have to go to college, that time if she do any mischief then how to manage? Could you pls help. On returning India I am thinking for going for divorce, coz I can’t not handle this situation any more. She only likes to seat ideal and leave life as she likes. Which might not be acceptable for everyone everytime.
Once I came back from ship (after 6 months), for first 10-15 days everything perfects. after that only she starts behaiving roudly. At time tells also that she fells good once I am not at home. At the sametime she tells also she have nothing except me, only place to go is uppar (suicide)..
Kindly guide me. I tried last 3 years, but can’t make much improve. I am became hypertension due to this..
regards
Subh
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Married in 2003 with a police woman and have a 8 yrs son wife age 37, has been found in extra Marrital affair with a married senior in her dept, having 18 yrs old daughter. My wife has left home alongwith my son 3 months back and has not returned yet. I have tried to convince her a lot. But she is not willing to come back and have continued the affair with him. I lodged a complaint against my wife and that person with Police commissionner who initiated inquiry on this matter and tried to counsell her. but she is firm on not returning. This is going to ruin future of my son. Can I get atleast my son back if she is not willing to come back
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Please help me. Because i don’t know divorce in hindu act.
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hi,
I liked the comments and now I want help from you.
I am 30 yrs old and hot married in Nov’11 aand pregnant for 7 months.When I ggot married initial days were gud and nice but as days passed I realized that things changed aautomatically.I know my husband from 3 years b4 marriage,everything was going fine and we were happy also but after marriage all problems started from his family side but i thoughteverything would be fine very soon and my life would be better but things are not as thought.Things are becomming tough day by day and its hard to tolerate aas it is a mental harraasment on me from them,i coiuld not tolerate ,I dont know what to and what step I should take as i couuld not give up my life becoz I am expecting neither I could cope up with this situation
plz help me out
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I got married on 2/03/2006 since my marriage from the day one, my wife never allowed me to come close to her. After 2 years 6 months i left her at her parent place. I applied for divorce but due to my work i was unable to attend the case. Now it has been 6 years and 3 months after our marriage. She came back and staying at my house. Since our marriage we never involved in sexual relationship. Please guide me is there any possibility to get ride of her
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Hi,
I got married in Nov 2005. Staring from the marriage our relationship has been a misery. My wife’s home is dominated by her illiterate mother and she is under her mother’s influence all the time. She doesn’t respect my parents or me. We have frequent argument over most of the things.
After a year (or so) of marriage, she got pregnant. During pregnancy there have been multiple instances when her mother took her back to their home without my agreement and blackmailed me and my parents that they will not send her back. They humiliate me and my parents before sending her. I said I don’t have my own home and leaving on a rent etc.
Anyhow we had my daughter in 2007. She was the most amazing thing happened in my life and I love her more than my life. Things were getting bit smoothed after my daughter birth. Moreover I got a chance to work in UK and I took them (wife and daughter) along with me. Although there were few instances in between when we had fight and she turn to her home.
Now recently she got pregnant again in March. Things were smooth (at least from my side). One evening I got a call from her mother and she asked me they want to check the sex of the baby, and she already talked to a doctor. I was socked and refused to do so. Next morning, my wife went to her home without informing me and did the ultrasound. She told me that she is having a girl child, and she doesn’t want another girl so want an abortion. I was shocked with that and refused for the abortion. I tried to convince her that we will be happy with both the girls and warned about the complications. Somehow she agreed not to go for abortion and promised me that she will keep the baby and asked me to forget everything happened in past and start a new life. She also asked me that she wanted to go to her parents home for a week as there are school holiday. After holidays she won’t get a chance to go there for long period. So I decided to drop her and my daughter to her home. Same day evening she phoned me that she did the abortion. I was socked and asked her to come back immediately. But she refused and I told her in anger that either she comes immediately or I will not come to take her back.
After two days I phoned her, and asked to send my daughter as I wanted my daughter to take to amusement park. She and her parents refused to do so and asked that they will only send if I come to take them. Since then, she tried phoned me once, but I didn’t pick the phone.
I am now burning from inside, I don’t want my wife to be part of my life. But I also don’t want my daughter to suffer (she is so cute).
My question is: what legal actions I can take against my wife and her parents for this? Can this be used for divorce? Also how can I get my daughter back legally?
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Hi,
Mere biwi aur mere bich hamesha jhagda hota hai vuska karan hai biwi ki maa, biwi bhi kuch baathe vuski sunti hai, aur mere maa ko bhi badnam karti hai bolthi hai ke tumahare maa ne gaon me logon ko kuch kuch bathe bathati hai, to maine kai baar mere maa ko samjaya bina kisi ko puche, fir kuch din baad aur aise hi bathe mujse bathaye hai aur kuch logon ke naam bhi, vusi ke saamne vusne bathaye wale logon ko puch maine ke mere maa ne tumare paas kuch boli hai kya to sabhi ka jawab tha nahi…to maine mere biwi ko samjaya ke hum mere maa aur baap ke paas to nahi rahate hai, aur logon ke baathe sunkar tum jhagda matkaro, aur aapni maa ki bhi baathe sunkar jhagda matkaro, vus kuch din tik rahathi hai fir jhagda start karti hai, muje ek 8 mahineka beta bhi hai, aise jhagde sun sun kar mai tang aakar vuske maike chodd ayaa, fir muje mere bete ko dekna man kar rahatha to mere sasne photo bhejne se inkar kardiya, aab muje vuske saath jeevan saara nahi rahana hai jo ki kisi ke bhi baathe sunkar jhagda karti hai isiliye.
Kuch solution bathao please….I want to devorce. and I have some gtalk chating in my mail box which can prove.
Please send me the solution on my email
kishoredevkate@gmail.com
regards,
Kishore
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Hi sir I am nagi, i got married since14 years ,my wife along with daughter deserted me after 10 years of marriage without giving me any divoce,since then we are living separately since then.my question to you is could i marry as i am not legally divoced,i requested my wife several times to come and live with me and resolve all disputed matter but she refuses to join me,please help me in this matter and give me right openion as i have long life to live thanks
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Hello Everyone,
Can any one of you please help me with your valuable suggestions please. I got married 5 years back, before marriage i got only 3 weeks time to talk to her and found she is not perfect match for me with her attitude and the way she speaks. I informed to my parents but as there was not time, marriage happened after all relatives promised that after marriage everything will be solved. But everyday since marriage i am crying about my life. No sexual life between us and she is staying for last 2 year at her home. After marriage she always fight with for unknown reasons and go to her home and come back with some relatives for panchayat again they will say same thing give her a chance and repeats same thing. Now for last 1 year her uncles came to our house to cancel this wedding with some mutual understanding asking for some money suddenly dont know what happened after discussing all the things now they said she is not interested to give divorce and said they are not ready after that to come for settlement and no news from them after that. Also they said do whatever you want she will also live like this without giving divorce to you and you also have to live like this. Dont know how to come out of this mental torture. Can anyone please help with your ideas. Please mail me @ k25m2003@yahoo.com
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hi… i got married before 3 months during the first month of my marriage i came to know that my wife is mentally not stable… Once she left my home and stayed in the forest for 5 days… Which proved us she is mentaly ill from the past 2 months she is with her parents now she msges and call my family relatives and abuses us we are in great stress and i want devorce please help…
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File a petition for annulment marriage on the ground of fraud/insanity/mental disorder in the family court.It has to be filed within a year from the date of marriage.Thereafter you can not file this case for annulment.
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sir main ek ladki se love marriage karna chata hun ,,,main aur ladki dono es relation ko accept karte hain,,aur ladki ke parients v accept karte hainn,,,but mere parients accept nahi karte es relation ko,,,,so,plz ,,,muje batiye k aab hume keya karna chaiye,,,,yadi hum court maariage karte hain to,,hamare leya kya conditions ,,,benfits aur disadvatages hain,,,aur court marriage ki poori information muje batiye
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Go for registration marriage.Both of you has to submit application to the sub registrar office , near to your house.He will administer the marriage.
Or , you can do the same any Arya samaja office.
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my husband hurts me physically, we live in dubai and we are married b4 a year.wat is t procedure to get divorse .pls help. im depressed.
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Pls file a divorce case on the ground of mental cruelty and harassment.The court will pass an order to that effect.
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i marry a girl in temple,but no registry marriage.just after the day i came to know she has sttill relation with her ex.i denied to accept her.all this happen before 2yrs.we dont hav any contact.now i love a girl and want to marry her,but dont know wht will happen form that girl.as we didnot do registry marriage is tht necessary to file a divorce?i strongly beleive she will creat trouble becoz i hav a good financial background though she also didnt contact for 2yrs.wht to do?
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Have been photographed during that marriage happened in the temple??
Have you invited any body, to attend your marriage on that day, to the temple??
So if there is no evidence, you can go ahead with the marriage with the present girl.
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yes 2 people were there and photographs been also taken and we signed in the registry book of the temple.what to do now?
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Hey…
My Brother got married 7 years back . But for last 3 years, my sister in law is behaving erratically.she abuses my brother,my mother , my father and telephone all my relatives…and harass with.Recently she came to kill my father with knife..We find her mentally Ill.Now they have 5year &1 months ols baby also.We want to get rid of this lady.she has made my family hell..We are terrified also b’coz of her behaviour..
PLz provide ur suggesestion…I will be grateful to u..Plz mail me..
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Hi sir
My wife has filed a case under sec 9 of HM Act and sec 498a 4 &6 can u please help me how to fight the case.My mail address is srini1187@gmail.com.
Regards
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my wife cheated me that she is younger than me but recently i found out that she is older than me. if i would have known this fact before marriage then certainly i would not have married her as she is older than me. now can divorce petition be filed under this circumstances? please advise.
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If your marriage is within a year, then you can file a petition for annulment of marriage ie., for cancellation of marriage , on the ground of fraud/cheating.If not , if one year has been expired, then file divorce case , in a regular manner on the same gound.
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A very new and amazing kind of business
Now days a new kind of business is appearing specially in INDIA, In this type of business there is so much income in fast way, with social sympathy.
INDIA where Girls are known as Form of Goddess laxmi and worshiped in all faces, in the same INDIA now days Girls are become easiest way to become rich in very fast way.
In this kind of business the source of income is “Daughters (i.e. Girl child)”. Such kind of business strategies starts with the born of a Girl child….
The process of this kind of business has following strategic steps –
1. Born of daughter(girl child)
2. Wait till she become eligible to get married
3. Now such families start searching Innocent and simple Boy and family for their girl
4. After finding required boy family, they start playing tricks so that boy family got impressed with their fabricated behaviour
5. If boy and boy family got impressed with their tricks then
6. Girl and girl family start playing next tricks so that boy and boy family get influenced with girl and girl family
7. After boy and boy family got influenced, girl and girl family trap the boy and boy family in the Marriage with false promises
8. After boy and girl got married the main plan starts
9. Girl and girl family start making trouble to boy and boy family by all ways using lies and fabricated stories
10. Now if the boy and boy family react to this the girl and girl family starts harassing the boy and his family with false allegations
11. Using some tricks and false allegations girl and her family try to provoke boy and his family for taking step of separation (i.e. divorce)
12. Once boy and his family got provoked for divorce now the real game happens
13. Girl and girl family become silent for some time with boy and his family ,simultaneously the girl and her family start spreading false and fabricated rumours about boy and his family in their family and in society
14. After some time when boy or his family if initialize for divorce then the Girl and her family demands a large amount of money from boy and his family as compensation
15. The harassed boy and boy family fulfil their demands to save the life of boy and their own social esteem.
16. After getting fatty amount of compensation girl and her family starts searching next victim .
This is really happening in INDIA, where Girl and ladies are so many rights in INDIAN law, using these kind of rights in wrong way many Girls and girl families are making so much money by cheating innocent people.
This is not all about for this kind of new business……
Vah re naari teri leela hai sabse nyari
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Agreed. We need to put the scenario to the public and the house where the laws and get amended to curb the ill intention. I am facing the similar consequences from last 3 yrs.
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Me too agreed with Nikita, hope, people who are continously, referring this website, should also accept the fact mentioned by Nikita.
People, please give your view, which will help men, and we will find a best way, which may tend to amend the law.
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Yes the same is happening with each and everyone nowadays. The same should be recognised by the government who is trying to get another law by which they are giving women half of the salary without doing anything. Right now half of thw women in the world are working and they are not doing any job in the house. Then where does the question of the salary arises. How fast the government is not understanding th4e changed scenario. Does tghe same apply to men also. `
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hey u r damm right ! all this happening wid me , my elder brother in-law n whole in- law family is trying to push me trying to provoke me for that we took first step for divorce so that they can demand a nice figured amount from me n my family, her brother said to his friend that ” till november hum log unlogo ko samaj or pareewar main badnaam karege n then diwali ke laghbagh hum unper dovery and violence ka case file karege uske baad samajh ke 10-15 logo ko le kar sister ko unke yaha leave karne jaayenge n then jaise hi us waqt vo log sister ko rakhne se mana kar denge hum log unlogo se moti rakam ki demand karege “. his friend recorded all this stuff on his mobile n sent me as he is very good known of mine perheps my brother in law dont kno about that.
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exactly it happening with me also…
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kindly contact me at
sarahpaul1187@gmail.com
I am really upset
cant post my story their
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raju3816@gmail.com send me call me any advice 9810022855 rajeev
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you can contact me at sdharani120@gmail.com. or 09741425514., rakshak foundation,bangalore
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hi, my sister married in 2009. having a 2 year old baby boy. her husband is verbally and mentally torturing her. his parents and sister are behind this torture . now he is threatening my sister that he will leave to foreign , if she does not agrees to goes back to our house. also her mother in law is not accepting to take care of her , when his son goes to foreign. i want to know is there any provision in law to have my sister to stay legally at her mother in law home , when her husband moves to foreign. please guide and suggest any alternative solution.
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Pls approach the police station near by your house, lodge a police complaint under section 498 a , for mental harassment and cruelty and also if necessary for domestic violence act and divorce proceedings.your problem will be solved.
srishaila,advocate,bangalore,sdharani120@gmail.com,09741425514
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plz help me m waiting ur reply
Hey…
My Brother got married 7 years back . But for last 3 years, my sister in law is behaving erratically.she abuses my brother,my mother , my father and telephone all my relatives…and harass with.Recently she came to kill my father with knife..We find her mentally Ill.Now they have 5year &1 months ols baby also.We want to get rid of this lady.she has made my family hell..We are terrified also b’coz of her behaviour..
PLz provide ur suggesestion…I will be grateful to u..Plz mail me..
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Did you give a police complaint, as advised by me,If yes, definetly the police will take action against her.And also under domestic violation act , your parents can file complaint against your sister in law.Apart from this , let your brother file divorce case, against her, on the gound of mental harassment ,cruelty etc.
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First pls give a police complaint against that lady, narrating all the facts.Thereafter, if things didn’t improve, file divorce case, in the family court, on mental illness,cruelty,mental harassment.Father and mother can proceed against that lady, under domestic violence act, seeking relief.
srishaila,advocate,bangalore,09741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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I am agreed with “medavrapu Srinivas” with the comments given by him.
Nowadays even lawyers are also very well about the unnecessary laws that has been amended by government, the lawyers use to call the 498A, 125 laws as a BOMB against men.
Who will save men from the laws, when men communities will wake up and start the things against these laws.
Please share this with all mens who are really suffers like me, due to worst laws in there books.
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Hi
Don’t loose your hopes ,things will improve.There is already some improvements in the behavior of police, since the supremecourt hs given strict guidelines that , there should be a thorough investigation before arresting any person and further they should be fully convinced about the incident, which has been alleged.
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That’s fine with some improvement related to 498A law, however, what @ the domestic violence law, which is one of the most dangerous law against men, and which is very well smartly used by women’s lawyer.
You cant feel there must be an improvement in that law too.
Agreed, if women’s are suffering in some cases,then the law should be applicable for those only, but the law should not be applicable for all men. it should be restricted to few women, who really proves that.
The person like below A.D. and the above one looks like suffering too much, how they spend there life.
Can you please do the needful.
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I am in very worst situation, my life ran away from my home, put false case against me, thereafter, even calling her back, several times, she doesn’t come back, however, her parents doesn’t want her to send back and neither want to give divorce to me. It is now 4 years when left me.
What can i do, this is the game plan that her parents played with me, as this is nowadays a fashion, to get marry with some one, and ran away from home without any reason, and thereafter put a false case against husband. and earn lot of money.
This is what happening with me.
Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee help me out…
Now i am really worrying about my life, and about my parents health. father is suffering with diabetics, and mother with BP.
why women are playing with there own and men life, if they don’t want to stay with husband, leave them …and if really want to stay with husband, stay with them…
What can i do, plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me
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hi I am not syaing with my husband for more than 2 yerar, now is it necesery to appleale for divorce? Plz rply. Fyi I have not applied for any legal seperation.
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Hi Indrani,
You have to apply for divorce, on the ground of desertion and for judicial separation. if you want marry again.Otherwise its up to you.
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hello all need ur precious advice, that meri shaadi 7 march 2011 ko complete hindu tradition ke hisab se hui hai, lekin shaadi ke shuruvat se hi meri wife ka meri family n mere liye behaviour sahi nahi hai, iska main reason uske pihar wale hai , uske pihar vaalo ka interfare day by day badhta hi ja raha hai , yaha tak ki uska bada bhai meri wife se humare bedroom ke andar ki personal baate tak poochta hai, maine iss baat ke liye uske pihar walo ko baar baar samjane ki kosis kari even request tak kar ke dekh li lekin unlogo per iss baat ka koi asar hi nahi ho raha hai , yaha tak ki unlogo ke interfare ke chalte meri wife lagbhag 7 baar mere ghar se uske bhai ke saath uske pihar chali jati fir kuch dino ke baad vapus aajati ,abhi 24july2012 ko vo uske bhai ke saath humare ghar se bina meri n meri family ki razamandi ke chaligayi or tab se ab tak vapus laut kar nahi aayi. vo log ab mere saamne ye shart rakh rahe hai ki agar mujhe uske saath rista rakhna hai tho main mere parents ko humesha ke liye leave kar ke unke saath uske pihar jaakar rahu ya fir unke acording dusri city main jaakar rahu, shaadi ki shuruvat se hi meri wife uske pihar ke influence main aakar mujhe humesha mere family n parents ke against bhadkati rahi yahi nahi shaadi ke 1st anniversary ke baad se vo mujhe baar baar ye bhi kehrahi thi ki main usko pasand nahi tha usko koi or pasand hai lekin unlogo ki high demand hone ke karan papa ne aap se meri shaadi karadi kyuki humari koi demands nahi hai, yaha tak jab bhi maine uske pihar walo se baat karke samjane ki kosis ki vo log mujhper n meri family per bebuniyadi aarop lagakar pareshaan karte hai , yaha tak uske father n bhai ne mujhe n meri family ko haath per tudwaane ki dhamkee tak de rakhi hai , meri wife ne bhi mujhe 24july ko ghar se jaane se pehle 23july ko mujhe n mere parents ko ye dhamkee di ki agar humlog uske according nahi chale tho vo suicide attempt karke mujhe n meri family ko fasa degi , now need help ! meri thinking ye nahi hai ki meri shaadi toote lekin jab saamne wala hi nahi chahata tho main kya kar sakta hu , i need way to get rid of such problem as due to all this me n my family is very much tensed which is affecting ur very much by health n profession n family life, need suggestion to get rid of problem yaa tho meri wife samjh jaaye ya fir vo mujhse legally separation ke liye haan karde… or any other way which is in the limit of law n order….
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Dear Badal bhai,
Looking at the facts mentioned here, it is my sincere opinion that Immediately lodge a police complaint against your wife, on the ground that she is threatening you that ” she going to commit suicide and you will be the cause for that” and also there after file a divorce petition on the ground mental cruelty, harassment and suicidal tendency.
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they want ki hum log divorce ke liye unko bole taaki vo log hum se large amount of money le sakey as compensation ro else way as nikita said in earlier post need help to get rid of such kind of people….
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Somebody please help me out …
I got married in Nov.2008 …..
I am really frustrated due to mental harassment from my wife, she left my home in jan 2010, thereafter her father told that she will come back with her after 8 days. Till this time she and her father did not back, in-spite of that they put a false case of 125 against myself , father and mother.
Thereafter as per current Indian Laws world, whatever lady put a case in court she will definitely win the case(this is actually happening in India).
There is no law and no faith towards men, even though women put a false case.
I tried to bring back her several times, sent my relative @ her home and her relatives were also helping me to get sort out, but her father will not retain contact with those people whomsoever tried to convince her and her father.
Atlast, I put the divorce case in the city where we stayed last time, to get transfer that case to her native, they admitted a transfer petition in high court, so again as per Indian law favoring towards women, it got transferred to her native, i cant travel to such a long distance as I have to save job also.
Now, I am really get frustrated what to do, she is not ready for mutual consent and not ready to give me divorce. I don’t know how I can live my life as due to such a big headache..
With life and case tension I am not able to concentrate on my job, I have faced a day when my manager told me to get out of company …
How i will get the justice, whether men(I) cant survive in today’s world.
I have already wasted my valuable 4 yrs of life, which will not come back….
She is not interested to enjoy the life, whether she has that much freedom to spoil others life.
Please suggest the best way so i that rest of the life will be fritfull
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My friend get married in October-November 2009. She lived with her in-laws for 4 months and later her husband took her with him to Delhi. Later he left her after 5 months. Since starting her in-laws were constantly harassing her for dowry but she did not tell this to anyone. her husband also misbehaved with her always. After leaving her for almost 15 months he came again to live with her and after 4 months again left her. What’s the remedy for her? She doesn’t want to take divorce. Her husband and in-laws are constantly intimidating her and her family. What are her rights in the property of in-laws and husband.? She is not working and she could not maintain herself.
Please suggest the best way.
Regards,
lalita
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Hi lalita, why you want that she break her livlihood relation with her husband…. Just suggest her to live with her husband …. and dont make a fake story pl upload accurate fact…
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Hi Gaurav!
That’s what I have written that she doesn’t want to take divorce. But his husband is not ready to live with her. So, I am seeking advice regarding that. Her husband is not giving her any money or taking any responsibility for her. Recently he told her over the phone that he has filed divorce petition in Patna. The house where her in-laws live in Patna is in the name of Mother-in-law and he told her that she doesn’t have any right to come there and to live at that house as that doesn’t belong to her husband or father-in-law. And if she will come they will not let her enter to the house. The real fight is over the money. They demand more and more money and keep intimidating her regarding that.
And let me tell you that this is not a fake story. No one has this much time to take pain and narrate a fake story. There must me more facts which she might not have told me. This is me who adviced her to live with her husband when he returned after so many months. I just want that my friend should not be left all alone without any economical support. After marriage even parents don’t want to take any responsibility of their daughter. This is the sad saga of our society. I adviced her to go for counselling but I don’t know the exact place. If she would meet any lawyer they will only try to manipulate and force her to go for divorce petition. But I don’t want her to go through this as she is not economically sound to take care of litigation expenses and secondly I want her to solve this matter through counselling so that his husband should try to understand that this is about their life.
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yes you are right lalita they need counselling ….Let me clear the whole story Is it love marriage or arrange, date/time , divoting time with/without husband …. what is her attitude … what is her husband want and her in laws want … all things pl reply
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This is arranged marriage. I don’t know the exact date but it’s somewhere in October-November, 2009. I told her to write all the incidents in a diary/notebook and mail me all the details. She lived with in-laws from marriage day till March,2010, then she moved to Delhi along with his husband and lived together for 4-5 months. And then they were not together till March,2012. And they were together till August,2012. Both of them were in delhi only but her husband was not ready to live with her because he was more interested in money and Bank account details of my friend while she was not ready to transfer money from her account. That is the main reason of differences: Money. I think he must have met some lawyer who adviced him to live again with her so that she could not file divorce petition on the ground of desertion. Her in-laws and husband want money from her and her family and at the same time they are not taking any responsibility for her.
She is not ready for divorce. But due to all these incidents she is very depressed and attempted suicide also.
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lalita…. They have any child or not?? are they mad ?????? they got married then live together after that they left each other after that they again meet and live together then again left each other…. what is this… What they want… They dont know the value of each other… they just time pass with each other and use each other…. I suggest both of them for counselling
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They don’t have any child. Here she didn’t leave her husband, it is all from the husband’s family side , they don’t want that they live together. But one thing I am not able to understand why he is listening to his parents. It is about their present and future. I think there are some facts which she is not disclosing to me like any extra marital affair of his husband. Her husband is not a kid. That’s why I suggested her to go for counselling with him. May be after talking with some expert his eyes would open.
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yessss… this is … now you come to the point…. I am also unable to understand that what is the whole story… something is missing which you have told me…. Either, No one is enough foolish to do like this….
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My marriage is love marriage without the support of our parents on 2011 june.my husband is asking divorce but Im not interested in giving.he send me out form where we lived now we are living seperately for the past 4 months.He gave petition in womens police station.my husbands dad and his brother are lawyers.please help me and message me to my mail.my wish is to be with my husband for that what i want to do give me guidelines.plz mail me.
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apke pas marriage certificate hai ya ni ap dono ki shadi ka sabse bada proof
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Hi Priya,
Pls approach near your police station, lodge complaint against your husband for removing you from the house and also under section 498 a , they will take action and also do the negotiation / mediation, /counselling and solve your problem.
Regards
Srishaila,Rakshak foundation,Bangalore,09741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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Hi Priya,
Pls contact Mr.Santhosh goswamy and he is an expert in family matters.
His mail id is sgoswami@sureshotlegal.com
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PLEASE SPEAK TO HIM.His name is Santhosh goswamy.
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hi
my husband has filed a case for divorce
i got married in feb 2011 and i have a 11 month old son
my husband is drawing a pakage of 15 lakhs and he refuses to maintain me and my child
he also has been physically abusive towards me and a medical was also done by the police for the same 2 months back
now he has filed for divorce
pls help
i m depressed and feel like killing myself
i am going thru a very bad tym
i hv lost my job too
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Hi,
Pls contest the case, file an application for interim maintenance for you and your child and also file petition for divorce on the ground of cruelty.
Regards
srishaila,
Rakshak foundation,Bangalore,09741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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hi …im also in a similar problme without any idea how to approach for a divorce…my husb is a brahmin n im a christian…we got married under aryaa samaj aftr he converted me to hindu…i acceptd as long as it ws only for the marriage rite..he had acceptd i cn keep my faith…but aftr my delivery him n his family want me hindu n perform according to hindu religion which is impossible for me..he hs multiple partners which i found out aftr 2years of marriage…i havent tlked to him or seen him for the past 10months..he sees our daughter as an object of sexual pleasure…thts when i decided i cnt take anymre of the mental n physical abuse him n his mother were giving me…he blocked my education bt thankfully nw ive wriitn my exams wd my parents support…cn sme1 please help me?a little desperate to get free n give my daughter a secure life away from him..
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Hi,
Pls file a divorce case against your husband, on the ground of bigammy and also file a complaint under section 498 a , near your police station and police will take action, immediately and your purpose will be served..
Regards
Srishaila.
Rakshak foundation,Bangalore,09741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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My marriage is arranged marriage.
I don’t know how to explain the mental stress, tension that i have suffered after marriage.
After marriage we settled in house (rent) near by my office.
She tried to believe me that she had another affair. She did not love me. She is not interested in sexual relationship with me. While trying for sex she prevented always.
Some times she behaved as mad. She called me as “DOG” several times. She wont eat food and wont prepare food too. If I prepared food, she wont eat.If I tried to feed her she used to kept beating herself on her forehead.
Now we had a 6 month aged boy. She is not willing to stay with me. When she is carrying 6 months, her father told me that “you can divorce her. you are still young. you will get another girl. we will care the child”.
last time I met wife and son on 22 September 2012. She went to her home without asking to me. After that I did not get any information from there.
Her father is not good in moral. He is willing to keep her at their own home for satisfying his wishes. Her mother is a central govt: employee. She is supporting my wife and father very much.
In these situations I don’t know what can I do…
Please help me.
Can I see my son?
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Hi I have read all your comments …. First of all tell me who is your …. middle man for your marriage and then how long time you take time for your marriage …. after you said that you have a child and also saying that she doesnt like to sex with you and prevent her every time then whose child is that…. tell me … so i will help you further…
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Hi Gaureesh,
When you get married?? If it is within a one year , you can file the petition for annulment of your marriage ie., cancellation of marriage under section 12 of the Hindu marriage act.
If she is not interested in sexual activities, then how you go the child??
If you are also not interested in continuing with her, then file a petition for mutual divorce.
Regards
Rakshak foundation,Srishaila,Bangalore,09741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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my wife left 3 months backs because of small argument i bring her back from nearby uncle house next day her parent came to our house argue with us and take daughter with them, i requested them to bring her back but i never get positive response from them only thing i heard is she is not interested in staying with me , she is thinking and they abuse my mother/sister without any reason every time. after 3.5 months they called us and said she wants to talk to me when i said do you again wants to fight with us she said yes , she will fight and will make trouble to all of use her parents said they will file police complaint they came back with relatives again had argument and even after that they called my relative and abuse my mother and sister very badly. now my family is completely against taking her back can i get divorce on these ground. they messed up everything which was not supposed to happened.
Please please tell how easily i can get divorce, what are problems involved with it i want to file divorce case i am from low middle class family , i have younger unmarried sister and brother father expired 5 years back. my mother and me are fighting everyday because of her. ( i am newly married just 7-8 months back, wife was staying with my family and i was staying away bcoz of job but i used to visit home every week and within next ear i ws going to take all my family with me , and this was already decided before marriage )
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Dear Dipak,
On going through your message, i am of the opinion that, you can file the divorce petition on the ground of cruelty.But you have to wait for the completion of one year.
Another option is filing a petition for annulment/cancellation of marriage under section 12 of Hindu marriage act, on the ground of fraud [ like wife has given information about her before the marriage but later on it came to be false ] or if she is having another relation ship with a men before your marriage or mental disorder-repeated attack of insanity.These kind of petition has to be filed within year from the date of marriage.
Regards
srishaila,bangalore,09741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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my marriage date is 29 may 2011 because of rude behaviour of my wife with me and my parents i want a divorce from her but she is not giving the divorce and right now she is living with her parents so what should i do and how much time it will take for divorce in court if wife dont want to give divorce.
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you can file the petition for divorce on the ground of cruelty.Minimum one year it will take, to get a divorce
srishaila,bangalore,sdharani120@gmail.com,09741425514
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Hi Srishaila,
I have seen your suggestion to file divorce petition, however, what in case the girl decided to not to give divorce.
Same is happening in my case, i tried to contact the wife side people, but they are saying they want to only torture me and will not give divorce.
How court will take up this. As per my knowledge(may be its wrong) but even if I won the divorce, there is a facility in Indian law, that she can go to higher court, appeal against that decision.
If this happen for year and year, what a simple men can do, if wife and her family decided not to give divorce, is there any provision on this.
Or men has to wait life long till wife can’t ready to give divorce.
Please suggest. I am suffering through very bad situation, I have already wasted 3 yrs of my golden life, my wife ran away from home in Jan 2010.
Please suggest some, nowadays, i am not able to concentrate on my work as well. lot of worst things(about myself) come into mind.
Please help me too
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Hi Amit,
Sorry for the belated reply.
File a petition for divorce on the ground of desertion and also bigamy. Definetly you will get the divorce order from the court.Even the high court also will enetertain her petition as she has deserted you since 2010.
srishaila,9741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com,bangalore
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Hi Amit,
Sorry for the belated reply.
File a petition for divorce on the ground of judicial separation . Definetly you will get the divorce order from the court.
srishaila,9741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com,bangalore
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Dear Raju,
Sorry for the belated reply.
File a petition for divorce on the ground of judicial separation .
srishaila,9741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com,bangalore
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Hey you all knowledgeable people over there, I am into a big fix & need legal help ASAP.I just got married on 9th of Dec 2012,it was an arrange marriage but I’m unable to accept the person I’m married to, moreover I can’t adjust with him at any cost.Our marriage is not yet registered,it was a normal Hindu marriage. I want to be separated without any delays.According to laws in order to get legally separated i.e divorce I need to spend a whole year with him, I can’t afford to do that. Please help me. If I involve my parents in this matter they would force me stay in this relationship, the guy to whom I got married also won’t agree to divorce me I guess!!Till this date we both didn’t have any sort of relationship.She tried to believe me that she had another affair. I do not love him. I’m not interested in sexual relationship with him.
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Hi Sonal,
File a petition under section 10 of hindu marriage act, for a judicial separation .It doesn’t require to wait for one year period.
Srishaila,advocate,9741425514,bangalore,sdharani120@gmail.com
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Sorry in the above problem line saying “She tried to believe me that she had another affair” was mistakenly written.
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Hi Amit,
Sorry for the belated reply.
File a petition for divorce on the ground of desertion and also bigamy. Definetly you will get the divorce order from the court.Even the high court also will not entertain her petition as she has deserted you since 2010.
srishaila,9741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com,bangalore
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Hi Srishaila,
Thanks for your reply. As suggested, i have applied for divorce on the base of desertion ground.
I will contact you on your mobile number, for your best suggestion which will help me to become bright future.
I nice to see you suggesting the best way to men. Hope, in the world of INDIAN Law, lot of people like me are suffering due careless laws.
Thanks
Regards,
Amit.
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Hi Amit,
Thanks for the opportunity given to me , to help and suggest you and other people , in this portal.
I enjoy helping others and that too needy people.
I WISH YOU A HAPPY NEW YEAR AND GOOD FUTURE
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Hi Srishaila,
Even though I have put an additional ground of desertion in my divorce petition, can you please let me know how much time it will take to get divorced from my wife.
Now i loosing my golden age, and wasting the bright thinking of my future.
I have already passed 30 yrs, please guide me so that i will get divorce asap.
Can’t it be possible to have fast track court for divorce cases?
Happy to hear suggestion from you.
Thanks
Amit.
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Hi
Maximum it will take one year, since she has already left you 2 years back.
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Hi Srishaila,
Whether i need to undergo again the whole process like witness cross and all, or this wont be required under desertion ground
Please let me know
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Thank you very much for the help srishaila but I talked to my parents regarding my disliking of that guy, they are very adamant to make me stay with him only. They keep on telling me now nothing is possible, you are married means you are married. I don’t have any kind of support with me. I’m being pressurized by all means to stay with him.This is simply impossible for me, being my parents they are more concerned about their honor & goodwill in the society & least about my happiness & life.I am being emotionally tortured everyday, they pass vulgar comments on me.I am really irritated of all this, I remain depressed.If I take a stand no one will stand by me not even my so called parents.Indirectly I’m being forced to sleep with him. Please help me
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Hi Sonal,
Its very sorry state of affairs.Your parents should not do like that.Dont you have any other relatives apart from your parents to support you?? Is it a forced marriage?? Tell me whats is the problem you are facing from your husband??
Where do you live ?? [means which place] Are you educated??.
There are so many ways to live i peaceful manner.
srishaila,Bangalore,9741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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Hie Srishaila
I know it is not right to be done on my parents part but they are doing this. No relative or even acquaintance will even stand by me. It was an arrange marriage. I am unable to accept that guy I can’t think of spending my whole life with him at any cost.I am presently staying in Gurgaon and a master in commerce qualified to be a govt. teacher too.I’m curretly earning too.
Please guide me, I don’t have mental peace anywhere,no home to be called my home.I am afraid to go back home everyday after work.
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Hi Sonal,
Do you have any close friend to give moral support or do you have any person in your mind, whom on you have confidence or who can care or love??
If yes, pls discuss with them and come to conclusion.Nothing is impossible in this world , my dear.
Regards
srishaila
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Hi srishaila
I have got couple of good friends to stand by me but I don’t know what to do now and how to proceed with.
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Hi Srishaila,
i wrote here before also.i marry a girl on 2010,becoz i hav physical relationship with tht girl before marriage and she cut her hand with bled thus i was forced to marry her.the physical involvment was sudden and i was not sure i will marry her or not and she knew it very well.still it happend.we havnt registered our marriage.it happend in mandir.this 2yrs she or her family didnt contact us.we havnt stay together even for oneday after marriage.i waited so long to hear thier decision.bt they havnt contact.nw when i called her family her mom deny to recognise me.n when i asked her whether sshe will marry me or nt legally she didnt ans anything ,only said i dnt knw.then i asked for divorce.they r saying do whtever u wnt we will nt giv divorce we will send u jail.wht to do?pls pls suggest.i wnt to start my life again but not with her. pls suggest me wht to do,,,they hav photographs off marriage in mandir,n they said they took the mandir register also whr our name was written.
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Hi Sonal,
1.File a petition for judicial separation, since it can be filed within one year
2.If you are in contact with good persons, in case of boy, .give a propasal to him, for marriage.
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Hi Raj,
Fie a petition for divorce on the ground of desertion[ since both of not lived together for 2 years] and you will get decree..
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Hi srishaila,
thnx for reply.pls tell me wht will happen if she willd eny to give divorce?
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didn’t understood what you are saying
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i am saying if she will deny to give me divorce n tell the court tht she wnts to stay with me.wht can i do then?
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she will not tell like that, even if she tell like that, earlier why she did not express her desire to live with you.This question will ask by the court.
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Hie srishaila
Thank you very much for your valuable advice, but at this point of time I’m not at all bothered about marrying someone else.I am educated and independent why do I look for some one to fight for me.I can fight all alone for myself, what I need is to somehow come out of all this.Please tell me where am I supposed to go to file a petition for judicial separation. Means which court, are there some special cells which can help me. My another main concern is my father is Delhi Police, can he suppress this matter on legal grounds anyhow?? though I stay in Gurgaon, got married here only, If I’m not mistaken petition will be filled in Gurgaon too?. And please tell me how much time will it require to be out of all this, amount to be required.Do I need to hire any advocate??.And another important question is which one would be better divorce or Annulment? I mean which consumes least time ,efforts and off course money too. As I’m bit scared my whole family stays in the same city and they will for sure try their best to suppress the matter somehow and once they succeed in this,they will make my life a living hell.
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U CASE FILE IN DELHI FIRST U FRI THE POLICE STATION 498 PLUS HARRASMENT THEN U R CASE HAS STRONG U CALL 1090 AND NEREST POLICE STATION THEN U HIRE ADVOCATE ANY
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Hi Sonal ,
sorry for late reply, as i am out of station.For annulment of your marriage , you should file the petition within a year of you marriage.
For filing the petition , you have to file before the family court.If any body including your family member tries to threaten you, lodg a police complaint against them buy narrating all the facts.If those police didn’t record you complaint, lodge a complaint to higher authorities like superintendent of police.
As for as the fee are concerned it varies from person to person.But there is government machinery, like legal service authorities, who offer free legal services to women and children.But i think there will not be efficient lawyers in their legal panel.So better take private lady lawyer to fight your case.
As for as the time taken for the case will be minimum one year.
I will also try to find out best and reasonable person to handle your case.
There are some women’s organisations are there to handle your case.
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jitne bhi 498a cases jo hein maximum jhuteh cases hein.a jo bhi aurath cases file karti hai sali chor hai”’
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haan ladkiyan sari chor hain tum ladko ko sab maaf hai
tum log apni rate list le ke marriage market me utarte ho
laDKIYAN naukri kar ke tumhe khilayen bhi ghar ka kaam bhi karen tum sirf aish karo apni mothers ke saath mil ke ladki aur uski damily ko looto
har ek festival pe laakhon ka saman bhi lo
car tv fridge ac gold ye sab lena tumhara haq hai
shadi me ladki ke maa baap sari umar ki kamai tumhare kadmo me rakh de
aur tum unki ladkiyon ko apne joote ke neeche rakho
aur jab man bhar jaye to ghar s nikal do
fir bhi ladkiyan sari chor hain
but then again this is not your fault ajmal pasha
ye tumhare parents ne tumhe aisi gandi soch di hai tumhari mothr ne
all these mothr in laws ye ladki ko apni full time kamau naukrani samajhti hain
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Hi sister,
Of course there are some girls , really harassing the boys and their families.Because of these harassment and this section , so many boys have committed suicides, their pregnant sisters have put into jail,thier aged parents are put in to jail and tortured. Pls think about these things.
IF YOU WANT PROOF , I CAN GIVE MANY INSTANCES FOR YOUR REFERENCES.
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Hi Shilpi, when marriage happens, everything happened by mutual concent and in todays world(India) there are number of false cases which are being filled by girls. Using 498A is a legel terrioasm which is beging done by girls and used this as a extortion. I am sorry but this is true.
There might be a original cases as well, for that law is there.
If u look into a survey then u will find that false cases are increaing a lot day by day and true cases are coming down.
In india there shuld be more mediation centers which resolves the issues and families have to be positive for reunion and before marriage boy and girl should meet atleast 10-15 times so that they better understand each other…..
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all persons are not alike, so due certain greedy, unscrupulous girls who are creating problem and creating legal terrorism in society and defaming the whole gender / females
now filing false cases like 125 crpc, Dv and 498a on husband by wives has become trend to extort money
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Hi brother,
don’t generalize your statment. There may be some geniune cases
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please dont give me genuine cases…
physical torture ke alawa mental torture bhi exist karta hai
these so called pregnant sisters tell their brothers to torture their wives
i personally know one girl(she is a friend of mine) whose husband took money from her account to go out and gamble after 2 months of marriage
his sister who was incidentally pregnant at that time encouraged him to do so
and my friend’s father had given 30 lakhs to his daughter and son in law to set up their home
and this innocent brother and his innocent pregnant sister gambled away all this money(life savings of my friend’s father)
and dont tell me about arrests nobody is tortured or arrested they dont even spend a single night in jail
my friend has filed 498a but these innocent in laws have not been arrested for the past 6 months no action on her FIR
while her father lost his life,s savings she lost her job and has been in depression for the past 6 months
this is the torture your innocent in laws and their pregnant sisters face
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Hi Shilpi,
You may be true, i am not denying that fact.But my intention of saying is , other way round cases will also be there like opposite of what you are saying.So it all depends upon case to case basis.
Don’t have biased attitude .That’s all i can say.
srishaila,09741425514, Bangalore,sdhrani120@gmail.com
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why dont you create a page where girls can express what actually happened instead of helping these men who are greedy and marry a girl only for money why only a page for the guys why not for girls……
why this biased treatment??
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Hi brother,
don’t generalize your statment. There may be some geniune cases
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hi shilpi
on one side all girls wants equality to boys but also wants special gender biased laws in favor of women means wants double edged weapon in their hands
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Hi Sonal,
Please write a mail to this person santhosh goswamy of Delhi and his mail id is sgoswami@sureshotlegal.com.He is an expert in matrimonial matters .He will help you in this reagrd.
Grounds for divorce are as below.
Grounds for Divorce
The following are the grounds for divorce in India mentioned under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955.
Adultery – When a spouse enters into any kind of sexual relationship including intercourse outside marriage, it is termed as adultery. Even one single act of adultery is enough for the petitioner to get a divorce. Unlike other grounds, substantial evidences are required to prove adultery because adultery is also a criminal offence.
Desertion – If one of the spouses voluntarily abandons his/her partner for continuously a period of two years, the abandoned spouse can file a divorce case on the ground of desertion.
Conversion – In case either of the two converts himself/herself into another religion, the other spouse may file a divorce case based on this ground.
Cruelty – Cruelty is an act of physical, mental or emotional torture which may affect the life, limb and health of a spouse. While dealing with cruelty it is to be noted that conduct of spouse is not as important as its effect on other spouse. Cruelty has not been defined under H.M.A but it is quite exhaustive and could cover any act/acts which may affect the other spouse.
Mental Disorder – If a spouse suffers from incurable mental illness the other spouse can file a divorce petition. The crux is that mental disorder should be of such a type that the other spouse can not be expected to live with him. Under this ground the medical evidence becomes vital.
Leprosy – In case of a ‘virulent and incurable’ form of leprosy, a petition can be filed by the other spouse based on this ground.
Venereal Disease – If one of the spouses is suffering from a serious disease that is easily communicable, a divorce can be filed by the other spouse. The sexually transmitted diseases like AIDS are accounted to be venereal diseases.
Renunciation – A spouse is entitled to file for a divorce if the other renounces all worldly affairs by embracing a religious order.
Not Heard Alive – If a person is not seen or heard alive for a continuous period of seven years, the other spouse can file a divorce petition.
No Resumption of Co-habitation – If a court has passed a decree for judicial separation under Sec 10 and no cohabitation take place between the parties within one year, either of the party can file a divorce petition citing such ground. No additional ground is needed. .
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Hie srishaila,
Thank you for your advice,but I think as per my knowledge under none of the above mentioned grounds I can seek divorce.But thank you very much for guiding me,I’ll talk to Mr Goswamy.
Regards
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Hi Sonal
Good luck and i wish you happy new year
Regards
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Hie srishaila
I am really obliged to you for your help. Wish you too a very happy and prosperous new year
Warm Regards
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Hi Neha,
You oppose their divorce petition.Its not easy for him also to get divorce from you through the court, unless he has to prove what ever the allegations he has made against you.Please send the divorce petition to me so that i can properly advice. you.
In your case , please file a complaint to the police station, under section 498a for harassing you and also under Prohibition act for asking you more dowry.The police will take necessary action and you will get justice.
Pls contact me further help, if need.Which place you are from??
Regards
srishaila,09741425514,bangalore,sdharani120@gmail.com
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hi
i am 22 years married lady.last year i got married..us time mai study kar rhe the..and i was living in hostel.mere husband bhut shakki type ke the..mujhe kie dete the.mai kanhi ja nhi sakti the.unki is nature se mai bhut depres rhti the.vo kabhi mere baat nhi sunte the.after 6 months we lived together.but unke mom bhi sath rhte the.unke mom ne humare bech kabhi understanding nhi bnne di..ab mere husband ne mere against divorce case daal diya tha..ground hai ki maine unke sath kabhi physical relation nhi bnaya,mujhe aur logo sms aate hai.mai unke liye aur unki mom ke liye bhut cruel hu etc..but iin reality aisa kuch nhi tha..mai divorce nhi dena chahti..un logo ne mujhe dowry ke liye bhut pareshan kiya..but maine ghar nhi btaya..after marrieg vo log mere college fees tak nhi dete the..mai kya karu samjh nhi aa rha:(…kya vo easily divorce le lenge.?
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Hi Neha… I strongly suggest, if u can talk sort out the matter amicably and look for a positive side… Don’t go for 498A case. As if u file this then there will be no chances to be togeather. All advocate and legal person encourage for it, but better to have right decision
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first try to solve your problem with certain mediator if you realy want to reside with your hubby otherwise go for MCD/ mutual consented divorce
but in indian law contested divorce is very difficult and takes so many years sometimes even then no divorce order from court
so donot waste ur time and life and go for decision as soon as possible as u are so young
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Hi,
I am monica and got married on 2009 for past one and half year i am away from my husband what should i do to get divorce from my husband please reply at my mail
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Hi Monica, Is there any chance you to be togeather… if yes then don’t look for divorce.. As u mentioned that u married in 2009 and u just stayed for 1.5 years then what u and ur husband did in left over time.. Does ur husband want the same ???
Does he wants to be with you, if yes then think over this…
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Hi Monica,
Why do you want divorce from your husband.Any strong reason?? Why you are away from your husband, any valid reasons for that.If there is no valid reasons, then it is proper to have counselling for both of you from elderly persons or professional counsellors.
Regards
srishaila,bangalore,09741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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Hi, Monica,
Hope every thing alright???
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hai Monica this is raju hope every thing well and i think that u might be staying with u r husband
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fif there is no chance of reunion then file divorce u/s 13 HMA
if file divorce on the basis of desertion then u have to mention seperation from last 2 year
if file divorce on the ground of cruelty as beating, humilation, dowry demand and so on
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Hi Monica,
Why you are leaving separately?? what is the reason??
Yes you can file the petition for divorce on the ground of desertion .But you have to mention in the petition that you are away from your husband more than 2 years.This is as per the provisions of the Hindu marriage act.
Otherwise you can file the petition on the ground of cruelty, like mental and physical harrasment.
Srishaila,bangalore,9741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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.Hi please any one help .mere mama jo ki ek engineer h mahindra me aur unka bijli bibhag walo se ek choti si ladai ho gyi aur opposition ne mama par case kr diya aur un par dhara 332 par mukadma ho gya he kya is case me mere mama ki bahar se bahar jamanat ho skti h yaani ki bina jail jaaye .agar ho skti he to kaise plz tell me fast its very urgent plz…….!!
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Indian Penal Code (IPC)
Section 332. Voluntarily causing hurt to deter public servant from his duty
Whoever voluntarily causes hurt to any person being a public servant in the discharge of his duty as such public servant, or with intent to prevent or deter that person or any other public servant from discharging his duty as such public servant, or in consequence of anything done or attempted to be done by that person in the lawful discharge of his duty as such public servant, shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to three years, or with fine, or with both.
CLASSIFICATION OF OFFENCE
Punishment—Imprisonment for 3 years, or fine, or both—Cognizable—Non-Bailable—Triable by Magistrate of the first class—Non-compoundable.
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Hi Arnav singh,
Please engage a professional criminal lawyer and get your person on bail.Its a cognizable and non bailable and non compoundable offence .
Pls contact me for any clarifications if any
Srishaila,Bangalore,09741425514,sdfharani120@gmail.com
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I was wondering if you ever thought of changing the layout of your blog?
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But maybe you could a little more in the way of content so people could connect with it better.
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Hi Srishaila,i was married on 5 june,2011 but afetr 2 months she went to her home for some reason but after 2 months i got information that she is preparing to go abroad for higher studies.she didnt tell anything abut this and when i ask then said that study is her first priority.now i think she has gone for srudy for 5 years and there is no physical relation between us since aug 2011.now i want divorce.plz suggest me what should i do?
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Dear Ajay,
Yes you can file the petition for divorce on the ground of fraud, as she dis not disclose to you her intention prior to marriage .If her interest / priority is study, then why she had married you?? this ground you have to take and file the petition. OR
From the date of marriage , there was no consummation between you and her OR
you have to wait for completion of two years of separation, to file a petition for divorce on the ground of desertion.
You choose.
Srishaila,advocate,bangalore,9741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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thanx Srishaila ji for ur suggestion.
Srishaila ji i dont want to wait for completion of 2 years.but i m confused abt three points-
1. if i lose the case then will i have to give any compensation.
2. if she is in abroad right now then is there any rule that she can fight from abroad to my petition? or she will have to come in india.
3. without any police verification of her spouse(me) for her VISA, is she eligible to go abroad whenever she has given application before marriage for ph.d but not for passpart and visa.
plz suggest me. thanx.
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Hi,
1.My answer to your first question is “NO”, bcz she has deserted you, for her own benefit, without your consent, permission and against your wishes..
2.Do you know the address, where she is studying?? If answer is “NO”, then give the address, where she was last residing as per your knowledge.
3.While applying for visa, if she has mentioned about your marriage, then it has to be cross verified with you, as to whether you know about this.On the contrary, if she has not mentioned , then the police need not verify about the spouse.
srishaila,974142,5514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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hi srishaila ji,
i want to know that if she is hiding her marriage status on the basis that she was unmarried when applied for scholarship.then VISA may be cancelled?
other question is-if i give address as per my knowledge and she is in abroad then how will the case proceed ?
thnx.
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hello
i have a 498a case on me after rest of the family members are out by the police. maintenence,custody of child (now 7+years),divorce is in the process. how to proceed the case fast and decided as per law. mutual attempts have not resolved any results. how to get divorce fastly as it was filed as per section of divorec law or more importantly cruelty and desertion as the basis. One point, i have to clear also that before the case under section 498a etc , i have purshased a flat which is under construction stage on joint names i.e myself & the 498a wife
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please help/guide me in getting the desired result in short span of time if possible. Rest is self understood. very simple and simple logic may please be drawn after going through it. related assumptions may please be made.
please suggest in getting your valuable advice/guidance at the earliest.
thanks& regards,
hridaya
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Hi,
How are you?? Any developments took place ??
Regards
srishaila
9741425514
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Ask your wife, as to what she wants and if those demands are reasonable, meet them , with a condition to her to accept your divorce petition .
srishaila,bangalore,9741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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My marriage is 4 years old. I have a 3 year old daughter.I might call her an accident. I got pregnant 4 weeks after marriage. Righyt from the beginning my husband has been very wierd. Even few friends and family members have started asking me funny questions and teasing us saying we dont sleep together. 3 weeks post marriage he started working all night on his computer. Since he works from home, he used to sleep in the morings. Even if he didnt have work, hel sit up all night cleaning his computer etc. The worst thing is he never talks things out. Ive been going to bed with problems almost every single night. He never even tries to solve the problem. In the beginning, I tried telling him that wed go for counselling But he did not want go.
He says that Im just thinking things and I have to adjust. Im human after all. I need someone to talk to, I need someone to hug me once in a while. But hes so wierd. Even if I invite him to bed there are so many times that he has told me that hes not in the mood and just walked off. He doesnt even try to explain. He knows that Im hurt but he doesnt bother. Even if he sees me crying he just walks off to his laptop. As long as I know he has no other affair. Hes just freaking weird and heartless.Hes al;so very sarcastic in front of people and just shouts all the time. If I ask him not to do something, he says that thats the way he is and that i should adjust. Due to all this we have a big fight atleast once in 2 months where i keep asking him and he sits like im talking to a dummy and I dont think this would work. Im scared that at some point all hell will break loose.
I come from a well off family But I have adjusted a lot. My parents have been sending me money whenever we needed extra money.
Sometimes I feel he wants me to walk out of the marriage. I love him so much or atleast used to but I dont see him seeing that. And I think Ive started hating him because of the way he treats me. He just hurts me so much. Hes not even trying to save the marriage. If i ask him some things, he tells me to leave the room. Today he pulled my hands and pushed me out of the room after which I asked him if he wants me to leave, he just kept silent as always. I want a good future for my daughter. Im living for her and I dont want her to be brought up in an unloving hostile environment.
I am a professional and can look after her well. If I file for a divorce will my reasons hold. And can I keep my daughter. Without her, Ill die. What should I do. Please advise.
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Hi,
Yes you can file divorce petition on the ground of cruelty and you will not loose your child also, since you are capable of looking after your child.
But , before that, teach him a lesson, some way or the other for harassing, torturing you , so that in future he will not harass the second women in his life. Good luck.
If any other clarifications , please contact me.
Regards
srishaila
Advocate,
Bangalore
9741425514
sdharani120@gmail.com
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Its not an if, I want to get out of this. I dont want to stay with a stranger anymore. Both of us will be happier by ourselves. Please tell me how to go about it.
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i need some help about divorce ground .pl help me someone who know Hindu marriage act very well
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Dear Sinha,
I am a practicing advocate from Bangalore.Please contact me as i have got 30 years experience in the family disputes.
Regards
srishaila
9741425514
sdharani120@gmail.com
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Hi,
i am Kumar. i was married on 24 Dec 2012, after 5 days my wife said she has a boy friend and willing to go with him. on 1 jan 2013 she left with her bf. but now she is with her parents now. so we both agreed for mutual divorce. can anyone suggest the quickest way to get divorce.
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Dear Kumar,.
Please file divorce petition , for cancellation of marriage, on the ground of spouse having extra marital relation ship, before the marriage and also on the ground of fraud, saying non disclosure of these facts to you before marriage.
This type of petition has to be filed within one year from the date of marriage.On the next date of hearing , your wife can appear be fore the court and accept the allegation made against her.The court will give divorce decree in favor of you.
Regards
srishaila
Advocate
9741425514
Bangalore
sdharani120@gmail.com
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plz, help me my wife leave me and she not ready to live with me, we both are on govt. Job in the same department, she goes to police against me with 498a
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If she files FIR, take the copy of the same and seek anticipatory bail before the district judge, for all the parties, named in the FIR.
But police can not arrest you all people, immediately, as per the supreme court direction, first they have to send you all for counselling and later .
if the discussion failed, the same will be referred to DCP /ACP of the area is concerneced
srishaila,
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I live in the above mentioned address along with my wife R.Hemavathi for the past 13 years. My only son Rakesh Raja is employed in Australia. He got married to V.Mahaalakshmi D/o. Veerappan, Mother Name V.Parvathi, No.1, Chokkalingam Street, East Shanmugam Colony, Villupuram -605 602 (Chennai Address: No.30/57, M.M.T.C. Colony, Nanganallur, Chennai -600 061) and the marriage details are given below:
1.Engagement Date: 04-03-2012
Function held at Hotel GRT Convention Centre, Chennai. Until Betrothel date everything went on well but after this date their behaviors changed
2.Marriage Date 29-08-2012
All the formalities went on to their satisfaction which was accepted by both sides. They requested us to open a Bank Locker, so my locker has been changed to the name of my son and Mahaalakshmi. They kept their jewels as she was leave to Australia shortly.
3.Rakesh Departure to Australia Date 15-09-2012
Prior to Departure, my son has given the Locker Key to me but Mr.Veerappan & his wife strongly objected that it should not be with Father-in-law and also made an unpleasant comment in the Airport. I smelt their discomfort and insisted to my son to ask them to give in writing that they received back the Locker key with jewels and received the letter on 17-09-2012
4.Mahaalakshmi Departure to Australia Date 18-10-2012
If Spouse visa is applied it will take 6 months process time, so my son himself applied for Tourist Visa and while going he had also applied for Spouse Visa.
5.Mahaalakshmi Chennai Arrival date16-01-2013
After arrival she has gone along with her father to Villupuram and did not join us
6. My son had informed me after the arrival of his wife to India that all the jewels in the locker belonging to her have been removed and kept by her in her house for safe custody as per her wish and as I wanted him to advise her to return the locker keys to either avail the same for my personal purpose or close it he had agreed.
7. Mahaalakshmi with her father visited Mogappair House 29-01-2013
On this date her father and she came to see me at about 10.45 am. When I asked about the locker keys she said that she did not bring it. She said tlhat she had forgotten. I informed her to send it through somebody at the earliest. Both Mr. Veerappan and Mr.Udaiyappan accompanied them stating to be the Periappa of Mahaalakshmi and spoke unwontedly as stated below:
kQhy¶ÀÁ± mîgh ÛuîgD© bgÂaîgh cilaîgD©, c± iga± v¡f¯ kQhy¶Àˆl± M´½nuÃahĬ k¤L© jh± ,Uèfnt¥L©. br±idènfh tunt TlhJ. Õnah c± bgh¥lh¤onah M´½nuÃah‰èF br¬yntTlhJ/ mîgo br¬yKa±wh¬ c¡fis bfh±WÄLnth©. eh± Tasmac¬ ,Uîgjh¬ f£rh tH踬 kh¤o ‡H¬ ºiwÁ¬ ngh¤L th®èifna ,¬yhk¬ brªJÄLnth© v±W TÇ Àu¤odh«f¯
To my surprise a Police van came to my house in the evening at 8.00 p.m. asking for myself and my wife to come to Police station for enquiry because Mahaalakshmi has given complaint for dowry harassment. At that time Udaiyppan once again threatened in front of Inspector that he would murder me which did shock me. All Women Police Station, Thirumangalam Inspector P.Geetha has completed the enquiry for 2 hours & 30 minutes on the same day. During the police Enquiry Udaiyappan repeated the same threatening when Inspector Geetha was attending some important incoming Call.
8. I am to state that while at Australia Mahaalakshmi had wanted our son to minimize his conversations with us and has harassed him for the same too and did not want us to visit Australia too and had involved herself in conversations unbearable with her mother
9. Master plan (by Mahaalakshmi & Parvathy) (Audio Evidence is Available with us) During three months stay of Mahaalakshmi in Australia (18-10-2012 – 15-01-2013)- Both she and her mother have planned to
a. To lodge FIR against myself, my wife and my son
b. To book us under narcotics and put us behind bar, torture us so that my son will rush to Chennai. While coming at the Airport itself they planned to implant “Ganjapackets” in his baggage and beat him while going out with the help of rowdies
c. They have also planned to throw some Ganja Packets in front of our house, Portigo inform Police so that we will be arrested
d. To Engage Rowdies in the International Level and put my son under threat and beat him.
e. They have also planned to Lodge complaint in Australian Police that my son is torturing her so that my son is in trouble. Also we have evidence of instructions from her mother to her Daughter to make scratches with nail and sharp objects, to go out to the road side and make a cry to attract police and public.
f. To injure us severely with the help of Goondas and Speedy Vehicles
and all these to turn my son against us and separate us and the conversations of theirs are as follows:
10. Status as on date 17-01-2013 to till date
a. As per their master plan F.I.R. was registered in Crime No.4/2013
b. This has been referred to Madras High Court Case No.2626/2013
c. High-Court has referred the case to mediation till date 3 Sitting over, Now No solution could be arrived by the Mediators, they referred the case to the Honourable Court
d. Complaint given the Tamilnadu State Womens Commission & issued summon (First Date was given on 4.3.2013 – Due to High Fever we did not go), Summons served on 13.3.2013, 20.03.13, 21.03.13 and asked us to give one time opportunity to join the couples by Force. But we are not happy with the Commission’s Forcible Action
e. Mahaalakshmi did not stay even a single day with us in Mogappair
f. There is No communicatin between Two families since betrothel
g. Whatever the jewels, silver articles given to Mahaalakshmi were received back by Mahalakshmi – written proof available with us
h. The jewels weighing 17 sovereigns given by us at the time of engagement and as additions in Thaali worth Rs.4.50 lakhs was taken away by Mahaalakshmi and is in her custody
11. Other Important Points which proves that there is no Dowry Harassment & Cruelty
We have come to know that Mahaalakshmi was earlier engaged to some other boy who was working in West Germany and the same had been cancelled and the alliance with our son fixed suppressing the earlier engagement.
12. Threat to our lives and to my son
In the event anything happens (including Suicide) to our Lives V.Mahaalakshmi D/o.V.Veerappan (Father) Mother V.Parvathi are the only responsible persons ably supported by Mr.K.M.Udaiyappan, K.M.Mahalingam, brother of Udaiyappan another Periappa of Mahaalakshmi brother of Udaiyappan, (Mobile No.9443255375, 7200736504)
Sir, I take this opportunity to highlight to you the above facts to your kind consideration and take necessary action against the following persons V.Mahaalakshmi, V.Veerappan (Father), V.Parvathi (Mother) residing at No.1, Chokkalingam Street, East Shanmugam Colony, Villupuram- 605 602 (Chennai Address: No.30/57, M.M.T.C. Colony, Nanganallur, Chennai- 600 061) Mr.K.M.Udaiyappan, K.M.Mahalingam, Ganapathy Mess.No.88,89, Nethruji Road, Opp to Old Bus Stand, Villupuram 605 602 Mobile No.9443255375, 7200736504 for having threatened us;by way of telephonic conversations and personal too and with the additional co-operation of Mr.Veerapan who had stated during the police (Inspector P.Geetha) enquiry at Nolambur Police Station on 29-01-2013 that he would use his status and political power to ruin me, my wife and my son for no fault of ours and of all fault of theirs and further had stated as
I kindly request you to take immediate action against the above persons for their threatening, life threat and harassments to me and my wife who are helpless at Chennai
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Dear friend,
Kindly give a police complaint to the police commissioner or to the home department[sate] and also to home minister[central] and narrate the facts mentioned here, and request them to take action against those people.I will also try my best to help you in this regard.
Also try to approach the chief minister in this regard.
Home Minister
Selvi J Jayalalithaa , Hon’ble Chief Minister
Phone: 25672345 (O) 24991222 (R)
Minister for Prohibition and Excise
Thiru Natham R. Viswanathan
Phone: 25670204 (O) 24617641 (R)
Minister for Law, Courts and Prisons
Thiru K.P Munusamy
Phone: 25670374 (O)
Minister for Transport
Thiru V.Senthil Balaji
Phone: 25672232 (O), 24956667 (R)
Minister for Information
Thiru K.T Rajenthra Balaji
Phone: 25673126 (O)
Principal Secretary
Thiru R Rajagopal IAS
Phone: 25671113 (O), 25322425 (R), 25670596 (Fax)
Resi: 26258039
Email: homesec@tn.gov.in
CENTRAL GOVERNAMENT
Name Designation Contact Numbers
Office of the Minister of Home Affairs
Shri Sushilkumar Shinde
skshinde@sansad.nic.in Minister +91 11 23092462,23094686 ( Off.)
+91 11 23094221 (Fax)
+91 11 23017957,23017962 ( Res.)
+91 11 23017965 (Fax)
Shri Amit Kumar Kaushik Officer on Special Duty +91 11 23092462 ( Off.)
+91 11 23092113 (Fax)
Office of the Minister of State for Home Affairs
Shri Ramachandran Mullappally
mullappally.ramachandran@gmail.com Minister of State +91 11 23093235,23092595 ( Off.)
+91 11 23094896 (Fax)
+91 11 23063102,23063103 ( Res.)
Dr. Sagar Preet Hooda
( IPS..1997 ) Private Secretary +91 11 23092353,23092870 ( Off.)
+91 11 23094896 (Fax)
Officers in the Ministry of Home Affairs
Shri Ratanjit Pratap Narayan Singh
rpn.singh@nic.in Minister of State +91 11 23092073,23094054 ( Off.)
+91 11 23093549 (Fax)
+91 11 24632653 ( Res.)
+91 11 24653444 (Fax)
Shri Asit Singh Private Secretary +91 11 23092073,23094054 ( Off.)
+91 11 23093549 (Fax)
Shri Trithankar Das Officer on Special Duty +91 11 23094054,23093777 ( Off.)
Officers in the Ministry of Home Affairs
srishaila,advocate, Bangalore,09741425514,sdharni120@gmail.com
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Hi Sir/Madam,
I am the resident of bangalore. I am in love with a girl from past 3 years. When the matter of marriage raised at my home, i informed my parents that i marry to this lady, Since, girl’s sub caste is different, my parents refused that girl and hurrily fixed my marriage with the other girl. I was not ready to leave my love and as well as my parents. So, i contacted that girl (fixed by my parents) and her parents and informed that i am in love with a girl, as my parents are not ready to cancel this marriage and requested like anything for cancellation of this marriage. I called them so many times and requested to cancel but, those people were not at all ready to cancel. My marriage happend forcefully on April 07, 2013.
Now, i dont want to leave my love, she will not leave without me and i want her in my life. Now, please help me how to get relief from this problem.
Even after informing so many times that i have an affair, they did not care for this. Please help me how to get divorce
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Dear Lingappa,
You can file the petition for divorce for cancelling the marriage, immediately as it has been done by force and coercion.There is a provision for this in Hindu marriage act.
You can contact me as i am an advocate and based in Bangalore and i am expert in family matters, as i have got 30 years in this filed
Regards
srishaila
09741425514
sdharani120@gmail.com
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Dear Madam, Thanks for your immediate reply.
i just wanted to know, if that girl refused for divorce how it will work? because before the marriage only i informed that girl and her parents that i am in love with girl, if marriage did not cancel all three life will get spoil. After informing this much, they did not even thought for a while to cancel.
Just because of my parents sake i just tie a knot. I
am very much frustrated about my position. I am in such a situation like, i do not want my parents to suffer and ashamed of me and i need my love too. Please suggest me.
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I had requested my parents that i do not want this marriage, but, they did not agreed. They started hunger strike for 4 days and because of this emotional blackmail, finally i agreed to them and marriage happend. Now, What about the condition of my love? she will not live without me, am worried about her life and am worried about my parents too. Please help me ;-(
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Dear Lingappa,
Please call me or meet me.I will solve your problem.
Regards
srishaila
9741425514
sdharani120@gmail.com
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Dear Lingappa,
Any way, You didn’t contact me.you can file divorce petition on the ground of coercion/forceful marriage , If your marriage has happened within year from the date of marriage
srishaila,9741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com.
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Hello .
i had arranged marriage in 2009 have two and half year old daughter.My wife n in laws are bad mouthed.My wife started threatneing me about police and divorce from day one.My parents and me co-operated and waited for things to improve.but futile and now we know upbringing plays a crucial role in character and it cant be changed.She was working in different state and we never held her back .Only leave was in pregnancy.She doesnt want to stay with me .Instead wants to stay near her mothers home with my daughter.And wants only money from me for maintenance.And i should keep coming where she stays so that their relatives dont come to know anything about our failed relation.
Her father and mother also stay seperate from their early years of marriage but unite to abuse us.
My wife keeps the daughter with male maids and is not a good mother.Also she devotes 4-5 hours of day sitting for meditation of some sect.She n her mother follow same sect for 25 years as they told.
I want the kid to stay in my home in a family environment and want divorce without getting myself n my family in trouble.
The girls side are wicked and go to any xtend to humiliate us.
My wife have threatned me of suicide,that she can kill the baby.One occacion she almost took my veins off with her mouth.
Their family are renouned trouble makers for no reason in the community.Unfortunately we got the information about them too late
Pls advice.Any evidence i can collect to avoid false proceedings against us.
Thank you
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Hi,
First you have to file a petition for restitution of conjugal rights, asking the court to give directions to your wife to come to your house and live with you.Fore that definetly she will not come and the court will decree the petition by giving direction.Thereafter, you file a petition for divorce on the ground , in spite of the courts direction she has not come and lived with you.Thereafter you will get divorce decree.
In the mean while you can file an application for child visiting rights, since your daughter is 2.5 years old.
In this way you will get the divorce with no hassles to you and also to your family.
Regards
srishaila,advocate,bangalore, 9741425514
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Hi,
I am in love with a guy from past 3 and half years. As marriage matter came in my boyfriend home, they didnt accepted me, as i belong to other sub caste and fixed his marriage in hurry with other girl. But, my boy friend kept telling me that at any cost he will cancel the marriage, since he is been suffering from asthama from his childhood. He informed this matter to that girl side, but they did not took the matter seriously. By trying many times to cancel, his plan got failed and marriage happened in the last month. I too called that girl and informed that am in love with her feansy, and requested her to cancel the marriage and to leave my love. But, she ignored my words;-(
I can not leave without my love, I am an orphan and I don’t have anyone to support me. I am so much attached to him;-(. I need him in my life. Now, please suggest me how can I get back my love in my life, I cant leave without him. He don’t have enough braveness to go legally against them to get me, he hesitate to face the world that if our matter comes to media and all. But, I am ready for anything, I need my love ;-(, Please suggest me. I need my love.
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Hi ,
It is better to forget him and marry another person and live happily.If he is true lover of you, he would have married you facing all the problems and the society.
If he is not in a position to take a independent and bold decision about his personal matter. in future what you will expect from him, in any other grave problems come in the life.
It is my sincere advise.
In the alternative file police complaint saying that, he was ;loving with me and now he had married another girl, against your permission and consent.
Or otherwise, your husband has to file divorce petition against that girl,saying that, he is having relationship with you, prior to marriage, but by force from his family he has married that girl.
Regards
srishaila,advocate,bangalore,9741425514
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Hi,
i am Hemant. i was married in Dec 2011, after 3months of my marriage i came to know that my wife had not completed her Education as told to us earlier, Though i accepted she and Her Family had mentally harass me During the same Period she left me and till present she is staying with her Parents. Although we have repeatedly attempt to call for a meeting through Mediator or some links, she and her Family had not shown up.
Now with the bad experience and the way i have past experience i am not mentally prepare to leave with her.
can anybody suggest waht should i do?
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Dear Hemanth,
If you don’t want to live with your wife, then You have to file petition for divorce on the ground of Desertion.
Regards
srishail,9741425514,advocate,bangalore
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Hi All,
I got married in 2003 and now have 8 years daughter, My wife suffering from Kidney failure since marriage when my daughter born but I was not aware because delivery was happened at in-laws place (Surat), I came to know in 2010 when due to high BP found chronic kidney disease and for lifetime she has to be depend upon dialysis. My In-laws and wife are not ready to transplant kidney, now not leaving with me since three years, Every month I am paying 10k for treatment and other expenses. I tried all the steps to stay with her but now she is saying I am not comfortable with Dialysis in mumbai or pune and wanted me to move surat and do my jobs , I am working in pune location as IT professional. I am not in physical relationship since three years but we are meeting each other. Now I wanted get divorce. Any idea what to do ?
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My dear friend,
IT IS UNFORTUNATE THAT YOU HAVE BORN AS A HUMAN BEING.
SUPPOSE YOU THINK IE IT HAS HAPPENS TO YOU, THE SAME THING YOUR WIFE WOULD HAVE DONE?? “NO”
THAT’S WHY , ADJUST WITH HER ,SUPPORT HER IN HER DIFFICULT TIMES AND TAKE CARE OF HER HEALTH AND ALSO THE FAMILY, INSTEAD OF DIVORCING HER.
AT LEAST ON HUMANITARIAN GROUNDS ALSO YOU TAKE CARE OF HER.
SURAT IS ALSO GOOD CITY, HAVING ALL THE FACILITIES AND YOU CAN VISIT HER ON WEEKLY BASIS.IN YOU ABSENCE, HER PARENTS WILL TAKE OF HER. OK
SO, “DON’T THINK IN THAT DRACULAIAN WAY ”
MR.SRISHAILA,ADVOCATE,BANGALORE,9741425514,SDHARANI120@GMAIL.COM
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Thanks for your advice.
Its good think such way but practically it would not be possible the person to stays for long time, Same way If I would have been suffering such way, No one could guarantee that she wouldn’t have been re-married.
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mere big brother 21 days before divorce liya tha unko unki wife k sath bnti nahi thi wo love mrg the abhi wo log bina bajah 498 ipc law k tahet case karne ki bat karte hai hala ki hamne usse ku6 nahi kiya to me ye janna chahti hu k divorce k bad aisa case ho skta hai ??
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hellooooooooo……….My name is prajith..I am from kerala……..I am in love with a woman who is married and having 2 kids…am 29 and she is 33…..we both attached too much and cant live without each other. Her husband have relations with other girls and she is being torchouring by her mother in low..She is affraid that she will lose her kids if she go for divorce..what should i do……….please help me….we both cnt live without eachother. I am ready to accept her kids………….please help
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Hi Prajith,
Let her file divorce petition under section 13[1] [ i] & [ ii], against her husband , for voluntarily having sexual relationship with another women , during the subsistence of first wife and also cruelty.
As for as kids are concerned, if they are below 5 years , the husband can not get custody of the kids, but only he can have visiting rights.Thereafter 5 years, if the wife is not working , then the husband can get custody and also the court will also examine the kids as to whom with the kids wants to go and live with them
srishaila,advocate,Bangalore,9741425514,sdharani120@gmail.com
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Hello everybody…
Never expected in my foggiest dream that i will posting something like this at some point in my life.. Please accept my apologies for this long and lengthy letter..
I will try to explain in simplest manner..
– I am very well educated, very well settled professionally at a senior position with one of the reputed companies of India.
– my dad was very hard working man who started working at a very age to support his family. Given the best possible education to his kids (me & my sis)
– He passed away couple of years back due to massive heart attack.
– I have been very social throughout my life playing imp role in NGO’s for homeless kids, Aids society & Cancer societies in India and USA.
– I moved to USA about 8 years back untill recently when my dad passed away. I decided to come back to my home country and take care of my ailing mother (she suffers from Heart disease, diabetic, anxiety and depression post my father’s death)
– I have never been in touch with my relatives till i was back from USA except few family marriages.
– My uncle’s insisted my mom and me to get married to a gal from my home town (somewhere in UP).
– Meeting was arranged in Aug 2011 in front of her family (sis & bro in law but not her parents).. They dint allowed me to talk to her in alone. (Someone told me it’s still a taboo in that particular community)
– She looked older to me but I was convinced the way they said that she was one year younger to me. (trust me they put lots of efforts to convince me)
– I believed her family and my uncles believing why would they lie..
– Marriage happened in just two months. Meantime, I was back to work in Mumbai . During these two months, she never spoke to me over the phone. I tried calling her but she never spoke more then 2 mins.
– Marriage happened at my home time and I spent about 80% of my 9 years savings considering it as one time event and I wanted to make it memorable (which eventually turned into one though).
– I resigned from my previous job before marriage and moved to Delhi-NCR as I got an offer at a very senior position in top MNC’s.
– My mom stayed back in mumbai as she was undergoing treatment.
– A week after my marriage, I came back and joined back my job. rented a posh flat had all luxury amenities..
– Just to update, in marriage I didnt accepted a single penny in dowry, no clothes, no furniture. They insisted on giving some cash and car which i denied straightaway.
– I refused to accept car or cash so they gave an Alto car (in my wife’s name) and some cash (which was deposited in her account)
NOTE: i never kept the cash, never drive her car.. as I dnt even have a driving license… I prefer using my office cab or metro..
– She moved with me in my flat in NCR and on the first day i realized in most of her talks she sounded stupid but i ignored (my 6 year old nephew talks more sensibly)..
– In a week’s time she asked me to join her in visiting her home town for marriage registration purpose. I was amazed at why she wanted to get the marriage registered?? she said she was applying for new passport and it has to be on her married name. I was convinced with her this argument.
– During the registration process, her bro-in-law accompanied us to the registrar and he did all the paper work and insisted me to wait outside and will call me just to sign.. After 2 hours wait, i was called inside a small room with almost 7-8 people. he handed me the paper and insisted to sign at the bottom. All of a sudden,something drew my attention and that was my wife’s age.. she was 4.7 years elder to me. I just kept quiet and signed and came out didnt spoke a word she told me that she will be staying few days with her sis and i came back to ncr.
– When i confronted her once she was back she completely denied that they kept us in dark about her age.
Please note: Her family is quiet influential and I got no support as I dnt have any elder person in my family.
– I decided to ignore this fraud considering my mom’s health and how imp was it for me to focus on work rather than such issues..
– Meantime, I did some research on my own and realized she was not even educated and this cleared my doubts about her intelligence. This was seemed unbelievable to me and I was in state of shock.
– 8 months passed on with this, i dint spoke a single word to her. She had my credit cards and debit card and would go for shopping ride every 2nd day and visit her sis every 2 weeeks.. I didnt stopped her at all.. most of the time she was not even interested in having physical relation with me.
– I was kinda depressed and started smoking heavily and it was affecting my health mentally as well as physically.
– Post 8 months of this trauma, my mom arrived and i had a sigh of relied thinking she mite now understand her responsiblities.
– Nothing changed, infact on 3rd day mom took a return flight and on airport all she could say was I am sorry kid take care of yourself..
– Now the real trauma started, she would spend talking hours on phone, demand money now and then.. (by this time, I had blocked my cc which were being used by her)
– She took all the jewellery from my locker (this included very ethnic jewellery of my mom worth some 15lacs) saying she needed for her friends marriage though i didnt questioned.
– In January this year, after i left for office, she drove to her sis’s home and on my return in eve i found she took all the cash in home.
– I tried calling her number but she didnt answered, tried calling almost all her family members but nobody bothered to answer my call.
– I knew she will return as she has been doing this all the time in the past one year but this time i decided to fight back.
– I stopped paying her phone bill and stop transferring money to her. All she used to do during the day was to msg me asking to transfer money in her account (i still have those messages, atleast 50 in number)
– I was fed of her routine and decided to give a tough fight this time so denied any kind of financial support. She and her bro-in-law started calling my relatives that I have manhandled her and thrown out of house. They also blamed me for having affairs with few gals.
– I received a call from few of my relatives and i was summoned by local panchayat, i went there with all my phone bills and bank statements and to my surprise they themselves dint turned up.
– Post this they started threatening me of 498a but I had already made up my mind to give them a tough fight.. (It costed me fortune to flew my hometown every other week but i had decided to give it a fight)
– They filed 498a, DV case against my mom and me.. This was done through local magistrate (i guess this strengthens the case.. not sure thou)
– I was summoned in police station(female wing) along with my mom.. This time too i managed to take all my documents with me..
– In police station my wife and her husband started shouting abusing me and mom and trust me i had never seen somebody shouting on my mom like that and we were just helpless..
– the case incharge inspector called me and mom in another room and asked my side of story.. I handed him all the proofs and after going through proofs he was convinced that neither I had hit her nor asked dowry. It came as a big surprise to me as this was total opposite side of police i had imagined. He asked my mom to take rest at his residence which was just behind station becoz of her ailing health, a lady constable accompanied my mom to his place.
– now it was only me and my beloved wife, her bro-inlaw and the inspector in the room.. CI asked her if she was willing to separate and she straightaway denied.. She shouted and declared either he will live with me or he will rott in jail..
– me and CI were shocked and my wife and her bro in law rocked..
– CI asked me to leave and come back once they had issued arrest warrant as he wanted prepare the investigating file.. i trusted him and left…
Its been a month now..
as per last update, my arrest warrant has been issued, mom’s name has been removed from the final FIR.. I spoke to the CI about next course of action and as per him, i have to surrender by monday or tuesday and will possibly get a bail in a day or two..
Note: I havent paid a single rupee in bribe and as of now don’t intend to do it as i believe at the end truth wins..
My questions:
Sorry for the long story but it was required to provide the insights..
my questions
1. What if I am not found guilty (can I register a counter case on these guys)
2. How long these case normally takes as I am planning to fly back to US..
3. Can i file a case for divorce against the gal considering the fact that she lives with her sis and bro in law. her parents has never contacted me or my mom.
4. On what basis I can file my divorce case??? if lying about age and qualification can be considered?? or filing false 498a can be considered as mental cruelty?? i dnt know if court consider it as cruelty but for me it has been brain draining exercise making me smoke over 40 cigs a day.. at present with some friends help i am trying to overcome this with yoga and meditation..
5. During this period, can i fly to US or any other country travelling abroad is part of my current job..
– Just to remind.. I come from a mediocre family.. I had studied my all life on scholarships including my studies abroad.. I had worked day n nite cleaning dishes to reach at this stage and i definately dont deserve this treatment either by society or our soo called social community.. i felt being harassed and depressed at times…
But anyways, somebody has truely said there is always a bright light at the other side of dark tunnel.. I still hope to make it big in life and a peaceful life in some corner of this earth..
–
Ronit
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well.. i thot my detailed explanation mite help..
but it seems nobody bothered to read or respond.. thats what indian mentality is all about.. we need masala in everything..
I spent 4 days in jail… but anyways.. thanks for your support..
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I got love marriage just six months back. After 20 days from my marriage I make different house for me and my wife. Few days from my marriage I found she don’t like to do intercourse with me. Due to that back of my mind one question comes that she don”t like it. But we are newly marriage couple. More over last couple of month she behave with me very cruelly. She never make food for me and many more. Day by day our relation become horrible. And she always force me for money. My life become hell. Some time she do mental torture on me. Please can anyone suggest the quickest way to save me. What to do ?? I am ready to divorce her but I dont Know how its possible. Please suggest. ????
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Dear Abhay,
Only way is to file the petition under section 12 of hma act, for cancellation of marriage , on the ground of non cohabitation since the day of marriage, since it has to be filed within in a year from the day of marriage.
Another alternative is mutual consent for divorce under section 13[b] of hma act.
Regards
srishaila
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Hi, I’m 31 and hubby is 37.I had an arranged marriage in Feb 2013. My husband made me leave my IT job after marriage, he is a marathi businessman and further mentally and emotionally harreses me since 7 months.He does not want to discuss anything with me.He keeps complaning to his parents and mine about silly things. I am unable to continue with this marriage and wish to seek a divorce. My marriage is yet to be legally registered under the Hindu Marriage Act. Im not interested in his money or properties. Please tell me how to go about it.
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Dear Anita;
Seeking a divorce in India is a long-drawn out legal affair, where the period of prosecution takes a minimum of six months. However, the time and money required to obtain a divorce can be considerably shortened if the couple seeks divorce by mutual consent. In this case, estranged spouses can mutually agree to a settlement and file for a “no-fault divorce” under Section 13B of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955. All marriages which have been solemnized before or after the Marriage Laws (Amendment) Act 1976, are entitled to make use of the provision of divorce by mutual consent. However, for filing for a divorce on this ground, it is necessary for the husband and wife to have lived separately for at least a year.
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Dear Anita,
You have to file the petition under section 12 of hma act, for cancellation of marriage , on the ground , if your husband has cheated you by false information, or having another relationship with the woman or non cohabitation from the day of marriage since it has to be filed within in a year from the day of marriage.
Another alternative is mutual consent for divorce under section 13[b] of hma act..For this you have to complete one year.
Regards
srishaila
9741425514
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Helloooo…. My name is jeet kumar. I am from Haryana .
Main apni wife ko 2001 se bhahut pyar karta hu . meri wife ek poor family se belong karti h . meri wife ka father ek hath or ek paao se apaaej hai. Or meri wife ka ek hi bhai hai or wo bhi aankho se blind hai.
Humne 02/12/2010 aarya samaaj delhi me dono family ki sahmti se saadi ki hai. Saadi ke baad meri wife ki Haryana police me concetable ki nokri lag gai. Or wo Haryana police ki training ke liye chali gai. Mere or meri wife ke bich 2001 se june 2011 tak bhahut pyar rhaa. Esi doraan ek ladka jo ki sub-inspoctor ki training waha kar rahan tha, usne meri wife ko anpene prem jaal me fassya liya or meri wife se raat 1-1 baje tak baat karta raha , jab muje pata chala ki koi meri wife ko galt guide kar raha h . fir mane us ladke ko samjaaya ki ye sad dhik nhi pr usne muje dhamki di ki tu nhi jaanta m sab- inspector hu or tuje jail karwa duga . fir mane apni wife ko b samjaane ki kocs ki pr wo b nhi maani wo b ab muje talak chahti thi . pr m apni wife ko taalak nhi dena chahta kyo ki m apni wife ko bhahut pyar karta hu. fir mane apni wife ke father se baat ki pr usne b mera saath na dekar apni ladki ka sath dena uchit samja . fir mane clear kar diya jo karna h wo karlo pr m apni wife ko taalak nhi duga . maine unko kaha ki agr taalak lena hai to court me case dalo m aap logo se court me hi baat karuga . fir kafi baar us ladke ( sub-inspector) ka b phone aaya ki m apni wife ko taalk de du , mane usko kaha ki aap kon hote ho mere or meri wife taalk duwane wale. Usne kaha ki teri wife tujse nhi mujse pyar kararti h or muje usse saadi karni hai. Ye sab baate mane apne father ko batae , tab mere father uss ladke ( sub-inspector) ke father se mile or unko bataya ki aapka ladka galt kar raha . tab uss ladke ke father ne apne ladke ki tarf se mafi maangi or kaha aage se aapko sikayat ka moka nhi milega. Pr wo ladka nhi maana aaj b meri wife ko gumraha kar raha hai or usko phone karta h , duty ke doran meri wife se milta hai. Ess ladke waje se mera hasti khelti jindgi barbaad ho gai h. meri wife mujse july 2011 se alg rah rahi h , jab muje pata chala ki ab wo meri wife se saadi karne wala hai , tab mane Haryana police ke DIG ko uss ladke ( sub-inspector) ke khilaf karwahi ke liye likha . uski karwahi dsp kar raha hai. Pr dsp kahta hai ase cause me sirf ladki ki hi maani jaati hai. Meri wife ne bayan diya ki wo ladka sirf mera dost hai or kuch nhi . jab ki ye sab jhood hai , mane dsp ko kaha aap meri wife ki phone detail chek karwalo yeh mere manaa karne pr b meri wife ko phone karta hai, jaha meri wife tuty karti hai waha b ye milne jaata hai. Pr dsp uss ladke ke khilaf koi karwahi nhi kar raha hai . bas kahta ki m apni wife ko hi samjaahu.
Note- ek sub-inspector ( officer) ka kaam janta ki sewa karna hai na ki kic ki jindgi kharb karna , kic saadi sudh ladki ke piche panda . apni post ka naajayj faayda udha kar ek aam insaan ko dhamkana galt kaam nhi h fir b ase officer ke khilab koi karwahi nhi ho rahi h , aaj usne meri jindgi kharab ki hai kal kic or ki b kar sakta h
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I hv cort marrige wid my clsmate abt which no one knows .cn diz marrige be cancelled widot involvmnt of any family member?
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Hi
my marriage on 2008 i have one baby 5 years old but. we can not sexuual relation with my wife last 2008 but she leave with me . now i am going dipretion so please tell me how to leave seprate by legly.
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Please help me i am from chennai i got married before 4 years and having 2 kids one girl 2.8 years and boy 1.8 years she is very arrogant and not co-operative she dont know how to take care of me and even dont know how to to cook still for 31 years and often going to her mothers house and not very comfort staying and asking ideas from friends how to screw me and give torcher . Always fight with my family members and creating problem daily fight with me if some one ask she is saying that i am not earning just roaming and she only earning and giving to my family .damaged my name in the society if i ask for divorce she is not giving and she is saying that i wont let you to live . i am very mentally depressed . please help me in this my mobile number is 8695296963
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Pls give me the information how can I make the agreement and what kind of stamp papers can be used .I want to make an agreement between me and my boyfriend
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what agreement Shilpa ?
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What is use to put case on him… So Pl settle issue and ask for your maintenance
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July 13th 2014,
My relative Geetha got married to a marine engineer 1 1/2 years back, during my stay in my in-laws house i was harassed by my mother-in-law and two sister-in-laws and also the boy had sent a message for demanding 5 crores from her parents, the torture was very heavy. Nobody from her family were allowed to see her in-laws house. For living just for 3 months, she was forcefully sent out to her parents house 10 months back, in the mean while she approached the women’s police station at Chennai and the undertaking was given by the boy, to take her and live with her in separate house. Then he left India to work as marine engineer in ship in Singapore. No contact in between the girl and boy. he return back last month and sent a divorce notice tarnishing the girl by charging character assassination etc… Kindly advice me to console her on the following grounds.
1. She can contest the divorce petition
(or)
2. divorce by mutual concern
(or)
3. Whether the girl can claim for maintenance
(or)
4. What will be the maintenance compensation
(or)
5. Whether the family will charge the boy’s character assassination as a ground and whether its evidence by video or any other means which were manipulated by photoshop techniques.
The boy’s earning is 3 lakhs per months and owning 35 acres of land. The above queries may be answered immediately so as to help the girl who is disparate, for a legal advice.
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Hi please help me.
Meri sadi ko abhi tin mahine hi huve hain. Hamari ek dusre ke sath bilkul nahi ban rehi he. Hamara roz bil kul chhoto chhoti bato pe hi jhagda ho jata he. Ek din to usne suicide karne ki bhi kosis ki.
Main uske sath nahi rehna chahta hun. Please help me how i can get divorce from her.
Plz help me .
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nothing is being answered for my qurries posted on 13.7.14.
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I got decieved by girls parents that she was pregant before marriage I knew that 40 days of pregnancy after 25 days of my marriage(I got reports)…I sent the girl to her home , They threatened me on phone-Verbal abuse(I recorded It), filed a 498A complaint and called for settlement and demanded huge money I cant pay money what actions can I take against them and how to get divorsed and punish them
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sir, I am an Dr.Arunagiri, an advocate wanted to know whether the girl is having right over claiming maintenance in the case of Mutual consent for divorce claimed by the boy, how it is being calculated , is their any maximum amount allowed and is their case of claim over Rs.1 crore. I need the case law. thanks.
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Sir, meri sadhi ko 10 saal ho gaye h everytime my wife apne miyke jakar bath jati h aur jooth sach bolti rahti h like tum mera dhyan nahin rakhte aur uski mother and all famliy mermer support karte h uski mere ghar ke ander uski mother bahut jaada interfare karti h mere ghar ki ek ek baat usko pata hoti h abki baar to wo mere 3 children ko leker chali gai h aur mere jane par pura ghar idai kar dete h mere baccho ki pedai ka nuksan kafi ho rahaa h please mujhe kya karna chahiye jo ki mein apne baccho la saku wahaa se.
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Please send me Judgements when the wife Respondent is not able to consive i.e. not able to give birth the child in this circumstances Marriage is void. Please send me judgements through E-mail :- mahavir200942@yahoo.in
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mai apne pati se divorce Lena chahti hu kyunki woh bahut sharaab peete hain. and humari har roj ladai hoti hai, aur woh sharaab ke nashe mei mujhe bahut maarte hai, ek baar toh unhone mujhpar tejaab daalne tak ki koshish bhi ki. Mera ek college friend hai Jo ki mujhe ab shaadi karne ko bhi ready hai. Isiliye mujhe apne pati se divorce chahiye. Unse divorce lene k liye mai kya kar sakti hu, agar woh mujhe divorce na dena chahe toh. please suggest me. my email id is kssingh5566@gmail.com
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I just want to leave my husband. I want divorce only. I want to know that if he will refuse to divorce than what I can do.
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Meri sadi last july me hui thi…mere inlows ne mere husband ki job ko leke jhooth bola hamare sath cheat kiya but fir bhiaine comprms kiya…now ek sal se mujhe wo insan har trh se trtr krta raha mently physicly.. paresan ho chuki hu m bht abusive language use krta h..maine use divorce ka bola to kahta h nhi dunga.please sujs me what should i do.
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I was married for 8years with out any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home late and not spending time with me any more.So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my sister in law told me about Prophet Osaze from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we are happy with ourselves. Thanks to Prophet Osaze for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster email address:”spirituallove@hotmail. com”
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Hi,
i got married 4 months back, then i came to know she has been suffering from itp disease which is not curable and i have been worried about my life along with my parents, please suggest me how can i take divorce from my wife. and i got the mail from doctor like itp is not a curable disease and difficult to predict your wife from itp disease. Please help me out on this. Thanks!
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My wife went to her mother’s house just because of drinking beer on weekly Sunday at home… Her mother started complaining false about me in panachayat.. I came to know, that they were planning to take all the money like marriage expenditure and etc from me, so I first send a notice to her for conjugal right… Later I came to know the real plan of them and now forcing me to give mutual divorce and give money.
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My married life is one and half year complete.I have baby 6 month.before few month after pregnancy she having mental illness.before pregnancy sometimes she told with my family members like she need physiotherapy.but now she is slap to me mother.don’t care of baby.how I get devorce.or any problem how I face.
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Hello , my name is arjun
i got married on 21st April 2014 in bangalore. After marriage one day i live with my wife in their house in bangalore. 22nd April wife and their parents we came in car to my home town in satara,maharashtra State.after that she lived only 25 days in my house. she told that she don’t like satara city always tonting to me on this topic, this is village type of city here is no future i cannot live in this city i want to go bangalore because there is a future. she was not listening to me. she was telling. you stay in your village. i want to go to bangalore. she always telling to me please take to me bangalore. I don’t want to come back to your house. So please take to my house. She always tell me to settle down in B’ lore, but how can i leave my parents, and who will look after them, so I told her that I will not leave my parents,but still,she used to tell me talk to your father. she tell ok then take money from your father and tell to him she is not interested in satara city she wants to go bangalore. My father and mother call me and tell to me she not interest na then live it. my father said tell to her you want to go na ok then you go and settled in bangalore with your husband. i tell to my father i do not live you because. i cannot believe my wife. she was telling me we go there take a new falt in bangalore city. she will call mother and bother to stay in falt . she will call there parents and say to stay in my falt . One day she will call me and kick me out of my house. i said no only you and me staying in falt. They also come but not staying in my flat. Because I cannot believe in My wife. My father said her birthday do here only after word. They do in there house . 14th evening my wife father call to my mother. Wife father telling to my mother. i don’t no anything she was to come my house both are newly married. i will do birthday here only after word you do birthday there. Ok then my father tell go but come back soon. we live house on 15th May to go bangalore for her birthday on 16th May i live Three days in there house.On 18th May i live there house on night to come back to satara. I tell to my wife I have some work in satara they after i will come back and take You to my house she tell ok come fast. i said to my wife i will come back again soon.
i arrival at night 9:00 pm on the travel bus tomorrow 10:00 am i came to my house.
Wife mother call to my parents come to bangalore we want to go realitives home they have to see you. ok then my father tell i am coming to bangalore on 23rd we go to bangalore on 22nd at night with all family we take room to stay in hotel. On 23rd police
came to hotel who is manager call him manager tell what happen no anything call your customer i want to talk with them manager said. ok i will call my customer
Manager tell to my father some people are calling you in reception counter they are waiting for you father tell what happen
Manager tell nothing come down my father tell ok you go i am coming down. father come down and looking police is taking anything
Police tell to my father you have to come with me in police station. Father tell ok we are all coming with you in police station.What happen we have to look in police station we have enter police station. police said complaint is registered here on my father name police said. Arjun wife give complaint
On my father in police station.
Police said arrest everybody in there family
My family full day in police station. Because
Of my wife. she not understand anything i Am saying to my wife only lisning there mother
i want one answer she come back again in my life or not and she give me divorce or not
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your wife”s play she will come and join with you. definitely she will not send you a divorce NOTICE PLEASE.
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Dear sir,
i have problem that my marriage has done 25/05/2014. problem is that my wife’s family says me divorce due to nothing reason. problem is that my wife is following matter of other person. it may be that she doe’s not think herself. so i request to you that which type step i need to take regards divorce. please help me.
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I married in year 2008 have 1 daughter
With me not with her she made passport in 2009 in which she shows her unmarried although she married she didnot show me as spouse as she removed her Name from ration card from before making passport as I didnot know me a case of maintenance is filed by her as I filed section 9 and also made marriage registration for 2009 which is wrong can this help me to get divorce without alimony money or maintenance send me reply on ashok.bisht2007@gmail.com
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hello sir,
I am working in an MNC and my husband is working in a PSU. we got married under hindu marriage act in 2010 but humband and his family donot want to declare that we are married.He has stopped contacting me since october2014. they want to prove our marriage void and re-marry him.I want to save my marriage.What can i do.
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Do u have any marriage certificate??? If you have please provide that one. or you can give legal notice to him.
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Hi Kasyapa,
I am having marriage certificate. Kindly let me know whom I need to provide and when.
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my husbend ve a xtra marital affare i want to divorce now now i ve completed 1 year of mrrege wt should up i do
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I need urgent help.
hamari 5 year ki relationship thi mene ladki k parents ko convince karne ki pahot try ki but vo log nahi mane and muje aur meri family ko marne ki dhamki di jab ladki ne ghare se bhag kar mere pas ane ki. tab use uske bhai n mother ne bahot pita use and dhamki diya k ab agar tu hum bole vaha chup chap shadi nahi karegi to hum satish (meri) ka carier, uski aur uski family ki life barbad kar denge so usne mere liye chup rahi and family k force se 12th feb 2015 k sahdi karni padi. ab vo divorce le kar firse mere pas aana chahti hai bt dar rahi hai ki agar mene divorce manga to mere bhai tumhe aur tumhari family ko pareshan karega. muje plzz suggesation do ab use vaha se kaise bahar nikalu and divorce k liye kya procedure karni rehti hai?? plzzz muje koi sahi rasta batao me use aur pareshan hote nai dekh sakta… ye family kyu hume shanti se jine nai deti…
plzzz plzzzz help me…
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I m 22 yr old ,nd my husband abuse me many times. Hum sath nhi rahte , before 8 month mere husband ne mujhe ghar se nikal diya tha 2 yr ki marrige me hum sirf 2 months hi sath rahe h , starting me in laws ke ghar se demands aayi thi but hum puri nhi kr paye , last 8 month se hum logo ne ph pr bhi baat nhi ki h, husband or in lows ka behaviour bhout rude tha mere sath even mera Sara Saman bhi vahi h, we r only ladies in family ,m kya karu?? Plz help me
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This is Arjun from satara city state maharashtra. I am single looking simple beautiful girl and understanding respect to my parents. if you are interested in me so please send me mail or contact on my cell phone no 9823294924
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I am suresh
I am from bangalore
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in my famaly my fother and mother then I have a yelder beardher
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Dears,
Please advice me about following matters .
I am Ashwani I have done court marrige
Last year then father in low relations was not good he has captured my wife and want to apply some case and keeping fully pressured.my wife called me .I want to come so plz I am captused here but polise does not any help of capturing .how is possible appere in front of me by polish. Her father falloed harssment court case.
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Lodge a Missing complain imm at local Police Station of your place
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My wife do not stay with me for more than 6 month due to some issue/quarrelled with her. I have tried to communicate through mobile SMS and call but she don’t respond. She don’t want to stay with me or she don’t want to keep any contact with me. Can I appeal to court for divorce?
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petition can be filed only after both not living with you for one year to qualify you to file a petition for divorce,
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kya dhara 325 me gd per charne ke bad bina zamanat compromize ho sakta hai
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mari wife muja pyar nhi karti or uska bf ha ma kya karu
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I want divorce
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Specify reason and mail details at avm1980@gmail.com .
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I want to file a divorce against my husband .he is not giving me money also he had relationship with other women But I don’t have the proof.his sister was staying us for Last eight years and he always supported her for which I was mentally disturb
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Humari problem Hai ki shadi ho ke sirf 1 year ho gaya hai par biwi hume chod ke apne baap ghar chali gayi hai ya wo mere gahar aana chahti hai ya divoirce dena chahti hai kya kare bataye
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Hi,
I have got married to a guy who is nri. After marriage as per hindu rituals , we stayed together for 12 days and he left to abroad. As the days passed he was hardly chatting with me . Whenever I call him, he says he is busy. Suddenly, after a month of marriage, he message me and says that he want separation and divorce without giving any valid reason. For passed three to four days he was continuously messaging me and asking divorce. I am mentally disturbed and shocked. I am a working lady too. Kindly guide me for the same. Whether I can demand for maintainance or alimony if it goes for legal cases. Kindly guide me and mail me your reply at my mail
Thanks
Sari
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meri wife pregnancy effort nahi kar sakti…humne doctor ki salah bhi li he…muje meri wife se divorse chahiye..vo mere parents ko b achvhese nahi rakhti thi..ek bar main office se aane me late huva to go railway track pe bhi chali gayi..mene jab se divorse manga tab se vo parens se achchese behave karti he..lekin muje ab divorse hi chahiye..to pls muje advise do ki main kya karu to vo muje divorse de de
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hiiii sir,
i want help i am married man before 15 days and i don’t want to live with my wife mujhe wo pasand nahi h mujhe usse divorce lena h please tell the ways of divorce.
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Dear sir,kindly suggest me of my problem.I was married about 7 years back.my wife is not listening to me about anything about my problems my sickness and when i have asked no responce from her side.we are also not sexually involved more as 6 month have passed nothing happens.when i have asked her about the problem she replies nothing.there are many instances when she does not even talk to me 3 or 4 months.I am ill these days and before my illness i have send her to Father,not she is refusing to come back.Even i have talked to her father he refuses to send here back.I am very my confused and mentally unstable please suggest me what should i do to the betterment of my relationship.Either i will file a divorse case against her of whatever You pleasee suggest me
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tara sharma
mere husband ne mere sath rehte hue divorce file kiya hai cruelty ground par to kya mere bina marzi ke divorce ho jayega mai divorce nhi chahti meri shadi 5 march 2013 ko hui thi unhone 12 dec 2014 ko divorce file kiya tha aur uske baad bhi 19 feb 2015 ko mere saath the
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Hey…
I got married 1.6 yrs got married back , my wife is behaving erratically.she abuses me,my mother , my father and telephone all my relatives…and harass with. We find her mentally.We want to get rid of this lady. she has made my family hell. We are terrified also b’coz of her behaviour..She is not from my state.
If I file divorse case at my hometown, she will be able to pull hat case at her state or not??/
PLz provide ur suggesestion…I will be grateful to u..Plz mail me..
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sir i got married in 26/8/2010 ….i want divorce to my wife ..becuse she irritting me .. she ask every day come home curcte time….i want met my frds .she dont like ……my family also alone my mother and dad also …becuse she don like them…i m telling everytime lie becuse she dont like to meet my frds and family also ……she dont live to go with out frds…..i have one kid she is 2 year old….i dont want this life like me feeling………i m fully irritting……………when i give diverce her wt i need to give compation na…..my father proparty or my grand father proprty na…plz tell…..my gather will not reday to give her …….after marrige i sent her to study for degrr……me 2 nd puc…..she degree…….i need help plzzzz telllll
regard
prashanth
rajpachi212@gmail.com plz mail the suggion sir
thanku
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i got marriage on 11th may,2015. its a arranged marriage. between one week i & my parents can understand she is very immature or neurosycriatic patient. and before the marriage her parents was totally silent aboute that.
becz she thorn element from the house to rode. break the goods. a very good liar. she has no sexual interest.
i and my parents tell him for council ling.but my wife and her parent not eagry to do this.
so i need the peaceful divorce.
can i do this?
what is the legal process. plz mail me shnehasisdhara@ymail.com
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i got marriage 3 month. its a arranged marriage. between one week i & my parents can understand she is very immature or neurosycriatic patient. and before the marriage her parents was totally silent aboute that.
becz she thorn element from the house to rode. break the goods. a very good liar. she has no sexual interest.
i and my parents tell him for council ling.but my wife and her parent not eagry to do this.
so i need the peaceful divorce.
can i do this?
what is the legal process. plz mail me shnehasisdhara@ymail.com
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meri sadi hui 3 sal ho gaye n meri wife 5 mahine ke bad apne mayke chali gay ab meri wife mere Ghar nahi aana chahti hamne unce divorce manga to unke Ghar Valle hamce paise mang rahe hai or obhi 2.5 lakh to muje kya karna chahiye. plzzz help
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Help me pls I am living separate from my wife from last eight years we have taken divorce from panchayat writing all conditions in that how can I file divorce
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can u plz hlp me i want some valuable clues, becoz my problem is entirely very new nd my husband is cheating me after the marriage nd broking my believe in any time his attached other person bt before marriage his dont tell me nd his agree me he will connecting whole life in her? . .plz help me…
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can u plz hlp me i want some valuable clues, becoz my problem is my husband is cheating me after the marriage nd broking my believe in any time his attached other person bt before marriage his dont tell me nd his agree me he will connecting whole life in her? . .plz help me…
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Sir/madam
Agar kisi ki wife bahut bimar ho aur wo hi apne husbend ko second marriege ke liye press kar rahi ho aur apne husbend ke liye ladki talash kar rahi ho aur wo dusri ladki ko bhi marriege kara kar ek hi chaat ke niche don saath -2 ek hi aadmi ke saath rahna chahate ho to us condition me kya hoga aur kya karna chahiye. Plz reply me.
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Plz reply me
arvind.tyagi20@yahoo.in
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Hi,
meri shadi ke 8 month hue hai lekin meri mere husband se banti nhi, hamara bich me jayda bat nhi hoti,koi tal-mel nhi hai..bat bat me jagda hota hai, unhone kaha ki hamare bich kabhi bhi understanding nhi ho sakti, bas kam se matlab rakho, tum aapna karo aur me aapna.. ye sab mere husband ne kaha muje.. to muje unki sath nhi rehna.. humare bich koi mutual understanding hi nahi hai.. to kya muje divorce mil sakta hai
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HI,
meri shadi june 2014. mai hui hai, mai new delhi se hu but face pe kuch problem hone ki wjh se shadi nahi ho rahi thi, & mere husband jaipur se hai unki bhi shadi nahi ho rahi thi reason i don`t know but hamare ek common friend ne hmko milwaya aur hmari arrange marriage hui but shadi ke baad se mujhe dahej ke liye bolna start kr diya aur mere husband ne apni job bhi chod di, pareshan hoke maine 4 month baad job karni start kar di, but still wo log nahi maan rahe hai, hubby unki ma papa bhai-behan & family sab aaye din torcher kar rhe hai,,Aur kuch din se mere saas-sasur mere room ke alawa sabhi rooms pe lock lga ke rent pe rehne lage hai aur puri colony mai keh rahe hai ke hmari bahu ne hamko nikal diya, dhire-2 sara saman bhi le ja rhe hai..husband ke sath last 8 month se koi physical attachment nahi hai.& ab ye keh rahe hai ke light & water sab ke connection katwa denge..dekhte hai ke tu kab tak rehti hai iss ghar mai..mere papa ne pareshan hoke inko letter bhi likhe taki ye samajh jaye lekin ye logo ne ulta unhi ko letter bhejke chup karwa diya.. please someone help me ke iss condition me mujhe kya legal action lena chahiye..because now i want divorce.
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Yes definitely.apko legal action Lena to give.Mujhe bhi case krne se darr lagta tha.magar jbtk nhi kia tbtk bhaut problem hui
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It’s only 5 days matter. My wife has gone to office as saying sickness of her mother .now denying to come Bd other soo many matter. i want divorce
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Dear friends,
iam 29 yrs, at 2008 i got marriage and till 2012 i lived with my wife happily b’coz our marriage is Love marriage and i registered in register office legally, after 2012 i sent my wife due to her pregnancy time as per her wish, but from Day 1 onward, my mother in law not liked me and she always tell some thing about me to my wife regarding Status and even my wife itself tell those things to me while in Happy mood, even till now i have not visited to my wife’s house in single time, on 2013 Feb month my daughter born in hospital after 3 months i asked my wife to come back to my home, but she refused to come with me and she asked me to come and stay with her parents house, i refused to go there because i was a only son to my parents, after my lots of request also she refused to come back so i in tension i scolded her and her family too in street .. so they given complaint against me in police station, and i also appeared in court with the help of Advocate, after mediation she accepted to live with me, with some conditions due to my daughter feature my parents and myself accepted for that too.. after 6 months again she started to like the same thing, as usual week end she went to her mother house with my kid, and switched of her mobile and refused to live with me.. even they are not allowed to see my daughter too, this time iam itself given police complaint against my wife so and so.. for that she appeared in police station and given some letter that she want her things and she not ready for live with me and i should not try to see my daughter also, if i need some thing means i have to go through court only… after that i tried to pull back her through court but she shifted her home to some where.. now i don’t know what to do even really i don’t want to see her back but i want to get back my daughter past 1 and half years i have not seen my daughter.. even i came out from the state past 1 years back due to this reason.. so kindly help me friends…
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hello plz help me madam/sir
meri shadi 2011 me huyi thi
mai us time diploma last year me tha or meri wife ne b.com kiya tha mai apni wife se bahut pyar krta hu shuru mai to sab thik chala but uski fmly ke gande behave ke karan hum dono me ladai hoti rehti thi 1 sal bad maine or meri fmly ne ushe b.ed me admition v krwa diya is doran hamari choti r bato per ladai hoti rehti thi mai kabhi 2 gusshe me gali v de deta tha set 2013 me wo ladai krke gyi or jab se wo apne mayke mai hi thi is bech maine kyi bar phone or msg v kiya but meri wife ne kabhi answer nhi diya or mere mummy papa v gye but koi fayada nhi hua. ab usne Caw se notic send krwaya counciling ke liye mujhe laga ki waha sab thik ho jayega but waha usne mere sath rehne se mana kr diya ab humara mittual divorce ho raha hai mai apni wife se badut pyar krta hu mai ushe alag ho kr jee nhi paunga but wo divorce le rhi h plz koi meri help kro plz
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Heloo I am Pia Pal. I have done marriage registery with my lover on the year 2008 without any social & parental information. After that we can not live alongwith because I was on my study life from my parents house. So I was not gone my lover’s home. I also not done any sextual relation with him. I was totally on my study. After finished my study life I have came to know that my lover also already engaged with another women. Then I request him for to divorce me. Buy he was not agree. All those happen on the year 2010. Then I have gone to the court for registery cancellation. Case started on 2011. But cort not released me. Year 2013 again I gone to cort for 2nd case about nonjuridiction act for cancelation of my registry. But again court dismissed my case. Now 2015 what can I do? I have no idea. Please suggest me.
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ek ladki khud ko ias bta kar apna bio data marriage buero m deti h ek ladka jo teacher h uska bio data dekh kr usse baat krta h or shadi kr leta h court m baad m pata chalta h ki vo ladki ti ias h hi ni ladka petition file krta h marriage dissolution k lia ladki maintenance ki demand krti h to us ladki ko maintenance milna chiya ya ni
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mera name nitin hai maine 2011 may live marg ki ti lakin 2013 may meri wife chali gyi thi tab se aaj tak uska pta ni hai kha hai kha ni maine puri kosis ki usko dhundne ki abb mujhe pta lga hai usne dusri sadi krwa li hai ak ladki bhi hai uss k pass dusry husbnd se abb mujhe kya krna chaiye mai bht presan hu sir plz give me right path
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If wife always fights with no reason. And she is obsessive . She always wants me to stay in front of her. She don’t even let me to talk with my sister or even aunt. I had conversate with her too to settle down. But result always come same we had fight. We had love marrige and now I don’t want to continue. What should I do.
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you can seek divorce by mutual consent through court.
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Hi my husband married a girl on Feb and married me on March without divorcing first wife…. now we have a baby but we have controversial thoughts so I want divorce pls help me
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If my wife is having sex with another person so can i put a question within divorce for her medical chekup?? Will court will permitt to do the chekup for her??
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I secretly married in court on 24.12.14 and after a year when the boy’s family know. they are saying he is been forced by me to get married..what action can i take against him..
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I married on 19-june-2014.after marriage my wife leaves with her parents.tried no of times to take home but not come.every time they say if u create we wil raise dowry case or harashment case.we have no physical relationship also.i want to dissolve this marriage.please suggest me the process.
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hi i m suchit,meri wife continue baby ka abortion apne maa baap ke marji se karwa deti hai,par hame baby chahiye,ab kya karna chahiye,ab wo to apne maa ke ghar se aati bhi nahi hai,aur mere saath nahi rahna chahti hai,main kya karu
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Will the maariage between a Hindu girl and muslim boy registered under Hindu Marriage Act be valid.
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Marriage is valid.
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I registered my divorce case 12-feb-2012 at Nagpur but still not coming result I m given 3000 rs monthly to my wife for maintance she is to leave my home within 1 yr so pls guide me what can I do I m wating for your answar
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Hi sir. My age is 28 and married to a girl who is already married i am her 3rd husbend she is of age 33. She is my first wife. She is rudly hurting me hitting screaming and using bad language for me and my parents bec my parents have not yet given my portion of property. Daily she fights with me. She always tell i ill make u die and i ill also make ur parents also run like a dog she needs property. My questions is that ill she have any rights as i am her 3rd husbend and i dont have any childrens. But first husbend 16 year old daughter is with her now. So ill she have rights on my property. Pls do needfull
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Hi sir.we have 6years diffrence and married to a girl who is already married i am her 3rd husbend she is elder. She is my first wife. She is rudly hurting me hitting screaming and using bad language for me and my parents bec my parents have not yet given my portion of property. Daily she fights with me. She always tell i ill make u die and i ill also make ur parents also run like a dog she needs property. My questions is that ill she have any rights as i am her 3rd husbend and i dont have any childrens. But first husbend 16 year old daughter is with her now. So ill she have rights on my property. Pls do needfull
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Sir shadi hue ho or unka case chalte 8saal ho gaye ho to under act 498 main domestic violence karne wala kaise free ho sakta h sirf ladki ke ache kapde pehne se judge kaise galat faisla suna sakti h jabki ladki ke sath vo sab hua jo nae hona chaheye tha..e.g ladki ache kapde pehnati h khul kar baat ka jawab deti h to vo galat ho gaye lekin 8saalo se vo apne maa baap ke pas reh rahi h uske maa baap ki itni aukat nae ki vo usko ache kapde or aage ke study b continue nae karva sakte?YEH SOCH US JUDGE KI GALAT H KI USNE US CRUEL INSAAN KO BARI KAR DIYA….YEH KAANOON SAHI FAISLA NAE KARTA KABHI KABHI….
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Hi mere friend ne apni marriage k liye jhoot bola aur apni medical problem bhi nahi batayi apne ghar walon ko ab wo job bhi nahi kar pa rha h aur ghar per hi h aur uske ghar wale sab pareshan h kya karein ladka suicide k liye sochta rehta h ek baar attempt bhi kar chuka h ladki apne ghar chali gai h ab kuch samajhe m nahi aa rha h kya kiya jaye ladke ne sab ko fasa diya h ladki ki kisi bhi ghar walon se banti bhi nahi thi. Ab koi aisa solution batao jis se ki is ki family ko save kiya jaye mother aur father old age hein wo kahan court ke chaker katen ge plz help for him
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I am 24 years old Muslim gilr.I got married on may 2014.We both are working.After 7 months of marriage I had chest pain and done angioplasty.After one month medical leave I was rejoined in my job.Every month I had checkup. After 6 month from angioplasty i again I had chest pain and went to hospital .They suggested me to bypass surgery. In the last June 2015 bypass surgery done.After surgery my husband and family not showing interest on me.No financial and mental support from him also his family.Now they are forcing me to divorce him.Also they need compensation.Now I lost my job.My husband working as a Manager in a reputed company. What will I do.Please suggest a solution.May I get any help from court????
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Several time we had compromise talk.But husband said if this decease will come after 5,6 years of marriage he will be take care of me.Am shocked on his replay.Now what place for me in his life?? Now he said we were cheated.I had illness before marriage…I did not have any medical issues like this before marriage.Now he move for divorce through our Mosque. In this situation can I get Justice from court?
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Yes then u file the case allah with u
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Merit shadi Nov 2014 me hui to.
Mari patni made hi collage me padti to..
Vo vahi she mujhe ektarfa pyar karti ti..
Tab apna pyar pane k liye USNR mujhe par 376 ka application mahila thane me de di. Air mere Maa baap par dabav banane k liye unke uppar bhi jhutee arop lagaye the..
Tab mahila thane be ham par dabav banate hue sahmati karvate hue shadi larva di..
Shadi k samay hi 100 Rs. K stamp par dono pariwar ne sahmati ki ti is shadi me koi dahej nai liya diya jayega.
2, Ham dono apne apne pariwar se door rahenge. Mera mere maa dad se koi samband nai rahega..
ye stamp thane me hi jama h..
Chuki shadi karne k liye mari patni me jhoote ko adhar banaya ta. Air physical relation ka jhutta adhar banaya ta..jabki hamare kabhi physical relationship the hi nai. IS KARAN MAIN KABHI APNI PATNI SE PHYSICAL RELATION NAI KAR PAYA. MENTALLY MAIN PHYSICAL RELATION K TAYAR HI NAI HO PAYA..
mari wife mujh par hath utati ti. Galat shabdo ka prayog mere aur mom dad k liye karti ti..
kisi panddit bhaiya se hamare sarwnash k liye hawan karwati ti.
khud bhi mantra path karti aur bhabhuti mujhe jabardasti khilati..
hamesha apni marzi puri karne k liye dahej me fasane ki dhamki deti.
AAB 2 Sal 3 Mahine bad jab maine divorce k liye apply kiya to usne mujh par aur mere mom dad par Indian Penal Code-498(A)(34),Dowry Prohibition Act-3(4) K antargat case kar diya h.
jabki vo kabhi bhi mere mom dad k sath rahi hi nai. Shadi k din se hi ham bahar h..
vo kabhi mere ghar nai gai.
par usne sab par jhoote arop laga diye..
i need help..
main kya karu ab..
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Merit shadi Nov 2014 me hui to.
Mari patni made hi collage me padti to..
Vo vahi she mujhe ektarfa pyar karti ti..
Tab apna pyar pane k liye USNR mujhe par 376 ka application mahila thane me de di. Air mere Maa baap par dabav banane k liye unke uppar bhi jhutee arop lagaye the..
Tab mahila thane be ham par dabav banate hue sahmati karvate hue shadi larva di..
Shadi k samay hi 100 Rs. K stamp par dono pariwar ne sahmati ki ti is shadi me koi dahej nai liya diya jayega.
2, Ham dono apne apne pariwar se door rahenge. Mera mere maa dad se koi samband nai rahega..
ye stamp thane me hi jama h..
Chuki shadi karne k liye mari patni me jhoote ko adhar banaya ta. Air physical relation ka jhutta adhar banaya ta..jabki hamare kabhi physical relationship the hi nai. IS KARAN MAIN KABHI APNI PATNI SE PHYSICAL RELATION NAI KAR PAYA. MENTALLY MAIN PHYSICAL RELATION K TAYAR HI NAI HO PAYA..
mari wife mujh par hath utati ti. Galat shabdo ka prayog mere aur mom dad k liye karti ti..
kisi panddit bhaiya se hamare sarwnash k liye hawan karwati ti.
khud bhi mantra path karti aur bhabhuti mujhe jabardasti khilati..
hamesha apni marzi puri karne k liye dahej me fasane ki dhamki deti.
AAB 2 Sal 3 Mahine bad jab maine divorce k liye apply kiya to usne mujh par aur mere mom dad par Indian Penal Code-498(A)(34),Dowry Prohibition Act-3(4) K antargat case kar diya h.
jabki vo kabhi bhi mere mom dad k sath rahi hi nai. Shadi k din se hi ham bahar h..
vo kabhi mere ghar nai gai.
par usne sab par jhoote arop laga diye..
i need help..
main kya karu ab..
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Hi this is banupriya I got married on 27/08/2015. I was harrassed ad hestitated by my husband and inlaws . so i left my inlaws home came back to my mother’s home on december 2015. Even though they have tortured me in many ways . I didnt give any police complaints against them. Awaited for my husband to realise his mistakes . But all Of sudden I got the divorce notice from his lawyer’s states that there is no intercourse between us bec. i have skin issues . But What allegations they states against me . Everything was fake. There is no skin issues i had. and we had a physical relationship. Now I got an divorce notice petition from the court. We have completed only 8months of marriage , How come they have applied an divorce case form court. And all the allegations against me was wrong. Please suggest me the solution.
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Where you are staying which state and city
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Am from chennai, Tamilnadu..
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I don’t know why my husband have gave these kind of allegations on me fake. Whether, by this way, is there is any chance of getting divorce soon?? he have filled in section 12(1)c. . And my inlaws home is in coimbatore, Tamilnadu. So he have filled the case in coimbatore city.. Whether i can get transfer to madras high Court. Since now in madras high Court was in vacation.
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How do i divorce my wife while she is leaving adultery life and i have solid proof against her kindly advice.
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You legale go for mutual understanding consultancy
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My husband and in-laws are applying for divorce.
I am a software professional and my husband is a PSU eemployee. We have done marriage in 2012 under hindu marriage act
Kindly let me know if he can re marry someone while the divorce case is in the court also while the case is in court do I suppose to stay in separate residence or can stay with my husband
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Hi i am Arjun Naidu legal advice
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rohini, while the petition for divorce is pending for adjudication in the Court of law, or during the subsistence of existing marriage ,either of the spouse cannot contract second marriage,
answer to ur second querry, u can stay anywhere u wish, there is no hard and fast rule.
for anything more, do reply
good luck
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Thanks Raj for guiding Me.
Due to social shame, my in-laws and my husband are not proceeding legally.
Now i am staying in a different city as that of my in-laws and husband and focusing on my career. My husband is trying to abuse me over electronic medias as-gmail watsapp hangout and phone and forcing for divorce on mutual consent
I have blocked him on watsaapp, hangout and phone, however he is sending emails on gamil…being frustrated i also responded some of those emails in harsh manner….but he has started giving me threatening of he committing suicide and will write notes saying he is doing so because i spoiled his life…he is also sending some emails with blood written paper notes pics.He is time and again asking me to divorce him.He also threaten me to file divorce as soon as I go onsite for my better career prospective as well as adultery..
I am very scared, i do not want to give divorce. What shall i do..
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Hi Raj/Arjun
On closer look, i was able to figure out it was not blood. it was some kind of ink/roli/sindur used for tilak he used for writing those notes.
He is physically fine till today and going to his office…so it is all a drama to manipulate me….yes he do every now and then used to threaten me of committing suicide if i do not divorce him
As of now, i have understood that all these things are to pressurize me so that i my self agree for the divorce….but what worries me is what if he actually attempt a suicide/commit suicide.
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meri Saudi ho chuki hai 14-3-2015 ko meri wife meri beat nhi manti hai our mere ghar pr mere maa baap tatha mera chhota bhai hai mere siwa mere ghar pr koi kamane wala nhi hai mai railway me naukri krata hu bartman me mera payment 14000 hai mere wife tatha iske maata pita mudhey force krte hai ki tumhe meri ladki ko rakhna hai to apne gharwalo se dur rahna hoga yedi tum meri koi bhi baat nhi manoge to mai tumhe court case karuga our apne ladki ko tumhare pass bhejuga bhi nhi our tumse pr mahina ladki ka kharcha 10000 rupay luga mai bahut paresaan hu please help me
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I am pradeep soni meri shadi ho chuki hai 21/6/2016 pr meri wife ko shadi se pehle se continues period ate hai or meri wife ka HB every time 4.5 hota hai jise wo medical or saririk tor pr sex nahi kr skti humhare ghar pr bhi enke ghar walo ne shadi se pehle bare koi infometion nahi di or ladki ghar walo ke force ke karan shadi kr li or abhi un ke kara mere ko nahi chhod pa rahi hai pr wo mere ko chhod na chahahi hai abhi wo 4 month apne mummy ke ghar pr hai us ghar wale leke gaye hai mere un ke samne dusri shadi ka option rakha hai one +one yah divorce ka un.ghar wale Reid nahi hai me kya kru
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meri ek problem h, meri arrange marriage h, meri shadi 1st april 2015 me hui thi, maine shadi gaon me ki h mere mami papa k kahne par, par shadi k 3-4 din bad se hi meri wife par muje shak huwa ki wo mere chhote bhai se jada close ho rahi h dono ek dusre ko dekhe bina nai rah pate the, gaon se mumbai aa jane par to dono ne had hi kar di thi, meri wife kitchen me khana banati aur mere bhai ko samne me baithne bolti thi wo bhi isi tarah karne lga wo kahi se bhi aata to phle meri wife ko dekhta aur meri wife koi b bahane se usse dekhti aur jab mai bahar chala jata to unlogo ka physical relationship start ho jata tha dusre room me muje kafi sari chizo se confirm ho gaya h ki meri wife ka affair mere chhote bhai k sath h, aur mai usse puchta hu to wo muje jhuth bolti h, kai bar jhhoth bolte huwe pakdi b gayi h fire b jhooth bol deti h, maine kai bar use samjhaya ki tu mere bhai k sath rhna chahti h to uske sath rah par muje dhokha mat de, yar to meresath rhna chahti h to affair khatam kar de, to usne kabi clear kuch nai bola aur na bolti h bas sirf mere bhai k chakkar me usne muje kai bar jaban b ladati h, aur mai ghar wale ko b bataya par gharwalo k samne meri wife ne muje hi jhootha kar diya aur mere gharwale is bat ko samjh nai pa rhe hai, aur muje hi dat kar bhaga dete hai,
ab muje kya karna chahiye plz meri help karo, mai is tarah ghutan feel karta hu aur akela b feel karta hu plz koi help kar sakta h to plz kar do.
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mere husband ne mujpr false alligations lageye hai ki mere ek girl k sath physical relation hai bt mere usse koe relation na tha n na hi hai n last 2 years se to koe call n msg se baat bi ni huee hai n mere husbn ne ess base pr muje divorse manga hai ky kiya jyee .
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Mere bahen ka abhi divorce hua hai but mera bhanja ladake ke pass Gaya hai by court order.kya mera bhanja merit bahen ke sath rah salary hai.wo 2 saal ka hai.please help me & please forward mail.thanks.
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सर,
मैंने यह आपका ईमेल एड्रेस वेबसाइट से लिया है ,,,, सर मेरी शादी 2007 मैं हुए थी और 2016 सितम्बर मैं तलाक हुआ है , मेरा एक 7 साल का बच्चा भी है , जब मेरा तलाक हुआ था तो मैंने अपने पति के दवाब मैं ये लिख दिया था की बच्चे से केवल मिलने का अधिकार होगा , मुझे ये मालूम था की वो बच्चे का पालन पोषण नहीं कर सकता , अब मैं अपने बच्चे की कस्टडी लेना चाहती हूँ ,,, किर्पया सुझाब दे ,,, किया मैं अपने बच्चे को ले सकती हूँ. और कैसे
धन्यवाद
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Meri married life bahot difficult hai mai second marriage krna chahti hu but without devorce what can I do
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dear Sir,
i am married and my wife is cheated with me last three year she has affair going on and i had proofed and she accepted she cheating with me. On understanding basis she stay with me. but she blackmail to me on child. and badly fight with my old mom and dad and with me also. mom 60 years old and dad 71 years and i love my child very much. and without his i can not live and my child also not ready to stay with his mom. he has 7 years old sweat boy. he love me and he love his grandfather and my grandmother.. and he is also not like his mom
supposed in the court my child will say he will not ready to go at his mom home. so please suggest what court will do.
second problem last one year she is facing itches problem some doctor saying this skin problem and some said soyarisis problem. i am not understand what i do.
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I recently i married 6 month happen but now i want go planing divorce eith my wife due she unfit sexualy and sbe not respecting me so kindly sujjest
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dear sir
i am a file crpc 340 195.199.200 ipc 500 2015 magestrit order to sumance & megestrit enquery but last 2 year is only 3 mounth date plz wich section aplication to fast track case otharvice exparty order
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My friend married 6 months ago , her wife is very expensive and least bother about his income and he is very upset . She manipulate every thing to prove herself right. Physical intimacy is not there . All the time she threat for dowry case . She is also not helping in kitchen . Please advice my friend.
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RAJU,
MY MARRIAGE WAS HELD ON 21NOV,2016,MY WIFE LEFT ME ON JANUARY,17,AND CLAIMING MONEY FOR DIVORCE , AND THREATENING IF I DON’T GIVE MONEY FOR DIVORCE SHE WILL FILE 498A, LATTE NO I GOT INFORMATION THAT SHE HAS DONE THE SAME WITH AN OTHER MAN ,AND DOING PROSTITUTION, WHAT SHOULD I DO PLS HELP
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My age is 56 years now. I am a hindu male. From 2007 onwards, I live lonely and my rich wife didn’t come to lead life with me. She has two younger sisters. One in Singapore and another in America. They are well settled and have assets in crores. But I have one or two lakhs. Whenever I ask her to come to go separately to lead life, She may tell yes. But she never come with me. Now I am leading my lonely life in separated status. My two male children are living with her. I applied for divorce in 2010. I could lead the case due to finance problem. can I get “separated Certificate” from the Government and lead my balance life with another lady if she wishes to live with me. please reply.
Once again, if I apply for divorce in family court, it may run more than five years. Can you advice me please.
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My self Garudadri k my marrige date 29/08/2016 after me &my wife life is onely 3Months becoz losse talk for my self &my wife so am alredy go to my wife house more than 14 times but there is no use so pls send to correct information my mail
THANK YOU
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Me and my husband ised to have fight in which my husband used to abuse me and sometimes used to beat me.Being fadeup of this one day I informed this to my in laws.they took his side saying I am at fault. I didn’t feel safe to stay along with my husband at that time i came to live in city I work. I am staying here for last 6months and we git married in Jan2017.
I later realized that my husband has taken audio recording of my retorts and my in laws are forcing me for divorce.
I don’t want divorce. What best I can do.
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Hello, Shweta
My name is Arjun Naidu
You have to convince them i don’t give u
Divorce tell them they understand it’s ok
My last advice is u give police complaint my
Husband and my in laws are forcing for divorce
Me.
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I am a working woman and it was a well known to all that I am working in a different city from my in-laws and my husband before marriage.Also it was conveyed I will not leave my job and my job is non-transferable.My husband job is transferable and he can get his posting in my city.
For the limited leave and holiday I have, kindly let me know how I can divide it among my husband, my husband side family and my family so that it doesn’t create problems for me in fighting against the contested divorce from my husband
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Hi Arjun and Team,
Thanks for this advice. I have firmly denied for MCD an have said, if they have troubles, they have to go with contested. I do not want to break this marriage as for me it is like breaking my own family. At the same time I am working and independent women who was very clear about the priorities before marriage.
They used to abuse me and beat me. Being frustrated i used to abuse back which they used to record.
As they have one this to me, I want to keep myself safe and alert for the future. Kindly suggest me how can I save the marriage and myself.
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Be nice with your husband and in laws
Give respect To all in your family relative
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