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Judgments Related To Divorce/498A/Bail/CrPC125/DV/DNA/HMA/RTI

Published April 24, 2007 498A abuse , 498a judgments , 498A misuse , Arrest , Dhingra , Feminism , Judgements , Links To Sister Sites , Neeraj Agarwal , NRI , Supreme Court 97 Comments

I’ve compiled a list of judgments that relate to 498A, bail and/or divorce and DV.  This is a good place to prepare for your battle.

Mynation.net also has some judgments. You can look them up here:  http://mynation.net/docs/

I suggest you read the contents of the link below as well, as a divorce inevitably leads to a 498A.

Foreign Court Judgments:

CrPc 125:

Lawyers Club Compilation Of 498A SC Judgments

Interim Maintenance:

DV Act:

RTI Rulings By Information Commissioners:

HMA Judgments:

SC Judgments:

Divorce:

Police:

HC Judgments:

The Judgments Of Justice Dhingra:

Judgments On DNA Test:

Also check the link below. The forum has a great collection of judgments assembled by Suresh.

BPRD Compilation Of Judgements On Indian Police Powers:

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97 Responses to “Judgments Related To Divorce/498A/Bail/CrPC125/DV/DNA/HMA/RTI”

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  1. 1 Victor April 25, 2007 at 11:07 am

    Does anyone have similar databank for judgements on 5+ yrs Boy Child Custody to Father

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  2. 3 Lok July 16, 2007 at 1:33 pm

    Friends,
    The main reason for our organisation is to Save Indian Family. One
    part of saving indian family is to try and save marriages. We are
    concentrating on fighting 498a and other barbaric laws, but i notice
    no one is concentrating on saving marriages.
    My wife had files 125 and other cases 4 yrs back. then she resumed her
    affair (which she claims is ‘friendship’) and was even talking with
    him of having a second child with him ( which she says was a ‘joke’).
    I had enough evidence against her to get a divorce and my 5.5 yr old
    sons custody. I accept I had also made mistakes, i had tried to
    control her, didn’t give her love and freedom bcos of all this, and
    was disrespectful with her parents; we has stopped going out alone and
    nuturing the relationship. I know she was 80% wrong but 20% was my
    fault also and I realised my mistakes.
    We were counseled by our common guru. I asked her what she wants – cut
    all relations with him and return, or a divorce. I told her I am ready
    to take her back only if she is 100% sure she wants to return for
    love and not under any kind of pressure. She demanded a mobile,
    freedom to go anywhere she wants, etc and promised to be 100%
    committed to the relationship and break all contacts with him. So we
    gave our marriage one more chance, and we are happy now( dont know
    about future, touch wood).
    Now even if she has this freedom I give her credit that she doesnt
    misuse it and has changed to much extent. This is all psychology, if u
    supress anyone, she is bound to rebel, but if u forgive her and give
    her love, trust and respect she will never betray you,this is jujistu.
    Also if she still betrays you, you will definately know one day and
    then you can end the relationship.
    50% cases of this type are solvable if we forgive each other and have
    mutual respect for each others families.
    I had also posted link to the book “Stop your divorce” and other books.

    If anyone wants the link, or wants to talk to me for saving his
    marriage or any other thing, he is welcome to email me at
    loktantrax@… or IM me at yahoo messanger.
    At the communities service,
    Lok.

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    • 4 D ADhikary October 21, 2009 at 1:09 pm

      I had a similar problem. I got married in 1995. One year we both are fine, understandable to each other. For past 7 years i had seen a change in my wife’s nature she is trying to change from introvert to extrovert. mixing with a set of office people (including her boss) so much, that, she is dating with him while on tour. giving him costly gift etc & trying to get carrier boost, attending late night party(including drink party). Once open, she does not liked the company of people who drink. talking to these people for long hours in home (in closed door. This has developed a mistrust and also, some of these people gives her bad SMSs, that has been picked up by me.

      We have three sons.i want to save the marriage & make her understand that, she is wrong, but she is not understanding it at all.

      plz suggest me some tips,

      Regards,
      D.Adhikary
      09910053694

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    • 5 hanmant vibhute May 10, 2010 at 4:18 pm

      hi!!!!!!

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  3. 6 kusum July 23, 2007 at 6:00 am

    Helllo,

    One case is little bit different . My cousin married with a girl . both of them are software professionals. But the girl cheated us. She has taken 50lakh Rs. loan before marriage and didn’t told us before marriage about her debt. After marriage she only told my cousin about it and he said ok but you are responsible for your debt. But afterwords her behaviour at home changed and she started misbehaving with in laws and her husband. She asked him to give his whole salary to her because she has to pay the loan and she didn’t have money. She also told him to break his relationship with his parents and other relatives and come and stay separately with her parents. But the boy refused to do it and then she threated him that i will take you and your family to police and teach you lesson if you didn’t follow me.

    Now boy and his family is in trouble. All the laws are in favour of women. But now the girl is harressing my cousin and his parents and asking for money.

    We really didn’t know what to do ? Please tell us and guide us.

    thanks

    kusum

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  4. 7 Vikrant Patil October 7, 2007 at 6:55 pm

    Dear Sir/Madam,
    Recently I come to about a Jaipur Courts Judgment regarding DV Act. It has been clearly stated that Women Could Not Be Accused Under DV Act by the court. Special Court Jaipur – Judge Shivsing Chauhan. Section 2 q of DV act has such provision. link is as follow – http://ipc498a.wordpress.com/2007/04/24/sc-judgments-on-divorce/
    Can anybody PLZ help me and give detailed Judgement.
    PLZ…
    Vikrant
    9821104757
    vikrant@deshonnati.com

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  5. 8 Ashish December 24, 2007 at 12:43 pm

    This so called law which protects the women is nothing less than a tool to loot money from the husband. There can be thousand of reason in marital disharmony. I fail to understand why feminist give color of dowry to every family discord .Our law works in such a fashion that it assumes that husband is always at the fault and no investigation is needed to prove allegation against man. The very purpose of 498a and DV act is to loot money from innocent husband whether he and is family is a guilty or not. I hate the feminist’s excuse that women cannot break her own house and she tries to save the family till the end. Are we living in 18 th century. When a women can get her husband murdered with the association of her boy friend why can’t she break her marriage. Come on gone are the days when women were dependent on men. Just look around you. One can easily recognize the presence of women in every walk of life Be it politics,army,banks,lawyers,judges,actress u name it she is there. We cannot believe that women are sati savitri these days that can never lie. There are hundred of cases comes in the news paper where women is caught in illegal activity. No data is maintained by the NCW on the involvement of women in illegal activities it’s a false myth created by feminists that women cannot break marriage. More and more women are coming forward to break their marriages. The women themselves knows about the failure of the marriage and they file false cases just to loot money from the innocent husband .How ridiculous it is when it comes to the minister Arjun Singh then Renuka Choudhury comes forward to save Arjun Singh and shamelessly said that it’s a misuse of law why because he is a minister. Is he above the law? Why Renuka Choudhury does not comes forward and save common man who is real victim of this law.Hathi ke daant khane ke aur dikhane ke aur .Why every death of a wife at her in-laws place is considered dowry death. Why our mother and sister is not considered a women when it comes to domestic voilence.Why NCW does not consider the complaint of old mother in law agsnt her daughter in law. Why should not we change the name of National commission for women to National commission for wives and crime against wives cell.
    No mother and sister can come forward to lodge the complaint agnst her own son and brother because they can never file false complaints agnst their own son and brother its only the bad wife who comes forward to lodge false complaint just to loot money from poor husband when she knows that her marriage is failed. Can NCW show us how many complaints have they considered or helped other than daughter in law. I know they cannot give us even one because it’s a National commission for wives. It’s been more than 20 years why these gender biased law failed to curb dowry cases. Why dowry cases are increasing the only answer is the false cases are increasing. Look what happens to dowry cases it ends up paying money to wife. Why there is not single conviction when wife is alive. Why Supreme Court has said that 498a is a legal terrorism. Time and again high court has dismissed 498a cases. I want to ask one simple question can National Commission for women come forward for help my mother and my sister and save them from my wife. Women are crueler when it comes to get even. That is why they are filing more and more false cases such as 498a DV act. Look what happens to these cases they end up paying money by innocent husband, they are quashed or won by husband. Very less conviction. If a husband is a guilty why doesn’t he gets punishment why does he and his family is forced to pay money to the woman. It’s a clear fact and the agenda of feminists to loot money from poor husband. Making new laws will not help much they have not helped so far .It will add to more chaos in society. It’s is destroying the very purpose of the marriage and dragging us towards the divorce culture of western society. We are not against the women we are against the gender biased laws.

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  6. 9 sandip January 11, 2008 at 11:46 am

    Any judgement on 498A case acquittal? I had been charged 498a and 125. Trial is going on. Can anyone send the copy of judgmenets.

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  7. 10 Arvind January 23, 2008 at 9:18 am

    Swarup sir
    My famliy facing probleam of 498a , 313,506 , pls help us to ur advaice
    Thanx
    Arvind

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  8. 12 nishith p thakkar January 29, 2008 at 7:08 pm

    you can get good judgments from me ,for 498-a IPC, i am a lawyer keen to see that this law shall not be misused

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  9. 13 ififthelement May 8, 2008 at 5:36 am

    ghatiya DV law , as Ashish rightly said “Why our mother and sister is not considered a women when it comes to domestic voilence.Why NCW does not consider the complaint of old mother in law agsnt her daughter in law. Why should not we change the name of National commission for women to National commission for wives and crime against wives cell.”

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  10. 14 Ali May 11, 2008 at 8:26 am

    Hi Sir,

    I am afraid that me and my Family will be held under false 498A .My wife want’s me get seperated from my OLD parents.She is living with her Mother from last 1 year and she dont want to come back though my family have requested her to comback but she never did that and use to fight with me on each and every thing.She is been brain washed by her mother and aunt for misbehaving with me.They all abuse me and my family it has been a mental touture for us as we are living under threat that they will file a false case against me and my parents.

    Please advice me

    Thanks

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  11. 15 Babu June 13, 2008 at 5:06 am

    Hi
    I and my wife got married under hindu marriage in 98. We have a son who is now 6 yrs old. Both of us went on temporary visas to Australia while i undertook my University study in 98 after marriage. In 2004 we applied to become Permanent residents (PR) and started to live in Australia. I was doing a full time professional job, while my wife managed to do some decent part time work. While this is the case, during end of 2006, when we went to visit families in India, she chose to remain in India with our son (then 4 yr old) and refuse to live with me in Australia. She cites she does not like the culture, treatment of non-Australians, and atmosphere for bringing up our child. I strongly believe, she being the only child to her parents, is very much attached to her parents (and vice versa) and is the reason to my lonely life in Australia. She has not been working at all since her landing in India in Nov 06.
    In Jan 2008, (after 10 y life in Australia) in an attempt to see if i can fit around her idea of living in India, i came with to India to explore job or business opportunities (while still being on a job in Australia), but i could not find a good opportunity in India relevant to my background.

    During this time, we planned our second child that is due around Oct 08. Although i insist her to come to Australia and deliver the child in Australia, she is refusing to agree. She is still living in India and is refusing to cooperate with me to come to live in Australia. She has not been involved in any job activities in India is backed up morally by her parents for her life in India, although i have been supporting her’s and child’s monthly expenses and house rent from August 2007 onwards.
    Currently I am in Australia and have no clue how to start a legal action as our marriage was solemnised in India in Tamilnadu, so we can apply for divorce. pl help.

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  12. 16 Babu June 13, 2008 at 5:10 am

    Continued from previous mail….
    Hi
    I forgot to tell you that i became an Australian citizen in May 2007. My 6 yo son also became an Australian citizen earlier in 2008.

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  13. 17 Sabapathy June 17, 2008 at 6:23 am

    I, M. Rathinasabapathy (40 years) got married to R. Rajeswari (29 years) daughter of Mr. S. Rajagopal and Mrs. R. Syamala, of Howrah present residing at No. 42/1, Kailash Bose Lane, Howrah – 711 101, and the marriage was solemnized at Pondicherry on June 04, 2003 at Mahalakshmi Thirumana Mandapam, Chinnakkadai, Pondicherry. After a couple of months spending at Pondicherry, I got a job at M/s. Macmillan India Ltd, Bangalore and we shifted to Bangalore on December 05, 2003 and we lived peacefully and happily and she too worked in a couple of private firms. After she got conceived she lived with me for 2½ months and she went to Howrah on July 26, 2004 as per her father’s advice. She lived for about 7 months at Howrah. She came back to Pondicherry for about 3 days for her “Valaikappu function” on November 18, 2004 and she came to Bangalore with her parents, and all of them started using vulgar words and threatened me to acquire all the properties / wealth.

    As Mr. S. Rajagopal and his family are involved in politics and by this influences they are sending some unknown persons to my residence and torturing me and my parents frequently in order to acquire our properties and money. On February 15, 2005, God blessed me with a male child. As I got a new job at M/s. Accenture India BPO, Bangalore, I am not able to get leave, for at least single day and my father Mr. S. Mahalingam (66 years) and my mother Mrs. M. Dhanalakshmi (65 years) who was operated in the right eye on February 21, 2005 and also in the left breast for cancer on December 08, 2005 and lying in bed and counting her days and family are only depended on the pension of my father, who served in Pondicherry Govt. for nearly 42 years (41 years and 8 months) in various capacities. During his entire service he did not get any black mark in his service records. And he lives in Pondicherry at the same below address for the past 65 years and I am living for the past 38 years in the same residence and this is the reason we are not able to go to Howrah, to see my wife and child. After several phone calls and letters, my wife came to Pondicherry from Howrah on September 12, 2005 with my child Mr. R. Lokesh (4 years) and her parents. After many advices to her, she left to Madurai on September 20, 2005 after 9 days of stay at Pondicherry and not to Bangalore even without showing, neither my child to me nor any photos, since his birth. I came to Pondicherry for Diwali on October 20, 2005 on 10 days leave to see her but she left to Madurai on October 16, 2005 once again without informing me, nor to my parents with her uncle Mr. Duraipandi and grandfather Mr. Pichaimani. On November 18, 2005 she came back to Pondicherry from Madurai and once for all she left on the same day, without any intimation or even informing me. She has taken all her belongings, along with my jewels, without telling anybody in our house.

    After 3 months gap, I have received several summon in an frequent intervals which is filed under section 125 Cr. P.C., 125(3) Cr. P.C. 498A, 406IPC, 34, 354, 379, 506, 323, 341, 504 and section 3 & 4 of Dowry Probation Act etc. against me, my patents, brother and sister from the Court of 7th and 4th Judicial Magistrate at Howrah. As there is no leave on training period, I am not about to go to Howrah , for the first hearing on February 21, 2006, which is represented by my father and relatives. After completing my second hearing on March 20, 2006, I had been caught by the police and kept for 9 days i.e. March 20, 2006 to March 28, 2006 in police lockup and 1 day in Correctional Home, Howrah and released on March 29, 2006. For third hearing my father, my brother (Mr. M. Sivasubramaniam (37 years) is working in a private firm and sharing the family burden) and my sister (Miss. M. Sarojini (36 years) is innocent and helping her mother) who came out on bail on April 18, 2006. Both my brother and sister are unmarried.

    Due to this court proceedings only, and due to my wife harassment I had to resign my good job at M/s. Accenture India BPO, Bangalore on April 29, 2006, and I am now jobless. Further till date without any fail we are attending all the hearing. I am very afraid of my father-in-law Mr. S. Rajagopal, mother-in-law Mrs. R. Syamala, wife Mrs. R. Rajeswari, cousin Mr. R. Prabhakar @ Dubbu and relatives Mr. R. Kumar, who are fully responsible for my life. I fear they may assault me through some persons, in order to swindle our hard-earned income and property. As Mrs. R. Rajeswari does not want to live with me, she gave false and fabricated reasons in the case records and arranged for arrest/remand against me under various criminal sections and she got exparte divorce on Apr 2007.

    Further Pondicherry to Howrah, up and down is nearly 4000 Kms and we do not know local language Bengali. So, please accept this complaint and in the circumstance stated above it is prayed that your Honour may kindly pass necessary order for realisation and kindly arrange for proper counselling in order to have my wife and child back and still feel that if proper counselling is given I would mend her ways and there is all possibility to live with my wife without the interference from any body from either of the families of mine and her side. I am ready to live with her.

    I, the petitioner, do hereby declare that the foregoing paragraphs are true to my knowledge and belief and I sign this verification this the 07 day of January 2008.

    I request your goodself to look into this matter as soon as possible. Thanking you,

    Kindly confirm the safe receipt of this email. I will be back to you if any queries or concern in mean time

    Thanks,
    M. Rathina Sabapathy
    9894669932
    sabapathy68@rediffmail.com

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  14. 18 Nrupesh June 18, 2008 at 1:02 pm

    How Stop Misuse of CRPC125 (Maintenance)

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  15. 19 dhanabalan June 30, 2008 at 6:51 pm

    thanks for the information of harrassment by wifes side under sec 498. how to deal with and advocate mail id is rquested

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  16. 20 SHARMA RAKESH July 21, 2008 at 5:57 pm

    Yes,
    Gender based latest amendments in law favoring ladies have eaten into the mental equilibrium of the innocent men folk, they feel apprehensive, cheated,degraded & ashamed for even the offence not committed by them but heaped on them n view of the long handle given
    to the ladies & manipulations by the so called counsels whose only
    oblique motive is to squeeze cash strapped ladies, become hurdle in
    speedy & fair implementation of justice, fill their coffers, waste
    valuable time seeking adjournments on mere whims adopting lethargic attitude towards administration of justice !!!!!!!!!
    GOD SAVE INDIAN JUDICIARY

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  17. 21 Dominic July 26, 2008 at 1:03 pm

    Hello, i was too in the same mess and it really ruined my life to a great degree… i was an NRI and now back home cause i worry about my aged parents. My case is still going on in the HC of Delhi. i was arrested at the Bangalore airport and went to jail and my passport was ceased. went for bail in Delhi, i moved a 482 in HC and got my passport returned to me and i could fly out of the country and my LOC removed. if anyone wants this case reference you could email me at dominicap@gmail.com and i would help you to the best extent i can. God bless you all in this struggle.

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  18. 22 shiv August 1, 2008 at 11:12 am

    same for previous mail ,for 498-a IPC, i am a teacher in government school . suffer with this law
    give guideline what to do for my life and family safe.

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  19. 23 Rajesh September 13, 2008 at 11:43 am

    Dear Sir,

    My divorce case is on since 2006 alongwith 498A in family court and criminal court respectively . the divorce case is on the verge of over but in 498A the place of incident is different hence the fight is on the issue of jurisdiction.

    Now my wife is working as teacher but to avail the interim etc. she has submitted a false affidavit on oath at family court, that she is not working. court enquired and school gave a certificate with salary detail.
    i have filed a case u/s 340 against her but the processing is very slow , pls advise that can we appeal to higher court as she has recently filed 406 & 323, 504, 506,
    i strongly feel for reciprocation as they are not stopping

    Thanks & Regards

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  20. 24 PRAKASH JUGNAKE September 17, 2008 at 7:34 am

    JUDGES UN ELLIGIBLE FOR JUDGEMENT
    I think some session courts judges has not having good eligibility for make some judgements becasue they never read doc proper or never make search report. only the behalf of women said wrong, and order any thing against husband, its ? mark for judges of MADHYA PRADESH

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  21. 25 Rattan lal September 28, 2008 at 5:39 am

    I was married to smt. pushpa . she lives with me about
    3 months and left my house. smt. pushpa was already married
    with another person on the dt. of my marriage. now she
    filed a case of maintenance under section 125 . I am a
    govt. servant . please intimate me she will success to get
    maintenance from me or not.

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  22. 26 Rattan lal September 28, 2008 at 5:41 am

    I was married to smt. pushpa . she lives with me about
    3 months and left my house. smt. pushpa was already married
    with another person on the dt. of my marriage. now she
    filed a case of maintenance under section 125 . I am a
    govt. servant . please intimate me whether she will success
    to get maintenance from me of not.
    .

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  23. 27 s.rajan October 14, 2008 at 6:13 am

    Respected,
    please forward me the Hn’able supreme court judgement on the maintenance for the wives rejected on the grounds of u/s 125 (4) as early as possible .
    Thanks with regards.

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  24. 28 arun November 9, 2008 at 12:07 pm

    dear sir,
    on 09-11-2008 Times of india, delhi, page 6 Times City has taken out an article about DV avt in which it states that the judgement given is that “it is not retrospective i.e it is applicable after oct 2006 when the act came into force”
    Request the case no., and a judgement copy or advise me how to get one.
    thanks
    arun.

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  25. 29 Kunal November 12, 2008 at 3:03 pm

    Dear all,
    On 09-11-2008 Times of india, delhi, page 6 Times City has taken out an article about DV avt in which it states that the judgement given is that “it is not retrospective i.e it is applicable after oct 2006 when the act came into force”
    Request the case no., and a judgement copy or advise me how to get one.
    For God’s sake somebody please tell me what is the case number, and it is from which court in Delhi?
    thanks
    Kunal

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  26. 30 arun November 13, 2008 at 1:37 pm

    dear all,
    i have a copy of the judgement 7th Nov 08, Delhi, DV act not retrospective. let me know yr .mail i.d’s
    rgds arun

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  27. 31 Kunal November 14, 2008 at 1:29 pm

    Hi All,

    On 09-11-2008 Times of india, delhi, page 6 Times City has taken out an article about DV avt in which it states that the judgement given is that “it is not retrospective i.e it is applicable after oct 2006 when the act came into force”

    I got the copy of the judgement, following are the details:
    In the court of Sh. Rakesh Kumar: ACMM: New Delhi
    Ashma Vs Afsar etc.
    CC No. 311/8
    Date of institution: 28.07.2008
    Date of order/judgement: 15.10.2008
    It is available in http://www.judis.nic.in
    How to search:
    step 1: Go to google search for judis first link which will appear would be http://www.judis.nic.in,
    step 2: click on http://www.judis.nic.in
    step 3: See on your right side of the page opened, Look for District Courts list, click on Delhi
    step 4: When page with title”JUDIS – The Judgment Information System
    District Courts of Delhi – Tis Hazari,Patiala House,Karkardooma & Rohini” appears, click on “Date of judement”
    step 5: Fill “From Date” as 15/10/2008 and “To Date” as 15/10/2008 Format : DD/MM/YYYY, click on “Submit”
    step 6: A list of 110 cases will appear, scroll down and look for Sh. Rakesh Kumar (The name of the judge), you will find two entires select the one with Complaint Case no. 311/2008 and press submit.
    step 7: A pdf file of the case opens, just save a copy.
    step 8: If you want a certified copy, kindly note you need to go to Patiala House Court. The name of the judge has changed from Sh. Rakesh Kumar to Sh. Munish Markan.

    Dear All,
    Let’s pool in some energy to fight this gross injustice. 498a, DV act and 125 are a shame on our country.

    If still someone wants, please write your email id on this blog, and I must email you a copy of this judgement.

    Regards,
    Kunal

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  28. 33 mohit December 16, 2008 at 11:18 am

    I would like to know whether DV act 2005 is a criminal or civil act ? The judges are attributing that DV act is a civil law & hence can be retrospective.Kindly respond positively.

    Mohit

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  29. 34 priyanka December 21, 2008 at 4:13 pm

    Why a judge does not think that this is a male dominated society and this is the prime responsibility of the male to make the society civilized or peaceful, if he cannot make his own family peaceful why he put false allegation on female. I agree that some of the girls are not good but think of those who are really innocent and become the victim of thier in-laws , and because of this kind of thinking they did not take any proper action against that real culprits. And always think the family of only boys how will they survive in society. Is there any judge who thinks the condition of the family of those girls who also suffers for getting the justice, but become the victims of every stage of justice. Is it the justice our indian constitution recommends for all.

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    • 35 Parveen kumar September 10, 2009 at 3:30 pm

      Reply to all those females in the section. All the females like you are the real bad ones who only highlighting their problems or false issue and makes the people fool.
      Madam there is a problem every where and for every one its not only the matter that only females/women facing the problems. Who said to you its a male dominated society there are a lot of women who missues and used the men and breaks all the law tell a lie, put a false blame on a innocent guy and the people are now ready to beat him badly till he died by the one word when a women\female say that he is harrasing or sexually abusing her. Whether its saying is true or not are you agree with it or not.
      Why are you blaming the law and the all the male for this if you are not good it has no means that all the person or male is bad.
      Unnecessary demand for anything will trouble any one whether its a person or country law makers must see to it while framing all the laws.
      Many males suffers and there is no one who listen them till they takes birth and upto the death.
      there is much more problem facing by indian men/males which i started discussing then the years of time is left to be shorted.
      Thanks to all who takes pain in reading to it.

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  30. 36 neera December 21, 2008 at 4:27 pm

    I am a wife, I have filed for 125 of maintenance with all the evidence of cruelty of my husband and inlaws.I was working in a small company getting 2000/rs my inlaws compelled me to leave the job by making so pretndeces and after one week forced me to join the another company during the course of time they harrased me very much verbally or physically and on not getting the job they sent me to my parents for getting money for my livlihood.Now i am not in that condition to get the job. When i got the maintenance or is there any other cases i can file against them?
    Kindly advise me

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  31. 37 meghana January 18, 2009 at 11:39 am

    I dont agree to the point that only women are bad and they want to loot from husbands, majority are men and in laws who torture wives and her parents to the heights.I got married to a guy Ravi who works(still working) in Accenture Bannerghatta road, Bangalore, he was a contract employee then earning only 7000 per month,but his father cheated me and my parents saying he earns arround 35000 per month and he is very silent and good natured.
    But the truth came out just one day after the marriage, that this guy has married me for money, he started asking me to transfer the site which was in name to his..He even wanted money from me for the honeymoon package,advance for the home rented,to buy a car for him, apart from that he asked me to give my whole salary to him and made me not to talk with any of my friends and my parents calling me was also banned.In the beggining I could not understand what was happening, but the torture worsened day by day his father coming home and both these guys were harrasing me to the core,then he started spreading rumours to all my relatives saying that I am ill charactered female.I dont let him to make love with him and all, infact he was a impotent guy and wanted to loot everthing and wanted me to take a loan and give the money to him,so that I will be enslaved for life time.
    In the beggining I was afraid that the relation would break and gave him salary for 3 months which was arround 1.5 laks,then when I came to know all his plots I started rebelling.
    we filed a case of dowry harrasment against him, nothing happened police took money from them and left them. Now also they want me back and they are harrasing our family for the same.we have filed a divorce case,forget the maintainence they are saying they will not even give divorce for us..as the guy is impotent and he could not get married in future, we are running to the court now and then for justice,which we are not sure will happen.

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    • 38 dilprit July 20, 2009 at 8:44 am

      if his salary is 7000 & not 35000 as you say it means you also marry him for money only.If he is impotent than why you not bring matter on first night? why you bring matter when there is fight between you? just only to teach him lesson. belive me in long term you are losser may be inittally you win.

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      • 39 Vivek August 26, 2010 at 8:44 am

        best is to leaave this bloody country and work hard to get citizenship of any crap country in this world. This is a gender biased society, law is a outright fraud and looting the poor husband by the sati-savitri women (sorry wives). I have no hope with the law that something will be done in next 20-50 years. Men, think twice before getting married or be prepared for acquitted under 498A.

    • 40 Aashi March 8, 2011 at 2:54 pm

      its v tru frm ur statement that u are not able to lead ur life in his salary…..and matter of impotency shoud b raised after spending first night with that guy…and this should b the very serious matter far any girl…salary matter only arrived after spending few month with that guy….nd it means that guy z not impotent….u filed dowary case on him only to get divorce …try to b honest first nd prey from God far a happy life fo u…. life is v short far fighting….
      i am also only son my dad z of 74 years and mom 70…after one year of my marrige our sexual relations breaked due to her very cheap and shameful behavour…just after having an son from her…even also
      tried to live under same roof nd behave like a happy couples infront of world…but she left my home after calling her dad and never tried to meet me far three years and when ever i went there to see my son she warned me to meet….and now in 2010 after death of her dad she filed 4 caces on me including dowary…. and noty ready even to give me divorce….my life is ruined wonted to die…..is this male dominated socity?????

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    • 41 kfjsk June 28, 2011 at 8:38 am

      It seems you are telling lie. don’t be selflish.

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  32. 42 meghana January 18, 2009 at 12:06 pm

    To hell with so called educated, white collared males who does not have least humanity and capacity to look after their wives.The main cause is the male dominated value system in India we have been nurturing, where a women becomes a enemy for another woman,Mothers who cannot bring up thier sons with proper value system have no rights give birth.

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  33. 44 usha January 19, 2009 at 10:50 am

    hi meghana,

    you seem like you have enough money — you could have just walked away and filed for divorce or DV act– why did you use 498a(were you goign to suicide ?). if you dont require maintenance or anything from him and think its abad dream –since you are educated why not walk away? what made you file 498a.

    how long were you married ? do you know the 7 vows of marriage or were you married in your backyard ? what is impotent mean ? does he not get a hard on ? my husband has a big hard on but i am planning to file 498a on your advise but i will say he is impotent too so he gets pissed off and doesnot get to screw anyone apart from me. what do you say ?

    me working in a BPO in bangalore. Any nice places to visit to meet some hunks/guys ? pls write to me at my e-mail id.

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  34. 45 Avadhut January 21, 2009 at 6:27 am

    i want to know the reference number of mp highcourt judgement 1266/2007 on DV act.

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  35. 46 Faizulla February 18, 2009 at 1:08 pm

    Hi,

    Can you refer me to any successful counter cases against 498A and DV that are filed in High Court to quash the impending cases in the trial court?

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  36. 47 Santosh March 19, 2009 at 10:55 am

    I am going thru the worst time of my life since Year 2002 when i got married. i tried to save my married life by convincing my inlaws, but there approach of leeting our familly down and mallacing image nevers stopped.

    My wife left our house on 7/08/03 & has falsely implicated my parents, myself, married sister & brother with 498A, 125 case since 2004.

    Myself along with my old father ( age 69 years) & mother (age 65 years), married sister, Professional brother is tring to resolve the cases since past 6 years. Quite frankly, I am a victim of illegal use of available law by a adamant wife.

    I had tried to solve this issue after aggreeing to meet there demand of 3.25 lacs, which i apaid to her lawyer but she refused to turn back after we paid ammount. Some how we managed to get back the paid amount.

    Please send me the copy of acceptance of divorse due to cuelity & dessertion.

    I would like to learn from it to deal with my difficult situation.

    I want to save my parents, brother & sister to go through the bad & painful experience which they are passing through

    Thanking you in advance.

    Regards,

    Santosh

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  37. 48 Rajeev Sharma March 28, 2009 at 11:16 am

    hi all,
    I am afraid that me and my Family will be held under false 498A,406,506,323 & 34 IPC .My wife want’s me get seperated from my OLD parents. She is living with her Parents and she dont want to come back though my family have requested her to comback but she never did that and use to fight with me on each and every thing. She is been brain washed by her mother and aunt for misbehaving with me. They all abuse me and my family it has been a mental torture for us as we are living under threat that they will file a false case against me and my parents.
    This only resulted in iron hand cuffing like a herded criminal and lying in illegal custody. I had been caught by the police on 29th Jan 2009, and kept for two days in police lockup and six day in Correctional Home, Tihar jail and released on bail. She filed false FIR’s and filed under section 498A, 406,506,323 & 34 IPC against me & my family members (my patents, 2 brothers and 1 bhabhi).we all got the bail from the Court of Judicial Magistrate at delhi on 5th Feb,2009. Now, no one here to help me from this day to day harassment, lost couple of good jobs.
    Please advice me what 2do.

    thanks & regards
    Rajeev
    raj_sh23@yahoo.com

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  38. 49 jaya April 14, 2009 at 8:06 am

    Hi,
    Im Jaya(Female) 26 yaers from hyderabad, we are three daughters
    im the second Daughter, the issue is i got love marrige with same community(Shedule cast) but my mather opposed my marrige and till now no contacts with her, my fater died on 2005, i got marrige on 2006 year, my fater is retired Govt employee when he is died,
    and my fater property transferd to my mather when he buy every property,

    and my sister she got married on 2007 and she(her husband) collect dowry from my mather at rupees 15,00,000 Fifteen lakh.
    i need share of my parents property, How can i get?

    all of we three sisters have kids below 5 years old
    How can i get my property and my parnts property does not come withe fore fathers they own property
    is there any chance to get my share?
    if i do not get, my son is to be eligble for claiming those property wrt to his share, my son is only 2 years old, how can i move ? can u plse send me the deatils how i get and process.

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  39. 50 saini May 7, 2009 at 3:00 pm

    m a housewife & my husband earns well still always fights with me over money whereas i dont even spend a single penny without his consent.he often beats me up & always say bad things(Gaali-Galoch) for my parents & indirectly asks for dowry by saying that they havnt given them much in marriage.its been 2 1/2 yrs of our marriage. i tried to make him calm by talking to him several times patiently moreover my parents did give many household things,FDs still he is not satisfied. Now i want to take some action as the frequency of beatings has gone high n moreover he started beating me up now in the car(public places) if we r on the way to some place, leaving me so embarassed.
    Pls suggest me how can i go for filling up a divorce from this mental as well as domestic abuse.
    This is painfull(Divorce) for me but not more than that m going through right now…pls suggest.

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    • 51 bhaskar May 18, 2009 at 5:45 pm

      dear sir/madam
      i have been charged by wife under ipc 498 and dowry act which are totally false. My in laws are motivating her for this. she doesn’t want to stay with me and always wants money. Initially i gave but now i am not giving. i also have one year old son. she has put all false alligatios against me and my entire family. please guide me to come out of it.

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    • 52 Parveen kumar September 10, 2009 at 2:57 pm

      I read your story but you knows or heards a famous saying that “clap is possible with both the hands not with a single hands”.
      I thinks that you must first seen in ownself first because many times our ego comes and we done the wrong things and takes a wrong decissions in our lives which destrou us completely.
      It is also true for u and your husbands.
      It is always better to accepts the person with having a little bit problem then to leave because no one is perfect in this universe also try to our side is best for oneself and for others.
      Think many times to takes any decission because it is not your lifes suffers others will be attached to you.
      Thanks for asking

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    • 53 afrin November 18, 2009 at 3:43 pm

      Hi Siani,

      Yes, you can file a case of 498A and he beating you and harrasing you, file a case of divorce and maintaince also, because it makes no sence staying with a person who doesnt respect women and can beat her at public places.

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  40. 54 A.Yashasvi May 28, 2009 at 9:59 am

    i want to know the recent cases on the subject of maintenance. The wife has got valuble real properties. But there is no evidence to prove the income derived out of her properties. How to prove her income sources in the court?

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  41. 55 Rajeev Sharma August 21, 2009 at 5:54 am

    hello Respected Sir Ji,
    My wife has filed a Maintenance Case against me. i got married in December 2006 & she left me on 12-2-2007. Since than she is living with her father.

    She Left me after 2 months of marriage. We did not have any sexual relations between us (she never make it happened). She naver allow me to close the bedroom’s door.

    When i tried to sort out problem. She charged me with sexual incompotency charge & force me have a medical text & give sperm count.

    She even to to Delhi Mahila Ayoug where court order me to have medical test. Which proved that my sperm is fertile to have a child.

    Now i have file a divoce case & she file Maintenace applcation.

    Kindly advice me how to win maintenance / Divorce Case

    Thanks & Regards

    Rajeev Sharma
    rajb366a@rediffmail.com
    rajb366a@indiatimes.com

    kindly advice me how to win maintenance case

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  42. 56 S.HEMANTHA September 15, 2009 at 2:15 pm

    my wife pettion is dismissed in dv act case for interim maintainance but now she is appeal the same in addl session court in ipc 374 (B) but 374 (B) comes under appeal for conviction and senetenced not for I.M my lawyer filed memo for the same but opposite lawyer filed objections seeking for corrections 0f dv act No. 29
    next week is order for hearing the case pl advice as early to my mail radio1185@yahoo.in

    thanking you

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  43. 57 s.hemantha October 8, 2009 at 5:33 pm

    my wife filed dv case and later filed interim maintenace and interim maintenance is dimissed as she is working woman in state govt employee as her gross is 10,000/pm and net payment 3600/pm ,coperative avail deductions is 3600/pm and mine is 19,000,/pm net payment is 9600/pm later she filed appeal in addl session court filed as in ipc 374(b) but our filed memo regarding ipc 374(b) deals for convictions sentenced persons not maintinable in memo to the court , opposite lawyer filed objections to correct the code dv act section 29, again our lawyer filed citation regarding interim maintenance is revisable and any appeal is final order but judge put order for date, on order judge allowed the appeal to hearing on merit and demerit to dispose the case,oppoisite lawyer filed citation from air 2009 supreme court 1377 where earning wife granted 5000/pm earnings however insufficentas she getting rent from own house and her total income was 98,820per annum ,husband income was 23,000/pm. on Arguments hearing and our lawyer requisted the argue to this case as the circumtstances is diffferent because mother and sister dependent on respondent on next date 21oct2009

    pl post any citation regarding earning wife is no maintenance from supreme court

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  44. 58 malathi October 13, 2009 at 9:10 am

    Hi,

    my cousin & their family members under in dowri case, because his wife had sucide, her family members are misused this dowri case.but it is wrong he is good person. so kindly request to give me some suggestions.

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  45. 59 chaithanya November 5, 2009 at 4:17 am

    hi, i am from hyderabad india working in USA. i got married in Aug-008. recently my parents, younger brother and I became the victims of 498a. i filed annulment in Feb-2009 and my wife filed false 498a in Aug-2009. She did not sign the FIR. i heard FIR must be signed otherwise it is not valid. right now we all r on anticipatory bail. we have recently filed 498a quash in high court of AP. can someone please tell me whether we can quash 498a on the following grounds:
    1. FIR – not signed
    2. Annulment was filed in Feb-2009 and 498a was filed in Aug-2009.

    i came to india in jan-2009, dropped her at her home (with her parents), filed for annulment in the family court in hyderabad and left to USA in Feb-2009. since then i did not contact her and she is living with her parents.

    please help me and kindly send me 498a quash judgements if you have any on the above grounds. this wud be a great help. thank you so much in advance. my email id is chaithu45656@yahoo.com

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  46. 60 afrin November 18, 2009 at 3:35 pm

    Hi,

    My bhabi has had filed a 498a case against my brother, me and my mother, we have been thru alot and infact paid a huge amout of money but still she was abusing us, now luckily we won the case and she is planning to go to appeal to high court….I want to know if after losing the 489A case, if you can go to appeal because i have heard that 498 case can be filled only once.

    Please suggest.

    Thanks

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  47. 62 subhash December 21, 2009 at 11:44 am

    i want to join u Because i m involved insame matar and i want to relese from this

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  48. 63 kkmittal January 16, 2010 at 5:15 am

    Pl dispay the followinI-T info covered under RTI Act
    Girja Shankar Kaura
    Tribune News Service
    New Delhi, January 12
    In a ruling which is bound to have large ramifications on tax-payers, the Central Information Commission (CIC) has ruled that information on income tax is not invasion of privacy and was valid under the Right to Information (RTI) Act.
    The ruling was made by Information Commissioner Sailesh Gandhi on an application filed by a resident of Delhi, Rakesh Kumar Gupta, seeking all records available with the I-T Department, including assessment records of all levels with regard to Escorts Limited. The applicant had also sought information related to then Escorts chief Naresh Trehan.
    Gandhi ruled: “The concept of privacy is a cultural notion related to social norms, and different societies would look at these differently. Therefore, referring to laws of other countries to define privacy cannot be considered a valid exercise to constrain the citizen’s fundamental Right to Information in India”. However, he ruled that as per Section 8 (1) (b) of the Act, there shall be no obligation to give any citizen, information that has been expressly forbidden to be published by any court of law or tribunal or the disclosure of which may constitute contempt of court.
    In a move that would also possibly curb tax evasion, he said disclosure of information would not lead to unwarranted invasion of the privacy of the individual.
    Gandhi observed, “Parliament has not codified the right to privacy so far, hence, in balancing, the Right to Information of Citizens and the individual’s Right to Privacy, the Citizen’s Right to Information would be given greater weightage”.
    He agreed that the state had no right to invade the privacy of an individual, but pointed out that that there were some extraordinary situations where the state may be allowed to invade the privacy of a citizen.
    On arguments that revealing the information related to Naresh Trehan was personal, the CIC said: “Various public authorities in performing their functions routinely ask for personal information from citizens and this is clearly a public activity. When a person applies for a job, or gives information about himself as an employee, or asks for a permission, licence or authorisation, all these are public activities. Also, when a citizen provides information in discharge of a statutory obligation, this too is a public activity.

    g news on your site by indexing it:-

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  49. 64 P.K.SHARMA March 20, 2010 at 1:15 pm

    MY DAUGHTER WAS KILLED/SUICIDE-(STILL A CONSPIRACY) HAD DIED ON 21-01-10-WHEN HER BODY WAS FOUND BY JAMIYA NAGAR POLICE STATION OFFICIALS.AFTER MISSSING FROM 13-01-10. A F.I.R. WAS LODGED AGAINST PARENTS IN LAW & HER HUSBAND BY ME AS A FATHER AT THE TIME OF POSTMARTEM WAS BEING HELD AT A.I.I.M.S. ON 22-01-10- SINCE THAN SMT. KAMLESH SHARMA -MOTHER IN LAW OF MY DAUGHTER WENT UNDER GROUND. IT IS LEARNT THAT HON. JUSTICE SH. A.K.PATHAK OF DELHI HIGH COURT DELHI.I AM NOT ABLE TO FIND OUT THE GROUNDS ON WHICH ANTICIPATORY BAIL IS GIVEN NOR I AM BEING GIVEN THE COPY OF DECISION OF JUDGEMENT . UNDER SUCH CONDITION I AM VERY EMBRASSED . BECAUSE NOW I AM GETTING THREATINGS FOR ME AS WELL FOR MY FAMILY. WHEN POLICE & HIGH COURT WILL FAVOUR CULPRITS HOW A COMMON MAN CAN THINK OF SURVIVAL.
    P.K.SHARMA -FATHER OF LATE MRS. PRIYANKA SHARMA ( HAVING A DUGHTER OF ONLY ONE YEAR.)

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    • 65 kkmittal April 11, 2010 at 5:36 am

      Dear Mr sharma, Pl apply copiesunder RTI act.For court orders apply to court registry for acopy through ur lawyer.

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  50. 66 JANAK M PALSANAWALA March 23, 2010 at 5:15 am

    please tell me any ledy apply domestics violance case like my mother apply againts to my wife please ans me

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  51. 67 Pankaj March 23, 2010 at 4:41 pm

    Dear Sir,

    I am very sorry to disturb you to be unprofessional to discuss with you, but I need your help urgently as I am in big trouble. I see your news channel regularly and I like too much your news channel as all the Aaj Tak media professionals usually help all the Indian citizens. Please help me and guide me to solve my family issues as given below because it is a matter of life & death, I am a sincere, hard-working & honest Indian citizen & employee of HCL. I hope from the media that Media will help me to solve my very serious & tragic family problems which I & my family was unable to solve it by my own. Please help me to solve my family issues as a media professionals which I have described in the email to Mr. Vinay k. Singh / Mr. Vinod Kumar (Top Executives of M/s Thomson Digital, NSEZ Noida) as shown below. I need your help as my life and career is in danger, please save my life & career. Please suggest or guide me how can I solve my family issues and what type of legal actions should I take. I am a husband of Mrs. Shalini Srivastava (Emp. ID: 57196), Group Leader C.E employed at Thomson Digital, NEPZ, Noida. I am very sorry to disturb you to be unprofessional to discuss with you, but the problem is very serious & tragic and it is a matter of life & death for me. I request you please help me to resolve my family issue as my family came to the end. Please save my life and career as my life is in danger due to verbal threatening of my wife in phone. I have 4 year old child (whose life also is in danger with my wife) residing with my wife at her parents’s home, it is the matter of the future of my child as Shalini is spoiling the future of my child due to her arrogant, selfish, shameless & dishonest nature. Some peoples of Shalini’s office said to me that Shalini is a loose character lady who wants to spoil her husband’s career and life, she is making relations from any other persons, she also gave some threatening calls to me from another person. Previously, I called to her manager Mr. Ashok regarding my family issue, he was also unable to make her understand and said to me that shalini is an arrogant or may be a loose character lady, I can’t do anything against her, she will spoil my career as well as my life, so it is better to leave shalini alone to go her into the hell. But my believes (or Trust) on my wife Shalini is that there is a problem of clashing of ego’s only not any else that shalini couldn’t able to understand how can the clashing of ego’s be avoided and how can a couple may live peaceful professional & lovable life with the satisfaction of husband, parents and other relatives. Sir, please guide me what will I do when my wife Shalini and a daughter-in-law of highly educated person Prof.(Dr.) D. S. Srivastava, HOD-A.M.U, & former Vice President of B.A.R.C (who is now retired and also working with an private University as Dean of Faculty and serve his life alone & independently without disturbing others), has run away from house due to her illegal approach and arrogance and she is spoiling my family life. Several times I have tried to make her understand that husband and wife are the two wheels of a motor bike, we should cooperate with each other with love, affection & trust always, life alone with spouse will become hell. I can’t live without my wife as I am a mother deprived person because I love my wife Shalini too much & I am alone in life, I am too possessive towards my wife Shalini because I love my wife Shalini too much, as I am purchasing a flat in Noida for my wife & children, I have also purchased a Santro Car for my wife & children, but only one thing that I want from my wife that she should understand my lovable feelings and sentiments, she must realize/believe in the concept that independent family life is a very good life with love, affection & trust between husband & wife without any dependency of any other persons (say parents, relatives etc,) so that we could able to avoid clashing of ego’s problems in the family life from others because clashing of ego problems will destroy every things, career, life etc., all the things will destroy due to clashing of ego’s, so it is necessary for my wife shalini that she should be able to understand that life, career, love-affection & trust between husband & wife and self ego are the very important things to every persons, hence she should avoid the clashing of ego’s between person to person and she should be able to understand how to become a well understanding wife by spreading love, affection & trust towards husband. Shalini should be honest in her approach because honesty is the basic thing of life and career. Shalini is not honest she always tell lie about everybody and I always said truth with my honesty which my Shalini get so arrogant when she heard my speaks:-
    Actually, there are following issues in our family which I am explaining briefly and I and I am also enclosing my article (which I gave to my wife Shalini to make her understand the concepts of married life) in a mail enclosed in attachment :
    1) Child Issue:- As we both husband – wife are working, my time schedule is 8:30 AM to 9:00 PM, and my wife Shalini’s time schedule is 7:30 AM to 6 :00 PM to reach at home at Noida. My child is 4 year old, I have suggested that there is only solution to resolve the issue is the day boarding system to our child, that is, in the morning shift, I will take care to my child and leave the child to the school while in the evening shift, my wife Shalini will take care to our child from the day boarding, after her office timings. If anything I couldn’t able to do, I will learn very soon to do the work in a correct way. We should live the life independently with love, affection & trust with each other with fully devoted to each other and take care to our child sincerely & honestly. But my wife puts lots of allegations on me I am not responsible, and was put lots of absurd allegations to my family say my father, & my elder brother (who is working in Dubai as a Associate General Manger). she said that only her mother can take care to our child in her absence and nobody else. The problem is that shalini’s mother is always criticizing to me and my family due to the ego & jealousy problem as the level of my family is much higher than her family and her father is an hand-packed person, say shalini’s parents are too much dominating, selfish & shameless in nature. To avoid such issues, to live peaceful life, I gave some basic principle of married life & I also got approval from the marriage councilors regarding my article ‘Basic concept to maintain Life’, and I said to her that independent life is a very good life, Shalini should be honest in her approach, we can help her parents in their needs but we should not get help from shalini’s parents so that they could not get any reason to dominate on anybody to destroy the self ego of a person as they were always created issues & disturbances in our family life. Initially when my child was born, my father gave Rs. 2000/- pm to the shalini’s parents to take care to my child for one year, on their demand. Now, I am requesting them to keep my wife & child alone, they are not leaving my wife & child alone with me and always put criticism & allegations, sometimes on me and some time on my father due to jealousy & negative energy. They spoiling my family life as well as my career by emotional blackmailing to my wife Shalini by putting my child in an arrow due to their shameless & selfish approach. Shalini’s parents always being in touch with my wife Shalini by taking child issue and always making disturbances by creating issues, absurd & shameless allegations in our family life. Shalini’s parents are lower category parents having jealous type of feelings in their minds.
    2) Relationship issue:- She did not want to adopt / mixing up in the relations other than her parental side, she said to me that all the relations from my side are selfish in nature, but the facts is that relations from my side are always being sincere, hardworking and an educated & professional persons as my father is an highly educated person Prof.(Dr.) D. S. Srivastava, HOD, & former Vice President of B.A.R.C (who is now retired and also working with an private University as Dean of Faculty and serve his life alone & independently without disturbing others) and my brother is a Civil engineer working in Dubai in an MNC as AGM (Civil), previously he was working in Delhi Metro Projects., they all were tried to taught her that she should be honest in her approach, she should not be so arrogant, and she has to learn the concepts of life, but all our efforts were become worth as she couldn’t able to understand the true facts, and wants to spoil my life and career. Shalini’s parents always being in touch with my wife Shalini by taking child issue and always making disturbances by creating various dominating shameless issues, absurd & shameless allegations in our family life.
    3) Financial Issue:- She always puts allegations on me that I always think about money-money but I have planned to be well settled and established in Noida with our own efforts honestly without any dependency of any other person as I am very egoistic person, by purchasing a flat in a good location in Noida and I am always think to be well furnished with a good Luxurious level in life. So in order to achieve that much level in life, I always taught my wife to be honest, professionally sincere & well understanding to live as a independent professional married wife with proper love, affection and trust with each other in order to provide a honest satisfaction to each other to be well devoted on each other. But she refused to manage the married life in such a way without involving her parents into our married life. So, my father (after understanding the arrogant, selfish, dominating and shameless nature of my wife Shalini and her parents) has designed a feasible financial system to run our family in a minimum compatible manner with such an arrogant and dishonest wife & daughter-in-law Shalini is that we both husband & wife should prepare the approximate budget of the family (say 20000/- or 30000/- or whatever it will be) per month including all the expenses of husband, wife and of child etc, and divide the family budget in two parts and then deposited these amount from our salary accounts in one joint account in order to serve the family with love, affection and trust. But shalini’s parents always be in touch all the times and put the allegations on me that I and my parental side are most selfish who are always think about money-money as Shalini’s parents always being in touch with my wife Shalini by taking money issue and always making disturbances by creating various dominating shameless issues, absurd & shameless allegations in our family life. Only Gods knows that all the allegations are wrong which Shalini and her shameless & selfish parents puts on me. My wife shalini at last has broken such financial system of our family in the middle in the impression of her selfish & shameless parents by involving her parents into our family.

    Please solve my family issues at the earliest by taking necessary actions for my wife Shalini to make her understand the basic principle of married life as it is the matter of life & death so that she could able to remove all the confusions in her mind and follow sincerely the Basic principles of married life, and lead the life professionally & as a sincere wife. and if you want to consult with my wife, her father, or my father, so, the cell nos. of my wife Shalini is 9810958446, cell no. of her father is- 9818211363, & the cell of my father – Prof.(Dr.) D.S.Srivastava is 09358251572, 0571-3293441.

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  52. 69 mukund bihari May 3, 2010 at 5:29 pm

    sir i am in a deep trouble,because my wife filled a case under sec 498a,379,354,420,504,506 against me and my relatives.i got married on 27,04,08.after marriage we are not become husband and wife for a day.she doesnot want to start relationship with me and my family.her parrents allways support her activities.after some time she starts demanding irrelevent things.finnaly when all my iniciatives are failled then ihad been lodge a divorce on05,06,09 taking the vieu of my and my famillies future and safety.after that she lodge maintainance on 17,07,09 ,then 498a on23,11,09.inwhich my abp is rejected from lower court.can any body help me and my family?

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  53. 70 ssrkk May 9, 2010 at 9:16 am

    i am also a sufferer miser by my wife lodging dv case against me which the idiot congress government and its brainless mps supported and made it as a law in parliament. i am taking pledge not to vote for congress as long as i alive and see that nobody vote that idiot party. it that party brings a bill in the parliament domestic violence against men by women i will withhold my said pledge.

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  54. 71 ssrkk May 9, 2010 at 9:19 am

    I AM DEMANDING THE CONGRESS PARTY TO IMMEDIATELY WITHDRAW THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN OR ELSE THAT PARTY WILL HAVE TO SEE THE AGGRESSIVE HINDUS POWER AGAINST THAT PARTY DURING ELECTIONS BY VOTING AGAINST TO THAT PARTY.

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  55. 72 SIVARAM May 9, 2010 at 9:29 am

    LET ALL MEN IN THE COUNTRY VOTE AGAINST CONGRESS PARTY FOR BRINGING THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT AGAINST WOMEN WHICH IS COMPLETELY AGAINST MEN AND THEIR RELATION.MOREOVER IT IS A LEGAL LICENSE TO ALL WOMEN WHO WANT TO LIVE IN ADULTERY OR TO BECOME PROSTITUTES. ALL MEN IN INDIA IN PARTICULAR AND ALL MEN IN THE WORLD IN GENERAL MUST OPPOSE THIS LAW AND THE CONGRESS PARTY.LET US SEE THE END OF THAT SHAMELESS CONGRESS PARTY. DO NOT COOPERATE TO THAT PARTY UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES UNTIL IT WITHDRAWS THE D.V.ACT. LET US TEACH A LESSON TO CONGRESS PARTY AT EACH AND EVERY STAGE FROM SECOND TO SECOND TILL THAT PARTY WAS SMASHED. VOTE ANY OTHER PARTY THAT OPPOSES DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT AND SAVE OUR INDIAN FAMILY SYSTEM AND FOUNDATIONS. THIS IS THE OPINION OF ALL MEN IN THE WORLD NOT ONLY IN INDIA. INTELLECTUALS AND LAYMEN ALL MUST BE INCLUDED TO MAKE WITHDRAW THIS UGLY AND DIRTY LAY WHICH MAKES WOMEN AS A PROSTITUTE. TAKE TIMELY DECISION . DO NOT DELAY. THIS IS THE TIME TO FINISH CONGRESS PARTY FOR BRINGING SUCH LAWS IN PARLIAMENT AGAINST MEN.

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  56. 74 sandeep July 17, 2010 at 4:25 pm

    dear sir/mam
    is this a every death of a women in seven year of marrige is dowery death and all the relative of husband is responsebal for that if they never wantes to take triel in court and never wantes to win or loss theory of court they now that doughter of inlaw’s is our doughter……….

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  57. 75 avinashshahare August 27, 2010 at 11:26 am

    In The Supreme Court of India.( EXAMPLE)
    Mr and Mrs khurana agree to suffer a decree of divorce on mutual consent on following terms and conditions:-
    1. Mr Khurana will pay a sum of rupees15 lacs as full and final settlement to Mrs Khurana.
    2. In return Mrs Khurana will withdraw all criminal complaints against Mr Khurana including u/s 498a (anti dowry) and u/s 12( protection of women against domestic violence).
    so the court hereby grant them a decree of divorce, exercising power given by the constitution of india under hindu marriage act 1955. Court orders husband to pay to pay a sum of rupees 15 lacs by way of demand draft through court to Mrs Khurana……………..

    WHAT A CRAP IS GOING ON……

    This is judiciary or an extortion system, where unscrupoulus women use legal authorities to extort money from the inlaws who are being punished for the sin of marrying an educated, egoistic girl. taking as well as giving dowry is considered a heinous crime, may be compared to that of a murder. how can a person against whom such serious allegations have been made, be discharged?…. just because the girl is now satisfied with the amount of money she has received for keeping her mouth shut……..and judicial system is becoming witness of all this… is this the function of judiciary, to help girls to extort money from inlaws?

    knowingly or unknowingly judiaciary is at fault on this issue. this is no justice to the society.My question is, if the crime was of such heinous catagory, why the trial stopped? the accused should have been trialled and the thruth should have been established. if found to be guilty he should be convicted. if the acusations were found to be mere fabrecations the girl should be punished. courts are not doing any good to society that can be understood in two ways;-

    1. by stopping trial and being witness of such bargain( settlement in terms of money), the court is failing to address the very motive of such law like 498a, which to stop dowry custum in society. if somebody has committed such crime he should be punished.do not let any settlement take place in terms of money.

    2. the court is letting itself being used by unscrupoulus women as an instrument to extort money from inlaws. atmosphere in society regarding marriages has changed tremandously in last 5-10 yrs. people are afraid of getting their boy married. it is increasingly becoming mandatory to visit a lawer along with an astrologer before marriage, to get everything in written on stamp…..so sad… but true….this is our system which requires change very badly.

    i suggest all those victims of false 498a or domestic violence, do not succumb to the mental trauma caused by trial and litigation process, fight for justice, if you are clean, none on earth can prove you guilty.

    this is democracy and nothing will change without fight and sufferings.

    DO NOT AGREE FOR ANY SORT OF SETTLEMENT, DO NOT THROW A SINGLE PENNY OF YOUR OR YOUR PARENT’S HARD EARNED MONEY ON SUCH UNSCRUPOULUS WOMEN.

    lets fight for a better tomorrow…… for our children’s better life…..FOR BETTER INDIA

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  58. 78 Manish September 25, 2010 at 4:55 am

    Hi,
    I am a victim of Section 13 of HMA. I have documentary proofs of central govt. of her playing fraud. I had filed CrPC section 340 against her. But she is asking for section 24, saying that first section 24 have to be decided, then later case has to be decided. My case is in in Family Court. Can anyone help me in providing any judgment that first section 340 has to be decided than section 24?

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  59. 79 krishankmittal September 25, 2010 at 7:13 am

    It is for the court to decide. In case her application u/S 24 is based on false grounds Pl submit your reply with full proofs And the court will have to examine your evidance while deciding her application of Sec 24.Insist to your advocate for filling proper reply pl send a copy to me on my email for viewing.kkmittak EmailID krishankmittak@rediffmail.com

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  60. 80 krishankmittal October 15, 2010 at 2:15 pm

    Pl put full name and adresses of all females who have logded false FIRs u /s 498a,306,and34 on the website.SIF foundation should put this information on their website for information of the public and for cross checking in case of remarriage.

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  61. 81 kaushal kishore gautam January 26, 2011 at 1:51 pm

    hi
    my case is hindu marriage act 12 1 (D) as on 13 7 2007 my wife filed case after six months 498a & after one year sec 24 court was fix 4000 per month

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  62. 82 dayaram badalia April 12, 2011 at 9:01 am

    I filed divorce petition against my wife on the grounds of cruelty in the year 1991 which was allowed by trial court court at Gurgaon, haryana in the year 1997, wife filed appeal which was allowed in 2001, I filed LPA wich was dismissed in Aug 2010, I filed SLP which was also dismissed on 28.01.2011. finally i filed review petition which also has been dismissed on 31.03.2011 because Judge of Hon’ble SC has kept in mind the past of her own mother. I am advocate since 2001, planning to file Curative Petition with last hope from Hon’ble SC. Kindly advise.

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  63. 83 Mohan Ram July 21, 2011 at 12:26 pm

    Thanks Sir for help.

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  64. 84 manoj August 31, 2011 at 1:02 pm

    Dear Sir,

    meri wife ne 498A or 406, ka case mujh par mere chote brother, monther father par kiya hai, main or mera bhai arrest ho gaye, or hamari bail session coart se ho gai, par mere mother father ki bail khariz ho gai, hamne unka sara saman or jewar police custody me de diye hai, ab unki file high coart me laga di gai hai, 1 month ho gaya hai, kya unki bail ho jyegi ya koi dusra rasta bataye,

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  65. 85 M September 9, 2011 at 8:11 am

    I want to Fight Against misuse of IPC-498a.because my mother haveing in critical situation & my wife want to take Advantage.she is 2.5 years before gone her mother/father home.she is not want to came back with me.so please five me suggestion.what should i do?

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  66. 86 Ankush September 25, 2011 at 4:30 pm

    Hi Friends,

    I have logged a divorce aginst my wife in delhi court and now my wife has filed the false comliaint of 498A in w cell with very cheap aligations.

    need your help.

    Pls help me out.

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  67. 87 manokamna singh October 2, 2011 at 6:44 pm

    any body suggest me on my email mano.singh11@gmail.com
    respected sir/Madam
    I am husband and my self manokamna singh and my daughter vaibhvi singh 6 year is living with my family in allahabad . My wife neetu singh has filled dowry , maintenance, custody of child, at sonipat court since 2007. dowry case is dismissed by the sonipat court on ground of false statement of petitioner and jurisdiction. she is live with his parents and yogesh kumar in plat no.2 new jati kala coloney ara machine ke samne kundaly sonipat. and i have no evidence that she is living with yogesh tripathi and his family member is sporting him for false relation ship . I am soldier in border security force So jati kala kundli sonipat society is not sporting me because I am not member of new jati kala coloney . i filed a divorce partition in allahabad family court on ground of cruelty and desertion. so please suggest me suitable Idea for save my family and my daughter .

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  68. 88 Prem Narain Sharma, Jabalpur October 4, 2011 at 5:46 am

    Dear friends,

    1. 498a is very good law which is really helpful to a cheated and harassed girl by in laws. I want to ask a question to all friends why we are not able to accept a girl who comes to your home after leaving her home for ever. Why we want girl should be slave to you and your family through out life. Why we can not give little importance to a girl who donated her life for the shake of your family and take your family ahead.

    2. Once you are able to solve and adjust your all sort of family problems why not solve and adjust your son, brother married life with little feelings of APNAPAN. You can do anything for you son and brother for their happiness but for a girl who came to your home for ever to be part of your beloved family. Please understand her instead of making her to understand you and your family. Do not treat her as a slave on mercy of you and your family . Change attitude of yourself and your family to accept her as a member of your family. Due to lack of this supportive and adjustment spirit you all are making your and your family life HELL. Do not curse GIRL and Government for making such law.

    You might have heard of this saying “NAACH NA AAVE AANGAN TEDA”

    Hoping you all will amend you and your family instead of a girl.

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    • 89 Deepak Dhabhai December 21, 2011 at 1:42 pm

      Generalized statement, no experience of the trauma a family suffers when the so-called-left-my-house-to-come-to-your-house girl starts assault to fulfill her and her family’s ulterior motives are the reasons you are spitting crap here. I will also add to your liking
      “Jaake paanv na phate bivaai woh kya jaane peer paraai.”

      Mr Sharma refrain yourself from making such comments in future on this blog.

      Reply
  69. 90 Gaurav Gupta October 12, 2011 at 7:25 am

    Dear Sir / Madam

    My wife has filed a domestic violence case on me, which is pending before the family court. In the meantime my wife has moved a application for interim relief and she was awarded Rs. 15,000.00 per month as interim maintenance. Even though I was earning Rs. 10,000.00 the court didn’t entertain my request to decrease the maintenance. Also my car is detained by her on which car loan is also pending. When i moved a application in the same court regarding directing my wife to hand over my car and my qualification certificates to me, the court has denied my request citing that there is no such specific provision in the DV Act for this request.

    Please help me in this regard !!!

    Gaurav
    gauravgds@gmail.com

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  70. 91 S. October 12, 2011 at 12:08 pm

    My problem is perhaps different from most of you.

    I have been in a fairly good marriage for past four years. There were short domestic fights, but I and my husband soon resolved them– kissed and made up. At least I don’t remember any major issues between the two of us.

    All of a sudden, my husband comes up and tells me he wants a divorce because his mother wants to live with him and SHE is not comfortable living with me.

    I never behaved badly with my mother-in-law, and I am willing to live with her; but for unknown reasons she doesn’t like me. My husband is not willing to talk me and has started living separately for past one month. Now a well-known divorce lawyer (who is their family friend as well) is preparing a case against me. I am really afraid of any fake reasons they will may make up. Obviously the lawyer knows that the actual reason is not strong enough.

    I love my husband to the extent that despite this entire drama I don’t want to divorce him. But he is not even willing to talk to me and is torturing me emotionally so I myself give up on the relationship and he doesn’t even have to take pains of going to the court.

    I have been told that a notice will be sent to me soon, and after that I WILL NOT BE ALLOWED TO LIVE IN MY HOUSE (the house is in my husband’s name).

    Can someone please tell me is it possible for my husband to throw me out of the house just because HE wants a divorce and can approach the court with a strong lawyer?

    Thanks a lot.

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    • 92 rohan November 14, 2011 at 10:06 am

      well yes but he will compensate you in that case but only after judgement is pronounced till then you have to move out of your house if he say so but yes you can request the court to provide paid accommodation by him and he will be liable to carry the money and cost of living on his shoulder.
      Try to sort things out otherwise i don’t think it could be the way you said it.

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  71. 93 Laxman Boya October 13, 2011 at 3:40 pm

    My wife has registered a case of IPC 498(A) and D
    V 3& 4 in Andhra Pradesh Court (Adoni) we along with my mother,brother ,sister and sister-is-law were arrested and are out on bail, requesting you to kindly suggest how I can remove/delete my brother,sister-in-Law,sisters and mothers name from the said false case, We have attended 2 dates and preperaing for the third, as we are in Mumbai is there any ways the case can be transferred here, also what are the counter case which can be registered against my wife, we were together only for 4 months of 3years of marriage(married in 2008 case registered in 2010)

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  72. 94 srikanth November 4, 2011 at 1:03 pm

    To
    All State & Centre.
    Govt. of India.
    Sir,
    It is an emergency on part especially the great disaster like calamity in the peaceful life of families through IPC 498A, DVC Act 2005 & the Police who ever register the complaint into FIR, without proper prima facie enquiry, opportunity to the husband and their family. Where the women all most approach to the police station or court to harras or satisfy their ego,money & property. I can say in the near future no healthy marriages,healthy family,healthy relation is in a great threat to nation like our India. Irrespective of persons stay and their credibility going in vein due to these above said IPC sections.It is bigger than terrorisam,enemity,which is only talk about women i.e. but where directly women is directly targetting to the women through her husband. It is great time to state and centre and supreme court has to protect the families interest and wishes. FAMILY-VILLAGE-DISTRICT-STATE-CENTRE=INDIA…..? PLEASE THINK TWICE, THRICE. G.SRIKANTH GOUD-ADVOCATE-HYDERABAD.

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  73. 95 rajeswari.t. January 24, 2012 at 6:17 am

    i need reply to my yesterday*s question.

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  74. 96 optimistic fella March 22, 2012 at 7:25 am

    hello all! have just started following this blog……as i have also now become a part of this great racket/debate!!
    first n foremost…..my heartiest congratulations to the guy who wrote that masterpiece…..called “a guide to surviving IPC498a”..hats off to u sir!!!
    i came across your document about 8 months back…..when i first got hit with a case under 498a by my “then wife”(no longer so….divorce decree signed on 14/3/12…so as of today she is my “ex-wife”!!!!)
    it did give me a lot of courage to face this ordeal in the times to come!!
    can u tell me…how do i start my own blog on this site so that other similarly affected people could benefit?

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  75. 97 manu May 21, 2012 at 10:55 am

    CASE HISTORY-
    1) I GOT MARRIED IN 2006 DEC.

    2) GIRL LEFT ON 2007

    3) CAMEBACK WITH HER PARENTS WITH HER COUNCIL ON MAY2010 AND GAVE APPLICATION TO P.S. FOR 498A, 406, 323, 507 ETC. AS I HAVE ALREDY FILED A CASE OF DIVORCE IN JAN2010 AND I HAVE TOLD POLICE THAT MY CASE IS ALREADY SUBJUDICE .

    4) SHE RETURNED TO HER PARENTAL HOUSE WHICH IS AROUND 300KM. AWAY FROM MY PLACE AND ON VERY NEXT DAY MADE FAKE MEDICAL OF SIMPLE INJURY FROM GOVT. MED. HOSPITAL.

    5) FILED CASE UNDER 156/3 FOR FIR
    6) FIR GOT REGISTERED IN DEC 2010 AGAINST ME, PARENTS, MY MARRIED SISTER AND JIJAJI.

    6) POLICE INVESTIGATED N GAVE CLEAN CHIT TO ALL OF US AND SUBMITTED F.R. IN COURT- SHE PROTESTED AND COURT ORDER FOR REINVESTIGATION, POLCE REINVESTIGATED AND DUE TO SAIBABA BLESSINGS AGAIN SUBMITTED F.R.

    7. EVEN THEN LOWER COURT SUMMONED ALL OF US AGAINST WHICH I HAVE APPEALED IN HIGHER SESSION COURT WHICH IS STILL PENDING THEIR FOR ARGUMENT.

    8. MY DIVORCE GOT TRANSFERED TO HER NATIVE PLACE AND IN ALMOST LAST STAGE AS I GOT A STRONG EVEDENCE (LUV LETTER IN HER HANDWRITING) AGAINST HER WHICH I CAUGHT AFTER MARRIAGE . AND THAT I HAVE SUBMITTED IN COURT.

    9. SHE HAS ALSO MOVED A CASE OF DOM. VIOLENCE AGAINST US COURT FIXED 4500/- PM WHICH I HAVE APPEALED IN HIGHER SESSION COURT AND WHICH IS PENDING UNDER ARGUMENT .

    10. I DIDNT PAYED FOR LAST 11MONTHS BCOZ I AM ALREADY PAYING UNDER SEC 24 H.M.ACT FOR INTRIM RELIEF WHICH COURT FIXED OF RS3000 PM .

    11. DUE TO NON PAYMENT FOR LAST 11 MONTHS UNDER DV ACT. LOWER COURT ORDERED FOR RECOVERY OF 48,500/- MENTIONING THAT SESSION COURT HAS NOT GIVEN ANY STAY ITS UNDER ARGUMENT.

    NOW PL. ADVISE ME IS THERE ANY JUDGEMENT WHICH WILL HELP TO APPEAL AGAINST THIS MULTIPLE MAINTENANCE.

    AND ALSO HELP BY ADVISING OR PROVIDING JUDJEMENTS FOR MY CASE AS I HAVE UNDERSTUD THAT FOR FIGHTING HER I NEED TO PROVIDE SUPPORT MY COUNSIL.
    REGARDS

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In 1930, the British govt arrested 17,000 women for their involvement in the Dandi Yatra (Salt March). During 1937 to 1947 (10 Years), they arrested 5,000 women involved in the freedom struggle. From 2004 to 2006, the govt of India arrested 90,000 women of all ages under 498A. On the average, 27,000 women per year are being arrested under this flawed law. These are stats from the NCRB.

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