Here is a link to an old article on Hindu marriage act: An Old Article On Hindu Marriage Act
GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE
A petition for divorce may be presented by either the husband or wife for dissolving the marriage on the following grounds:
That the other party
1. has after the marriage had voluntary sexual intercourse with any other person; or
2. has after the marriage treated the petitioner with cruelty
3. has deserted the petitioner for a continuous period of not less than two years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition,
4. has ceased to be a Hindu by conversion to another religion,
5. has been incurably of unsound mind or has been continuously or intermittently from a mental disorder that the petitioner cannot reasonably be expected to live with such a person,
6. has been suffering from a virulent and incurable form of leprosy,
7. has been suffering from venereal disease in a communicable form
8. has renounced the world by entering any religious order.
9. Has not been heard of as being alive for a period of seven years or more by persons who would have naturally heard of it, had that party been alive.
- A word of advice on dealing with divorce lawyers. This is the female perspective: http://indiandivorce.blogspot.com/2007/11/on-your-guard-when-dealing-with-divorce.html
- Collection of judgments: SC /HC Judgments On Divorce/498A/Bail/DV
- The 498A Survival Guide: This is a must as a divorce leads to an automatic 498A in quite a few cases.
Excellent service, Since I am one among the affected man by my wife, please kindly forward all the Divorce and maintenance lagal assistnace to my mail.
Thanking you,
my marrige date 16-04-2003 but my husband dont accept me in front of sammaj. aur mai sammajik tur se apni grahasti apne husband ke sath basana chahti hu kya karna chahiye
please send me answer on my mail
Hi,
Excellent service, Since I am one among the affected man by my wife, please kindly forward all the Divorce and maintenance legal assistnace to my mail & also note when was married at that time my age was 20years & 8months.
Thanking you,
My wife is a Patient of Paranoid Schizophrenia
left home in 2004
Daughter 9 years with me
498A against me
I filed divorce in 2005
I need divorce and child
Sir/Madam,
we have married on jan 2005 everthing is going very good but recently, i am facing the problem against my wife and his wife side,she her mother and her big sister is interfearing in my family she also suggest that ask some money monthly to ur husband i.e from me when i denied she is giving problem to my mother and the result is that my mother is not living with us due to this proble.now till date she (my wife ) is not doing any of work in the home she just go outside and sleep.
plz suggest is there any process to get divorce from my wife because she make my life very disgustoing.
Thanks,
Deepak
Bhopal
9300813338
Excellent service, Since I am one among the affected man by my wife, please kindly forward all the Divorce and maintenance lagal assistnace to my mail.
Thanking you,
hi,
I am married to a working women, we both are working. we have a child 2 yrs old, my parents are taking care of my child in my native which is 120kms away, my wife does not have sympathy on my parents, i visit to my native weekly but my wife once in a month or 15 days once. she hug for only 10 to 15 min and dont take of the child. my parents are 70 yrs old. my wife speaks vulgar words on them. i am very much harrassed due to her attitude. even she abuses my sisters and the family. now nobody come to my house. i am very much single. please suugest any solution for this. any grounds to take divorce from her. if i asked she tell she wont agree.
My wife has taken the child with her, and staying in a rented accomadation. The child is kept with a maid servant, the child is 4 yrs old and child custody and divorce proceedings are going in court after 498A. Kindly advice how to get back my son. She is a working lady and is out for more than 10 hour(Software Engg.) at Patni.
kindly help me as i don’t want my son to suffer, even he was shifted from his school to new school
my daughter is deserted by her husband as she has given birth to a mentally retarded child and she tried to save her marriage for 7 long years looking after the child single handedly without any physical help from her husband . now her husband applied for a divorce stating a false reason that my daughter is not adjusting with her inlaws . actually her husband stays in hyderabad as he is employed there and he has not disclosed his hyderabad address to his wife . he was sending some meagre amount for her and the child for the last 7 years and he never disclosed anything about his employment ,earnings and savings and my daughter also didn’t question him . now that he has applied for a divorce we dont know how to save the marriage first . he is adamant to get a divorce . if divorce is inevitable what is the maintenance eligibility of my daughter . her husband is earning around 40 lakhs per annum as he is the president of a multinational software company in hyderabad . for the year ending 2006 he has been allotted 40000 shares from the company under the stock option plan and it is worth about 50 lakhs rupees . this we picked up from the company annual report published in the website . that man is having retired father and mother and both are pensioners . what is the amount we can claim as maintenance for my daughter if divorce is inevitable and how much normally the court will decide . what is the criteria for fixing the maintenance amount . my daughter is a house wife . pls give a reply .
dear sir/madam
would like to help me by suggesting me that what should i do. my sister got married 6 yrs ago.her inlaws didn’t tell that he have accute depression over past 20 yrs. she was thinking that if she tell this to her parents may be they die with the shock, she didnt tell us anything about this to us.due to this he used to kept beating my sister with cod an bottles, abuses her with dirty words, he throw her away from his home when she was three month pregnant, then we came to know that he is not mentally fit. over last 16 months she is staying with us. now she have a baby of one yr old. with these sixteen months her husband torcher us, by phone calls threatened us that he is going to kill one of our family members, still using slang lungages with my dad sister and mother. he is not doing any job.so i requeset you to please advice me that what should i do to save my sister’s life and her baby.
regards
susheel
98100-57392
i m a 24 yrs mail .i m doing job in indian navy . i m fall in love with a girl . i want make mariage with her but she is minor .her age is 16 yrs and 10 month . her parents are not ready at any cost . i m affraid that her perents can do her marriage forcefully . plz give me right suggestion.
Dear Sir,
sorry to say this that i do not have father from last 2 year, I am eldest son in my home .I have three younger brother and three elder sister but fortunately all my sister got married when my father was alive.
Now means just one and half month back I got married with a girl but now she is not ready to live with our family and also she is no more in our family. simply I am getting irritation by seeing her and even i can not come out from my house by leaving of my three unmarried brothers and my mother.because I have to take care about them.
can i go for divorce against my wife
thanking you for your reply
your faithfully
venkatsh.
Hi,
My Friend got register marriage with his Sister daughter in Tamil nadu
He only done the registration with girl under section 7 as per the Hindu marriage act 1967. But, he has undergone any ceremony and any sexual relation ship with the girl. The register marriage is done only for the confirmation to get married with girl later on with Hindu ceremony. Since, the girl was studying during that time and the girl’s elder sister was not married at the time. My friend wants to go abroad and he got the job in abroad already. So, all the family members were compelled my friend to get married legally and later on, once the girl’s elder sister marriage is over and the girl study over, he can come to India and get married as per the Hindu marraige ceremony.
Due to all the above fact, my friend agreed to marry the girl and only garlanding in the temple with the girl.
As per the marriage certificate it stated as, the marriage was held as per the Hindu marriage ceremony as per the sec 7 and it actually never happen. Also, it further stated as, the marriage was not held as per sec 7(A) but marriage was actully held as per the sec 7(A).
Now the problem, the girl is already having an affair with one more boy and she does not want to marry my friend and my friend also not want to marry her as per the Hindu marriage ceremony because of her attitude and other things.
In what way, we can cancel this register marriage certificate as null and void.
Could you pls kindly e-mail me in detail. Thank you,
Hello, Ganesh
there is a remady as per the Hindu marraige Act if u hv not cimplete as per sec.7 of H.M.Act u can file a application to declare a void marraige.
have a nice time
hi sir,
My wife is suffering from paranoid schizophrenia since 1998.We got married in 2004,after marraige I could know about her disease through her. She had one attempt of suicide during her first episode from 4th floor and fractured her both lower limbs and back. Till marraige fractures were healed and she was managing everything normally.Before marraige her behaviour were slightly complex,but I couldn’t judged it as schizophrenia.Around marraige she was off the medicine, so one episode occured after 1 month of marraige. Then I planned for divorce on the ground of hidden facts of schizophrenia and sidewise gone for treatment. But doctor advised me for no divorce, as it can be managed with few drugs after few days of hospitalisation now.Since then I m managing with her with much difficulties and compromise because of her very high ambition, misinterpretation of facts, confusions and arguments. Many a times I got confused between her normal and diseaed behaviour.Since last one year she was on least possible dose of drug, because we were planning for pregnancy. But she could not conceive either due to effect of contraceptive used prior to planning or we r spending less time together as she is doing Phd in Sociology at Ranchi and myself doing specialisation in pediatrics at Rourkela. Recently she got another episode few days back and treatment with high dose antipsychotic has been started by the same psychiatrist.
With this information I want your suggestions whether I should continue or divorce as I m in deep stress since last 4 years?
My boyfrnd was forced emotionally into marriage 15 days back by his parents . as they disliked me and dint want him to marry me .the girl (wife) parents also emotionally brain washed him by saying that they will ahve heart attack, or commit suicide if he dint get married. the boy in question now does not want to be in this marriage . he has not yet had sexual intercourse with the girl.can you suggest some way so that the marriage can be annulled as soon as possible?
please reply me as soon as possible.
Respected sir,
I got married on 7th june 2007. the moment i got married and moved to my husbands home . my husband treated me very cruelly and used vulgar words, and did not had any sex with me. he & parents informed to my parents that they will start beating me and my parents should not ask anything regarding that. so my parents have taken me to my home back now iam living with my parents. but now he has filed a case against me by asking me to come and live with him.
but iam not interested to live with him . please guide me how to get divorce from him.
sir,
my girlfriend is doing her mbbs in bangalore and still has 2years to finish her education.she recently turned 20 in january.her brother took her to US on the grounds saying that she has to write some exam.when they reached there on 17th they told her she was getting married and her parents came 10hours later.everything was perfectly planned.they dint even allow her to see the guy she was marrying and only at time of marrige she saw.when she objected,her people said that they have her passport and she can’t do anything.she was literally forced into marrige.she had no options.she got married on feb18th.after marrige she told her husband that she was forced and she loves me and that she wants divorce.he said he dint know about all this and he would talk to his parents.he said that she should go to india and think again.but she told me that she would ask for divorce again after she comes to india next weekend asap.shes a hindu,doing mbbs,jus turned 20years and resides in bangalore presently doing her mbbs there.what are the legal actions that can bee taken and irrespective of the husbands decision,can a divorce be taken?please tell me full details.thank you
the following should be added to the list of reasons for legal divorce of hindu marriages published above.
1. marriage by fraud
2. marriage by force
3. harssment, torture anad agony caused and rendered by girl’s parental and relative interference and involvement aka india afternoon soap operas
4. lies, deception and extortion by woman and her folks
5. marrige with person who is or is hailing from a family of criminal history and questionable traits
6. marrige to a person who claims to be “hindu”, “traditional”, “conservative” and “respectful” as quoted often on matrimonial websites but in reality is a first-rate slut and whore.
7. marriage to a woman who ahs not attained comlete womanhood, who is on or needs mediation or who cannot bear children.
Is without giving a Notice for divorece by the Family Court effective for a Divorce ?
meri shadi ko 1 saal ho chuka hai.aur hum log alag nivas kar rahe hai.aur wife mere gharwalo ko dekhna nahi chahati hai.aur na hi kisi aur se milti hai.me divorce dena chahata hu.me aise nahi rah sakta.
i am 24 years old,i passed 7 months of marriage and now expecting a child,we had love marriage,bt my in laws asked everything during marriage as dowry,my father fulfilled all the desires,now my husbands doesnot love me,he doesnt care me,even he is too rude and use wrong words,how to get rid from him
Hi !
Very pathetic. A ranchi resident Mr Sanjay Sinha an employee of Adidas India P Ltd. did compel his married sister to settle at Noida on professional grounds.
The filthy pic did emerge when he insisted his married sister within 2 weeks to go to Ranchi for her daughters’ schooling. Main motive was to look after the parents who were all set to move to their newly married son’s house.
Actual and final motive arose after sometime when the daughter was not allowed to meet and talk to her father, later to be followed by a divore without any Notice.
What can the greivance do when there was no notice was served by the court as per the hindu marriage act ?
These are the shames of our society.
Dear Sir/ Mam,
I seek your urgent help and guidance to face my daughter’s divorce case.
She was married 6 yrs back. Her in-laws had demanded dowry in cash during marriage and I accepted their demand looking at my daughter’s future. After three years of marriage she conceived for two times but unfortunately got miscarriaged (Reasons not clear to me). After undergoing some medical treatment and surgery, the couple got to know that there is a least chance to conceive in future. She had undergone severe depression thinking about losing the respect in society. Her husband along with in-laws started teasing her. Also her husband threw the blame at her about the issue and started torturing. Due to severe depression and lack of support from husband she undergone mental illness. On the basis of this, her husband has filed a divorce case. Please provide your suggestion and support on how to handle this case.
Thanks in advance..
Best Regards
i am age of 22 .i have got married in 2007 june. before marriage i had an afair with one boy. he is so good and i liked him very much. due to some reasons i got marriage with other one .he is too nice guy.now the problem is even he is good i am not able to stay with him because i am geting remmemberence of my boy friend in each case.mostly i am not able give him satisfaction in sexual life also.i dont want to do all these thing s to him.
now i want to separate from him.i am from hindhu family.with out any reasons we cant get separated .plz suggest me some ways to get seperated .because one way i am suffering in other way he(my husband)ALSO SUFFERING.plzz madam or sir .for my thing i have to suffer not others.or else i will die without giving any pain to any one. i think this is the right thing .plzz give me the reply soon
my marraige is registered and its was done with all my agree.
Talk to ur husband about it.This is the only solution.If both of u are not happy get mutual divorce in the court.
Live a happy life.
Syamala, if your husband agrees you can go for Mutual consented divorce which need not have a ground , other than both fo you saying that you have ‘Irreconcilale differences’ and that you do not wish to stay married.
Even if your husband do not agree for this you can approach the court saying that you have ‘Irreconcilable differences’ with your husband and explain your situation in which you keep thinking about your first affair, there are judgements which allow divorce without a valid ground as per hindu marriage act(cruelty, impotence, madness,e tc.). Please use those judjements, which your lawyer can locate.
Anyway you should have shown this courage beofre marrying an innocent guy, but its never too late to do the right thing. But don’t suicide and put your husband in trouble, since if a wife dies within 7 years of marriage, the husband automatically becomes the prime suspect for ‘Dowry Death’!. Don’t mess this time, get out peacefully and live a life of courage.
I wish to get divorce as per Hindu marriage act, but my husband is not agreed for a mutual consent.
i got married in 1999 and we don’t have any kids and this problem effected in our married life badly. we did all treatment in last years but no use.
Now we staying separate from last 3 months, am 27 years old,our marriage was not registered but marriage was done as per hindu conversion.
We was settled in aboard last 8 years, in my passport i mentioned my husband name attach with my name.
Now I am looking for another marriage. If I married somebody there will be any legal problem? If any legal issues how can I face that?
And there will be any option that I can marry somebody during this period
Respected sir,
I got married in 2006. due to some circumstance though i love him, i married forcibly with out my parents permission ,the moment i got married and started living with him . my husband treated me very cruelly , use to beat me and used vulgar words, and use to harass me sexualy. since three months iam living separately and wanted to separate from him legally as i cant live with him , iam earning women,but he dont want to give divorce and is harassing me mentally, please suggest me how proceed and what are the requirements to apply and get divorce from him.
But iam not interested to live with him . please guide me how to get divorce from him.pls request you to send the details to my email id, waiting for your reply sir.
Regards
Kirti
I married on June 2007. Unfortunately our life is not going well. There is problems in all matters and according to me she is not a girl to our family. She is Ok but she can’t adjust to my family atmosphere. I think it will be waste of time if I live like this. Everyday tensions and everything. So please advice me to solve this. Can I file a divorce petition?
sir,
we have been married since five years.i lost my first issuse due to conflicts between us.conflicts between us did not have big grounds. the most painfull thing for me was that he did not have time for me .if i complaint about anything, it turned into conflict and at times he used to leave the room which was really harssing for me in front of whole family.we both fightand used abusive language.at times i planned to finish my life but could not.simply i do not want to hurtand put him into trouble ,but want to simply walk out of his life so that we live in peace. my parents are really worried about us.god has grassed me with a daughter two years back.i am expecting again. he has totally stopped caring about me .i am really disturbed and want to get rid of it.please show me right direction. if there is no way out for it please show me the easy way to get divoreced wihtout effecting hisjob.i feel that we are entirely different human beings and cannot get along with each other. please reply soon.will be waiting eagraly.
Dear…….
I got married in june2005 and since that day I am facing problems.
I am very well educated, working and had a love marriage. My husband treated me with so much cruelty and often beated me. I came back to my parents a lot of times but again he used to come and explain his reasons said sorry and took me back home but again after some time repeated the same thing.
Now again I am at my parents house and this time I want a divorce for sure. Help me if u can coz i really need your help
sir,
i got married 18 months back. since the beginning i had dispute with my wife. i love her like anything till this time. but since the beginning we had disputes, and till the level of collapse of our relation. she is very admant and proudy. i never got that feeling of love from her for me, since the beginning. rather, i doubt whether she loves me. she reverts back very badly during every discussion, and now i think a lot before addressing any issue to her, though it is petty one. she is a working woman. god blessed us a baby girl, who is 7 months old. we are completely mismatched couple by all means. if i proceed for divorce, will i be able get it ? and secondly, who will have the custody of child. i love my daughter like anything and do not want her to suffer due to all these chaos. if i can get divorce, then what is precautions i need to take.
thanks for ur help.
shanmugam iyyer
Hi,
I got married in 2007, my husband has now filed to declare our marriage as null and void.
The problem is i had a depression in the year of 2002 and from hospitailsion of one week i am back into normal condition.After marriage i had a mania , my husband and my parents took me for treatment ,immediately after 4 days i was came back to normal condition.then he took me to a private hospital for continuing the treatment .Doctor gave medicine for 2 weeks and reduced the tablets from 3 to 1.
Now my husband and his parents has applied in court to nulified our marriage stating that i am mentally unfit for marriage.He also has medical certificates with him.
Now my question is will our marriage be void or voidable?
2.can i claim for maintanance since i am from poor family.
3.If it is so how much i claim , bcoz he is from a rich family and earning around 65000 pm.
4.Can i ask to judge to keep a medical checkup in court itself.
5.How along it would take to finish the case.
PLEASE SUGGEST .
Hi,
I’m one of the affected husband by my wife. We got married last year june. And we were together till last november. I own a indivdual flat to my name and am earning above 25000 p.m. in top respected MNC and i have finished my bachelor degree with P.G.D.C.A course. And i have an younger brother who is also well settled. Both my parents or my brother is not dependent on my money.
My wife lost her parents before 3 yrs and was living under care of one of her sister’s family guidance. she has totally 4 yelder sisters, where all were married. currently she is with her 3rd sister. she is very much attached to her sister’s huband, where she told me he is like my brother.
she knows very well about my background and family, inspite she started her nice game plan. as she said, she is not interested in family life and she wants me to earn more than 50000pm, if i need to keep intercourse with her. and she wants my parents and my relatives to be seperated from me.
she used to talk atleast 3 to 4 hrs every day in her mobile with her sisters husband, particularly between 10 to 11:30pm everyday and she used to avoid sex with me.
I gave her more time, since i thought i can convince her. so i accepted some stupid orders from her. Even then when she got a night shift job referred by her sisters husband, without my knowledge in a resp. company for a salary of 10000.
she left my home taking all her belongings even without informing me. she used to ask me for divorce many times, when we were together, if i does not repond to her stupid rules. But everything is now gone out of my hands and am now made my mind to get free from the torcher, so i moved legally to get divorce on mutual consent. I applied the case with her consent on last july’08.
But she is not willing to cooperate for the divorce and her people used to threaten me verbally as usual and troubling me till date.
I would like to put an end to it. since i’d like to live my life peacefully. I’m now moving as per the advise of my family court advocate.
I have just mentioned a part of my trouble.
Please advise what to be done in this case, as i need concentrate on my future prospectus peacefully.
Thanks and Regards,
Raju.
I am sarthak got married in 2007 Jan, for the first one month things were fine…then i came to know that she is suffering with a disease & gets fitts at regular intervals…once in 15 days…even after knowing this, I supported her & started her treatment…but she never talk to me…from last 1 year & 3 months he have no physical relations…she speaks lies…once she told me that my mother is creating problems to her..when i made them both sit togther she confessed she was lying…in oct 2007 i asked her parents to her take to their place…she spent next 6 months at her parents place…one days she called me & abused me…even after that i went to take her back to home..then she cut her vain…that happened at her place only..next day her parents & her relatives came to my plcae..& requested me to gv her last chance…they told me to gv 2 months after whichb i can take divorce….its been four months nothing is changed & now i dont waan spend a single moment of my life with her…but now they are forcing me to live with her…i m going through depression…plzzz suggest me…..
Hi,
My Friend got register marriage with his Sister daughter in Tamil nadu
He only done the registration with girl under section 7 as per the Hindu marriage act 1967. But, he has undergone any ceremony and any sexual relation ship with the girl. The register marriage is done only for the confirmation to get married with girl later on with Hindu ceremony. Since, the girl was studying during that time and the girl’s elder sister was not married at the time. My friend wants to go abroad and he got the job in abroad already. So, all the family members were compelled my friend to get married legally and later on, once the girl’s elder sister marriage is over and the girl study over, he can come to India and get married as per the Hindu marraige ceremony.
Due to all the above fact, my friend agreed to marry the girl and only garlanding in the temple with the girl.
As per the marriage certificate it stated as, the marriage was held as per the Hindu marriage ceremony as per the sec 7 and it actually never happen. Also, it further stated as, the marriage was not held as per sec 7(A) but marriage was actully held as per the sec 7(A).
Now the problem, the girl is already having an affair with one more boy and she does not want to marry my friend and my friend also not want to marry her as per the Hindu marriage ceremony because of her attitude and other things.
In what way, we can cancel this register marriage certificate as null and void.
Could you pls kindly e-mail me in detail. Thank you,
Hi,
I got married forcefully 10 months back but I wanted to marry my girl friend and I still love her kindly suggest how to take divorce, I told everything to everyone even my wife. Please suggest.
Dear all,
I was married on july 2004 with a girl with full consent of mine and my family.She was suffering from Obsessive compulsive Neurosis(OCN) a kind of Schizophrenia.We came to know after marrige. When we tried to ask about this her parrents started thretening to me and my family.
We tried to manage with all but her parrents taken my wife with him from my home forciably.Her father is having strong political links.
Dear all,
I was married on July 2004 with a girl with full consent of mine and my family.She was suffering from Obsessive compulsive Neurosis(OCN) a kind of Schizophrenia.We came to know after marriage. When we tried to ask about this her parents started threatening to me and my family.
We tried to manage with all but her parents taken my wife with him from my home forcibly.Her father is having strong political links.
That time I was doing my Masters and my younger brother was studying.My parents are farmers only no big property.We filled the Divorce on 2006
to save us from 498A.After that I got arrested in different cases filled by my in laws.They are also taking Rs.4500/- as maintenance and the since December 2004 my wife is living in her parents home.
Now my father is expired and I got a job in an MNC in Bangalore. They have filled several cases against me and my brother and continuously threatening and torching my family.Now I can’t live with her and want divorce. But they are not agree and running case in my money only.Please tell me and help me how I can get it soon.
Please send some more information in my email and your every suggestion is great help for me.
regards,–varun 9243007849
Sir ,
my first wife died , and then i got second marriage as i was having two daughters with first wife .
My second wife is also divorcee , i have not taken any money from her parents while marriage , but i spent for every thing Honey moon and all this thing .
But now i found she is of very loose character on different occasion and she told me that her first marriage was also went to divorce due to that reason only , when i tryed to tell her that she should not do these things she went to her parents home and now not coming . she is a fond of making boy friend and a type of sexonomy person . she doesnot like me after marriage is 2 months old only .
Pl tell me is there any procedure by which she will come to my house or there will be divorce on the card , her parents support her very much .
Hardeep
hi sir
. I am lving with my wife . in starting we all me and my parents were living together. But due to some worse circumstances there was a dispute in my home due to interference my wife’s parents.now the position is this that i m living with my wife under full pressure. m not well . she dont let me meet my parents . i m disturbed and in depression . my parents are not well .they are aged and heart patient.my inlaws are threating me and my parents that they will send us behind bars .they will ruin us. i want divorce from my wife . please suggest me . thanks
Hi,
Excellent service, Since I am one among the affected man by my wife, please kindly forward all the Divorce and maintenance legal assistnace to my mail & also note i am charged with IPC498A.
My wife is of shaken head type and always on a path of fight.Her parents and relatives supported her caused 498A.
Can 498A be challenged in High Court as i have sufficient evidences in her handwriting ?
Abhay
Hi,
Me and my husband are separated and due to some problem i have taken a decision not to live with him
and as our marrage is not legally registered but according to hindu law we are married so can i still apply for a divorce
Shipra,
You can still apply for divorce. When there is no marriage registration, the court typically wants to see a couple of marriage photographs and wedding card. Its a simple procedure which the lawyer can easily guide you with.
myidbnt@yahoo.com
Hello,
My wife aborted without of my knowledge and consent.she was 3 to 4 months pregnant. I want to take divorce. but lawyers say we won’t be able to prove in court that she did it intensionly as doctor will favor her and can say that it was done to save her life.And in return they might put case of harassment on us.I feel so helpless for the mental crulity I am going through. Can somebody help me.
Sir/Madam
I am married on June 2008 and my spouse wants to seperate. At present she lives with her father. She agrees to mutual consent divorce. What is the procedure for divorce. How long it will take. Do I have to give any money for maintenance. If yes how much. Thank You
Dear Sir/Madam,
I married a girl who belongs to very poor family, presuming that i am helping for a poor girl. I am working in abroad. I want to take her along with me. But when i try to get a passport for her, after 15 days of my marriage i found her guilty, bcas she had stoled around 4 lakh rupees from her previously worked finance company, and they have filed a criminal case against her and now that case is in court hearing. She has given the confession statement in a 50 rupees stamp paper. My self being a man of integrity, i am not in a position to accept a girl who has this kind of habit. I am willing to get rid of her. Is there any grounds. Please mail. me.
Thanks and regards
Rajiv
Dear sir,
Plese help me to be informed about the laws regarding the dissolution of my marriage. My wife has tried to commited suicide twice. I have filed a case against her asking divorce from her in the court of law. I dont know whether i will gret divorce or not? Please share with me some valuable ideas, on how to get divorced from my wife. Me and my mother are Central Govt. employees. Luckly we have saved her life the last time she has tried to commit suicide. Now the ddecision is firm from my side that iam not willing to live with her any more. But she is trying to convince the judge the she wanted to live with me.
Is ther any law favouring for me to get divorced from her with this suicidal grounds ????
Please any one who is knowing laws properly may give me some valuable suggestion.
I am a hindu girl presently working in Delhi since last 6 month.
I was forcefully married from my familyside without informing me in Nov 2006 in BIhar but our permanent residense is in Arunachal Pradesh. since the day of marrige I was with my family for completeing my education.
He is not of my choise & I have not stayed with my so called husband for a month also.
I left my family too in the month of june 2008 & now I am residing alone in Delhi for work purpose.
Please help me out regarding dissolution of my marriage with my husband.
Thanks
Indu
I’m 26 years old. I got married about 10 months ago. I’m living with my Mother who has brought me up after my father’s death about 18 years ago. Mine is a arranged marriage. My wife is very career minded & she can go to any level for achieving anything in her career. She wanted to get my mother out of the way. She would do that by spoiling her mind about me & she would do the same about my mom with me. Ultimately my Mom once spoke about it to me. AFter that we got united & made her realise her mistake. After this incident her parents started intefering in our day to day matters. After 8 months of marraige my wife went to her parents house as an excuse for illment & never returned back.
We came to know from our sources that she had an affair before marriage & it didn’t work out. But few people saw her with her her ex-boy friend lately. It’s been 2 months of seperation between us now.
I would like to know how many days/months of seperation is needed for filing divorce petition.
I spoke to her once after she left my house & she is ready for consent divorce. Under the above circumstances can she demand maintenance ??
Thanks.
SK,if you prove her extra marital affairs in court, she cant demand maintenance.
Dear Sir/Madam
I am 47 year old man leaving with my wife & love more on her. But phasing problem that she is unfit to conceive child, we have taken lot of medical treatement, got 1 response from treatment she was pregnant & after 2 month she got miscarry is notage.but now onward it possible for her front, so I have decided fro second marriage with the consent of my first wife. Means we will keep good relation with both.
I am not very interested to adopt the child.
So pl. Advice.
Regards
Vijay
sir/madam,
last jan 2008 ,iam 26 yrs i married a girl.after 3 months my wife is say that she need a divorce.because she does not like me.but before marriage we meet with each other .now she want to do a job . before marriage i said if u want go for sturdy go.but no for job.she agreed but after married she start avoid me to make relation with me.when i ask she directly say that i need divorce.
as per kundli she does not match with me ,while before marriage they give fake kundli.
i want to know that i have to give a divorce application, or my wife have to give me a .she is not ready with me .
if i give than want rule i have to follow as per indian penal court.because i does want to pay any alimony to her .because she is leving .not form my any problem .plz sugguest because i am in trouble what to do.
Hi
I married to a guy in Jan 2007 ( i was widow ) secretely in Arya Samaj . We both are 32 yeras old but till date he has not disclosed our marriage to his parents ..so i .. now he do not have any intention to take me as his parents are against our relationship…but this guy is taking me granted . Total we had 5 years of relationship ( 3 yrs affair + 2 yeras of marriage ) and we very frequently meet.
Can i file for divorce on mutual consent and what are the procedure and time usually takes.
Or can i take action against him under domestic voilence . Pls advice any NGOs.
Thanks
Dear Sir/Madam
i got married on 18th jan 2008.my problem is that my husband and his family lied abut his qualification and job .actually he is jobless (hardly high school passed) and i did my post graduation . they used to beat me .there is always tension in my house. He drinks alot .
I have heard about adhara in indian law that if husband is lying about his qualification or any other things then that marriage can be CANCELED…..
i just wanted to know about the law because i have very less time to file case.
Please help me as soon as possibe.
i am living with my parents.
Thanking you
kumud
i have been physically away from my wife for the last more than 4 yres ( oct-04) and i have filed for divorcee in oct 04, and i am getting dates only.
under these circumstances can i remarry.
what is meant by word seperation in legal term.
pl advise,
regards,
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Hi Sir
my name in Ajay Thakur.I got married in July 2004. from starting from my marriage my wife is not willing to live with my parents.thats why i came to another place & both of us statrs working in differenr differenr office in same city.After 6 month i pick some love letter from her purse which written to her one of her coleage.But i forgive her becoz her brother is died in these days.afer i year she goes to her parents & starts working there as contract basis becoz she says that she dont want to live with my mother.my mother is 70 yrs old & my father is no more mow.she comes to me after 3 month or vacations.she dont comes whn my mother lives with me.we hace no child.Now i have Doubt that now she is also in touch with one of her coleage. but i have no proof.i m gong to under dipression. now i want to Divore from her but i knew she will not agree to give me divorce.Pls sugguest me how can i file for divorce.can i file the divorce case on Mently disturbance.
Thanks
Ajay Thakur
hi this is shashidhar,
my wife in usa am in india due to some reasions i unable to went to usa, she is in usa since 3 years, now am unable go to usa and my wife is saying that am comming to india at any cost, as a ture indian i cant do another marriage then how get back her to india plz give my any suggestion
Hello
I m affected by my wife , due to some un solved dispute between us i need to give here divorce & want my son(4yrs )
with me , now she kept my son with herself in her mother’s home due to exam of my son I request several time to give my son atleast up to his exam after his exam she can take him again utill the divorce ..
so. plzzzz send me the legally steps that i could take .. & save my son’s future and give the divorce
Thanks & regards
Gautam
Hello,
My brother’s enguagement was scheduled after a month,but he chose to run away with a girl who is older than her.They got married in Arya samaj mandir.How can he get divorce.
Thanks
Rohit
Sir,
I am 62and half years old women and I want divorce from my husband who is 65years.We had a love marriage in 1975 and my husband treated me well for almost one year and after that he started harassing me in all respects.I was a working women and I am spending my own money. He used to call me by names which also I tolerated. But at the age of 62 years he started having affair with his student. My children are grown up and independently living.I am struggling for last two years with my husband on the issue of divorce on two basis(i) calling names and (ii) infidelity issue.He does not want give divorce and says if you put a charge of infidelity then I will contest in the court.He had a physical intimacy with his student but he says that I have not done any intercourse since no body has seen me in a compromising situation I will never accept this charge. But he is lying.He mentioned to me that he had sex only once with her.I tolerated all his ill treatment but cannot tolerate infidelity. Can I have divorce?Please response.
Hello, i got married on 2 dec 2007, it was a love marriage with complete permissions of family ,,, rather family only did all the arrangments for marriage ,,,,, now after 1.3 years of marriage we both think and feel that we cannot live together because we have different thinking and we are not able to match our thinkings on some of the major issues , me and my wife we both are 25 years old ,,,,,bot of us are working ,,,,, and we both wish to get separated by our own will can you suggest what will be legal process and how long is it going to take for the complete process to work out.
hi,
i got married in 2003, i have 4 yrs. child, i want divorce from my husband,from date of marriage i m suffering mental and physical harrasment. I was court employee but now i left that job. I want to live separate. Can u advice for child custody.
thanx.
Sir,
I married in June 1996. I have daughter born in dec1998. Now I have found that my spouse had an affair from college days. It is established from e-mails/chats/phones (all trails are cleverly deleted by her) that my spouse is having affair with this muslim married guy having three children.
On event of being caught on phone, She has in her own handwriting given confessions in plain paper of having emotionally and sexually involved with this guy. She has also expressly written about the encounters and places she had sex with this guy. She has also taken away my 10 yr old daughter. Now She is threatening me that I have taken the confessions forcefully. Besides she has started accusing me of having sex with her sister and relatives too.
Kindly suggest best remedy whether to file for divorce and under what grounds. Is the handwritten confession enough of the proof?
An e- mail wherein she has expressed herself to be part of is family??
Hi,
I am a girl aged 25. I got married in 7-07-2007. Since than me & my partner (husband) were living seperately at our Parent’s home only. We never lived together not for a single day even. My Partner was harrassing me continously just for the sake of money and lots more things, he is greedy. i don’t want to continue this relation ever. So kindly confirm me the way to get divorce. If there is any simple method on the basis that i never lived with him. Plz suggest me what to do.
hello sir, ihave been married since 6 years ,ihave two childrens. my problem i9s that my wife may have relation with her jiju &she said that we live in same house but without any relation (we dont have any relation since 6months)idont have any proof butidont know what to do
to be frankly said iwant divorse from her & some time she said i file report to police for dowry etc. idont know what to do. i seprate my parents from me in sept last year, please help me
Hello,
I want divorce with my entranged ,unfaithful wife ,as
running life with unfaithful becomming increasingly difficult. Kindly Advice.
Shailendra Srivastava
Dear Sir,
I married a girl on 06/12/2007.During the time of proposal they told a lot of lies like she is a gov.I didn’t wanted to create issues and was loving her blindly.We had been together 4 2 weeks and I came back to dubai.Later I went to kerala for her delivery where I was not allowed even to touch my baby she and her relatives were treatening me and physically attaked me.The reason is that I told her oneday about the out of the way history of her mother which is a truth.Now I am in dubai again and I am not able to get any news about my baby which made me mental disorder and it is affecting the future of my job.She also doesn’t wants to live with me but doesn’t want mutual seperation which means she wants me to die and get my insurance claims.Will you please help me in such a situation as I am not in Kerala and if I leave dubai now I may loose my job.During these period I gave her 100000rs and 180grams of gold.
Dear Sir,
I am a person who has not been granted divorce with the reason for lack of evidence for proving cruelty against my wife. I had filed the suit :
I am giving below some of the points put forth by the honourable judge in her judgement :
1. She has mentioned that my wife has submitted that she has no love or affection for me and had admitted me to her Company Hospital only on Humanitarian Grounds. (Does this amount to cruelty towards the husband under the Hindu Marraige Act)
2. The Counselor has reported very clearly that there can be no amicable settlement possible between me and my wife.
3. Further the honorable judge has put forth that my accepting the fact that I had asked my wife to go and sleep with anyone who was ready to give her Rs. 1000/- for touching her, amounts to cruelty but has not dwelled on the facts as to why such a situation has occurred in the fist place. Please note that it was my wife who had asked me to give her Rs. 1000/- everytime I touched her during one of our numerous arguments. I only vent my feelings to her at a later date during one of our other arguments.
Further the judgement just dismisses the case mentioning some costs on both of us. It does not give any instruction as to the further continuance of our marraige and the conduct we have to adopt.
What should be my response?
Is it compulsory that I write a letter to my wife and invite her back to continue life with me?
I do not want to do this because this gives my wife a chance to come back and again start creating problems for me as previously.
I do not want to go in for an appeal.
Can I defend myself on the above 3 points mentioned in the judgement.
Kindly advice.
Warm regards.
our arrange marriage held on 20.04.2009 and also court marriage held on after 2-3 month her parent was witness from her side and me and my friend alongwith his friend were the witness. there was no dowry between us. Now some problem arose which can be solved on dialogs. she is good but her mother continuously interfering between us that she dont want to stay with our family. that she will not obey our family rules etc. her mother teaching continuously to separately, look for job, donot stay at home, take divorce and claim damage etc.sir, i am a simple salaried person and my monthly income only 8000/- to maintain my parents alongwith my wife. my father is retired. i and my parenets are totally helpless and i seek advice from your goodself. i resides in behala, kol-34. my mobile no.9339750256 or email at tapudey@gmail.com. sir kindly help with your valuable advice.
Respected Sir / Madam,
i and my family members are victims of the grave cruelty, physical and mental torture by my wife and her parents. she constantly used abusive language against me and my parents (who are old and need medical treatment), always nagged me and demanded luxurious and costly materialistic possessions (which i did get her as per her wishes), her parents used to threaten me of dire consequences if i didnt do as she demanded. then she and her father came to our place, beat me and my family members brutally and lodges false 498A case against me. her father also sent the FIR copy to my office so that i lose my job. now, i have filed for divorce. why isnt there any provision in law which can teach such cruel people lesson ?
can divorcee wife can claim his husband property as per indian hindy laws?
if so hw much in percentage????
pse suggest by mail
I wish to get divorce as per Hindu marriage act, but my wife is not agreed for a mutual consent.
i got married in 1998 and we have a son.
Now we staying separate from last 3 months, am 37 years old,our marriage was not registered but marriage was done as per hindu conversion.
Now I want to go to aborad and in my passport i mentioned my wife name attach with my name.
Now I am looking for another marriage. If I married somebody, is there any legal problem? If any legal issues how can I face that?
And there will be any option that I can marry somebody during this period
Hi,
Dear sir, My case for divorce(filed by me) is pending in family court since last three years hardly there has been one date when we could apper in the court to put our point because of court holidays, transfers of judges and condolences, strikes, boycotts etc. Meanwhile d other court has passed an order for interim maintenance(filed by her) nd the district court enhanced the amount of interim maintenance, d amount is being deposited in d court. On 3rd case(filed by me) for custody of children court has passed orders 2 meet them on last Saturday of every month but since Jan 2008 she has brought d children only 04 times that too when court insisted her, i have requested d h’ble court 2 give me d children’s coustody when she is not honouring d h’ble court’s orders but nothing has been done so far. Case for maintenance and custody of children is in d same court for d same judge is guardian judge.Case under DVAct is also pending (filed by her) since Apr 2007.
Pl advise i m badly tired of this whole system which drags people like me nd makes us sick of d so called system which is badly collapsed long back.
Hi,
I am 32 years old working as software engineer.I am having one kid of 1.5 years old.I have been finished 2.5 years of my marriage.I am facing very big issue with my marriage life that my wife is not adjusting with my family.After marriage is started to oppose the relations ship with my family member(mother,sister,other relatives too).
My sister is also software engineer ,she is working with big company,so my mother is taking care of her child in days time only.My wife opposed so firmly,fighted with my mother,sister too.
I tried lot to convinece her ,take seprate flate .But still she is fighting a lot for any reason.Her family also supporting her indirectly.Me and my family both told her and her family all about those matter to stop but nothing is changing. She is still fighting.Going back memories and fighting for nothing.I am very much furstredted.I have huge stress at my work and she fights for anything when I return back to home.She always uses very vulgar words to my parents.I am looking for divorce.Can you please suggest me how should I go ahead to resolve the dispute or file the divorce on which ground?Mutual divorce will be a good solution for it?
i would like to have more information for filling a divorce. as i married from 1998 but my husband has not given me any financial support and as well as i also provide him the financial support. i m working lady with a child of 10 years living with my parents. his parents also not supporting me but harrasing me for finance. they also not ready to take any responsibility of me and my child. although they know that there son is worthless n financial. i have only brought up the child from last 10 years and now from last 2 years he stop calling me and when i asked him for the divorce he is not ready to give me. is there any ground on which i can file a case against him.
thanks
After my marriage i have come to know that my wife had done sex with many men. She accepted this fact that she slept with few men. But she told me not do these kind of things after marriage. But she was still in a contact with some of her sleeping partners.
But now my conscious is not allowing me to stay with her. I belong to a spirtual family. My health is declining day by day by remembering her this act. I think i am suffering from depression now. I just dont want to saty with her more. Can a divorce in this case is possible . Please reply as soon as possible.
Dear Himanshu,
Firstly take care of ur health.
I was wondering what if your wife didnt tell u about her past ? Would you have still thought of divorcing her ?
I am not being feminist, but even if you marry another women or have a girlfriend there is no way you can know, if she is virgin or not. This is true for both men and women.
Look around you for your un-married friends/colleagues both male and female; most of them in a relationship have physical relationship before marriage. And most of the times, they end up marrying some other person.
The point is if before knowing this fact, you had a good relationship, love & respect for each other; and if your wife doesnt have such physical relationships now, then if i were you, i would not think of divorce and wud try and not think of her past, if the present is GOOD.
Again, if after marriage your wife has no physical relationship and you feel depressed thinking about what she did in past, I woud suggest, Please vist a Marriage councillor.
As you said you are from a spiritual family, please try and relax your self, do some good book read on marriage.
Take Care.
Dear Himanshu,
As per your case, follwoing can be a ground for divorce:-
Adultery – The act of indulging in any king of sexual relationship including intercourse outside marriage is termed as adultery. Adultery is counted as a criminal offence and substantial proofs are required to establish it. An amendment to the law in 1976 states that one single act of adultery is enough for the petitioner to get a divorce.
hi, i got married in the month of march 2009 and shi lived in my home and her father bring her his home saying that her final anaul exams to be continued and i went their home on 10 june surpriseingly i heared that my wife is having love affair with some other and got pregency through him and she left with him, her father filed the police complaint before the police as she left with some other